ok you male subs

[timberwolf05]

scars?

Could it be that you do not feel the need for love/affection/respect of others because you have grown some emotional scars due to your hard life?

Scar tissue is less sensitive to pain. When damage is being done, it is less noticeable to the person with the scar. But it doesn't mean that the damage/hurt isn't occurring.

probably bro.......probably.
i know i give my head shrink nightmares. lol
it's tough growing up as a street kid alone.
the wolf

 

[SweetDommes]

******i find it interesting a lot people call it a NEED. for me it has always been a want. being independant as i am, i do well all by myself. i do not NEED anyone.
want. yes. need, no.
interesting
the wolf

Think of me what you will, but for me, this is definitely a need. I can feel myself becoming more and more emotionally unstable when I do not get my physical contact needs met. I become depressed, irritable, dispondant, etc. I could list more, but I just realized that they are all symptoms of depression. With physical contact, I don't have nearly so much trouble.

 

[timberwolf05]

okay

Think of me what you will, but for me, this is definitely a need. I can feel myself becoming more and more emotionally unstable when I do not get my physical contact needs met. I become depressed, irritable, dispondant, etc. I could list more, but I just realized that they are all symptoms of depression. With physical contact, I don't have nearly so much trouble.

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then for YOU it is then Ma'am.
i just have never understood this.
sorry if i upset You.

the wolf

 

[SweetDommes]

I am not upset, I was simply explaining that it can, indeed, be a need rather than a want. I have to have regular physical contact or I become suicidal. Which is part of why I'm so glad to have aquired S, because he lets me snuggle up to him as long as we aren't at work.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Hello toy boys...back to the third degree now.

How important is the visual of fetish clothing on your Mistress or the Mistress you fantasize about? Does your submission kick into gear more quickly when She "looks" the part or is it "all" about personality and attitude for you?

 

[Private_Label]

Think of me what you will, but for me, this is definitely a need. I can feel myself becoming more and more emotionally unstable when I do not get my physical contact needs met. I become depressed, irritable, dispondant, etc. I could list more, but I just realized that they are all symptoms of depression. With physical contact, I don't have nearly so much trouble.

I agree, for me the attention can be physical or mental, as long as it is positive attention. I feel much better when I am hugged, cuddled, stroked (with or without clothing on), kissed, flirted with... My family is not all that physically demonstrative, but we still give each other verbal pats on the back, and when we really need it, hugs. Sometimes just knowing someone is looking at me and thinking about me is enough.

My brother and I don't hug regularly, but when I was in a car accident in 2003 (luckily, I did not need hospitalization) I walked over to him when he arrived and he immediately held his arms out and just hugged me close for a few minutes. Right then I needed that.

 

[SweetDommes]

I agree, for me the attention can be physical or mental, as long as it is positive attention. I feel much better when I am hugged, cuddled, stroked (with or without clothing on), kissed, flirted with... My family is not all that physically demonstrative, but we still give each other verbal pats on the back, and when we really need it, hugs. Sometimes just knowing someone is looking at me and thinking about me is enough.

My brother and I don't hug regularly, but when I was in a car accident in 2003 (luckily, I did not need hospitalization) I walked over to him when he arrived and he immediately held his arms out and just hugged me close for a few minutes. Right then I needed that.

The other day at work, things were getting so bad that 3 of the other nurses came up and hugged me out of the blue ... apparently, I was projecting my need a bit more than normal.

It's good that your family can give you the contact you need, even if they aren't normally affectionate like that.

 

[timberwolf05]

fetish wear?

Hello toy boys...back to the third degree now.

