ok you male subs

[timberwolf05]

hmmmmmm

Maybe it's pleasing to the woman wearing it.

well????//

YOU ain't S.D. but You ARE a Girl......so i guess i have-to accept THIS answer. esp. from You. Your rep is safe also. in MY head.

and uh,.....thank You.
the wolf

 

[Shadowsdream]

Dominating isn't about the clothes for Me..BUT..I am always clothed and My subs and slaves are always naked or semi naked. I often keep most of My males in panties and My females in stockings and garters.

I prefer to play in heels or boots but some scenes just are more fun in bare feet when blue jeans are My mood. I never Dominate in lingerie or naked....

What I am wearing does influence My mood which influences the depth of My play.

 

[rbijon]

Dominating isn't about the clothes for Me..BUT..I am always clothed and My subs and slaves are always naked or semi naked. I often keep most of My males in panties and My females in stockings and garters.

I prefer to play in heels or boots but some scenes just are more fun in bare feet when blue jeans are My mood. I never Dominate in lingerie or naked....

What I am wearing does influence My mood which influences the depth of My play.

As a sub I am the one in panties or totally nude....Mistress has Her fun!!!

 

[SweetDommes]

what IS the purpose of fetish wear anyway? if they are gonna whip yer ass..ya cant see behind ya anyway. so what IS the biggy here? why should SHE wear anything fetishy if ya cant SEE Her ??????
makes absolutely NO damned sense here.

thanks
the wolf

Sometimes it's a mood setter before the scene begins.

Sometimes the boy will see it, because who the hell says a sub has to be whipped/spanked/flogged/whatever'ed in every scene?

And sometimes ... I like it so why shouldn't I wear it? Who says that it has to be for the sub?

 

[landcruisergal]

OK,what do Mistress's like to wear, I know my Mistress has me in panties, but what do you Mistress' here on this thread like to wear and what do you have your sub's wear? Hey, just would like to know/ hehehheee

My pup is always nude, except for his collar, cuffs and DM's.
I wear whatever I feel like at the time. If I intend on getting physical, its jeans and tshirt. Or just a sheer wrap over bra and panties.
Its always heels or boots when he arrives, so he can take them off.
I like to look and feel desirable.I like to feel his eyes on me, knowing he is gazing at my butt,my cleavage or an inch or two of bare skin. It maintains his focus on me.
Sometimes when he is blindfolded or otherwise occupied, I change into something sexier, if I have a particular play in mind. Dressing up sets my head space and focus and my preparation is nearly ritualistic. I feel more sexually empowered wearing leather, or mini+ skimpy top and stockings.
I know men are visual creatures, and if dressing up increases his lust and arousal....all the more for me to play with.

 

[Alt]

I know men are visual creatures, and if dressing up increases his lust and arousal....all the more for me to play with.

So true, especially when blindfolded.

 

[landcruisergal]

So true, especially when blindfolded.

Thats when you "see" with your hands.
Leather, latex, rubber, pvc, fur and silk all feel as sexy as they look.
I love to rub myself against him; a stocking clad leg running up between his thighs?
My knee clad in leather jeans pressing into his back as he lies prone.
His face pulled into my crotch when I am wearing my long fur coat and little else.
I love dressing up!

 

[Alt]

Thats when you "see" with your hands.
Leather, latex, rubber, pvc, fur and silk all feel as sexy as they look.
I love to rub myself against him; a stocking clad leg running up between his thighs?
My knee clad in leather jeans pressing into his back as he lies prone.
His face pulled into my crotch when I am wearing my long fur coat and little else.
I love dressing up!

Seeing with much more than just hands. I hope "he" knows how fortunate he is.

