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markchamberlain said:
(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.
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You’ll find that for some bizarre reason , many gay or bi guys will try to assign you your orientation/sexuality or push their personal opinions onto you. Don’t let them. You are exactly what YOU believe you are.
 
I think when you’re describing JO buddies that can be “not gay” just some guys helping each other out.
But once you fuck or get fucked, that’s the gay line right there.
That’s fine too though I just don’t think you can hang onto to not bi or gay
 
markchamberlain said:
I don't know what this is or isn't like. It is whatever it is. I don't know of a one-word label that describes my sexuality, and I wonder if attempting to summarize sexual orientation with a one-word label is even helpful in the first place. It seems a bit pointless.
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Don't overthink it.

I call myself pansexual because I will have fun with any gender, male, female, trans... but my strong preference is men. As I was saying to someone else recently, if there's no cock it's like having a starter but no main course.

I had a man friend who was dominant, hetero (ish) and wasn't remotely attracted to men but really got off on being dominated and fucked by men. Being bi doesn't mean there has to be a 50/50 split. It's all a spectrum.
 
markchamberlain said:
I don't know what this is or isn't like. It is whatever it is. I don't know of a one-word label that describes my sexuality, and I wonder if attempting to summarize sexual orientation with a one-word label is even helpful in the first place. It seems a bit pointless.
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You are talking out of both sides of your mouth. You claim you don't like one word labels yet you use heterosexual to describe yourself, which is of course a one word label. You are bi, but somehow feel offended by that label.
 
To me it sounds more like heteroflexible which is probably what I am but I also refer to myself as bi

I just am not romantically attracted to men
 
TrailerHitch said:
You are talking out of both sides of your mouth. You claim you don't like one word labels yet you use heterosexual to describe yourself, which is of course a one word label. You are bi, but somehow feel offended by that label.
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lol assigning peoples sexual orientation, nice 😂
 
michigan071388 said:
lol assigning peoples sexual orientation, nice 😂
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Well, let me say this, if he is having sex with men he ain't strictly heterosexual. He is trying to pretend he isn't Bi and that's fine if he wants to keep fooling himself. It sounds like maybe he is ashamed and this is his way to mask it.
 
Lucy_Lastic said:
Don't overthink it.

I call myself pansexual because I will have fun with any gender, male, female, trans... but my strong preference is men. As I was saying to someone else recently, if there's no cock it's like having a starter but no main course.

I had a man friend who was dominant, hetero (ish) and wasn't remotely attracted to men but really got off on being dominated and fucked by men. Being bi doesn't mean there has to be a 50/50 split. It's all a spectrum.
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in the Kinsey studies on human sexuality that’s what they concluded-it’s a spectrum. They assigned you to a scale based on preferences. I think 1 was completely hetero—no thought of same sex, 7was completely gay—no thought of opposite sex. In between is a sliding scale depending on degree of attraction to/interest in same sex.
 
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