How important is the visual of fetish clothing on your Mistress or the Mistress you fantasize about? Does your submission kick into gear more quickly when She "looks" the part or is it "all" about personality and attitude for you?

never played so "I" don't care.
AND.......my 1st Mistress said it is all hooey anyway. i seen Her do a session in Her nightgown.

lol

the wolf

 

[SweetDommes]

LOL - I do own some "fetish wear" ... and if we had the money, I'd have A LOT more. I don't care if it's the boy's fetish or not, it's mine. I have the 5in heels + platform PVC boots that make me taller than all of the boys that we have played with (except maybe ghosst). I have a cheap corset (and am almost desparate for a good one). I have more realistic boots that I can actually walk in LOL

I don't wear any of them often, but when I do, I have fun

 

[Alt]

Hello toy boys...back to the third degree now.

How important is the visual of fetish clothing on your Mistress or the Mistress you fantasize about? Does your submission kick into gear more quickly when She "looks" the part or is it "all" about personality and attitude for you?

Interesting. With the right Mistress, it wouldn't matter what She was wearing (or wasn't!), but fetish clothing does add to the appeal for me. Especially foot wear and the contrast between fetish clothing and smooth skin, both of which really feeds my desires to the point of openly surrenduring myself.

 

[kidkaoz]

if looks could kill

Hello toy boys...back to the third degree now.

How important is the visual of fetish clothing on your Mistress or the Mistress you fantasize about? Does your submission kick into gear more quickly when She "looks" the part or is it "all" about personality and attitude for you?

clothing would certainly help, but it isn't the best part. the part is knowing that you're in trouble and that it could get painful inorder to please your mistress. most of the times i have been dominated have actually been online since i live in a VERY conservative community (one of the towns not far away had a vote to outlaw ALL alcohol sales within the town limits last elction - it almost passed - but I digress) and I've been the only one visible on a webcam or sending digital pictures of self inflicted cbt for my mistress' pleasure, so clearly in those cases I did not have the benefit of seeing my mistress in fetish clothing.

so I guess I would have tot say it about giving my mistress pleasure through the pain she is inflicting on me, whether she is inflicting it herself or forcing me to do it and show her.

 

[Netzach]

I've worn nothing, nightgowns, sweats, and suits to have a scene in, but like Karen, I love fetish attire. I

lloooooooovee


fetish attire.

I have fetishes, they are not just for subs.

 

[Xelebes]

Hello toy boys...back to the third degree now.

How important is the visual of fetish clothing on your Mistress or the Mistress you fantasize about? Does your submission kick into gear more quickly when She "looks" the part or is it "all" about personality and attitude for you?

Fetish clothing isn't really all that fetish-y. That is, normal clothes being more my fetish. But anyway, it rates... mmmm....6.5. Yeah, that's a good number out of 10. Not necessary and flexible with it but I do like it a lot.

 

[rbijon]

My Mistress is HOT

Hello toy boys...back to the third degree now.

How important is the visual of fetish clothing on your Mistress or the Mistress you fantasize about? Does your submission kick into gear more quickly when She "looks" the part or is it "all" about personality and attitude for you?

My Mistress always dress in the hottest sexyest outfits. She is mostly in black and red and it seems that She never gets totally undressed, even when She finally fucks me. But the real fetish is what She has me wear! She always has me in panties, again She likes black. I love the lace and the feel of Her feet pressing down on my number with smooth lace panties on.....oh the thrill of panties!

 

[Aeroil]

Hello toy boys...back to the third degree now.

How important is the visual of fetish clothing on your Mistress or the Mistress you fantasize about? Does your submission kick into gear more quickly when She "looks" the part or is it "all" about personality and attitude for you?

As long as it's not a silly ridiculous outfit that makes me wanna laugh, anything would be fine, It is indeed all about personality and attitude for me.

Domme in clown outfit, definiately not good though.

 

[onceburned]

How important is the visual of fetish clothing on your Mistress or the Mistress you fantasize about?

Its nice eye candy but I can appreciate it on others without my domme wearing it herself.

Besides when I tightlaced her corset it seemed to make her mean.

 

[roosterado9]

Hello toy boys...back to the third degree now.

How important is the visual of fetish clothing on your Mistress or the Mistress you fantasize about? Does your submission kick into gear more quickly when She "looks" the part or is it "all" about personality and attitude for you?

