PM asshattery

[drinkz]

I pick that you are (frequently) engaging in both.

Considering the source... Your opinion really doesn't matter. Are you still butt hurt about people skipping you in the word games?

 

[Eilan]

My asshat PMs have been coming to the Facebook alter ego that I use for trolling trolls who show up on the church-state separation pages that I frequent. This particular piece of work is a retired educator (!!) with two accounts, both of which contain incredibly racist, sexist, and homophobic material. But he loves Jesus, so it's all good.

Racist, misogynist, homophobic asshat: Misguided moron. [There was butthurt because I not-so-subtly accused the troll of using a joint account with a male partner]

Eilan: Am I talking to [name] or [name] here?

Eilan: [sends asshat pic of two guys kissing]

Eilan: There's more where that came from, so keep it up.

RMHA: You're so gay

RMHA: Every knee will bow before God and when he says he never knew you, you will be cast into the lake of fire for all eternity. You have been noted

Then he proceeded to block me. But the joke's on him. My new profile pic is one of his old profile pics. He's shirtless and doing a duckface. Looks like he took the pic with a cam.

 

[drinkz]

But the joke's on him. My new profile pic is one of his old profile pics. He's shirtless and doing a duckface. Looks like he took the pic with a cam.

That's not a joke... It's just childish and brought you down to his level.

 

[MizDeviant]

I figured that to be your aim...I think you might consider that with out the subtle eye roll and body language cues such as turning away slightly that you get in a so-called real life interactions the gentle dissuasion just doesn't come across the way you picture it. It's like how we all do things like nod when we are talking on a phone. It FEELS like you are communicating things that are really not being transmitted.

Reading it, I kinda thought that if the guy had a sharper wit he could have pulled out of that nosedive.



I pick that you are (frequently) engaging in both.

Well, exactly. After that first post, which in itself was obnoxious, it all became really amusing. So, I wanted to share the amusement. Of course, engaging in disagreements over cyber space seems to amuse people the most. *sighs*

 

[Eilan]

That's not a joke... It's just childish and brought you down to his level.

Like I give a fuck.

 

[MizDeviant]

That's not a joke... It's just childish and brought you down to his level.

what I posted before was an olive branch. Now, though.. Incessantly snubbing everyone either makes you persistent to prove a point, or jobless. Take your pick.

 

[Eilan]

I'm guessing that drinkz's PMs have shown up here on occasion. Hence the butthurt.

 

[drinkz]

what I posted before was an olive branch. Now, though.. Incessantly snubbing me either makes you persistent to prove a point, or jobless. Take your pick.

I'm guessing that drinkz's PMs have shown up here on occasion. Hence the butthurt.

Nope. I've never had a PM show up here. I just find it humorous that a lot of people that post here seem as asshatty as the PMs they post. I also laugh at those who turn to insults when someone doesn't agree with them. Oh, and would anybody take someone who brags about being a troll seriously?

 

[MizDeviant]

someone.... Doth protest too much? :eyeroll:

 

[Que]

Well, exactly. After that first post, which in itself was obnoxious, it all became really amusing. So, I wanted to share the amusement. Of course, engaging in disagreements over cyber space seems to amuse people the most. *sighs*

That's an unfortunate fact. Some raise it to an art form.

There was a poster a while back before apparently his wife caught him. He was insufferably rude. As in really mean. He had a point that some people wax a little enthusiastic in the ampics area about pictures of people that perhaps are not likely to model professionally. He would go so far as to first ridicule the fans of a thread, then to illustrate that the person wasn't "stunning" he would point out the body flaws in the brave poster. I mean the guy put the 'ass' in asshat in his posts.

I sometimes wonder if that was an alt and persona built for this thread. His user name actually had "hat" as part of it.

There was a little back and forth between him and a girl that called him out for his abrasiveness. I sent her a pm about feeding the guys ego. She ended up corresponding with the guy and falling madly for him. He may be an asshole to everyone else, but only she is a worthy princess to see his true heart of gold, don't you know.

