Twenty Somethings

[Munachi]

well i wasn't worried... he tends to go sleep early during the week, as he has to work, study, and is training for some marathon... (i feel so lazy when i am with him, i do nothing, really, and he is studying or something similar all the time)... we aren't that serious (yet?) anyway, so even if there was something, it wouldn't be any of my business, though it'd annoy me... but i really don't think so... the thing is just he usually only has time on the weekend, and the time from one weekend to the next is sooo long...

 

[HybridCrow]

well i wasn't worried... he tends to go sleep early during the week, as he has to work, study, and is training for some marathon... (i feel so lazy when i am with him, i do nothing, really, and he is studying or something similar all the time)... we aren't that serious (yet?) anyway, so even if there was something, it wouldn't be any of my business, though it'd annoy me... but i really don't think so... the thing is just he usually only has time on the weekend, and the time from one weekend to the next is sooo long...

I've heard it's stuff like this that doesn't allow relationships to develop and/or last.

Good luck though if you feel he's the one. Otherwise, I guess the best you can do is enjoy what you got when you have it.

 

[Munachi]

well... actually... he just told me he isn't interested. so you might have been right. but well... i have never that much thought about the concept of "the one" and i have only been seeing him since a few weeks so it's not like i have been in love or anything.

well, i guess the fact that he was too tired to see me could be seen as an indicator that he wasn#t all that interested in seeing me. though of course he then suggested to meet at the weekend. but either way, if he wants to end it, what can i do.

oh yes, and btw, i have prove now that it is not only girls who bring the "i don't want to be in a relationship right now" line.

anyway, i am a bit pissed off right now, but such is life.

 

[BXGemini20]

well... actually... he just told me he isn't interested. so you might have been right. but well... i have never that much thought about the concept of "the one" and i have only been seeing him since a few weeks so it's not like i have been in love or anything.

well, i guess the fact that he was too tired to see me could be seen as an indicator that he wasn#t all that interested in seeing me. though of course he then suggested to meet at the weekend. but either way, if he wants to end it, what can i do.

oh yes, and btw, i have prove now that it is not only girls who bring the "i don't want to be in a relationship right now" line.

anyway, i am a bit pissed off right now, but such is life.

Don't worry Muna. Everyone gets a BS relationship. DOn't worry about and keep it moving. It's bad enough we have one bitter person on this topic. (I kid I kid)

 

[Lady Reiha]

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[Munachi]

Don't worry Muna. Everyone gets a BS relationship. DOn't worry about and keep it moving. It's bad enough we have one bitter person on this topic. (I kid I kid)

thanks... don#t worry, i am not too worried... it wasn't really a relationship yet anyway, and i wasn't sure were things were going. so the only thing that annoys me is that he had to say it via email (after just having seen me in person at the weekend)... and... well... call me shallow, but i am really going to miss sex with him. this has been quite probably the best sex i have had so far, so i am really going to miss that. else - at this stage i get over guys quite quickly usually...

 

[BXGemini20]

thanks... don#t worry, i am not too worried... it wasn't really a relationship yet anyway, and i wasn't sure were things were going. so the only thing that annoys me is that he had to say it via email (after just having seen me in person at the weekend)... and... well... call me shallow, but i am really going to miss sex with him. this has been quite probably the best sex i have had so far, so i am really going to miss that. else - at this stage i get over guys quite quickly usually...

Good to see you are okay, Muna. Just don't get tempted to go back to your ex. Seen it too many times.

 

[HybridCrow]

Don't worry Muna. Everyone gets a BS relationship. DOn't worry about and keep it moving. It's bad enough we have one bitter person on this topic. (I kid I kid)

Hey! I wasn't trying to be bitter. I was simply ranting about my frustrations and couldn't cure the confusion of my own existence.

And Muna, I wasn't trying to be right either. I'm sorry though. Sorry you'll miss the sex even. I found some website some other night and it was by some guy who believes that since we've been masturbating since we were born, that we were created to have sex. So, in a sense, I guess he was simply saying that sex isn't a bad thing and people should just do it, only when they're ready of course.

Anyways, I gotta get ready to go to work. Bleh, another night working in the freakin' cold. Well, it's not really cold inside where I work, so that's a good thing, but it's when I have to go out and change the trash bags that I'm not going to like. Gah, a job's a job.

 

[BXGemini20]

I got an job interview today for a summer camp I did last year. They'll probaly rehire me again. Just keeping my options open in case I don't find an internship for the summer.

