Orgasm Denial

[mrskent]

Who cares what a slave feels? A smart Owner. That's a no-brainer.

Then you are just playing little games...nurses and doctors anyone?

 

[mrskent]

You kick puppies and pull wings off flys for fun, don't you.

LOL...how did you guess?

 

[mickyp123]

Who cares what a slave feels or doesn't feel? A slave is there to do whatever he is ordered to do so his feelings are of no concern at all.

wrong!

 

[mickyp123]

Who cares what a slave feels or doesn't feel? A slave is there to do whatever he is ordered to do so his feelings are of no concern at all.

I will openly admit that i do not and have never lived the lifestyle, but god you speak crap, have a nice day

 

[mrskent]

I will openly admit that i do not and have never lived the lifestyle, but god you speak crap, have a nice day

oh..so thats a no, then....

 

[mickyp123]

oh..so thats a no, then....

afraid so, in any D/s relationship[ the word "care" would be apart of the dynamic

 

[FungiUg]

afraid so, in any D/s relationship[ the word "care" would be apart of the dynamic

So far as I have seen, "care" is a part of any healthy relationship (friendship, parent/child, partner, etc). D/s adds additional stuff (power dynamics, kink, etc) but the basis of a relationship is still there.

That whole "BDSM lifestyle where you treat full-time slaves as shit" concept is just a big wank from lonely people who have nothing on their hands other than their own genital juices. Anyone actually in a successful relationship of any kind knows better.

 

[mickyp123]

So far as I have seen, "care" is a part of any healthy relationship (friendship, parent/child, partner, etc). D/s adds additional stuff (power dynamics, kink, etc) but the basis of a relationship is still there.

That whole "BDSM lifestyle where you treat full-time slaves as shit" concept is just a big wank from lonely people who have nothing on their hands other than their own genital juices. Anyone actually in a successful relationship of any kind knows better.

thanks for that, i could not have put it better myself lol

 

[Netzach]

I care because I care, not becase I'm obligated or expected to care.

And sometimes I really don't. It's an interesting mix.

Not caring whatsoever bores me, frankly, I like some tension.

 

[mrskent]

So far as I have seen, "care" is a part of any healthy relationship (friendship, parent/child, partner, etc). D/s adds additional stuff (power dynamics, kink, etc) but the basis of a relationship is still there.

That whole "BDSM lifestyle where you treat full-time slaves as shit" concept is just a big wank from lonely people who have nothing on their hands other than their own genital juices. Anyone actually in a successful relationship of any kind knows better.

Wow...there goes the cod therapist..............

 

[mickyp123]

Wow...there goes the cod therapist..............

I don't get that, is it a fishy joke?

 

[creamedjeans]

I am a guy and I am really into orgasm denial. There is something about a woman controlling my orgasms that just gets me going!

Anyway, I have heard that long term periods of denial, when mixed with edging, can have negative effects on a man's prostate health. From what I understand, it is a good idea to allow your guy to release every now and then...sometimes the idea is to have him come but not allow a full orgasm.

Some people will ruin a man's orgasm (letting go right as they come, placing their palm over the head of the penis so the semen will not be released) to continue long term denial. Basically, the effect of a ruined orgasm is you get a release of semen, but don't have a full satisfying orgasm. This leaves the man still horny and denied. There is also prostate milking where the man's prostate is stimulated to release seminal fluid without orgasm. I have also seen a woman used a 'slow drain' technique. She basically brings the man to the point of no return then lets go, allowing some semen to flow out. She does this several times until he cannot ejaculate further. It looks a little painful, though. It is definitely unsatisfying.


For women, I don't know of any negative effects health wise.

 

[mickyp123]

I am a guy and I am really into orgasm denial. There is something about a woman controlling my orgasms that just gets me going!

Anyway, I have heard that long term periods of denial, when mixed with edging, can have negative effects on a man's prostate health. From what I understand, it is a good idea to allow your guy to release every now and then...sometimes the idea is to have him come but not allow a full orgasm.

