Sensory Deprivation & BDSM

[Ebonyfire]

How did I get left out?

I caught you on the back drop, sorry Richard.

Or did you want a spanking? <sly smile>

Eb

 

[Richard49]

Re: Re: Talk to me

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Ebony

my grammar has not been around for years

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Re: Talk to me

my grammar has not been around for years

But did I answer your question?

Eb

 

[SexyChele]

Of course. Is he a co-spankee or a co-spanker?

Eb

I think co-spankee would work well for him, don't ya think, Ma'am?

 

[Ebonyfire]

I think co-spankee would work well for him, don't ya think, Ma'am?

I think so. A little birdy told me he likes to be spanked.

Eb

 

[Richard49]

I caught you on the back drop, sorry Richard.

Or did you want a spanking? <sly smile>

Eb

me?
want a spanking?

I do not think so ..... !!!!!!!

 

[P. B. Walker]

Is that a promise? And can I take PBW along as well?

LOL... dragging me into a spanking are ya? Mmmm... I suppose I could handle a spanking... as long as I was being uhmm 'entertained' in other ways at the same time... if ya know what I mean

PBW "I feel naughty now..."

 

[P. B. Walker]

I think so. A little birdy told me he likes to be spanked.

Eb

I'm firing that little bird! LOL. I said "wanking" not "spanking" LMAO.

PBW "Mmmm lube those hands up and start stroking"

 

[SexyChele]

LOL... dragging me into a spanking are ya? Mmmm... I suppose I could handle a spanking... as long as I was being uhmm 'entertained' in other ways at the same time... if ya know what I mean

PBW "I feel naughty now..."

I think that would be Eb's call. But I certainly don't mind - you know, my submissive side and all.

 

[P. B. Walker]

I think that would be Eb's call. But I certainly don't mind - you know, my submissive side and all.

Oh I'm very sure you could entertain me in some very lovely ways <winks>

PBW

 

[zipman]

My thoughts

I do enjoy sensory deprivation (although I think I now prefer Ishmael's term of sensory focusing as it is quite accurate) and have experimented with it to varying degrees.

I have bound and blindfolded many subs. This is the most common way I have used it. I have also, on occasion, used earplugs with a sub in addition to binding and blindfolds.

What I get out of it is a much greater sense of control, which is one of the biggest draws for me with BDSM. Having a sub laying there, senses heightened, yearning for any stimulation gives me a surge of power that is most pleasurable. That feeling of complete control is one half of the equation.

The other half is watching what it does to my sub. It is so erotic to watch them aching to be touched, straining to feel anything, and knowing that whether or not they will is up to me. I also alternate soft and hard, fast and slow, hot and cold, smooth and rough sensations. I use a variety of different objects just to create the different sensations. You can keep a sub completely guessing which is going to be next, a smack with a crop, or a caress with a fur glove. I have seen subs jump, as if in pain, from the fur glove just because they were expecting the crop.

I do not like gags, as I prefer forbidding a sub to make a sound. this increases the sexual tension in the sub as it is easier to scream into a gag than it is to stop yourself from making a sound based only on your will.

All in all, it can be very exciting.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: My thoughts

I do enjoy sensory deprivation (although I think I now prefer Ishmael's term of sensory focusing as it is quite accurate) and have experimented with it to varying degrees.

I have bound and blindfolded many subs. This is the most common way I have used it. I have also, on occasion, used earplugs with a sub in addition to binding and blindfolds.

What I get out of it is a much greater sense of control, which is one of the biggest draws for me with BDSM. Having a sub laying there, senses heightened, yearning for any stimulation gives me a surge of power that is most pleasurable. That feeling of complete control is one half of the equation.

The other half is watching what it does to my sub. It is so erotic to watch them aching to be touched, straining to feel anything, and knowing that whether or not they will is up to me. I also alternate soft and hard, fast and slow, hot and cold, smooth and rough sensations. I use a variety of different objects just to create the different sensations. You can keep a sub completely guessing which is going to be next, a smack with a crop, or a caress with a fur glove. I have seen subs jump, as if in pain, from the fur glove just because they were expecting the crop.

I do not like gags, as I prefer forbidding a sub to make a sound. this increases the sexual tension in the sub as it is easier to scream into a gag than it is to stop yourself from making a sound based only on your will.

All in all, it can be very exciting.

I love the ear plug idea. Will have to try that one very soon.

And again, I do so love your posts Zip...... thank you.

 

[zipman]

Re: Re: My thoughts

I love the ear plug idea. Will have to try that one very soon.

And again, I do so love your posts Zip...... thank you.

Thank you Rose. And coincidentally, one of the other items that I use during Sensory Deprivation play is.....................a rose!

