Transgender Inspiration

[StacyTG]

Hi Sticky.

*hugs*

 

[fma20fma]

hi

Oooo... hum... just watched a vid of reassignment surgery... pfftt... whatever. Just so long as the surgeon doesn't get lost along the way, like "what is this bit?!"

will you pl direct me to the site?thanks.i liketo watch it too.thnks for yr time.

 

[stickygirl]

will you pl direct me to the site?thanks.i liketo watch it too.thnks for yr time.

PM sent but I put it on Ask a TG as well

 

[inthegutter]

I need some inspiration tonight, girls. I'm tired and I feel lost. I'm sick of not being able to express my femininity in public. Aside from shaving my legs, (which is not even regarded as abnormal for guys anymore), I can't express any forms of femininity. I mean the colorful clothes, etc. I hate that the role I'm forced to adopt by society has such drab colors for men. The closest thing I have is my blue tennis shoes with the neon yellow laces!

What I wouldn't give for a cute pair of capris and some ballet flats or boat shoes.

Gender roles and performances are total bullshit. Sorry, I'm starting to rant.

But really, I'm tired of being intimidated by men. I hate how they're so competitive, chest-beating, misogynistic, etc. Just because I LOOK like a guy, doesn't mean that I welcome the "Hey, check out the ass on that chick" comments. Not to mention the "Hey, did you catch the game, etc., etc., etc. No, I didn't and just because I didn't doesn't give anyone the justification to start into the "What's wrong with you that you don't like sports?"

I have enough to worry about figuring out what's wrong with me, I don't need to try and figure out why I don't like American football into the mix!

/Rant.

There is nothing wrong with you Stacy, don't ever feel that way

 

[Prince Albert]

LOL, Sticky, if you need me to hold you hand during it, I will.

 

[stickygirl]

LOL, Sticky, if you need me to hold you hand during it, I will.

Would you like my pickles in a jar as well?
Have you actually watched it? First time is like a horror movie but after that it gets quite interesting.

 

[Prince Albert]

Would you like my pickles in a jar as well?
Have you actually watched it? First time is like a horror movie but after that it gets quite interesting.

Yes I have, if I keep thinking about the courage it takes to make that kind of change the actu7al operation doesn't seem so bad.

 

[stickygirl]

Yes I have, if I keep thinking about the courage it takes to make that kind of change the actu7al operation doesn't seem so bad.

Yep - once you're knocked out then pffft - whatever. Trouble is the whatever is done differently by different surgeons. I am booked in provisionally next August but I'm going back over the operation techniques between surgeons to see if I've made the right choice. If anyone out there has some info I'd grateful

 

[Prince Albert]

Best of luck, please keep us informed.

 

[Kmanwantit]

I actually think TG has come a long way from the past. Unfortunately I didn't have knowledge that you can get now a days from sites like this in order to help with transforming. If I had the capabilities that are at the present my life would be as a female, and probably a lot more slutty.

 

[stickygirl]

Plenty people transition in their 50s, 60s... Inevitably the young girls get the attention ...guess it could be worse
As for being slutty... estrogen modifies the way you think: you keep the same values, but emotions (and the drives associated) can change quite a bit so...

 

[Prince Albert]

Plenty people transition in their 50s, 60s... Inevitably the young girls get the attention ...guess it could be worse
As for being slutty... estrogen modifies the way you think: you keep the same values, but emotions (and the drives associated) can change quite a bit so...

Really; are you looking sweetie???? LOL

 

[lifesgood2010]

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5quaaZA7U1r5tjogo1_1280.jpg

She's beautiful.



This is how sexy I wish i could be for someone special. This is how I feel. Inside. It's so difficult to be going through this. I have ups and downs and the worst of it is the rollercoaster ride. There are periods when I feel at peace with it, and like a house of cards, it comes crashing down. Then comes the feelings of shame, and disgust. Then I pick myself up and think "I love who I am", and start to feel confident again, but then completely crash when I see a couple in love, wondering if I'll ever have that.

This girl, though. She inspires me. Inspires me to think that I can have it all. I can be the sexy woman for that special someone. He'll love me for who I am. Completely. Regardless of whatever physical limitations or gender performances society tries to impart on us.

Stacy...she is very beautiful....(I could be in love...but for sure know I am n lust)

 

[stickygirl]

Stacy...she is very beautiful....(I could be in love...but for sure know I am n lust)

Stacy is beautiful

 

[naughtyinsilk]

Stacy is gorgeous, committed and brave, and sadly at times probably wants to go hide under a rock.

All the Ladies I know and its quite a few, who have fully or partially transitioned, have experienced a tough journey to get there, that is what makes them brave and committed, its not simple or easy, and even today, support for those involved is still patchy though better than it was when I first got involved with the Transgender community in the 80s.


