Reflections of a straight guy who recently bottomed

[Escierto]

Yep, Tranny takes care of the problem.

I almost missed this post. What do you mean?

 

[Trainer550]

Well my wife heard about it last night and you bet on the friends!

 

[Jenna2641]

Well my wife heard about it last night and you bet on the friends!

Sounds like the swinging life is going to take a new & exciting turn! Enjoy!

 

[jabberwockyjon]

I have spent the past few weeks coming to grips with things. My wife and the guys have had a meeting of the minds and determined that it would be ok for the guys a few times each week to come by in groups no larger than 3. I was asked to go along with it which I have. Generally I am doing ok. The soreness is manageable and emotionally i am adjusting more to it as well. My thought process is just that its ok to let others feel good doing this.

Seems like a strange setup for her to set up you being shared this way, but if it works for you then that's all that matters.

3 guys a few times a week sounds pretty exciting to me.

 

[SheDrivesMeCrazy]

Imagine your butt hole is your mouth and you're giving him a sensual blowjob. Slowly snake your hips and do circles with your ass while he's balls deep inside you. Turn your head right round, kiss him on the lips and say "give it to me darling", then brace yourself for him to pound you with all his might before filling you up with his cum.

 

[Jenna2641]

Imagine your butt hole is your mouth and you're giving him a sensual blowjob. Slowly snake your hips and do circles with your ass while he's balls deep inside you. Turn your head right round, kiss him on the lips and say "give it to me darling", then brace yourself for him to pound you with all his might before filling you up with his cum.

That sounds like a wonderful way to encourage a cock to give a good fucking!

 

[Trainer550]

Trouble

I think I am in trouble lol. Now i keep fantasizing about taking it in again. I was in a situation tonight where there were alot of guys and I kept looking for a cock that was the right size lol. I better chill

 

[Jenna2641]

I think I am in trouble lol. Now i keep fantasizing about taking it in again. I was in a situation tonight where there were alot of guys and I kept looking for a cock that was the right size lol. I better chill

Control, control, you must learn control.

 

[billrhb]

I have spent the past few weeks coming to grips with things. My wife and the guys have had a meeting of the minds and determined that it would be ok for the guys a few times each week to come by in groups no larger than 3. I was asked to go along with it which I have. Generally I am doing ok. The soreness is manageable and emotionally i am adjusting more to it as well. My thought process is just that its ok to let others feel good doing this.

It seems like you're being set up as a cuckold. Your wife meets with the gay guys without your knowledge and she said a few guys a week can come by and play with you. I don't know, maybe she's whoring you out or making money off your ass. If she starts driving a new fine car I'd ask for a cut of what shes getting.

 

[Jerseyshore]

Good Morning - I am brand new to this board/site. I am really enjoying it.

My wife and I are swingers (and we are both Bi). Like other posts above I am not really emotionally attracted to guys but I LOVE sex with guys. Its just different. I love giving and receiving oral and I love to to top as well. When we are with other couples we all just intermix and we all get turned on by the visual of it.

I have always wanted to try bottoming but honestly was pretty scared. There has been NOTHING up there and even putting a finger up there hurt and I just couldnt get used to it. That all changed last night

I went to a local bathhouse that I go to when I just want guy fun. I was watching some porn in one of the rooms with two other guys and we got into a discussion of me wanting to try bottoming. They were giving me advice on how to ease into it. I was super horny and decided I wanted to try it then and there. One of the guys was bigger and I decided no way, but the other guy was long but did not have much girth and I thought if im gonna try this, thats about the right size. I asked him onene if he wanted to go back to my room and be my first and he said he would love to.

We went back and he was PERFECT. He went super slow and just got me used to it with just the head in. I was bent over the bed and he was going in from behind. He started going in all the way and I could feel EVERYTHING but amazingly it did not hurt. The sensation was amazing. We did it like 10 min then I went in him, and then he did me again. He did not cum (I did not want that) but I can imagine that sensation must be fantastic.

The verdict? I want more LOL. I cant wait to do it again. I think I want both from now on

Good for you! I am pleased to see you were openminded enough to try anal sex. Like you, I was surprised when my fist time didn't hurt. The man was quite patient and experienced with young men having their first experience. I t hasn't always been that good over the years, but when it is, it is like nothing else. Feeling him slowly slide into me is my favorite pleasure with a man. Being submissive, I love being taken down by a man that knows his business.
After 40+ years, it's still my favorite experience.

 

[28straightguy]

It seems like you're being set up as a cuckold. Your wife meets with the gay guys without your knowledge and she said a few guys a week can come by and play with you. I don't know, maybe she's whoring you out or making money off your ass. If she starts driving a new fine car I'd ask for a cut of what shes getting.

I dont see it as a cuckold situation. My wife and I still have sex. I feel its more along the lines of these guys need an outlet for their sexual needs now and it has just focused on me. They used to get their needs met by attending the swingers parties but not many of them are going on now.

 

[Trainer550]

Good for you! I am pleased to see you were openminded enough to try anal sex. Like you, I was surprised when my fist time didn't hurt. The man was quite patient and experienced with young men having their first experience. I t hasn't always been that good over the years, but when it is, it is like nothing else. Feeling him slowly slide into me is my favorite pleasure with a man. Being submissive, I love being taken down by a man that knows his business.
After 40+ years, it's still my favorite experience.

