rosco rathbone
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I am sorry, I can only bring myself to lick girl asses. And those had better be well perfumed.
Online D/s... whats it good for?
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Of course, only an idiot would fail to notice that the unregistered troll who penned the preceeding post is attempting to start a flame war by appropriating my nom de guerre. I assure you that I have no interest in having my ass licked, or otherwise manipulated, by another male.
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Ebonyfire said:
Then what is FDS, Ma'am?
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fags dress snappy?
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That's snappily, Professor.
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Cuckolded_BlK_Male said:
Comment from the peanut gallery:
Feminine Deodorant Spray... or another product capitalizing on puritan views and targeting women in their "natural dirtiness". Is it really any wonder that some women may feel uncomfortable in being gone down on? I have yet to see MDS.
lark sparrow said:I have yet to see MDS.
...and I've known guys that could use it. I make the courtesy of washing externally if I suspect anything might occur, guys...could you please do the same? I know some people are turned on by body smells, but probably just as many like me don't like them. Ask your partner what they prefer, guys and girls, and if they like you fresh smelling, do your best to accomodate.
That's one thing that I loved about my ex...he would excuse himself to the sink of a quick wash if it had been a while since his shower, he had worked out, it was hot, etc. And I loved giving him head knowing that he was clean.
rosco rathbone
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Cuckolded_BlK_Male said:
Such an idiot am I.
I thought you were just being sarcasmic. I stand by my response, though, trolls or no.
browndream72
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back to the subject....
the original post was concerning online d/s relationships and whether they were worth anything, yes? Well, just in my humble opinion, as a fem. sub...they actually do not do much for me. I can not see going in to a chat room or ne where else online and having someone demand respect from me that they have not earned...which includes honorifics such as "master" or "mistress".
I have lived this way for years and the real world is the best place to figure out what you need in d/s relationship. Mostly the puter is a great way to build trust, to meet friends, and to enlarge your base of people like you...other than that ...i feel it just is not meant to happen on-line...
Now off the subject for just one moment....Mz. Ebony...i loved reading your posts...always made me smile...I know that whomever has you for a top is truly satisfied!! Every one else...thanks for giving me something interesting to read...
Have a great day all
the original post was concerning online d/s relationships and whether they were worth anything, yes? Well, just in my humble opinion, as a fem. sub...they actually do not do much for me. I can not see going in to a chat room or ne where else online and having someone demand respect from me that they have not earned...which includes honorifics such as "master" or "mistress".
I have lived this way for years and the real world is the best place to figure out what you need in d/s relationship. Mostly the puter is a great way to build trust, to meet friends, and to enlarge your base of people like you...other than that ...i feel it just is not meant to happen on-line...
Now off the subject for just one moment....Mz. Ebony...i loved reading your posts...always made me smile...I know that whomever has you for a top is truly satisfied!! Every one else...thanks for giving me something interesting to read...
Have a great day all
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i mean no disrespect to anyone, and certainly not to browndream72.... but i met my online Dom through an upstanding BB much like this one.
i do not go to chat rooms, because of the low quality Doms that tend to hang out in them.
i call him Sir, as he has earned my respect from months of talking and getting to know each other. Online is the only means we have to stay in touch with each other, as he lives on the other side of the US from me.
Is it hard, having a computer screen separate us? Definately. But, we hope to meet in person someday in the future. With the invention of the webcam, and the microphone, it is much easier for us to stay close, as we can see and talk to each other.
Everyone who has stated that there is no substitution for skin to skin, and being in the same room as the one you care about, is absolutely right. But sometimes, in order to get to that point, you must work hard at establishing a relationship using any means you can. Right now for me, that is the computer. i love the time he and i spend together, and he couldn't make me feel any more special, if he were standing right in front of me.
He has earned my trust and respect, and is close to having my heart and soul as well.
Just my .02 worth...
i do not go to chat rooms, because of the low quality Doms that tend to hang out in them.
i call him Sir, as he has earned my respect from months of talking and getting to know each other. Online is the only means we have to stay in touch with each other, as he lives on the other side of the US from me.
Is it hard, having a computer screen separate us? Definately. But, we hope to meet in person someday in the future. With the invention of the webcam, and the microphone, it is much easier for us to stay close, as we can see and talk to each other.
