Straight guys who like gay sex

[ZacharyFagg]

That might have been part of the reason, but in those days nobody wanted anything to do with a cocksucker.

Oh yeah they did. They just didn't talk about it.
There's always been men, who go to places, where they know they can find someone who will get them off.
Every femme who will give no recip blowjobs knows this. Because we've all been with guys like this.
Being gay means you're attracted to men. These guys aren't looking for hairy, masculine guys for mutual fun.
They are looking for someone smooth and feminine, who will get them off. They absolutely will not return the favor.
Getting a blowjob does not make someone gay.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Just the other day I had some bro come by, and fuck me while I was wearing a school girl outfit, and my own cock was caged. He wanted me as passable as I could possibly get. He didn't touch my dick. He didn't want any part of it.
He was just using me to cum, which is perfectly fine.
He's not gay or bi, he was horny. And, sissy fags like me are far easier than a female. He knew he could just stop by my room, use me, then leave. We barley even talked.
This has been going on forever. Guys who do this aren't attracted to men.

 

[Bill_Doubleu]

You couldn't be more spot on. Discriminative intelligence and critical thinking are sparse in these here parts. Enlightened perspectives haven't been the bulwarks of a history of men addicted to ejaculation. Have you studied the works of Korzybski? He nailed the premise of abstract thought and how it has kind of 'booby-trap' that interferes with rational thought and behavior. Thank you so much for your post... it turns me on...

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

I think I fit that category.

 

[J1biboi]

Oh yeah they did. They just didn't talk about it.
There's always been men, who go to places, where they know they can find someone who will get them off.
Every femme who will give no recip blowjobs knows this. Because we've all been with guys like this.
Being gay means you're attracted to men. These guys aren't looking for hairy, masculine guys for mutual fun.
They are looking for someone smooth and feminine, who will get them off. They absolutely will not return the favor.
Getting a blowjob does not make someone gay.

I'm sure there were men who would be glad to get their cock sucked, but I was referring to the guys that I paled around with. Even if they were open to getting their cock sucked by another guy, they would never admit it to anyone they knew.

 

[Sirecho]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

You explained my role exactly. Seems one involves as emotion and the other is just enjoyment and sex without the emotions. I understand you perfectly.

 

[docisin]

Our society, over the past millennia, have instituted labels on mostly everything, and sexuality and sexual preference is no different. Add to that the insane sexual mores that parents put on kids when growing up, plus the potential shame and embarrassment when a certain preference is exhibited, especially in the “formative” years. Just think back to high school or before, and you’re in the lunch room and some creep/bully sees you eating some food they think is gross. They’ll shame you, ridicule you until you’ll never bring that shit up again. My sexuality and sexual preference has always been fluid, and any constraints I feel are societal ones, which, obviously can be HUGELY intimidating. What if there were NO constraints or judgements about anything? I prefer pizza today, instead of a sandwich? Who gives a shit? I prefer to wear my jeans today instead of black slacks? It’s these really really deep messages from parents and society at large that cause these conflicts. Who gives a shit? Do what you’d like….

 

[SmokingFap]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

I think your definitions are just fucked up, as well as your self-image. If you enjoy sex with both men and women, you are, at least, bisexual. Period.

P.S. You posted this thread on the LGBTQIA+ board. That should have been a clue.

 

[HRD959]

Ever since I met Up with a guy and blew him in his hotel room when I was 23, I’ve known. I may Primarily date women, but I’m not straight. At least I’ll never been completely straight

 

[SmokingFap]

When I’m away from my wife, I’m a sissy bottom

So you're bisexual, right?

 

[SmokingFap]

Our society, over the past millennia, have instituted labels on mostly everything, and sexuality and sexual preference is no different. Add to that the insane sexual mores that parents put on kids when growing up, plus the potential shame and embarrassment when a certain preference is exhibited, especially in the “formative” years. Just think back to high school or before, and you’re in the lunch room and some creep/bully sees you eating some food they think is gross. They’ll shame you, ridicule you until you’ll never bring that shit up again. My sexuality and sexual preference has always been fluid, and any constraints I feel are societal ones, which, obviously can be HUGELY intimidating. What if there were NO constraints or judgements about anything? I prefer pizza today, instead of a sandwich? Who gives a shit? I prefer to wear my jeans today instead of black slacks? It’s these really really deep messages from parents and society at large that cause these conflicts. Who gives a shit? Do what you’d like….