Some people will ruin a man's orgasm (letting go right as they come, placing their palm over the head of the penis so the semen will not be released) to continue long term denial. Basically, the effect of a ruined orgasm is you get a release of semen, but don't have a full satisfying orgasm. This leaves the man still horny and denied. There is also prostate milking where the man's prostate is stimulated to release seminal fluid without orgasm. I have also seen a woman used a 'slow drain' technique. She basically brings the man to the point of no return then lets go, allowing some semen to flow out. She does this several times until he cannot ejaculate further. It looks a little painful, though. It is definitely unsatisfying.


For women, I don't know of any negative effects health wise.

There is a health risk for women, the first sign normally is a heavy discharge oround your credit card, and a house full of "Rabbits" lol

 

[unfoundiamond]

Orgasam Denial

I do this, self denial, when I masterbate. I love to masterbate, and watch really dirty porn (hardcore...) and I never feel like it lasts long enough, so when I get close, I will stop rubbing my clit, and allow myself to enjoy the rush. I wait untill all the sensations calm down again, and being again.

When I was still living at home with Dad and my strepmonster, They had a video that showed and talked about orgasams and multiple orgasams.
I would sneak it out of the box in the closet, and when no one was home I would watch it and make mental notes. The video was made by a Dr... I of course don't remember the name but,
The doctor on the video said getting your partner close to climax and changing stimulation, and repeating a few times with not only create a stronger orgasam, but also can help someone who has trouble with multiples (me) to have a full strong orgasam, which by removing and applying stimulation can go from one short climax and orgasam, to a peaks and valleys orgasam which is like 2 or more minutes and, is more reminiscent of a multiple orgasam.

I think orgasam denial is great,
what I just mentioned it more tecnique to create a stronger orgasam, but I combine the two,

...no wonder I come harder for myself than anyone else

 

[SubKekiLee]

I do this, self denial, when I masterbate. I love to masterbate, and watch really dirty porn (hardcore...) and I never feel like it lasts long enough, so when I get close, I will stop rubbing my clit, and allow myself to enjoy the rush. I wait untill all the sensations calm down again, and being again.

When I was still living at home with Dad and my strepmonster, They had a video that showed and talked about orgasams and multiple orgasams.
I would sneak it out of the box in the closet, and when no one was home I would watch it and make mental notes. The video was made by a Dr... I of course don't remember the name but,
The doctor on the video said getting your partner close to climax and changing stimulation, and repeating a few times with not only create a stronger orgasam, but also can help someone who has trouble with multiples (me) to have a full strong orgasam, which by removing and applying stimulation can go from one short climax and orgasam, to a peaks and valleys orgasam which is like 2 or more minutes and, is more reminiscent of a multiple orgasam.

I think orgasam denial is great,
what I just mentioned it more tecnique to create a stronger orgasam, but I combine the two,

...no wonder I come harder for myself than anyone else

OMG DIamond.. that is so what I do... No wonder I like to do it myself.. although I gotta admit no one does it like my Sir.....

 

[mickyp123]

I do this, self denial, when I masterbate. I love to masterbate, and watch really dirty porn (hardcore...) and I never feel like it lasts long enough, so when I get close, I will stop rubbing my clit, and allow myself to enjoy the rush. I wait untill all the sensations calm down again, and being again.

When I was still living at home with Dad and my strepmonster, They had a video that showed and talked about orgasams and multiple orgasams.
I would sneak it out of the box in the closet, and when no one was home I would watch it and make mental notes. The video was made by a Dr... I of course don't remember the name but,
The doctor on the video said getting your partner close to climax and changing stimulation, and repeating a few times with not only create a stronger orgasam, but also can help someone who has trouble with multiples (me) to have a full strong orgasam, which by removing and applying stimulation can go from one short climax and orgasam, to a peaks and valleys orgasam which is like 2 or more minutes and, is more reminiscent of a multiple orgasam.

