subs punishment...

[Etoile]

How could a sub "honestly forget" a request from her Dom? I know it happens, but that one always perplexes me. A request to shave your pubes should elicit a simple "Yes, Sir," followed by the act of shaving the pubes. Seems to stem from a beginner's mind, and often one who isn't committed to the dynamic wholeheartedly.

Wow. Your last sentence makes some major leaps, there. In fact, it sounds to me like you are not very experienced in this...like you still think everything has to be perfect, that slaves always do everything instantly, and other hallmarks of someone who doesn't even have a sub of their own. I could be wrong.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Fake post

No Dom is going to go years to communicate their preference. This comes from me in the minimum set of requirements list , In the,"Are you sure you want to do this talk".

And no sub is going to forget about it. Panic a little maybe.. do I shave , do I wax, what ever girls do to make that stuff go away.. but forget? nope.

not so sure about that. i have "forgotten" to shave when asked to before, but my Master certainly did not come on a public board to ask what He should do to punish me...*shrugs*

 

[lil_slave_rose]

How could a sub "honestly forget" a request from her Dom? I know it happens, but that one always perplexes me. A request to shave your pubes should elicit a simple "Yes, Sir," followed by the act of shaving the pubes. Seems to stem from a beginner's mind, and often one who isn't committed to the dynamic wholeheartedly.

wow that's a bit harsh. i know there are plenty of things that Master has asked of me, and because of "life" i wasn't able to do. doesn't make it right by no means, but it also doesn't mean i am not "committed to the dynamic wholeheartedly" either, it means life happens. i have 3 kids and a job there are somethings that i'm asked to do that by the end of the day when i have the time to do them, i am just too tired, or i've forgotten completely.

 

[Dominoc]

still feel the way I feel about forgetfulness

Well I guess I stand corrected. I understand life gets in the way, and certainly it is possible things go forgotten. I am understanding about that, bless my little heart. However, being too tired to do something is not the same as forgetting it was requested. Did you forget, or was it never registered in the brain to be relegated to a failing memory? In my experience (as limited or as unlimited that may be), the forgetful sub was never there in the first place.

I thank those who have offered a perspective without condemnation.

 

[Etoile]

Well I guess I stand corrected. I understand life gets in the way, and certainly it is possible things go forgotten. I am understanding about that, bless my little heart. However, being too tired to do something is not the same as forgetting it was requested. Did you forget, or was it never registered in the brain to be relegated to a failing memory? In my experience (as limited or as unlimited that may be), the forgetful sub was never there in the first place.

I thank those who have offered a perspective without condemnation.

This post makes you seem really intelligent and sweet, actually. Your first post seemed very snooty, but this one is very different.

Another example I could think of is, suppose a couple is doing a scene when the master asks the slave to do something. If the scene continues, I could see it being difficult to remember - like, "make sure you shave the next time I see you but first I'm going to crop your ass for another 20 minutes" - that's a kind of forgetfulness I could forgive. (Assuming there's no reminder at the end of the scene.)

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Well I guess I stand corrected. I understand life gets in the way, and certainly it is possible things go forgotten. I am understanding about that, bless my little heart. However, being too tired to do something is not the same as forgetting it was requested. Did you forget, or was it never registered in the brain to be relegated to a failing memory? In my experience (as limited or as unlimited that may be), the forgetful sub was never there in the first place.

I thank those who have offered a perspective without condemnation.

no, you're right being too tired is different than forgetting, but i have also forgotten because the day got to hectic or whatever all i'm saying is that simply because i have forgotten to do something that Master asked of me does not mean i am not committed to our relationship or our dynamic, it means i'm human. however it also means i will be punished but not by some 'strangers' on a message board and i hope i did not come off as Condemning in my previous post, it just seemed you were being quite harsh with the whole 'forgetful sub must not be wholeheartedly into the dynamic' ya know?

 

[MasterPhoenix]

wow that's a bit harsh. i know there are plenty of things that Master has asked of me, and because of "life" i wasn't able to do. doesn't make it right by no means, but it also doesn't mean i am not "committed to the dynamic wholeheartedly" either, it means life happens. i have 3 kids and a job there are somethings that i'm asked to do that by the end of the day when i have the time to do them, i am just too tired, or i've forgotten completely.

Time is a balance that must be struck... There are times when you don't have the time... and times when you have to make the time... becuase time is a river... flowing into nowhere...

 

[MasterPhoenix]

however it also means i will be punished but not by some 'strangers' on a message board

Actually, you wouldn't be punished by strangers on a message board, I am plenty creative when I need to be... thank you...

Not to mention, that its really not a message board's place to discuss potential punishments... that is something that is between the two parties.. us in this case... or the OP and her Dominant....

 

[HottieMama]

Time is a balance that must be struck... There are times when you don't have the time... and times when you have to make the time... becuase time is a river... flowing into nowhere...

i am now singing "Finer Things" by Steve Winwood in my head.

Thanks, man...

 

[Etoile]

Actually, you wouldn't be punished by strangers on a message board, I am plenty creative when I need to be... thank you...