Everyone who has stated that there is no substitution for skin to skin, and being in the same room as the one you care about, is absolutely right. But sometimes, in order to get to that point, you must work hard at establishing a relationship using any means you can. Right now for me, that is the computer. i love the time he and i spend together, and he couldn't make me feel any more special, if he were standing right in front of me.
He has earned my trust and respect, and is close to having my heart and soul as well.
Just my .02 worth...
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sierra
i read your post and i must state that i understand your position on on-line d/s relationships...as i said they may work for some people just not for me...i am glad that you have found someone who understands your needs and takes an active role in your life..it just seems to me that sometimes these fantasy cum reality do not happen very often...continued best wishes and good luck...
i read your post and i must state that i understand your position on on-line d/s relationships...as i said they may work for some people just not for me...i am glad that you have found someone who understands your needs and takes an active role in your life..it just seems to me that sometimes these fantasy cum reality do not happen very often...continued best wishes and good luck...
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If it happens and it works, go for it.
There are plenty of times when the one you want is no where near you for the time being.
No one lives your life but you. If you are happy that is all that matters.
SM, I wish you luck.
There are plenty of times when the one you want is no where near you for the time being.
No one lives your life but you. If you are happy that is all that matters.
SM, I wish you luck.
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Re: sierra
i did not mean to come across as harsh or as a know-it-all. i just didn't want you thinking that i was attacking your post. That was not my intention at all.
i understand that this doesn't work for everyone (up til a month ago, i had no desire to be in anything like this myself!). It just really sucks sometimes, that the person who completes you, who wants and needs the same things as you do, lives so far away. It is a hard thing to deal with at times, but i wouldn't give it up for the world!!
Thank you for your best wishes, and luck...i'm sure there are going to be times when i need them!
Take care, and thanks for understanding my POV.
sierra
Thank you browndream72.browndream72 said:
i did not mean to come across as harsh or as a know-it-all. i just didn't want you thinking that i was attacking your post. That was not my intention at all.
i understand that this doesn't work for everyone (up til a month ago, i had no desire to be in anything like this myself!). It just really sucks sometimes, that the person who completes you, who wants and needs the same things as you do, lives so far away. It is a hard thing to deal with at times, but i wouldn't give it up for the world!!
Thank you for your best wishes, and luck...i'm sure there are going to be times when i need them!
Take care, and thanks for understanding my POV.
sierra
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Thank you ltr!!lovetoread said:If it happens and it works, go for it.
There are plenty of times when the one you want is no where near you for the time being.
No one lives your life but you. If you are happy that is all that matters.
SM, I wish you luck.
It is understanding people like you that make it that much easier to go through something like this. i appreciate it more than you know!
sierra
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Unrelated to anyone's specific post
The Top 10 Most Commonly Found Doms On AOL:
1. The 'I Am Dom Hear Me Roar' Dom:
All shiny new leather wear, with a belt full of toys (just bought at Jack's Whip-O-Rama). Of *course* he knows what to do! He read SM101...and even watched Exit To Eden three whole times!
2. The 'I Just Wanna Get Laid' Dom:
Roams the halls of AOL sending IMs to the ladies in the Chateaux telling them "On your knees! I am a Dom and U R my slave!". When he gets irate IMs back from the Domme he just sent to by mistake (what, read a profile? you *must* be kidding, right?), he quickly changes his tune to "R U a FDom? I am your slave! May I lick your boots?".
3. The 'Dungeon Slut' Dom:
Has a new 'lady love' each day (sometimes 2 or 3 a day). He swears each time that *this* one is his 'eternal true love'....at least for the next two hours.
4. The 'Psycho-Stalker' Dom:
Wants to know *exactly* what you do...every minute of the day and night. Insists on BCCs of all sent mail, and Forwards of all read mail, plus access to your account to check up on you. Do you get the feeling that someone is watching you? With this one, you're probably right.
5. The 'I Just Wanna Be Your *Friend*' Dom:
Offers to guide you and protect you....you innocent sweet thing you. Oh, those other 10 subs? Just friends. Really.
6. The 'Of Course Im Dom...Uh Oh My Wife Is Home Gotta Run' Dom:
Warning signs: Picks 'no response' on marital status in profile. "No honey you can't call me at home...call my voice mail instead". Often disappears in the middle of a hot n heavy cyber session...uses an excuse like 'my power went out' when asked about it. "Of *course* Im not married!"