I'd agree with the "do what you like" part. But you can't have a sandwich one day and pizza the next, then claim that you are definitely not a sandwich guy.

 

[SmokingFap]

Just the other day I had some bro come by, and fuck me while I was wearing a school girl outfit, and my own cock was caged. He wanted me as passable as I could possibly get. He didn't touch my dick. He didn't want any part of it.
He was just using me to cum, which is perfectly fine.
He's not gay or bi, he was horny. And, sissy fags like me are far easier than a female. He knew he could just stop by my room, use me, then leave. We barley even talked.
This has been going on forever. Guys who do this aren't attracted to men.

So are you claiming that you're not bisexual, or that he isn't? I mean, you'd be wrong in both cases, but...

 

[docisin]

I'd agree with the "do what you like" part. But you can't have a sandwich one day and pizza the next, then claim that you are definitely not a sandwich guy.

but that’s my entire point. Why even claim anything? I had a sandwich yesterday. I’ll have one tomorrow too. And I will ENJOY it. End of story.

 

[docisin]

So are you claiming that you're not bisexual, or that he isn't? I mean, you'd be wrong in both cases, but...

So, SmokingFap, you’re 100% illustrating the entire message of my post. And brilliantly so. “you’d be wrong in both cases.”. I realize things like wit, sarcasm and irony aren’t translatable through typing unless one puts a after it to be clear. So, I’ll take you at your word. Why put this classification and judgement on it?

 

[docisin]

@SmokingFap: never mind; I just read your other posts, and you seem to be oriented toward the categorization of things; right/wrong/good/bad/str8/bi/gay. Whatev. Each to his/her own. All the best to you….

 

[cruiser_2015]

I'm straight and married to a woman. There were times in my life when I was lonely and sexually frustrated, without a girl. In those times I got together with other boys, and later with an older man, for nude sex play and mutual masturbation. I enjoyed it and it was a welcome release from my frustration.

 

[SmokingFap]

but that’s my entire point. Why even claim anything? I had a sandwich yesterday. I’ll have one tomorrow too. And I will ENJOY it. End of story.

Just admit that you enjoy both sandwiches and pizza. End of story.

 

[SmokingFap]

you seem to be oriented toward the categorization of things; right/wrong/good/bad/str8/bi/gay.

Categories make communication, learning, and understanding possible. You just named several categories, so you must be "oriented" towards them, as well.

Have a good day.

 

[Fudbuck57]

Lucky you. I have a vanilla wife and I get zero kink from her. We still fuck twice a week but only missionary and nothing else.

I want more but I don’t want to hurt her. I feel incomplete by not experiencing more of my bi side.

Too bad for me right as I realize that I have it better than many.

Thanks for letting me vent

I am in the same boat without the sex twice a week grab an oar

 

[SmokingFap]

So, SmokingFap, you’re 100% illustrating the entire message of my post. And brilliantly so. “you’d be wrong in both cases.”. I realize things like wit, sarcasm and irony aren’t translatable through typing unless one puts a after it to be clear. So, I’ll take you at your word. Why put this classification and judgement on it?

(sigh) I knew I should never have even responded to that post. What good would it do? For me, for the OP, or for anyone else? But as in the real world, some people here on Lit really irritate me. Also as in the real world, I normally bite my tongue in here. However there are some times when I just can't let my irritation go. I do occasionally ask the mother in Walmart with the child screaming at the top of its lungs for 20 minutes straight to please calm him down. Not always, not even usually. But sometimes I just can't take it, and I know most others around me appreciate my effort. Although some will think I was rude for asking her to control her demon spawn.

And the original post in this thread is the lazy and delinquent mother that I just can't politely ignore anymore. I think this thread is based on a bad faith post. I think the OP just wanted to stir the pot for attention that he (allegedly) craves, or he is seeking validation for the Simone Biles-level mental gymnastics that he is performing to reconcile his actions with his self-image.

