Please Tell Us Everything You Know About Primals

I dipped my toe into peri-men for a couple of weeks last summer.
The hot flashes were very erotic.
I think having one during sex would be amazing.
 
That's a big part. You are all reaction, instinct, id. It's only natural that you are going to scratch, bite, etc.

Put simply, there's some crazy shit going on in there (collectively), and god only knows what comes out to play when the need to be civilized is discarded :D

Simple is the point to a large extent, that's where the whole idea essentially stems from. The place that resides behind our presented personalities, the amalgamation of experiences, memories, and social behaviors are dropped/stripped away, what happens when your limbic system comes out to p l a y.

My inner-sociologist just orgasmed a little
 
Corn dogs (also known as a pronto pup) are amazing.

And to totally derail the primal thread, I will say (in my best Debbie Downer voice) menopause is a huge factor in LOSING sex-erotic-arousal-primal stuff. :( It's like I'm not quite sure who's taken over my body but I don't like her. I have to work really hard at keeping the horn dog factor far above thinking more about corn dogs.

This might be fodder for another thread.

See, I didn't experience this at all. I think I'm more sexual and like sex more now than I did before the big M.
 
See, I didn't experience this at all. I think I'm more sexual and like sex more now than I did before the big M.

Ditto on this for me....
I feel like I'm having a second round of teenage sex crazed hormone crap. Prey/ primal/ crave idk what or care what you call it.
 
I think I identify with prey fairly strongly, certainly bdsm tests point that way. I am still figuring out what that means for me. From reading this thread so far and from my explorations so far, this is what I have discovered...

I love the softer aspects like being held immobile, being sniffed and licked... and growled at.

I love the whole being hunted and taken scenario. Maybe something to try in a woods one day ;). So far though I don't make for good chasing. Run, freeze or fight? I tend to freeze :)

One day Master and I were texting each other on a train (hehehe) and Master said he was going to devour me when we got home. I texted back "Only if you can catch me first...". His reply? "Easy. As you love being caught." True.
 
I think in away it makes me a little more inhibited in some behaviour in fact.

I also don't feel it's a choice. It's a choice to let go or not, but it's not a choice in how I experience the world or in my ... sensuality.

I agree. I don't know why it's this way. It always has been. A craving.
 
I saw a writing tonight at Fet about a 'hunt.' I left crumbs for the café, in case anyone's interested in reading it.

But hang on to your hats boys and girls, it's quite a ride! :eek:
 
I think I identify with prey fairly strongly, certainly bdsm tests point that way. I am still figuring out what that means for me. From reading this thread so far and from my explorations so far, this is what I have discovered...

I love the softer aspects like being held immobile, being sniffed and licked... and growled at.

I love the whole being hunted and taken scenario. Maybe something to try in a woods one day ;). So far though I don't make for good chasing. Run, freeze or fight? I tend to freeze :)

One day Master and I were texting each other on a train (hehehe) and Master said he was going to devour me when we got home. I texted back "Only if you can catch me first...". His reply? "Easy. As you love being caught." True.

:heart:
 
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