My Mistress is online and phone so no fetish clothing yet> Its Her attitude , Her Strength , Her embracement of my sub Recently i tried to express to Her my fantasy of being ordered to Service Her She related some personal experiences to me.A few hours later i was out of bed e-mailing Her telling Her i had looked deeper and realized what i really wanted was to beg Her to see- touch-lick different parts of Her body all different parts .Still don't know exzactly how that happened?

 

[roosterado9]

Think of me what you will, but for me, this is definitely a need. I can feel myself becoming more and more emotionally unstable when I do not get my physical contact needs met. I become depressed, irritable, dispondant, etc. I could list more, but I just realized that they are all symptoms of depression. With physical contact, I don't have nearly so much trouble.

this is very interesting i have had little physical contact the last 7 yrs in my vanilla life, since finding D/s 2 mo's ago and the reading- chatting- posting- online friends - and a online Mistress ,my mood has improved dramaticly and no physical contact I spose with r/t physical contact comes r/t mental/physcological conflicts thats why they call it real life BUt yes touch tactile is so sweet i remember

 

[Xelebes]

As long as it's not a silly ridiculous outfit that makes me wanna laugh, anything would be fine, It is indeed all about personality and attitude for me.

Domme in clown outfit, definiately not good though.

Nor candy outfits?

 

[rbijon]

OK,what do Mistress's like to wear, I know my Mistress has me in panties, but what do you Mistress' here on this thread like to wear and what do you have your sub's wear? Hey, just would like to know/ hehehheee

 

[SweetDommes]

I wear whatever I'm confortable in, and if I wear it normally, I'll wear it during a scene - jeans, t-shirt, night shirt, pjs, shorts, fetish clothes (corset, pvc boots, whatever else I manage to collect), or nothing - and Holly is the same way (minus the fetish clothes). As for how we dress our boys - we don't really. In general, it's simply what ever they are comfortable in for day to day and if we decide to play, then we strip them.

 

[rbijon]

I wear whatever I'm confortable in, and if I wear it normally, I'll wear it during a scene - jeans, t-shirt, night shirt, pjs, shorts, fetish clothes (corset, pvc boots, whatever else I manage to collect), or nothing - and Holly is the same way (minus the fetish clothes). As for how we dress our boys - we don't really. In general, it's simply what ever they are comfortable in for day to day and if we decide to play, then we strip them.

You Mistress's have all the fun.....I have to "be ready to get to work" for my Mistress....and sometimes She does like me totally nude while She is fully dressed.
....but hey it is all fun. I love wearing panties for her, but She loves the power of me being nude and Her being fully dressed.

 

[timberwolf05]

S.d.

I wear whatever I'm confortable in, and if I wear it normally, I'll wear it during a scene - jeans, t-shirt, night shirt, pjs, shorts, fetish clothes (corset, pvc boots, whatever else I manage to collect), or nothing - and Holly is the same way (minus the fetish clothes). As for how we dress our boys - we don't really. In general, it's simply what ever they are comfortable in for day to day and if we decide to play, then we strip them.

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since Your rep is solid with ME, and i trust Your judgement...
what IS the purpose of fetish wear anyway? if they are gonna whip yer ass..ya cant see behind ya anyway. so what IS the biggy here? why should SHE wear anything fetishy if ya cant SEE Her ??????
makes absolutely NO damned sense here.

thanks
the wolf

 

[Netzach]

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since Your rep is solid with ME, and i trust Your judgement...
what IS the purpose of fetish wear anyway? if they are gonna whip yer ass..ya cant see behind ya anyway. so what IS the biggy here? why should SHE wear anything fetishy if ya cant SEE Her ??????
makes absolutely NO damned sense here.

thanks
the wolf

Maybe it's pleasing to the woman wearing it.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Maybe it's pleasing to the woman wearing it.

LOL, I know for my daughter it is pure heaven to wear it...lucky she has the moolah to spend on increasing her already sizeable collection of latex and all things heeled and sexy and feminine.

Catalina