Both motivations chap my ass.

And I don't know who in their right mind would come on an LGBTQIA+ board and expect all of the gay men and lesbian women, the admitted bisexuals, the trans people, the questioning or queer, the asexual and intersexuals, or the pluses, to read that long-winded, self-absorbed, delusional post and expect everyone to go, "Oh, hell yeah, dude, you are totally NOT bisexual or gay in any way."

So I called him out on it. I'll get off my soapbox now. Have a good day.

 

[Biguy934]

Just the other day I had some bro come by, and fuck me while I was wearing a school girl outfit, and my own cock was caged. He wanted me as passable as I could possibly get. He didn't touch my dick. He didn't want any part of it.
He was just using me to cum, which is perfectly fine.
He's not gay or bi, he was horny. And, sissy fags like me are far easier than a female. He knew he could just stop by my room, use me, then leave. We barley even talked.
This has been going on forever. Guys who do this aren't attracted to men.

I would love to stop by but i want to play more than hump and jump

 

[SmokingFap]

(sigh) I knew I should never have even responded to that post. What good would it do? For me, for the OP, or for anyone else? But as in the real world, some people here on Lit really irritate me. Also as in the real world, I normally bite my tongue in here. However there are some times when I just can't let my irritation go. I do occasionally ask the mother in Walmart with the child screaming at the top of its lungs for 20 minutes straight to please calm him down. Not always, not even usually. But sometimes I just can't take it, and I know most others around me appreciate my effort. Although some will think I was rude for asking her to control her demon spawn.

And the original post in this thread is the lazy and delinquent mother that I just can't politely ignore anymore. I think this thread is based on a bad faith post. I think the OP just wanted to stir the pot for attention that he (allegedly) craves, or he is seeking validation for the Simone Biles-level mental gymnastics that he is performing to reconcile his actions with his self-image.

Both motivations chap my ass.

And I don't know who in their right mind would come on an LGBTQIA+ board and expect all of the gay men and lesbian women, the admitted bisexuals, the trans people, the questioning or queer, the asexual and intersexuals, or the pluses, to read that long-winded, self-absorbed, delusional post and expect everyone to go, "Oh, hell yeah, dude, you are totally NOT bisexual or gay in any way."

So I called him out on it. I'll get off my soapbox now. Have a good day.

And yes, I realize that was a long-winded, self-absorbed post. At least I'm honest with myself about it.

 

[DickandDoof]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

If you think that “sex with another man…feels like masturbation” then you’re not doing it right”.

 

[Escierto]

(sigh) I knew I should never have even responded to that post. What good would it do? For me, for the OP, or for anyone else? But as in the real world, some people here on Lit really irritate me. Also as in the real world, I normally bite my tongue in here. However there are some times when I just can't let my irritation go. I do occasionally ask the mother in Walmart with the child screaming at the top of its lungs for 20 minutes straight to please calm him down. Not always, not even usually. But sometimes I just can't take it, and I know most others around me appreciate my effort. Although some will think I was rude for asking her to control her demon spawn.

And the original post in this thread is the lazy and delinquent mother that I just can't politely ignore anymore. I think this thread is based on a bad faith post. I think the OP just wanted to stir the pot for attention that he (allegedly) craves, or he is seeking validation for the Simone Biles-level mental gymnastics that he is performing to reconcile his actions with his self-image.

Both motivations chap my ass.

And I don't know who in their right mind would come on an LGBTQIA+ board and expect all of the gay men and lesbian women, the admitted bisexuals, the trans people, the questioning or queer, the asexual and intersexuals, or the pluses, to read that long-winded, self-absorbed, delusional post and expect everyone to go, "Oh, hell yeah, dude, you are totally NOT bisexual or gay in any way."

So I called him out on it. I'll get off my soapbox now. Have a good day.

Don't worry about it. I think you are absolutely right about this thread.

 

[SmokingFap]

Don't worry about. I think you are absolutely right about this thread.

Thanks, Esci.