Priceless

[graceanne]

We've been married a little over 13 years and together over 15.

Fury

So evidently what you're doing works.

 

[FurryFury]

So evidently what you're doing works.

IMO, we are doing better this year than ever before but we've always been pretty happy together. I feel we are communicating even better. I feel more secure. I feel we have gone deeper. Plus, I'm happier with myself now.

He thinks things are about the same except for wide open kinky sex! LOL!

Fury

 

[graceanne]

IMO, we are doing better this year than ever before but we've always been pretty happy together. I feel we are communicating even better. I feel more secure. I feel we have gone deeper. Plus, I'm happier with myself now.

He thinks things are about the same except for wide open kinky sex! LOL!

Fury

Men.

But I know what you mean. Me and K have been married for 8 years and together for 9. (We've known eachother for 12, though.) He read a few of my stories last year, and we talked about it a bit, and I feel like the air is clearer. I doubt he's thought that much about it. lol

 

[DVS]

I get a complex reading some of these posts. I feel I'm married by proxy. That ain't a good thing. What's the matter with these men? Come on, guys, use your women...tie 'em up and beat their asses...and make them do nasty things until they quiver and shake.

I feel better now.

 

[graceanne]

I get a complex reading some of these posts. I feel I'm married by proxy. That ain't a good thing. What's the matter with these men? Come on, guys, use your women...tie 'em up and beat their asses...and make them do nasty things until they quiver and shake.

I feel better now.

Sooooooooooo. . . .when you gonna do some more writing?

 

[DVS]

Sooooooooooo. . . .when you gonna do some more writing?

Did some today, as a matter of fact. Why?

 

[graceanne]

Did some today, as a matter of fact. Why?

I wanna read stories where the guys "use (their) women...tie 'em up and beat their asses...and make them do nasty things until they quiver and shake."

 

[FurryFury]

Men.

But I know what you mean. Me and K have been married for 8 years and together for 9. (We've known eachother for 12, though.) He read a few of my stories last year, and we talked about it a bit, and I feel like the air is clearer. I doubt he's thought that much about it. lol

I don't even send my writing to my husband anymore. I feel like he isn't interested. I guess the straw that broke the "camel's back" on that was when I sent him something I thought was really pretty good and hot.

He sent me back a "YUCK!"

Yeah that killed the sharing the writing thing pretty much.

The sad thing is that I was thinking about how hot I was for him before we ever got together and writing about that only projecting it into a story about two other characters.

To me I was showing him my love and passion for him. To him it was simply "gross."

*shrugs*

I would like him to come to Lit and hang but when I think of his terse comments to me and others, I wonder if I wouldn't often be pissed at him if he did.

Plus I might have to "censor" myself some if I knew he would read this and it might hurt him.

Fury

I get a complex reading some of these posts. I feel I'm married by proxy. That ain't a good thing. What's the matter with these men? Come on, guys, use your women...tie 'em up and beat their asses...and make them do nasty things until they quiver and shake.

I feel better now.

Minus the tying up, he did all that tonight. I feel sooooo much better now. *grins*

Although I still have a staggering amount of work to accomplish this weekend. *sigh* It's making me not want to do anything at all, ever have that happen?

Fury

 

[graceanne]

I don't even send my writing to my husband anymore. I feel like he isn't interested. I guess the straw that broke the "camel's back" on that was when I sent him something I thought was really pretty good and hot.

He sent me back a "YUCK!"

Yeah that killed the sharing the writing thing pretty much.

The sad thing is that I was thinking about how hot I was for him before we ever got together and writing about that only projecting it into a story about two other characters.

To me I was showing him my love and passion for him. To him it was simply "gross."

*shrugs*

I would like him to come to Lit and hang but when I think of his terse comments to me and others, I wonder if I wouldn't often be pissed at him if he did.

Plus I might have to "censor" myself some if I knew he would read this and it might hurt him.

