Straight guys who like gay sex

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.
Me too !!
 
100% this...

I'd go so far as to say most men are naturally bi. They just are hung up on society's labels. I truly think if no one cared about anyone else's sexuality, almost everyone would have sex with all genders
I don't know. Most men I know are straight and I am pretty sure they are a lot like me. I have known I loved pussy and women since my first glimpse of a Hustler Magazine when I was way too young to be reading Hustler. The only time I enjoy seeing another guy's hard dick is when it is going in and out of a nice, wet pussy. That being said I enjoy the friendship of gay men. But for their sense of humor, kindness to people, appreciation of fine food and drink, and devotion to the arts and theater.
 
(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.
I'm glad there are others out there similar to myself. Growing up I had encountered sexual release with other friends of the same gender. It was nothing more than a way to get off with each other. Back then I jacked off gotten jacked off, been sucked and suck and both been fucked and fucked anally. However I always had and still have a very strong appetite for women. For many years I had strictly had sex with women. 25 or more. After a breakup with my first wife and a woman who I'd live with for years I found myself lonely and wanting the human touch so I started looking at personals on Craigslist. I hooked up with a few women
(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.
I'm glad there are others out there similar to myself. Growing up I had encountered sexual release with other friends of the same gender. It was nothing more than a way to get off with each other. Back then I jacked off gotten jacked off, been sucked and suck and both been fucked and fucked anally. However I always had and still have a very strong appetite for women. For many years I had strictly had sex with women. 25 or more. After a breakup with my first wife and a woman who I'd live with for years I found myself lonely and wanting the human touch so I started looking at personals on Craigslist. I hooked up with a few women and then hooked up one night with a couple who were looking for a guy to suck off. It was going to be just her sucking me while he fucked her from behind. It went great the first time and on our second time we were getting ready, i sat on the bed and he came over dropped to his knees and started sucking my cock then she joined in it was a little freaky at first but i really got into it. This went on for a few mounths and I never did anything to him or her just let them enjoy getting me off. After that over the next couple of years I decided to search out other men from time to time who just wanted to suck cock. I was still not attracked to and still am not attracked to men. I remarried a wonderful women who I am with today. We have sex on a regular basis. I had women play with my ass while going down on me many times. It felt great. I opened up to my wife and talked her into PEGGING me. I enjoy it so much when it happens. I enjoy making love to her but as most guys enjoy jacking off to porn and stoties on Literotica. So heres where I am at present time. I have a freind who has been single most of his life. He has only been with on women for a once encounter in the last 20 years that I know of. So I have offered to get together and jackoff with him even if we didnt touch each other. Im not sure if I would suck his cock but told him about my wife pegging me and just might be open to letting him fuck me. I consider myself straight but still enjoy the thought of the thrill of just getting off any way I can thats enjoyable. I sometimes watch Trans on Pornhub and get myself off thinking about getting my ass licked and then my prostate massaged from the inside by a cock instead of a strapon. So here I am still concidering Im straight and just enjoying my own little fantasies about all kinds of ways to enjoy getting off. Hope you have a great day and enjoy getting off any way you choose without worrying about lableing yourself....
 
I don't know. Most men I know are straight and I am pretty sure they are a lot like me. I have known I loved pussy and women since my first glimpse of a Hustler Magazine when I was way too young to be reading Hustler. The only time I enjoy seeing another guy's hard dick is when it is going in and out of a nice, wet pussy. That being said I enjoy the friendship of gay men. But for their sense of humor, kindness to people, appreciation of fine food and drink, and devotion to the arts and theater.
But if one of those gay friends offered to suck your cock - and you knew no one would find out - would you let him?

I'm the same as you when it comes to women and pussy. I knew I loved both at a young age, and wasn't interested in guys that way.

As I got older, though, I began to get curious about dick as well. I still prefer pussy, but I also enjoy dick
 
But if one of those gay friends offered to suck your cock - and you knew no one would find out - would you let him?

I'm the same as you when it comes to women and pussy. I knew I loved both at a young age, and wasn't interested in guys that way.

As I got older, though, I began to get curious about dick as well. I still prefer pussy, but I also enjoy dick
No. I can honestly say it doesn't interest me at all. Just as there are some women I am not sexually attracted to at all, all men I find unappealing as far as sex goes. I mean maybe on Lit this type of exclusive heterosexuality is the minority, but I feel a lot of men are like me in the real world. Unless things have changed and I just didn't notice.
 
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