Stacy there are people here who love you and send you their best wishes and are here when you need a rant. take care hun

And Stickygirl, you know the same applies to you

 

[stickygirl]

If I could reach through this damned monitor I swear to god I'd pull Stacy through and give her the biggest hug!! Then go shopping I'd make her buy all those hot shoes she loves

Thanks Silky but I'm so lucky - I have so much support: Stacy doesn't and that sucks. Grrrrr!

 

[naughtyinsilk]

If I could reach through this damned monitor I swear to god I'd pull Stacy through and give her the biggest hug!! Then go shopping I'd make her buy all those hot shoes she loves

Thanks Silky but I'm so lucky - I have so much support: Stacy doesn't and that sucks. Grrrrr!

I know she doesn't, and I agree with you, I wish I could give her a big hug and then we all go shopping, I love shopping

 

[inthegutter]

Stacy is gorgeous, committed and brave, and sadly at times probably wants to go hide under a rock.

All the Ladies I know and its quite a few, who have fully or partially transitioned, have experienced a tough journey to get there, that is what makes them brave and committed, its not simple or easy, and even today, support for those involved is still patchy though better than it was when I first got involved with the Transgender community in the 80s.


Stacy there are people here who love you and send you their best wishes and are here when you need a rant. take care hun

And Stickygirl, you know the same applies to you

Very well said, naughty

Stacy is sweet, beautiful and very brave. I am here for her and I will support her as much as I can. That goes for everyone here.

 

[Kmanwantit]

If there is hugging, can I join the group (not in the perverted way) (unless there is that intention prehug).

You gals are going through a lot and deserve so much for making this transition. You should also realize how fortunate you are to decide now and have the ability to do the change.

Just remember that being the best person on the inside will always out shine what's on the outside, but from what see of sticky and Stacy, it shines bright on both. I cheering you on!!!

Question, this thread has been going on for awhile, stacy how does now compare with when you first posted this?

 

[inthegutter]

You gals are going through a lot and deserve so much for making this transition. You should also realize how fortunate you are to decide now and have the ability to do the change.

Just remember that being the best person on the inside will always out shine what's on the outside, but from what see of sticky and Stacy, it shines bright on both. I cheering you on!!!

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wow! What a very sweet and beautiful thing to say. I agree 100%

 

[stickygirl]

Thanks Kman, that's kind of you.
You know our transitions wouldn't require much courage if it weren't for the attitudes of various segments of society, to the media, or religion or indeed the families of some trans* people. But here we are in the real world, doing the best we can: having to balance the negativity against the positives.
Sometimes trans women have to make a break from families, no matter how much we love them or fear their disapproval. The thing is if you're prepared to make those first few steps then it's funny how things fall into place. I do rely on my family's support financially at the moment and perhaps will do for a couple of years before I can support myself. But after that, how much do families continue to contribute? What I'm saying is that if a girl can get her employers agreement then your families leverage is purely emotional and nothing more than emotional blackmail, if they rashly decide to turn their back on their own flesh and blood.
Words... It's easy to be brave on paper.

Change of topic. Can we all big it up for Cyndi Lauper? She has done a huge amount for LGBT kids with her organisation http://truecolorsfund.org

Play some of her music and feel extra good.

 

[inthegutter]

Thanks Kman, that's kind of you.
You know our transitions wouldn't require much courage if it weren't for the attitudes of various segments of society, to the media, or religion or indeed the families of some trans* people. But here we are in the real world, doing the best we can: having to balance the negativity against the positives.
Sometimes trans women have to make a break from families, no matter how much we love them or fear their disapproval. The thing is if you're prepared to make those first few steps then it's funny how things fall into place. I do rely on my family's support financially at the moment and perhaps will do for a couple of years before I can support myself. But after that, how much do families continue to contribute? What I'm saying is that if a girl can get her employers agreement then your families leverage is purely emotional and nothing more than emotional blackmail, if they rashly decide to turn their back on their own flesh and blood.
Words... It's easy to be brave on paper.

Change of topic. Can we all big it up for Cyndi Lauper? She has done a huge amount for LGBT kids with her organisation http://truecolorsfund.org

Play some of her music and feel extra good.

You're absolutely right, sticky. Society has come a long way but there is still a very long way to go. Sadly, a family can be the biggest hurdle to overcome. I support you all the way and I pray that things will be easier for you in the future.

Thanks for providing the Cyndi Pauper link; I will see what I can do to help.

 

[Prince Albert]

Stacy, wishing you all the best this New Year!!!

 

[stickygirl]

Hey, I just thought of a new word for 2014 : transbodified! Wotcha think?

 

[inthegutter]

Hey, I just thought of a new word for 2014 : transbodified! Wotcha think?

I love it!
Hi sticky