Fury

I kinda know what you mean. K doesn't find my stories disgusting, but he's sure not interested. *sigh*

 

[FurryFury]

I kinda know what you mean. K doesn't find my stories disgusting, but he's sure not interested. *sigh*

When I first started writing role play stuff online he was shocked by it. He said it didn't sound like me. I told him it wasn't me. I was writing a character but of course there were bits of "me" in there.

Later he called something I had written delicious. I was high off of that for weeks! *smiles* I started using that word a lot because I loved the way he said it and what it meant to me to see his eyes and face while he did.

However, the "yuck" thing was hard to deal with. He never backed down about it either and only reinforced how much he hated it even saying it turned his stomach.

The one good thing he said was that it looked like something James Lee Burke might write. I'd love to write as well as James Lee Burke, he is one of top three favorite authors!

Anyway, for you consideration I will post what I sent to him. I wrote this a while back. Someone told me it was "beyond erotic," but he just said, "yuck!" So what do y'all think?

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She went to him, cuddled with him, and waited him out burning now for more than sex or love, now she needed to speak and explain. She reached out and touched one of those badges of honors a puckered bit of flesh faded now white. Then impulsively with great passion, she just kissed him as she stroked it, feeling the slightly raised flesh under her finger tips. Her mouth was hard against his, her tongue stroking into his mouth, tasting him. She moaned then pulled back. Cupping his face she looked into his eyes.

"I don't think you are a bad man. If you are? I want to be with you anyway. I can't think of turning you in now, not now. We can find another way. The two of us together can, I know it." She said then kissed that same scar and licked it before moving up to his mouth. There she licked the flames of their passion. For there it burned, on his lips and tongue, as surely as it did on her own.

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It's funny how many different views of what is "yuck" and what is erotic there are.

Fury

 

[brioche]

When I first started writing role play stuff online he was shocked by it. He said it didn't sound like me. I told him it wasn't me. I was writing a character but of course there were bits of "me" in there.

Later he called something I had written delicious. I was high off of that for weeks! *smiles* I started using that word a lot because I loved the way he said it and what it meant to me to see his eyes and face while he did.

However, the "yuck" thing was hard to deal with. He never backed down about it either and only reinforced how much he hated it even saying it turned his stomach.

The one good thing he said was that it looked like something James Lee Burke might write. I'd love to write as well as James Lee Burke, he is one of top three favorite authors!

Anyway, for you consideration I will post what I sent to him. I wrote this a while back. Someone told me it was "beyond erotic," but he just said, "yuck!" So what do y'all think?

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She went to him, cuddled with him, and waited him out burning now for more than sex or love, now she needed to speak and explain. She reached out and touched one of those badges of honors a puckered bit of flesh faded now white. Then impulsively with great passion, she just kissed him as she stroked it, feeling the slightly raised flesh under her finger tips. Her mouth was hard against his, her tongue stroking into his mouth, tasting him. She moaned then pulled back. Cupping his face she looked into his eyes.

"I don't think you are a bad man. If you are? I want to be with you anyway. I can't think of turning you in now, not now. We can find another way. The two of us together can, I know it." She said then kissed that same scar and licked it before moving up to his mouth. There she licked the flames of their passion. For there it burned, on his lips and tongue, as surely as it did on her own.

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It's funny how many different view of what is "yuck" and what is erotic there are.

Fury

I don't find that yucky at all and am wondering what he found so yucky about it.

 

[graceanne]

I don't find that yucky at all and am wondering what he found so yucky about it.

Ditto.

 

[FurryFury]

I don't find that yucky at all and am wondering what he found so yucky about it.

Ditto.

He says scars are yucky and he can expound about it for a while. "They turn his stomach to think about." He says that about things that surprise me all the time, discussions of travel, home school curriculum and anything to do with eye trauma all weird him out. I have to talk with him about the first two though. *sighs*

He and I both do have some scars.