7. The 'Im Not *That* Type Of Dom' Dom:
Squeaky-clean image. The type of Dom that everyone *knows* is a good guy. He would never do something less than up-front and honorable. Uh-huh.
8. The 'Tom Cruise' Dom:
He's young, rich, handsome and perfect....until you meet him in person. Then you find out that the 'Tom Cruise look-alike' you've been subbing to is 5'4", 400 lbs, bald, 48 years old, and living with his elderly mother. (Oh yeah... and he works as a clerk at 7-11...not as a CEO of a 'major corp').
9. The 'Alex I'd Like to Buy a Clue For $200' Dom:
Ok, now you've got a sub....now what?
10. The 'I Don't Have A Sub Bone In My Body' Dom:
Really a bottom at heart, just refuses to admit it...even to himself.
And just in case you submissives out there thought you were off the hook....
Top7Subs
1. POOR-ME SUB:
This "sub" always has something going wrong in her life. Of course, it is never her fault..she is always being played upon and victimized by others. If only she found the *perfect* dom, her life would be problem-free and forever-blissful.
Favorite IM to send: "Will you be my dom, sir? I am just a helpless little subbie."
Favorite IM to receive: "Just do what I say, slave!"
2. JUST-DO-ME SUB:
This "sub" just wants to be beaten. It doesn't really matter by who, or what..as long as he (I use "he" here because these are typically male) can feel the lash. Frequently misbehaving on purpose, this sub can drive a dom *crazy*.
Favorite IM to send: "I have been naughty and need to be punished. Spank me now, Mistress!"
Favortie IM to receive: "You are a bad sub and need to be punished! Bend over!"
3. BARBIE-SUB:
This "sub" just likes the way she looks in leather fashions. She is afraid of the whip, and has never seen a clamp in her life. Her favorite store is "Dream Dresser", and her whole paycheck is spent there each week.
Favorite IM to send: "Would you like to know what I am wearing, sir?"
Favorite IM to receive: "What are you wearing?"
4. HE-HURT-ME SUB:
This "sub", without any negotiations, talk of limits or safewords, rushes out to a country cabin to to play with a dom she met 2 days ago online. After letting him tie her up and whip her, she decides he is a menace to society, and can't wait to tell all her "sub" friends he is a "BAD dom".
Favorite IM to send: "Subsis, I need to pass on a warning to you!"
Favorite IM to receive: "My poor subsis, you have got to warn everyone about this creep!"
5. I-JUST-NEED-A-MAN SUB:
This "sub", after exhausting all her singles bar and healthclub meting places, decides that the D/s world would be a good place to meet a *man*. she really has no interest in D/s, she just needs someone to spend the rest of her life with. She is a close relative of POOR-ME SUB. Amazingly, when she "gets her dom", she suddenly looses interest in any type of sex.
Favorite IM to send: "Sir, will you take care of me forever?"
Favorite IM to receive: "I have always dreamed of having a large family."
6. NO-ONE-CAN-TOP-ME SUB:
This "sub" longs to submit, yet claims no dom is strong enough to top her. Some say she is really just a domme in disguise.
Favorite IM to send: "Think you are strong enough to put me in my place, jerk?"
Favorite IM to receive: "No, Mistress, I am really just a weak and helpless slave. ::falling to the floor and kissing your boots::
7. SUBMISSION IS THE GREATEST GIFT Submissive.
This submissive has stars in her eyes and naivity in her heart. She swoons at the mere thought of a dom, any dom, asking her to pass the salt. She writes her dom's name in the corner of her notebook with little hearts and flowers around it. She declares that there is no better way to love than through submission, and that d/s is a "better" and "higher" manner of loving than anything a silly old vanilla person might do. She lives on an emotional roller-coaster, sentimental enough to cry when seeing a long-distance phone company commercial.
Favorite IM to send: "You are all of life to me, there is nothing about life worthwhile without you."
Favorite IM to receive: "I am everything you'll ever want or need, and I'll protect you from everything."
http://www.frugaldomme.com/frugal.htm
Be careful out there!
The Top 10 Most Commonly Found Doms On AOL:
1. The 'I Am Dom Hear Me Roar' Dom:
All shiny new leather wear, with a belt full of toys (just bought at Jack's Whip-O-Rama). Of *course* he knows what to do! He read SM101...and even watched Exit To Eden three whole times!