 

[Munachi]

hi all... well i guess i am slowly getting better... more or less... haven't answered his email yet, maybe i won't at all (he wrote it in a way that seems to be expecting an answer, but i might not feel like it...)

anyway... i have decided i really need to start looking for a job...

 

[HybridCrow]

I already have a job, but I'm seriously looking for another. I like the job I already work at, but the pay isn't that good and I'm starting to not like working 3rd shift. It used to be that I couldn't sleep anymore, but now it's everytime I go to bed, I'm like in an all day coma. I set my alarm, but when I wake up, it's not the time I set my alarm for, and of course my alarm was shut off 5 min. or 10 min. til my ACTUAL wake-up time. I don't even remember shutting it off. bleh!!

 

[BXGemini20]

I think i'm getting rehire at that summer camp. Good for me Good luck on the job search, Muna

 

[Munachi]

i should start looking... that would make finding one much easier...

 

[BXGemini20]

True. I guess some people enjoy a chance to free for a couple days or weeks if they have saved enough money.

 

[Munachi]

i didn't quite understand you... but well, i can go a while without work, because i also receive money from my parents... but with a job i could justify myself better, somehow... and i could travel somewhere...

 

[My Own Way]

Ah...the wonderful world of job hunting. I'm currently looking for jobs and let me just say it's not easy. I guess part of the problem is I really don't have any idea what I want to do with my life, so it's sort of hard to go out and find a job when you don't have any clear direction. Seriously...you'd think after 6 years of higher education I would have some sort of life plan right...? Yeah...that would make just waaay too much sense.

Anyway...I just took my master's finals last week. Now all I have to do is wait for the results which sould be in sometime next week. I'm not overly worried. As for the rest of life...I'm off men for awhile. Stupid creatures...present company excluded of course. Doesn't help that I always manage to entangle myself with the incompetent morons that have no idea how to treat a lady or pick up a telephone. Is it too much to ask that I become important enough to someone to merit the occasional phone call?? Sigh...

 

[HybridCrow]

Anyway...I just took my master's finals last week. Now all I have to do is wait for the results which sould be in sometime next week. I'm not overly worried. As for the rest of life...I'm off men for awhile. Stupid creatures...present company excluded of course. Doesn't help that I always manage to entangle myself with the incompetent morons that have no idea how to treat a lady or pick up a telephone. Is it too much to ask that I become important enough to someone to merit the occasional phone call?? Sigh...

You know, I've heard this line too many times. My question is, can you keep your word on that? If you can, I would seriously worship you! Too many women I've asked out have told me this and at least a week later, they are dating somebody.

And I wouldn't say, in my case, it's about importance of the phone call. The girls I talked to on the phone in high school, I've called ONCE a week and we'd talk for hours. I assume "occasional" to you is once a week? Because I've learned from all the girls I've called, they don't like it when a guy calls more than once a week. Especially if he's interested in them, but personally, I think it's because they just want to be friends.

And yeah, job hunting is hard... especially when you have to look out to areas you don't want to drive to because of gas and distance, the type of area it is, and whether or not the pay would be worth the trips.

BTW, I like your new AV, My Own... it's sexy. I just love how your hand is touching your ass. Makes me want you more.

 

[BXGemini20]

i didn't quite understand you... but well, i can go a while without work, because i also receive money from my parents... but with a job i could justify myself better, somehow... and i could travel somewhere...

What I meant if you saved money while you had a job like an emergency accoutn so that you can be secure if you get unemployed by any chance. Good thing yoru parents look out for you. Mine do the same. I really want to move out of my mom's house, but it so hard to find housing in NYC and you need a roommate to even get a decent place these days. Maybe it is because I am a guy and seeing movie like Failed to Launch. I don't want to 32 and still be at house.

 

[BXGemini20]

Ah...the wonderful world of job hunting. I'm currently looking for jobs and let me just say it's not easy. I guess part of the problem is I really don't have any idea what I want to do with my life, so it's sort of hard to go out and find a job when you don't have any clear direction. Seriously...you'd think after 6 years of higher education I would have some sort of life plan right...? Yeah...that would make just waaay too much sense.

Anyway...I just took my master's finals last week. Now all I have to do is wait for the results which sould be in sometime next week. I'm not overly worried. As for the rest of life...I'm off men for awhile. Stupid creatures...present company excluded of course. Doesn't help that I always manage to entangle myself with the incompetent morons that have no idea how to treat a lady or pick up a telephone. Is it too much to ask that I become important enough to someone to merit the occasional phone call?? Sigh...

