Offering Service vs Obeying Commands

[Esclava]

HisMajesty has no real use/need/desire for anything I offer. At best, I get a nod...occassionally. He does, however, require absolute obedience. Then I get 2 nods.

Therein lies the rub. To get much more than a nod, I really hafta piss him off...but if I piss him off, then I don't deserve any attention.

Um...which way to the confused and neglected sub space?

sharezade,

A few suggestions from one who believes submissives have a right not to feel confused and neglected.

Please re-read post #144 in this thread, take a good look at the last two lines and revisit why YOU consider your marriage D/s. Take a sheet of paper, draw a line down the center and list the ways you feel fulfilled as a submissive in one column. On the other side, list the reasons you feel confused/neglected as a submissive.

Those two lists should give you enough information to accept that your needs are being met or to enable you to RESPECTFULLY go to your Master and explain what is lacking for you. Keep in mind, he may decide that nothing is going to change for him - in that case you will have to find a way to be content in the station you are currently in - if you can.

My suggestions are only aimed at helping you either ease your confusion or seek clarification from your Master. Good luck to you,

Esclava