That's what she said though, see? (emphasis mine)

however it also means i will be punished but not by some 'strangers' on a message board

I think rose knows better than to suggest you couldn't think up punishments yourself...because if she did think that, she would probably get punished and would get to see an example of your creativity!

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Actually, you wouldn't be punished by strangers on a message board, I am plenty creative when I need to be... thank you...

Not to mention, that its really not a message board's place to discuss potential punishments... that is something that is between the two parties.. us in this case... or the OP and her Dominant....

hmm..i believe that's what i said....i would be punished but NOT by some strangers on a message board......

 

[lil_slave_rose]

That's what she said though, see? (emphasis mine)

I think rose knows better than to suggest you couldn't think up punishments yourself...because if she did think that, she would probably get punished and would get to see an example of your creativity!

exactly, what she said *nods,nods*

 

[MasterPhoenix]

That's what she said though, see? (emphasis mine)

I think rose knows better than to suggest you couldn't think up punishments yourself...because if she did think that, she would probably get punished and would get to see an example of your creativity!

Never mind... I am blind....

 

[MasterPhoenix]

i am now singing "Finer Things" by Steve Winwood in my head.

Thanks, man...

I couldn't remember what song I was swiping that from...

 

[Adakgirl]

Regardless if this is a BS thread or not, I have some thoughts to add. If your Master is quick to punish, instead of correct, he is a lousy Master
A good Master will understand if you forget something once, and will just require you to do it as soon as possible after you are reminded or remember. A good master will not have any problem coming up with any number of punishments at the drop of a hat, IF a punishment is warranted. He will also make the punishment fit the crime.

A good submissive/slave will write down instructions or leave themselves some kind of reminder of what they are told to do somewhere...if there is any chance at all that they might forget.

 

[unfoundiamond]

I agree...

I agree with the other people for the most part... especially Geoff...

I do think you MIGHT be real (crazy F*ing third eye, always telling me wierd shit...)
But somethings rotten in Denmark...

But, I wouldn't call forgetting something so trivial as shaving a reason to get online and seek out punishments... sounds like he isn't very immaginative...

And I think another reason I wouldn't give my ideas for punishment is if someone got hurt or worse, I'd feel personally responsible... (and I blame myself for enough already)

But if you are anastacia,
Nice sn... its a really hot name... and I wanted to name a little girl that, but now I cant, because I would never get the idea out of my head that I named my kid after a person on a erotic forum...

I am quirky...

 

[Essene]

I agree with the other people for the most part... especially Geoff...

I do think you MIGHT be real (crazy F*ing third eye, always telling me wierd shit...)
But somethings rotten in Denmark...

But, I wouldn't call forgetting something so trivial as shaving a reason to get online and seek out punishments... sounds like he isn't very immaginative...

And I think another reason I wouldn't give my ideas for punishment is if someone got hurt or worse, I'd feel personally responsible... (and I blame myself for enough already)

But if you are anastacia,
Nice sn... its a really hot name... and I wanted to name a little girl that, but now I cant, because I would never get the idea out of my head that I named my kid after a person on a erotic forum...

I am quirky...

So whatever happened to us naming our firstborn Pantomime_Muse? Remember, we were going to call her Pammy?



*Cough* * Looks down* Oh, um yeah. Did this get bumped recently? All I can think is that it must be awfully embarassing and humiliating to have all of these people say that you're silly... Maybe that was the point?

All so very very silly...

I found the conversation regarding US dollar conversion rates to be far more interesting.

 

[unfoundiamond]

from the beginning...

I thought to myself the only reason (if this PYL and pyl are real and regulars in the board) he would tell her to post this question, in this forum...

The response you will get for this question IS punishment...

*giggle*

 

[snowy ciara]

*Cough* * Looks down* Oh, um yeah. Did this get bumped recently? All I can think is that it must be awfully embarassing and humiliating to have all of these people say that you're silly... Maybe that was the point?

All so very very silly...

I found the conversation regarding US dollar conversion rates to be far more interesting.

I don't know, because it seems that the "Dom" is coming in for slightly more of the "how silly!" thing than the sub is. Seems like more of it is aimed at him than her.

 

[Essene]

I don't know, because it seems that the "Dom" is coming in for slightly more of the "how silly!" thing than the sub is. Seems like more of it is aimed at him than her.

Maybe he has some underlying maso issues to resolve?

*shrug*

 

[bobshortforkate]

hi there.

i'm not sure if i'm posting in the right forum, please move it if needed.

my name is Anastasia, An for short...
this is my first post,

i was told by my master to post here about how i disobeyed him. i have been his for the past few years and i have enjoyed it.

few days ago i was asked to shave my private parts ( i'm not sure if i can say here what exacly). I honestly forgot about it. And he got upset. really upset. he does not like any hair there. well, he told me to write here and ask fellow readers for a punishment.

i know that he is reading this board often, so please respond here.

I feel very humilated writing about this here, but i will listen to my master.

i hope you understand me.....

with love An,....

On the off chance this is real....

Maybe your Master should get to now you and learn what buttons to push - because we don't know you from Eve. How the hell can we effectively punish you?

Maybe humiliating yourself here, and having a BB take potshots at your Dom is your punishement.