In fact, when I wrote this I was thinking about just before we got together. He has a scar on his head. I so wanted to stroke it and touch it but I couldn't. If I did I knew I would want to do more. I would want to fuck him.

At that time, I thought one had friends and one had lovers, but not both in the same person. He had a vision of love which he shared with me that instead of that, one could be both to one another. It's been an amazing and beautiful thing in my life and his.

Still, I remember aching to touch that bit of tortured and healed flesh. I wanted to kiss and stroke it, but was too afraid of what it might lead to. I felt it was very erotic this desire. I just didn't want to see a friendship die and be turned into a competitive lover relationship.

Now of course I have done all those things and he didn't seem to mind. Scars which seem like they would be more sensitive usually have few nerve endings at all.

I personally think loving and accepting someone's scars is a powerful, romantic and erotic thing. I guess I'm drawn the them too. Each scar has a story behind it. Usually they are good stories too IMO.

Fury

 

[graceanne]

He says scars are yucky and he can expound about it for a while. "They turn his stomach to think about." He says that about things that surprise me all the time, discussions of travel, home school curriculum and anything to do with eye trauma all weird him out. I have to talk with him about the first two though. *sighs*

He and I both do have some scars.

In fact, when I wrote this I was thinking about just before we got together. He has a scar on his head. I so wanted to stroke it and touch it but I couldn't. If I did I knew I would want to do more. I would want to fuck him.

At that time, I thought one had friends and one had lovers, but not both in the same person. He had a vision of love which he shared with me that instead of that, one could be both to one another. It's been an amazing and beautiful thing in my life and his.

Still, I remember aching to touch that bit of tortured and healed flesh. I wanted to kiss and stroke it, but was too afraid of what it might lead to. I felt it was very erotic this desire. I just didn't want to see a friendship die and be turned into a competitive lover relationship.

Now of course I have done all those things and he didn't seem to mind. Scars which seem like they would be more sensitive usually have few nerve endings at all.

I personally think loving and accepting someone's scars is a powerful, romantic and erotic thing. I guess I'm drawn the them too. Each scar has a story behind it. Usually they are good stories too IMO.

Fury

That is so cool. I mean I don't eroticize scars, but the whole though process behind it and all. It's just way cool.

 

[FurryFury]

That is so cool. I mean I don't eroticize scars, but the whole though process behind it and all. It's just way cool.

*smiles*

Thank you beautiful Graceanne!

I am a sentimental and romantic fool, though it might not seem so at times.

Fury

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Nothing yucky to me... I have scars from surgery and accidents, fortunately my girl janey finds scars hot. Same for ink. *grin* Lucky me. (NOTE: if you look closely at my av pic, you will see a slight "hitch" in my left eyebrow... there's a scar there)

Eye trauma would be squicky for me too, but fortunately it is not real high up on things for me to try or on janey's list of things she wants done to her, so we'll let that one slide.

Good luck with the travel (though I don't understand how that can weird someone out.. I LOVE to travel, see new places, do new people.. I mean things.. yeah.. do new things!)...

 

[FurryFury]

Nothing yucky to me... I have scars from surgery and accidents, fortunately my girl janey finds scars hot. Same for ink. *grin* Lucky me. (NOTE: if you look closely at my av pic, you will see a slight "hitch" in my left eyebrow... there's a scar there)

Eye trauma would be squicky for me too, but fortunately it is not real high up on things for me to try or on janey's list of things she wants done to her, so we'll let that one slide.

Good luck with the travel (though I don't understand how that can weird someone out.. I LOVE to travel, see new places, do new people.. I mean things.. yeah.. do new things!)...

Eye trauma as in "My Grandmother has to get cataract surgery on Tuesday," or seeing me curl my eyelashes, put on eye liner will totally freak him out.

I'm not sure why he has the travel plans problem. I do most of the planning but I feel it's only respectful and required in a partnership to consult with him about the plans a bit. Could be he hates the idea of spending the money. He is always thinking everything is going to cost so much more than it does.