2. The 'I Just Wanna Get Laid' Dom:
Roams the halls of AOL sending IMs to the ladies in the Chateaux telling them "On your knees! I am a Dom and U R my slave!". When he gets irate IMs back from the Domme he just sent to by mistake (what, read a profile? you *must* be kidding, right?), he quickly changes his tune to "R U a FDom? I am your slave! May I lick your boots?".
3. The 'Dungeon Slut' Dom:
Has a new 'lady love' each day (sometimes 2 or 3 a day). He swears each time that *this* one is his 'eternal true love'....at least for the next two hours.
4. The 'Psycho-Stalker' Dom:
Wants to know *exactly* what you do...every minute of the day and night. Insists on BCCs of all sent mail, and Forwards of all read mail, plus access to your account to check up on you. Do you get the feeling that someone is watching you? With this one, you're probably right.
5. The 'I Just Wanna Be Your *Friend*' Dom:
Offers to guide you and protect you....you innocent sweet thing you. Oh, those other 10 subs? Just friends. Really.
6. The 'Of Course Im Dom...Uh Oh My Wife Is Home Gotta Run' Dom:
Warning signs: Picks 'no response' on marital status in profile. "No honey you can't call me at home...call my voice mail instead". Often disappears in the middle of a hot n heavy cyber session...uses an excuse like 'my power went out' when asked about it. "Of *course* Im not married!"
7. The 'Im Not *That* Type Of Dom' Dom:
Squeaky-clean image. The type of Dom that everyone *knows* is a good guy. He would never do something less than up-front and honorable. Uh-huh.
8. The 'Tom Cruise' Dom:
He's young, rich, handsome and perfect....until you meet him in person. Then you find out that the 'Tom Cruise look-alike' you've been subbing to is 5'4", 400 lbs, bald, 48 years old, and living with his elderly mother. (Oh yeah... and he works as a clerk at 7-11...not as a CEO of a 'major corp').
9. The 'Alex I'd Like to Buy a Clue For $200' Dom:
Ok, now you've got a sub....now what?
10. The 'I Don't Have A Sub Bone In My Body' Dom:
Really a bottom at heart, just refuses to admit it...even to himself.
And just in case you submissives out there thought you were off the hook....
Top7Subs
1. POOR-ME SUB:
This "sub" always has something going wrong in her life. Of course, it is never her fault..she is always being played upon and victimized by others. If only she found the *perfect* dom, her life would be problem-free and forever-blissful.
Favorite IM to send: "Will you be my dom, sir? I am just a helpless little subbie."
Favorite IM to receive: "Just do what I say, slave!"
2. JUST-DO-ME SUB:
This "sub" just wants to be beaten. It doesn't really matter by who, or what..as long as he (I use "he" here because these are typically male) can feel the lash. Frequently misbehaving on purpose, this sub can drive a dom *crazy*.
Favorite IM to send: "I have been naughty and need to be punished. Spank me now, Mistress!"
Favortie IM to receive: "You are a bad sub and need to be punished! Bend over!"
3. BARBIE-SUB:
This "sub" just likes the way she looks in leather fashions. She is afraid of the whip, and has never seen a clamp in her life. Her favorite store is "Dream Dresser", and her whole paycheck is spent there each week.
Favorite IM to send: "Would you like to know what I am wearing, sir?"
Favorite IM to receive: "What are you wearing?"
4. HE-HURT-ME SUB:
This "sub", without any negotiations, talk of limits or safewords, rushes out to a country cabin to to play with a dom she met 2 days ago online. After letting him tie her up and whip her, she decides he is a menace to society, and can't wait to tell all her "sub" friends he is a "BAD dom".
Favorite IM to send: "Subsis, I need to pass on a warning to you!"
Favorite IM to receive: "My poor subsis, you have got to warn everyone about this creep!"
5. I-JUST-NEED-A-MAN SUB:
This "sub", after exhausting all her singles bar and healthclub meting places, decides that the D/s world would be a good place to meet a *man*. she really has no interest in D/s, she just needs someone to spend the rest of her life with. She is a close relative of POOR-ME SUB. Amazingly, when she "gets her dom", she suddenly looses interest in any type of sex.
Favorite IM to send: "Sir, will you take care of me forever?"
Favorite IM to receive: "I have always dreamed of having a large family."
6. NO-ONE-CAN-TOP-ME SUB:
This "sub" longs to submit, yet claims no dom is strong enough to top her. Some say she is really just a domme in disguise.