Thanks Jersey - Yeah, it was good. Not fantastic (yet) but certainly has potential. Of course the physical part is so different but what I think turned me on is the mental part - that I was letting this happen to me and envisioning all the things that I do when I top, to me. That's exciting.

OK - So other than finding guys that are not too big, how do you best manage them doing it the right way. Obviously communication (alot) and lube lol, but Im mainly talking about the heat of the moment when I tell a guy all the things (go slow, etc) but Im terrified of it just getting rammed in there (and damage).

 

[jabberwockyjon]

I dont see it as a cuckold situation. My wife and I still have sex. I feel its more along the lines of these guys need an outlet for their sexual needs now and it has just focused on me. They used to get their needs met by attending the swingers parties but not many of them are going on now.

Some people are just overly critical. I think it's good that she limited numbers, though I'd have been pretty happy with up to 4 at a time. lol
So you don't think this is a long term thing, just until things settle down? Have you considered a repeat of the 6 but on your terms, i.e. not being tied up? Is this like 3 times a week? That's hot.

 

[Tinyharold46]

I almost missed this post. What do you mean?

A tranny has breasts, a cock, a mouth, and an asshole; what more do you need.

 

[Escierto]

A tranny has breasts, a cock, a mouth, and an asshole; what more do you need.

A mind and a personality as well. The best parts!

 

[Tinyharold46]

A mind and a personality as well. The best parts!

I agree.

 

[wallio]

feel the same, glad im not alone

Be sure to give it a few more tries, You may realize it is what you need. Or perhaps being a bottom is more for men who don't feel so manly and enjoy having sex without having to keep a hard on and make sure they cause others to find pleasure before cumming and wilting. I enjoy not having to be hard and virile but knowing my holes can be used over and over to bring others satisfaction. Ever notice a woman can lay there and enjoy while you work to perform.

this is hot

 

[shark968]

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[LauraWilling]

Hmm, Am I missing something here or has straightguy's thread been hijacked? Maybe it is considered okay by some, but this thread was very instructive I feel until it was taken over by others. Just sayin' (as the new slang goes.)

 

[luvemboth]

Hmm, Am I missing something here or has straightguy's thread been hijacked? Maybe it is considered okay by some, but this thread was very instructive I feel until it was taken over by others. Just sayin' (as the new slang goes.)

Agreed. That seems to happen often.

 

[txfuncouple]

I have spent the past few weeks coming to grips with things. My wife and the guys have had a meeting of the minds and determined that it would be ok for the guys a few times each week to come by in groups no larger than 3. I was asked to go along with it which I have. Generally I am doing ok. The soreness is manageable and emotionally i am adjusting more to it as well. My thought process is just that its ok to let others feel good doing this.

There’s really not many people on this forum that wouldn’t love to be in your position. Thoughts of my wife setting up get togethers to have me suck and fuck cocks for her while we’re still having our great normal sex lives are things only imagined or stories told on lit.

Truth is, if it works for you and your parter, and you’re both enjoying it (which it seems you are), then have fun while the rest of us sit around and stroke our own cocks, jealous we’re not getting to do the same.

Personally, you’re always welcome to pm or share your new experiences without judgement. I check back here to see your comments and enjoy your updates. Find it very hot you’re getting to do this. I wish we had some friends like yours that I had the same opportunity to play with.

And if you ever want to turn your experiences into written stories, let me know. Would be happy to take a shot at writing them for you if you don't want to.

 

[LauraWilling]

Straightguy, are they using you just anally or is oral also part of it? The amount of visits you have you might want to give your bottomg a rest at times. Not only for your comfort but also healthwise.
Sucking them off can give your other end a break and still get them off withough much physical discomfort. Your jaw muslces get used to it faster. At least it has with me when I first started giving oral.
Just a thought.

 

[metrodetroitchris1]

Hello

I dont see it as a cuckold situation. My wife and I still have sex. I feel its more along the lines of these guys need an outlet for their sexual needs now and it has just focused on me. They used to get their needs met by attending the swingers parties but not many of them are going on now.

I think that I have a very accurate understanding of your mindset. I am a straight man as well, 32 years old. Though I have never had anal sex, for me personally I have this secret submissive desire of being the reason that an older man is turned on or feeling pleasure. I enjoying being of service to them I suppose. I feel absolutely sexual, emotional or romantic attraction to them, only woman.

I feel like you might be similar in that mindset of having this subconscious submissive desire to serve or please despite this not necessarily being what your attracted to. This could explain your willingness to serve as these men’s bottom, feeling obligated to serve their needs despite this not necessarily being what YOU physically want.

 

[28straightguy]

I think that I have a very accurate understanding of your mindset. I am a straight man as well, 32 years old. Though I have never had anal sex, for me personally I have this secret submissive desire of being the reason that an older man is turned on or feeling pleasure. I enjoying being of service to them I suppose. I feel absolutely sexual, emotional or romantic attraction to them, only woman.

I feel like you might be similar in that mindset of having this subconscious submissive desire to serve or please despite this not necessarily being what your attracted to. This could explain your willingness to serve as these men’s bottom, feeling obligated to serve their needs despite this not necessarily being what YOU physically want.

Thats a good summation of it. I have been under some pressure to continue to bottom in a smaller group setting now.

 

[txfuncouple]

Thats a good summation of it. I have been under some pressure to continue to bottom in a smaller group setting now.

Always love to hear more here or in a pm. Sounds like you’ve got an ideal situation to explore any desires you have. Sounds exciting and jealous of your arrangement.