I think orgasam denial is great,
what I just mentioned it more tecnique to create a stronger orgasam, but I combine the two,

...no wonder I come harder for myself than anyone else

"Strepmonster" wow you must have loved her lol, that should work, as you are about to cum, imagine yourself tied, and the "strep" rubbing your clit

 

[unfoundiamond]

hahahaha

SubKeKi~ Wow, I didn't think anyone else knew about that... see we are smart girls! *wink*

MickyP~ I ment to write stepmonster, lol



I think Its safe for me to deny myself, but I am not a doctor....

 

[Caitlynne]

Well, that's the trick with the training I've done in the past -- basically train the submissive so she is permanently aroused. Then yes, orgasm on command at any time is feasible.

Agreed. It is a trained response to some automatic trigger. A word. A phrase that has already been associated with arousal and orgasm. Something trained into the sub as a trigger. It's easy to do if the submissive craves it. That's really the key [and most Dominants know it], a submissive has to really want to be trained to do this. My experience is, the orgasms commanded aren't big narly ones [LOL], but they definitely are orgasms.

As to the topic here, I like orgasm delay, although I've never done it for longer than a day or two. It's the one form of pain I really do enjoy. "Blue Balls" in a woman really is a good description of what happens when orgasm is delayed or denied. The blood is stuck in that region and it can become quite painful. That might be unhealthy if done over an extended period of time. I'm just not sure though.

 

[Caitlynne]

So far as I have seen, "care" is a part of any healthy relationship (friendship, parent/child, partner, etc). D/s adds additional stuff (power dynamics, kink, etc) but the basis of a relationship is still there.

That whole "BDSM lifestyle where you treat full-time slaves as shit" concept is just a big wank from lonely people who have nothing on their hands other than their own genital juices. Anyone actually in a successful relationship of any kind knows better.

Ah, the FungiUg is wise!

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

no one does it like my Sir.....

now thats so true!!

*whimpers and leaves quietly*

 

[SubKekiLee]

Agreed. It is a trained response to some automatic trigger. A word. A phrase that has already been associated with arousal and orgasm. Something trained into the sub as a trigger. It's easy to do if the submissive craves it. That's really the key [and most Dominants know it], a submissive has to really want to be trained to do this. My experience is, the orgasms commanded aren't big narly ones [LOL], but they definitely are orgasms.

My Sir has me where I can cum when he wants me to without touching my kitty, He can make me cum from words alone. He also controls my orgasms alot of the time. Unless I am being bad and thats not often.....

 

[Gamelover221]

I like to remotely control orgasms by requiring my pet to call me and ask permission if she wants one when I'm not around. If I'm at work and can't be reached, or if I don't feel like answering the phone...well, it's fun to get messages

 

[lucas83]

Has anyone else here practiced orgasm denial? It seems like it could be a step in getting a person to come on command.

Is it harmful in any way?

My Mistress uses orgasm denial on me constantly. I am not permitted to cum without her permission. Orgasm is viewed as a privilege, not a right. I am only permitted to cum as a reward for the work i do for her. This rule assures her that i will do the best job possible for her. IF i were allowed to cum whenever i wanted, i know i wouldn't go always give that extra effort.

lucas

 

[oneguy4fun]

Well, that's the trick with the training I've done in the past -- basically train the submissive so she is permanently aroused. Then yes, orgasm on command at any time is feasible.

Now that makes sense and is believable. I can relate because I''m pretty much aroused all the time. My Godess can get an instant erection out of me just by saying a few words or putting on a dominant attitude and certainly if she commanded me to orgasm I could do it pretty quickly. Although I couldn't go from flacid to orgasm without physical stimulation, as mentioned in the story. Maybe that works for females but I still find it hard to believe that it would work for a guy.

 

[zekealicious]

Im a big fan of self denial when masturbating..love going right to the edge and then stopping..again and again...I find that the practice has made me multi orgasmic..nothing major, but my orgasms are more pronounced now, and they tend to come (no pun intended) in one big wave and then several smaller waves...I'd be happy to show you!