Not to feed anyone's blatant narcissism but a poster I won't reference except in this veiled way reminds me a lot of that guy. On an unrelated thread- nice guys, I think - I had pointed out that assholes tend to get a lot of positive affirmation for their perceived confidence. I couldn't show the case in point when withing minutes of my post about that he made an unrelated post about how many enthusiastic fans he has sending him pm's I am not at surprised and am sure he is truthful about that. Life is funny.

 

[MizDeviant]

That's an unfortunate fact. Some raise it to an art form.

There was a poster a while back before apparently his wife caught him. He was insufferably rude. As in really mean. He had a point that some people wax a little enthusiastic in the ampics area about pictures of people that perhaps are not likely to model professionally. He would go so far as to first ridicule the fans of a thread, then to illustrate that the person wasn't "stunning" he would point out the body flaws in the brave poster. I mean the guy put the 'ass' in asshat in his posts.

I sometimes wonder if that was an alt and persona built for this thread. His user name actually had "hat" as part of it.

There was a little back and forth between him and a girl that called him out for his abrasiveness. I sent her a pm about feeding the guys ego. She ended up corresponding with the guy and falling madly for him. He may be an asshole to everyone else, but only she is a worthy princess to see his true heart of gold, don't you know.

Not to feed anyone's blatant narcissism but a poster I won't reference except in this veiled way reminds me a lot of that guy. On an unrelated thread- nice guys, I think - I had pointed out that assholes tend to get a lot of positive affirmation for their perceived confidence. I couldn't show the case in point when withing minutes of my post about that he made an unrelated post about how many enthusiastic fans he has sending him pm's I am not at surprised and am sure he is truthful about that. Life is funny.

*chuckles* Thanks for that heads up. Really. *crosses falling in love on Lit off of her list of things to do*

 

[MizDeviant]

*Sigh*

 

[Loverskitten]

Ehhh, sometimes it's fun to engage the asshat. It can help to point out that their question to a stranger is inappropriate. We don't do it to fish for things to post here.
An example (and I got this a while ago, wasn't planning on posting here until this latest topic)

Do u like toys?

Me: Yeah, I like Legos and board games.

Lol...You know I was talking about toys that can turn your temp up

Me: Well, yeah, I do get hot under the collar when board games are complicated or I lose a lot.

I like chess...how about spin the bottle?

Me: No, I'm not 12

Games are fun...if u look on the box many times it says it is for all ages...i like you avatar

 

[Que]

I'm not the world's most masculine man....

...but I know what I am, and what i am IS a man. (...and so is Lola.)

Since I am sure a LOT of the shotgun cut-and-paste messages that end up on this thread are sent to every name on the current users list that doesn't 'screamI'M A DUDE!...I wouldn't say all misfiled by gender PMs automaticaly qualify as asshattery.

I'm pretty sure he looked at neither my avatar or my profile picture since most women not undergoing chemotherapy do not opt for the level of aerodynamic advantage my hairstyle provides.

That said, I usually have to have a female alt to get a gem like this:

Hi sexy woman

Did you have any great sex on weekend? I gave my wife oral and as she started to become aroused I sucked her whole clit, hood and some labia into my mouth. I sucked in and out faster and faster. Soon she could not hold back and had huge orgasm. I would love to practise that on you...do you like receiving oral sex?

I sent back:

Sexy? Whoa, Man!

Yes, I LOVE receiving oral sex!

If you can fit her WHOLE clit, hood and some labia in your big mouth, I bet you can fit most of my cock into it.

Looking forward to it...

Just my luck, he'll probably like my flirty response, given that his technique sounds a little cock-hungry to me.

Edit: Nope he is straight.

Sorry dude I thought you were a female

I sent back:

Female human? Or were you just looking for any female?

I wouldn't normally notice, much less get persnickety about the use of "female" instead of "woman" but I I thought I would nit pick since I had just posted on a thread tangentially discussing that when he PM'ed me.