 

[rbijon]

My pup is always nude, except for his collar, cuffs and DM's.
I wear whatever I feel like at the time. If I intend on getting physical, its jeans and tshirt. Or just a sheer wrap over bra and panties.
Its always heels or boots when he arrives, so he can take them off.
I like to look and feel desirable.I like to feel his eyes on me, knowing he is gazing at my butt,my cleavage or an inch or two of bare skin. It maintains his focus on me.
Sometimes when he is blindfolded or otherwise occupied, I change into something sexier, if I have a particular play in mind. Dressing up sets my head space and focus and my preparation is nearly ritualistic. I feel more sexually empowered wearing leather, or mini+ skimpy top and stockings.
I know men are visual creatures, and if dressing up increases his lust and arousal....all the more for me to play with.

WOW, thanks for the input....Don't ya just love sex and being sexual.
landcruisergal you sound like a wonderful Mistress, and you are right maintaining his focus, it is important....and so is what is in your head.

 

[landcruisergal]

And I thought I was just tormenting the poor boy..
But gee thanks guys, you make me feel like I am at least heading in the right direction.

 

[rbijon]

And I thought I was just tormenting the poor boy..
But gee thanks guys, you make me feel like I am at least heading in the right direction.

I wish you were heading in my direction....and yes keep tormenting your guy with sexy outfits and keep him in panties or without a stitch on.....there is nothing that turns me on more than when my Mistress is fully clothed in a very hot and sexy outfit and She demands that I be totally nude......but I also love panties

 

[timberwolf05]

My pup is always nude, except for his collar, cuffs and DM's.

okay........what is DM's.?

the wolf

 

[timberwolf05]

I know men are visual creatures, and if dressing up increases his lust and arousal....all the more for me to play with.

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i guess? since "I" have been self celebate for soooooo long, i lost that lusting. i reached the point and went past it of not giving any interest to it anymore.
i no longer think about sex more n maybe once a month. which is about MAYBE when i feel like masturbation. i personally just don't care anymore. i have other worries in life far more important than the-little-head.

thanks
the wolf

 

[landcruisergal]

okay........what is DM's.?

the wolf

doctor martins boots.( see pic)
and when I said men were visual, I meant in general comparison to women.
It's something I can exploit with my sub, and as a sub its demanded that I be visually pleasing.
My pup doesnt care really what I wear, as long as he is wearing my collar he's content, but his contentment isnt my priority or aim with him.
I also find that if I don't actively work at being sexual I lose my drive, and if there are other priorities in my life, my sexlife fades into the background. I had 7 years of a sexless marriage, so at that time I threw myself into work.
If I am stressed or feeling low, my drive plummets and it takes a lot of effort to get it back.
If I cant masturbate regularly, after a week or so, I dont even want to....
sorry for the hijack. Thank you too.

 

[timberwolf05]

doctor martins boots.( see pic)

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what am i missing? just looks like normal everyday work boots. is something *special* supposed to be attached to this?

"I" wear cowboy kicks....what's the big issue with work boots?


thank you
the wolf

 

[rbijon]

doctor martins boots.( see pic)
and when I said men were visual, I meant in general comparison to women.
It's something I can exploit with my sub, and as a sub its demanded that I be visually pleasing.
My pup doesnt care really what I wear, as long as he is wearing my collar he's content, but his contentment isnt my priority or aim with him.
I also find that if I don't actively work at being sexual I lose my drive, and if there are other priorities in my life, my sexlife fades into the background. I had 7 years of a sexless marriage, so at that time I threw myself into work.
If I am stressed or feeling low, my drive plummets and it takes a lot of effort to get it back.
If I cant masturbate regularly, after a week or so, I dont even want to....
sorry for the hijack. Thank you too.

Wow...what a hijack....even now I have on my Mistress's sheerblack lace panties to be ready if She calls on me. She would slap and punch me if I were not found "ready".....sex is always swirling around my head....or I guess I just like panties.hehehheee

 

[landcruisergal]

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what am i missing? just looks like normal everyday work boots. is something *special* supposed to be attached to this?