The petals are soft and silky, the delightful smell instantly brings pleasure and a smile to the sub, and the thorns can be..****!

 

[artful]

Re: My thoughts

Having a sub laying there, senses heightened, yearning for any stimulation gives me a surge of power that is most pleasurable. That feeling of complete control is one half of the equation.

The other half is watching what it does to my sub. It is so erotic to watch them aching to be touched, straining to feel anything, and knowing that whether or not they will is up to me .

You can keep a sub completely guessing which is going to be next, a smack with a crop, or a caress with a fur glove. I have seen subs jump, as if in pain, from the fur glove just because they were expecting the crop.

I do not like gags, as I prefer forbidding a sub to make a sound. this increases the sexual tension in the sub as it is easier to scream into a gag than it is to stop yourself from making a sound based only on your will.

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I agree with your techniques also Zip,...as for the rose,...I prefer a peacock feather, with the subs favorite scent subtly applied. It is so much easier for me to manipulate, and the butt end scratches extremely well also.

Hell yes, when applied at the proper moment, her reaction will be extraordinary.

 

[Ebonyfire]

me?
want a spanking?

I do not think so ..... !!!!!!!

I had to mess with ya!

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

I think that would be Eb's call. But I certainly don't mind - you know, my submissive side and all.

chele, I bet PBW is like most men, wankers! Let's lube him up and see how long he lasts!

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

Teasing & Tickling

I use a lot of different feathers and I fid that teasing and tickling is more intense when the senses are dimmed, dulled, or minimized.

Eb

 

[Richard49]

I had to mess with ya!

Eb

lets mess with each other

 

[Ebonyfire]

lets mess with each other

Two dominants? No way!

Eb

 

[DRxBlue]

I am no expert at this, but I love using sensory deprivation on my subs. You have to be careful, cause prolonged sensory deprivation causes all kinds of problems. I will dig up the websites later on and post them if I can.

I like to tie my sub spreadeagled to the bed, and blindfold & gag him. Then I get the boom box and put earphones on his ears, that plays music I have chosen just for the occasion.

I sit and watch him, sometimes for a minute, sometimes for ten minutes.

I then use all kinds of sensations. My pinwheel, feather dusters. floggers, those rough gloves that you can use in the bath, a loofah, a back scratcher, my rider's crop, etc.

I vary it pain with tickling (he is very ticklish). I often use CBT also. I use my hands, too. Anything I can find to give a sensation I use. Ice, etc.

I alternate fast and slow; hard and soft.


Just watching his reactions are so erotic. Sometimes you can see the hair on his body stand on end.

Anyone else care to share their experiences and/or fantasies using sensory deprivation?

Ebony

WOW!...i LOVE the way your mind works! When i heard "sensory deprivation" i was thinking floating in 97 degree salt water, like the John Lilly experiments.

Your system takes off where that stuff starts! Once again, i'm in awe.

Blue

 

[A Desert Rose]

A glass half full kinda guy

Good thread.

I find sensory deprivation to be an extraordinarally useful tool. However I look at it from a different perspective. I refer to it as sensory focusing.

By diluting or depriving one or more senses you are focusing the bottoms remaining senses. By using selective deprivation, one can stimulate other senses to a heightened state.

As pointed out, there may be very real physical or psychologiocal reasons that this technique not be employed. But barring any of these reasons it is a great way to 'train' all of the senses to a higher state of awareness. One at a time.

Ishmael

I do love your way of thinking. It does take time to train those senses to a more heightened state.

Zip mentioned ear plugs and I think sometime I would like to try that but I also would love to hear the sound of my Dom's voice and even hearing him breathe is wonderful.

I am also more tactile than visual. Being touched with things and hands and fingers, especially when I am blindfolded is especially sweet.

 

[cellis]

Himself likes to use blindfolds alot.

I find from my perspective that it heightens my hearing. It tends to create a little anxiety at times when I am wondering what he is doing. I try to make out the sounds of what he is getting out of the toy box... I like the surprise.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Himself likes to use blindfolds alot.

I find from my perspective that it heightens my hearing. It tends to create a little anxiety at times when I am wondering what he is doing. I try to make out the sounds of what he is getting out of the toy box... I like the surprise.

What would happen if you couldn't hear too?

Eb

 

[cellis]

What would happen if you couldn't hear too?

Eb

I don't know... but because He is in the construction field He has these industrial ear covers that cover the entire ear. We have discussed using them... we just have not as yet...

It is something that I am looking forward to in the future. I like the bound, blindfolded sensations.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I don't know... but because He is in the construction field He has these industrial ear covers that cover the entire ear. We have discussed using them... we just have not as yet...

It is something that I am looking forward to in the future. I like the bound, blindfolded sensations.

Maybe you will share the information after you try it.

Eb