In hindsight I thought he had said "A female" using it as a noun, but he actually was using it as an adjective, so my bad, and sort of asshatish on my part.

Good news is while he and I were sorting gender out, he probably forgot where he was on the list of scatter-shot victims.

 

[Cumference]

...my profile picture since most women not undergoing chemotherapy do not opt for the level of aerodynamic advantage my hairstyle provides.
.......

Honestly, I had not noticed the reflections!

But looking closer, your happy smile and shining scalp is evident.

 

[GrrlFriday]

hi Friday, married male here, with bi tendencies. I am interested in rping the male member of a recently married couple as we begin to timidly share some of our more embarrassing sexual interests. Ultimately I would like to explore mmf or even group scenarios where I was submissive. I would look to chat with you first and then go to rp.

I wrote a story that touches upon related interests that you can review, though we do not need to go to the medical dimension. Take a look and let me know. I would be looking to play in a few weeks.
[story removed - about a woman going to her gynecologist, one of a handful].

Thanks.

I wrote back and said 'I'm sorry, but I'm not interested.' and suggested that he post on the BDSM Personals instead. I wish it were more acceptable to leave off the token apology.

What strikes me as somewhat unusual about this one is the formally-written TIMELINE for us to get to know each other and hop in the digital sack.

 

[drinkz]

I wrote back and said 'I'm sorry, but I'm not interested.' and suggested that he post on the BDSM Personals instead. I wish it were more acceptable to leave off the token apology.

What strikes me as somewhat unusual about this one is the formally-written TIMELINE for us to get to know each other and hop in the digital sack.

Why not just don't write back all? It's a form letter... Why suggest a personal ad? Even though you were probably trying to help, that comes off as asshatty itself.

 

[RjThoughts]

I wrote back and said 'I'm sorry, but I'm not interested.' and suggested that he post on the BDSM Personals instead. I wish it were more acceptable to leave off the token apology.

What strikes me as somewhat unusual about this one is the formally-written TIMELINE for us to get to know each other and hop in the digital sack.

OCD in the PM, quite lovely LOL

 

[GrrlFriday]

Why not just don't write back all? It's a form letter... Why suggest a personal ad? Even though you were probably trying to help, that comes off as asshatty itself.

I initially wasn't sure if it was just an awkward attempt or a form letter, and thought there might be 'follow-up', but on reflection...

 

[silverwhisper]

i vote for leaving off the token apology, myself.

ed

 

[SweetSam42]

This one made me giggle. It's taking all of my effort to not edit it for typos and punctuation:

If you are a girl who would like a little spanking, being adored, mentored by and can be obediant to your man. I'd love to talk with you. I love be inside my girl and squirt my baby juice bareback inside her

I wanted to reply to tell him get back to me when his baby juice grew up into man juice, but figured it was best not to engage.

 

[drinkz]

This one made me giggle. It's taking all of my effort to not edit it for typos and punctuation:

Maybe not a native speaker of English?

 

[vanillyicecream]

This one made me giggle. It's taking all of my effort to not edit it for typos and punctuation:




I wanted to reply to tell him get back to me when his baby juice grew up into man juice, but figured it was best not to engage.

And now, it's my turn...

If you are a girl who would like a little spanking, being adored, mentored by and can be obediant to or playful with your man. I'd love to talk with you. I love be inside my girl and squirt my babyjuice bareback inside her and give her every pleasure she can imagine.

 

[vanillyicecream]

Maybe I shouldn't have done it, but I replied with a link to my last post. I think he likes it!

mmmm
hope you giggled. it's caedbabyjuice because that's what it makes...and sorry you do want every thing you desire....

mmm

but I sti would enjoy chat ting with you...licks

 

[UCanBLeafinMe]

This one made me giggle. It's taking all of my effort to not edit it for typos and punctuation:




I wanted to reply to tell him get back to me when his baby juice grew up into man juice, but figured it was best not to engage.

I would have corrected him: It's not baby juice, but baby making juice.