Graduates on nearing finishing your master's. Explain your absence from Lit. Good job for you on that. I'm even sure if I want to do grad school yet. I got 1-2 semesters left. I have 24 credits left if I pass all classes this term. It is going so depressing being on campus next year and most of my friends graduated already.

 

[HybridCrow]

What I meant if you saved money while you had a job like an emergency accoutn so that you can be secure if you get unemployed by any chance. Good thing yoru parents look out for you. Mine do the same. I really want to move out of my mom's house, but it so hard to find housing in NYC and you need a roommate to even get a decent place these days. Maybe it is because I am a guy and seeing movie like Failed to Launch. I don't want to 32 and still be at house.

You know there is always a plus side to living w/ your parents. I do admit though that there are parents out there who would want to get their kids out of the house, especially if they're in their 30's. I will agree though that it's hard to get decent housing anywhere. Of course if you find something decent and a good price, usually there's something wrong if it's not the house. Such as the neighborhood, etc.

And I must also admit, I want to live in an apartment on my own, but right now it's just not in the near future. Kind of like MyOwn, I don't even really know what I wanna do in life. I mean I want to be a writer, and I write every chance I get, but there really is no guarantee that I'll get published. Hell, if I get published, I'll be lucky to even make an income like J. K. Rowling even though she's written all those Harry Potter books. The facts are in, she makes more than the Queen of England herself. Yeah, that's where Rowling lives, in England or somewhere in that area.

I really want to be a writer, but I also want to work in video games and possibly the Hollywood business... maybe screenwriter or something. Heck, I thought about taking some acting classes for the hell of it to see what I got.

Problem is... I'm not 24 yet, and I'm not married or have any kids, so I can't get Pell grants even w/ my current job right now. However, I've found a loophole and I'm going to try it out and see what happens. I really don't want to take out another student loan. That would put me near $10K in loan debt, w/ this first degree ALONE... well, it's not going to be for the whole degree.. maybe half-way there. For a community college, it sure is expensive. Like $100 a credit hour or something like that.

Bleh, everything costs money and money is a pain in ass.

 

[Munachi]

well, my parents just got seperated shortly before i finished school, so my mom kind of insisted i move out for uni, because she didn't want me to make the mistake of moving right from home to a partner without having learnt to live by myself, as she said...

but actually, it's pretty common here for students to live alone. good thing is that apartments are comparably cheap...

 

[BXGemini20]

well, my parents just got seperated shortly before i finished school, so my mom kind of insisted i move out for uni, because she didn't want me to make the mistake of moving right from home to a partner without having learnt to live by myself, as she said...

but actually, it's pretty common here for students to live alone. good thing is that apartments are comparably cheap...

I should come live where you at. I really want to be on my own.

 

[1stClassNiceGuy]

Ah...the wonderful world of job hunting. I'm currently looking for jobs and let me just say it's not easy. I guess part of the problem is I really don't have any idea what I want to do with my life, so it's sort of hard to go out and find a job when you don't have any clear direction. Seriously...you'd think after 6 years of higher education I would have some sort of life plan right...? Yeah...that would make just waaay too much sense.

Anyway...I just took my master's finals last week. Now all I have to do is wait for the results which sould be in sometime next week. I'm not overly worried. As for the rest of life...I'm off men for awhile. Stupid creatures...present company excluded of course. Doesn't help that I always manage to entangle myself with the incompetent morons that have no idea how to treat a lady or pick up a telephone. Is it too much to ask that I become important enough to someone to merit the occasional phone call?? Sigh...

I've been by this phone the whole time! I meant to call you, I did, really! I just.. well... ya never gave me your number!

<chuckles> I apologize for being a dork, just tryin' to get a smirk or two!

Anyhow, hope everyone is doin' well.

 

[My Own Way]

I've been by this phone the whole time! I meant to call you, I did, really! I just.. well... ya never gave me your number!

<chuckles> I apologize for being a dork, just tryin' to get a smirk or two!

Anyhow, hope everyone is doin' well.

I really like you NiceGuy...you always make me smile. You are a dork but in a really cute sorta way!

 

[HybridCrow]

Bleh, why don't you marry him? Just don't invite me to the wedding. I'm a crasher.