Pick Your Label(s)

[Homburg]

HOMBURG

Damn man! We agree on something.

*gasp*

I am unmade!

*swoons*

 

[Sprinkles22]

Simply Me! That's my label.

I had to lay down the label of submissive because I'm not a good subbie, and the pressure to conform to the standards of what a good subbie should be was becoming too much of a burden.

What label's describe me? Well, let's see ...

Alpha, independent, witty, cunning, mischevious, silly, happy, bratty, intelligent, stubborn, strong-willed, insecure, loving, caring, compassionate, tempermental, moody, charismatic, extroverted and , oh yeah .... colorful

I want to be a sub, and in heart I really am .... I'm just a sub that needs lots of hands on Domination to keep me under control.

 

[the captians wench]

Simply Me! That's my label.

I had to lay down the label of submissive because I'm not a good subbie, and the pressure to conform to the standards of what a good subbie should be was becoming too much of a burden.

What label's describe me? Well, let's see ...

Alpha, independent, witty, cunning, mischevious, silly, happy, bratty, intelligent, stubborn, strong-willed, insecure, loving, caring, compassionate, tempermental, moody, charismatic, extroverted and , oh yeah .... colorful

I want to be a sub, and in heart I really am .... I'm just a sub that needs lots of hands on Domination to keep me under control.

And there's nothing wrong with that.

Welcome to the control freak subbie club, you'll find you are in great company here, as there are a lot of us on these boards. It takes a special breed of man to keep one of these subbies, but once you find him, you both will have gained something special.

 

[pandoravampire]

I am a collared submissive within my home life.
Im not the easiest of subs to dominate, being a rather dominant person myself. But we get by in our own way.
I also like to top.
He likes to call that 'his sub, giving him pleasure'
I like to experience that in total top space.
So we agree to differ and let the fun begin.

Not sure what you label that, dont much care either. But its a lot of fun, a lot of needs met within the relationship, and a happy family life to boot. Not a bad score even if i do say so myself

pandoravampire

 

[FurryFury]

Simply Me! That's my label.

I had to lay down the label of submissive for a while because I was feeling that I wasn't a good subbie, and the pressure to conform to the standards of what a good subbie should be with that particular Dom was becoming too much of a burden. It made me feel bad about myself.

With the right Dom and the right fit I know I would be a good subbie. It just hard to remember that when I'm so broken up about this dream of D/s with that Dom failed. I wanted it to last.

What label's describe me? Well, let's see ...

Alpha, independent, witty, cunning, mischievous, silly, happy, bratty, intelligent, stubborn, strong-willed, insecure, loving, caring, compassionate, temperamental, moody, charismatic, extroverted and , oh yeah .... colorful

I want to be a sub, and in heart I really am .... I'm just a sub that needs lots of hands on Domination to keep me under control.

It's presumptuous of me, I know but I fixed your post for you. I did it because I want you to start thinking less that you fucked up and more that things just weren't quite the right fit. You really do need to quit beating yourself up.

I know how painful it is when you blame yourself for everything. I do that too. In a way I see it as ego. I'm totally responsible / powerful, I should be able to make things perfect idea is just not that useful a working model.

*HUGS*