The Bunny Thread

See, I wondered that, too. I'm not so sure he wasn't put up to it. But for the time being, I'm going to take him at his word.

The silver lining is, you are no longer in the dark.
Also, at least he didn't put it all together and then leave you in the dark.
 
Ok. So, this being how it is, You need some plans to not action to not go crazy and also to try and see any benefits.

Will you be forced to reduce the vodka prescriptions now? Look at healthier self care?

I'm trying. If for no other reason than liquor is expensive.

Is there any self care you can undertake likely to help your father too? Does he have dietary requirements etc ?

I'll probably be cooking a lot more than usual. Does that count?

How will he contribute to your household? Will he buy groceries? Contribute to bills for extra expenses incurred? Help with chores? Have these conversations with a big smile. Accept the contribution given.

He's already said he'd buy groceries, help with bills, and help me clean the house. So I guess that's all I can really ask for.

You guys have love, yes? Then I guess see it as a bonus; time to know each other as adults , to talk on more equal footing, to share more. In loving relationships of any sort few of us say 'I wish we had less time together'. Especially when we have to look back .

That's true

its ok to miss him I think you are doing so well in finding new outlets for play and not getting them confused with love. Don't miss him for so long that you close your self to opportunities that could be reciprocal.

I'll try not to.

:rose:
 
Maybe distance yourself.

I'm definitely going to have to think about it.

How small is this geographic area? It's conceivable that it's coincidence if you met in a not hugely spanning area through kink network.

For example; I know I am a couple of people removed from litsters very far from me, people in common. I told one who is a good friend because I had suspicion that was confirmed. The world is small and in areas where discretion is held then plausible.

However; can it be relied upon going forward, the cat now being out of the bag of its taken as truth. His loyalties cannot be but divided. A best friend is a strong loyalty.

The geographic area is small enough that it's possible. Still, though....

I feel like kidnapping Bunz.

Poor bunnikins. It's a lot. It's a lot.

I just know it's a lot.

Can we share her?

I was going to say intervention but that sounds harsh. Maybe just a picnic. Life is short. We need more picnics.

:heart:

If the lady allows it!

I'll let y'all take me anytime you want. :rose:

The silver lining is, you are no longer in the dark.
Also, at least he didn't put it all together and then leave you in the dark.

This! He was truthful.

That's the only reason I'm considering remaining friends.

He also said he'd keep the two of us separated, so there's that, I guess.

Is bunny vegetarian? It really likes fruit? I remember something but cannot remember what.

A picnic sounds just perfect! I haven't had a picnic for a couple of years!

I wish I could be vegetarian. But, yes, I really like fruit. :eek:
 
See, I wondered that, too. I'm not so sure he wasn't put up to it. But for the time being, I'm going to take him at his word.
I can't imagine what ulterior motives these parties would have against you but that seems like wayyyy too much of a coincidence. I'll keep my suspicions quiet but please scope that out a bit more...
 
I can't imagine what ulterior motives these parties would have against you but that seems like wayyyy too much of a coincidence. I'll keep my suspicions quiet but please scope that out a bit more...

I'll be careful, I promise. :rose:


ETA: Not gonna lie, the petty part of me wants to be like, "Haha, I fucked your best friend, asshole," but I'm aware that may not be the best course of action.
 
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I'll be careful, I promise. :rose:

ETA: Not gonna lie, the petty part of me wants to be like, "Haha, I fucked your best friend, asshole," but I'm aware that may not be the best course of action.

And yet.... Maybe it is. Tell them all to fuck off and move on.
 
I have so much I want to say, but I don't know how to say it.

Fucking figures. :rolleyes:
 
I can't imagine what ulterior motives these parties would have against you but that seems like wayyyy too much of a coincidence. I'll keep my suspicions quiet but please scope that out a bit more...

I'll be careful, I promise. :rose:


ETA: Not gonna lie, the petty part of me wants to be like, "Haha, I fucked your best friend, asshole," but I'm aware that may not be the best course of action.

I agree with Con.
I'm hoping this is a coincidence, but I'm suspicious. It sounds like a set up.
Please be careful. Please.
 
*hugs*
Just because. :)

*Hugs back* :rose:

I agree with Con.
I'm hoping this is a coincidence, but I'm suspicious. It sounds like a set up.
Please be careful. Please.

See, I'm suspicious, too. The only thing I can't figure out is, if it is some kind of set-up, then why? Like, what can possibly be accomplished here by doing this?

My lack of ability to come up with a motive is one of the reasons I'm inclined to think they're genuine. But I'm still suspicious..
 
It sounds like the plot to a Lifetime movie but most folks aren't that cunning in real life.

Did his best friend not know about you? :mad:

Did dad move in or is that this week?
 
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