The Throuple Thread

I would think the third would need to fill the gaps that exist for both originating partners in order for it to work.

How does sex typically work in these arrangements? All 3 everytime, or is there a schedule of who gets who what week? That's where the hangup is for me, because if sexy time isn't equally shared, someone is going to end up jealous.
 
A throuple: an intimate consensual relationship that involves three people.

Have you? Would you? Why or why not? Would love to hear your thoughts/input on the subject.

With the right mix of people/personalities, I feel like it could work out well. But perhaps that’s just me living in a fantasy world. I mean, let’s face it, all relationships have their ups and downs, but at least in a throuple there are more titties to help keep our troubles at bay...
I couldn't, I am possessive and no other person would be touching my woman.


Could it possibly work ( obviously not with me ) , I think it could, but all parties have to be able to accept their roles without negative emotions surfacing.
 
I have both in one-offs and one long-term arrangement wherein we shared the husband physically, but wife and I also had deep love and respect for each other. She used to call me the sister wife lol
I’d like to have both again. I’d like to be physically intimate with both a husband and wife and have an ongoing relationship. I’ve given up the romantic notion of finding a single man worth having a relationship with.

Of course it’s difficult and requires clear and honest communication. At all times. You’re not just sharing beds but lives, worries, pains and joy. One offs are fun and short lived but a true throuple like any union is a work in progress
 
No, I’ve seen it fall apart when gets neglected by the other two. Plus I don’t like to share.
 
A throuple: an intimate consensual relationship that involves three people.

Have you? Would you? Why or why not? Would love to hear your thoughts/input on the subject.

With the right mix of people/personalities, I feel like it could work out well. But perhaps that’s just me living in a fantasy world. I mean, let’s face it, all relationships have their ups and downs, but at least in a throuple there are more titties to help keep our troubles at bay...
It sounds nice on paper....
 
A throuple: an intimate consensual relationship that involves three people.

Have you? Would you? Why or why not? Would love to hear your thoughts/input on the subject.

With the right mix of people/personalities, I feel like it could work out well. But perhaps that’s just me living in a fantasy world. I mean, let’s face it, all relationships have their ups and downs, but at least in a throuple there are more titties to help keep our troubles at bay...
Throuple no.... 3sum yes :)
 
Have you? Would you? Why or why not? Would love to hear your thoughts/input on the subject.
Have I? No, I don't feel that I have.
I have been a participant in threesomes together with my friend and his partner at the time. But it was never a "relationship", I was more of a convenience to satisfy her fantasy of two men at the same time. I have also been in a somewhat open relationship, where she had a permanent hall-pass to explore whatever she wanted with other girls. Both of these things worked in their own kinds of ways.

Would I? With the right people, I would gladly.
Monogamy (sometimes) feels like a social construct and a social restraint to me.
I would gladly be part of a polyamorous relationship, as long as everyone involved were able to manage the emotional side of it.
 
I think it’s important to call out that a throuple, sister wives, and polyamory are all very different things.

In terms of a throuple, I have not been in one but I’d be open to trying it with the right people. And two men or a man and woman rounding out the throuple both sound interesting. It could be a hot mess or just incredibly hot and fulfilling. It all depends on the people involved.
 
I used to fantasize about a throuple frequently. I thought it would solve a lot of problems while presenting relatively few. I had a threesome fairly recently #humblebrag and it kinda turned me off to the notion of throuples. Don't get me wrong, I'm still going to fantasize the hell out of it, but I got a little doused with a dose of reality
 
I do see such things as becoming more common as people in general are more open to the thought that there is a huge range between gay and straight. And it is more and more acceptable to be such. This opens up the possibility for all sorts of loving possibilities.

As a married straight guy, the idea of another wife, is both exciting and scary. My wife is a handful all by herself. I'm not sure I'd want a second helping. But honestly neither of us, are one to share our toys, so a throuple is an impossible fantasy. I just submitted a story about it though, where a couple decides to add an old friend to their dynamic on a permanent basis.
 
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