CarolineOh said:
Well, I hope Christa will report in and give me my grades, but I can say I had a good time.
We went out to dinner and then went to visit a male sub playmate of hers.
She had him get naked and serve us drinks while we sat on the couch and chatted and pretended to ignore him for a while. After a bit she had him give us both foot massages.
Then we tied him to a chair and she gave me a lesson in some CBT techniques, which were fun, but a little bit scary. I was constantly afraid that we would do some terrible damage to him, but she knew what she was doing, and everything was all right.
After that we tied him face down on his bed and flogged him. I like swinging a flogger, I liked the way I could make him respond to it. All in all though, I kept thinking I wished I could spent a little time on the other end of it.
When we finished flogging him, we all sat around and had a drink and relaxed a while. We were about to go home when Christa decided that he hadn't been respectful enough to me, and that I should spank him over my knee before we leave.
So I did, and I really enjoyed that. And he did too, a little too much, and he made a bit of a mess on my skirt, for which Christa then gave him several hard strokes with a big strap.
It was fun, and I am eager to play as a Domme again, but I recognize that that is exactly what it was- playing as a Domme. I can do it, and have great fun with it, but it does not fulfill me the way submission does. Still, fun is a good thing too.
hmmm, what have i gotten myself into?? if you would notice, please, MzChrista.. i changed my av, so that i'm not giving you that look anymore...MzChrista said:
Ill keep that in mind myself