"I" wear cowboy kicks....what's the big issue with work boots?


thank you
the wolf

Nope I just like them.I like my men manly. Docs are considered cool streetwear too. The punk nation in the UK sent sales thru the roof in the 70's. They take ages to break in but last forever. He can wear them out and think of me when his feet hurt.
I told him I wanted him in boots. I chose them and he bought them as a birthday gift to me. They are work boots, steelcaps even but I couldnt let him wear his dirty ones in the house could I? He has to keep them polished. And they emphasize his nakedness.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Nope I just like them.I like my men manly. Docs are considered cool streetwear too. The punk nation in the UK sent sales thru the roof in the 70's. They take ages to break in but last forever. He can wear them out and think of me when his feet hurt.
I told him I wanted him in boots. I chose them and he bought them as a birthday gift to me. They are work boots, steelcaps even but I couldnt let him wear his dirty ones in the house could I? He has to keep them polished. And they emphasize his nakedness.

You're evil babe, but in the nicest possible way.

Catalina

 

[rbijon]

You're evil babe, but in the nicest possible way.

Catalina

If it takes a man in boots to get her going......Where are my work boots?

 

[landcruisergal]

You're evil babe, but in the nicest possible way.

Catalina

*blushes*
I guess its a bit of girls revenge for all those blisters I have suffered wearing heels over the decades.
I love it when he says " mistress my feet hurt can I take my boots off now?"

 

[landcruisergal]

If it takes a man in boots to get her going......Where are my work boots?

no panties with the boots tho....Its not a good look unless they are heels.
And I expect them to be polished and shiny..the boots, not the panties.

Q. for the boys.
Is there an essential componant to your play,(- online or real life-) and resulting excitement/arousal/satisfaction/whatever you seek from your submission?
Be it physical ( like my pup's collar or as rbijon's panties seem)
a gesture,
a command,( like kneel)
a word ( like what she calls you)
or a specific act ( like spanking)
That without it you would feel like something was missing from your experience?

 

[timberwolf05]

no panties with the boots tho....Its not a good look unless they are heels.
And I expect them to be polished and shiny..the boots, not the panties.

Q. for the boys.
Is there an essential componant to your play,(- online or real life-) and resulting excitement/arousal/satisfaction/whatever you seek from your submission?
Be it physical ( like my pup's collar or as rbijon's panties seem)
a gesture,
a command,( like kneel)
a word ( like what she calls you)
or a specific act ( like spanking)
That without it you would feel like something was missing from your experience?

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i apologize. pass on this one.
not been in a play situation enough as yet to give quality answers. i am still a virgin.

sorry.
the wolf

 

[Gibbons]

no panties with the boots tho....Its not a good look unless they are heels.
And I expect them to be polished and shiny..the boots, not the panties.

Q. for the boys.
Is there an essential componant to your play,(- online or real life-) and resulting excitement/arousal/satisfaction/whatever you seek from your submission?
Be it physical ( like my pup's collar or as rbijon's panties seem)
a gesture,
a command,( like kneel)
a word ( like what she calls you)
or a specific act ( like spanking)
That without it you would feel like something was missing from your experience?

Yes, but it's not any one particular act. It's an attitude that says, I'm in control, you belong to me. A lot of women can't pull it off... even when they have you bound and helpless. Some women can exude it with a simple glance.

 

[landcruisergal]

Yes, but it's not any one particular act. It's an attitude that says, I'm in control, you belong to me. A lot of women can't pull it off... even when they have you bound and helpless. Some women can exude it with a simple glance.

Good answer, thank you... I would find that difficult myself at my level of experience. I need to trust my sub, as much as he trusts me.

 

[Gibbons]

Good answer, thank you... I would find that difficult myself at my level of experience. I need to trust my sub, as much as he trusts me.

Trust is essential. I don't ever play with someone that I don't trust. Too many things can go wrong, and there's no worse situation to secondguess than when you are vulnerable and immobile.