Favorite IM to send: "Think you are strong enough to put me in my place, jerk?"
Favorite IM to receive: "No, Mistress, I am really just a weak and helpless slave. ::falling to the floor and kissing your boots::
7. SUBMISSION IS THE GREATEST GIFT Submissive.
This submissive has stars in her eyes and naivity in her heart. She swoons at the mere thought of a dom, any dom, asking her to pass the salt. She writes her dom's name in the corner of her notebook with little hearts and flowers around it. She declares that there is no better way to love than through submission, and that d/s is a "better" and "higher" manner of loving than anything a silly old vanilla person might do. She lives on an emotional roller-coaster, sentimental enough to cry when seeing a long-distance phone company commercial.
Favorite IM to send: "You are all of life to me, there is nothing about life worthwhile without you."
Favorite IM to receive: "I am everything you'll ever want or need, and I'll protect you from everything."
http://www.frugaldomme.com/frugal.htm
Be careful out there!
Cuckolded_BlK_Male
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Is it just me, or does all of that seem to be predicated on the assumption of ... of ... of monogamy *shudder*.
lark sparrow
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Cuckolded_BlK_Male said:
Yes, it's just you.
But seriously, non-monogamy only becomes an issue when it is not open and agreed upon. Then it becomes cheating, yes? I think the humorous quips here point to cheating and dishonesty - of which there is much on the internet, and it may not be as easily discerned as in face-to-face interaction.
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I see.
I actually don't mind being monogamous myself. I simple prefer non-monogamous women.
I actually don't mind being monogamous myself. I simple prefer non-monogamous women.
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I hear you
Well, that's just down right kinky!
Well, that's just down right kinky!
just a thought
Before the internet, before the age of everyone having telephones, etc.. There were many "love affairs" that occurred via "snail mail" and many of these went on for years and some did get together. So this is not something new it is just happening more because we do have the internet, etc.
silkee_A
Before the internet, before the age of everyone having telephones, etc.. There were many "love affairs" that occurred via "snail mail" and many of these went on for years and some did get together. So this is not something new it is just happening more because we do have the internet, etc.
silkee_A
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SierraMoon said:i mean no disrespect to anyone, and certainly not to browndream72.... but i met my online Dom through an upstanding BB much like this one.
i do not go to chat rooms, because of the low quality Doms that tend to hang out in them.
i call him Sir, as he has earned my respect from months of talking and getting to know each other. Online is the only means we have to stay in touch with each other, as he lives on the other side of the US from me.
Is it hard, having a computer screen separate us? Definately. But, we hope to meet in person someday in the future. With the invention of the webcam, and the microphone, it is much easier for us to stay close, as we can see and talk to each other.
Everyone who has stated that there is no substitution for skin to skin, and being in the same room as the one you care about, is absolutely right. But sometimes, in order to get to that point, you must work hard at establishing a relationship using any means you can. Right now for me, that is the computer. i love the time he and i spend together, and he couldn't make me feel any more special, if he were standing right in front of me.
He has earned my trust and respect, and is close to having my heart and soul as well.
Just my .02 worth...
I am happy for you too SM. I think there are a lot of us who have met Dom/mes or subs online, and were lucky enough to go skin-to-skin in a relatively short time. Some started in RL, others have not been able to make the RL leap as yet, and are doing the best they can in a LDR.
Just as long as the persons involved are satisfied, it is all good.
Eb
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Thanks Eb.. i appreciate your support. i'm really hoping to make that leap in the near future, even if it is just for a week or two visit.Ebonyfire said:
And, he keeps me well satisfied, as i hope i do for him...
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SierraMoon said:Thanks Eb.. i appreciate your support. i'm really hoping to make that leap in the near future, even if it is just for a week or two visit.
And, he keeps me well satisfied, as i hope i do for him...
Well, I am trying to be careful how I post nowadays, to try to make sure that I do not judge another's lifestyle.
I remember how things were here in the past, and unless we remember the past, we are doomed to repeat it.
No one here has the definitive D/s relationship. There are as many ways to be kinky as there people to participate in kinky activities. So we must be mindful that every opinion is valid even if it differs from our own.
If we all remember that the computer is an poor communicator, and post with mindfulness, we can avoid insulting each other unintentionally.
Besides, we have plenty of trolls and flamers who visit that we can insult intentionally let's not waste a good insult on each other.
Eb