I remember the first time we went to Disney, he expected it to cost $1500.00 more than it did. I'm too good and frugal for that but when he found out it wasn't costing that much we bought me earrings for that amount. I was touched and pissed off. I'd have rather taken another trip! LOL!

I am currently along with everything else I'm doing trying to decide on our travel plans for the year. That includes at least two adult nights away from the kids in Feb and May. Two family trips in Aug and Sept. Some overnight field trips before the end of the year and one business trip to a story telling festival.

Honestly the possibilities are hurting my lil head and I could use his thoughts but anyway, such it the price we pay for domestic "bliss." *chuckles*

*psst*

Cool scar! *smiles* I rather like what I can barely see of it!

Fury

 

[graceanne]

Nothing yucky to me... I have scars from surgery and accidents, fortunately my girl janey finds scars hot. Same for ink. *grin* Lucky me. (NOTE: if you look closely at my av pic, you will see a slight "hitch" in my left eyebrow... there's a scar there)

Eye trauma would be squicky for me too, but fortunately it is not real high up on things for me to try or on janey's list of things she wants done to her, so we'll let that one slide.

Good luck with the travel (though I don't understand how that can weird someone out.. I LOVE to travel, see new places, do new people.. I mean things.. yeah.. do new things!)...

I'd noticed it, but figured both of your eyebrows were like that.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I'd noticed it, but figured both of your eyebrows were like that.

Actually they (the eyebrows) are similarly scarred, but somewhat different. The left eyebrow scar is the result of a nose dive into the corner of a coffee table around age 2.

The right eyebrow scar is the result of having a skin cancer removed around age 42, and required some reconstructive surgery that turned out very well.

There's another scar on the right side of my forehead, near the hairline from another skin cancer surgery. No other major scars though, a few cuts, a dog bite, a nail in the arm another in the foot... The usual sorts of traumas that life dishes out now and then.

 

[FurryFury]

I have some chicken pox scars above my left eyebrow but most can't see them.

When I was very little, I had mumps on one side and chicken pox at the same time. My 'rents tell me that they were sick too and literally having trouble getting up.

Meanwhile I was running through the small married student housing unit making a trail of cereal and singing.

Until I felt like I had to scratch. Mom said she tied socks on my hands to keep me from scratching but I crawled under the bed where she couldn't reach me, got the socks off and went for it. Thus the small little pox scars.

Just one of many scars I could tell stories about. Scars are great and fertile ground for stories.

Fury

 

[graceanne]

I have very light, almost unnoticeable, scars from two different dog bites on my face. I got bit when I was 2 (don't remember that), and again when I was 5. Different sides of the face.

My biggest scar would obviously be my cesarian scar. I've had three of them, and the scar gets bigger with each.

 

[FurryFury]

I have very light, almost unnoticeable, scars from two different dog bites on my face. I got bit when I was 2 (don't remember that), and again when I was 5. Different sides of the face.

My biggest scar would obviously be my cesarian scar. I've had three of them, and the scar gets bigger with each.

I have a C too. We should start a "Scar Stories" thread!

Fury

 

[Kajira Callista]

I have a C too. We should start a "Scar Stories" thread!

Fury

i like my scars, i like how i got them, but you all would prolly be squicked from my tales lol

 

[FurryFury]

i like my scars, i like how i got them, but you all would prolly be squicked from my tales lol

I love "Squicky Tales!"

*smiles*

Of course they rarely squick me, make me drip maybe or go look for Mr. Goodvibe.

Fury

 

[Kajira Callista]

I love "Squicky Tales!"

*smiles*

Of course they rarely squick me, make me drip maybe or go look for Mr. Goodvibe.

Fury

As much as i would love to, i cant tell the stories behind the scars here as they came about in very unSSC ways. i wouldnt want to offend anyone.