Twenty Somethings

[1stClassNiceGuy]

I really like you NiceGuy...you always make me smile. You are a dork but in a really cute sorta way!

A dork, yes! But totally on purpose and with good reason! Just as long as it gets comments like ''cute'', as opposed to rolling eyes, hehe.

Rolling eyes are bad =/

 

[BXGemini20]

I really like you NiceGuy...you always make me smile. You are a dork but in a really cute sorta way!

Aww. Thats cute, My. If I'm a dork, I hope I am cute as well

 

[My Own Way]

A dork, yes! But totally on purpose and with good reason! Just as long as it gets comments like ''cute'', as opposed to rolling eyes, hehe.

Rolling eyes are bad =/

I only roll my eyes to people who can see it. Much better that way. Never can get the full effect of eye rolling online....

 

[My Own Way]

Aww. Thats cute, My. If I'm a dork, I hope I am cute as well

You're cute x2 Gemini (Sorry NG!! )

 

[1stClassNiceGuy]

You're cute x2 Gemini (Sorry NG!! )

<flies into a fit of raging jealousy!!!!>

Hehe... its okay, my ego is contained enough to realize there may be other cute people in this world!

 

[My Own Way]

<flies into a fit of raging jealousy!!!!>

Hehe... its okay, my ego is contained enough to realize there may be other cute people in this world!

Oh phew...you're still number one cute guy though...

 

[1stClassNiceGuy]

Oh phew...you're still number one cute guy though...

<does a li'l dance!>

 

[BXGemini20]

You're cute x2 Gemini (Sorry NG!! )

Yay!

 

[Munachi]

hello...

 

[HybridCrow]

Well... some exciting news has happened of late. A friend of mine has introduced me to a friend of hers via Yahoo Messenger. She said her friend was interested in talking to me and checking me out, so I thought I'd stop being a grumpy ass as you all seem to think I am, and check it out. We talked for like a few hours on Yahoo Messenger. I thought we hit it off real well because we had a lot of interests. She likes video games, movies, reading books, and a few other interests that I have. We both seem to like the same movies and games as well. I even told her I would like to see her game. For those of you who don't know, I was challenging her to playing video games. She said, "You're on!"

So, I think we hit it off, but because I'm confused in the way of dating, relationships, etc. I had asked my friend to let me know if she hears anything from her. I told my friend that her friend was really interesting and cool and that I wouldn't mind getting together for a date with her if she was interested.

I just don't want to go at it too soon and seem desperate, nor do I want to wait like I always do and end up in the "friends zone". So, for now, I'm just going to talk to her and maybe bring up dating when it seems right... or at least hope SHE says anything, that way I won't hit it at the wrong time.

Another bit of news is that I've decided to take a break on college for now. If I took out another loan, I would've been $10K in debt... and not even near completing my first degree. And because I'm working almost 40 hours a week w/ low pay, I've decided w/ the resources I am able to get ahold of, and to get a better job to help with money, I will be taking a course in forklift operation and hopefully a course in heavy equipment operator. There's good money in this area, plus it's a job that I can fall back on when my writing and gaming career gets slow.

So, w/ the girl I met on Yahoo, I'm going to keep in mind to just act cool, don't rush things, and let things flow naturally and with ease. And for the courses... I can't wait to get an operators license in forklift driving. I've always wanted to drive a forklift since I played the game for Sega Dreamcast called Shenmue.

Anyways, off to bed. Laters!

 

[BXGemini20]

Good to hear that Crow. Looks like things are going your way now. Good Luck!

 

[My Own Way]

I just don't want to go at it too soon and seem desperate

Acting interested doesn't seem desperate....

 

[HybridCrow]

Acting interested doesn't seem desperate....

I'm saying I don't want to just ask her out already. Especially since we've only been introduced online. I wanna ask and see if she would like to go see the new Ice Age movie together since she says she wants to see it and I want to as well. I just don't know if it would be a good idea or not. Hopefully I can get to talk to her again soon and then maybe I'll ask her out.

 

[My Own Way]

I'm saying I don't want to just ask her out already. Especially since we've only been introduced online. I wanna ask and see if she would like to go see the new Ice Age movie together since she says she wants to see it and I want to as well. I just don't know if it would be a good idea or not. Hopefully I can get to talk to her again soon and then maybe I'll ask her out.

Crow...do yourself a favor and quit talking yourself out of the possibility of happiness...

 

[HybridCrow]

Well I asked her if she would like to go out next Saturday to see Ice Age 2. She said, "That would be cool." I am assuming this means yes. I had asked our friend if she could go along with us as a double date so her friend would feel more comfortable going on a date since we only were introduced through Messenger. Sadly though, she won't be able to do the double date. I would assume business or something. So... no, I do not deny myself pleasures and happiness. I'm willing and interested in the date if she's still interested. Any suggestions on how to keep this date from not happening? I was thinking we both could meet at the movie theater at a certain time, see the movie and possible get something to eat and actually talk, get to know each other more.

I have to get back with her though whether I CAN still do it. I had told her I don't get weekends off, but if I ask in advance, I can get the time off.

 

[Munachi]

don't worry so much. this sounds good. just allow it to happen... so you already agreed on where and when, you just need to confirm whenever you know that you can have saturday off? well then do just that when you know... and then just don't be too shy about asking her for dinner after that... the important thing is not to be either too shy nor too pushy. and else - just remember, enjoy the moment, don't think all about a future that might or might not be there. if it's just one date, well then that date was nice, but the more at ease with yourself you seem and all that, the higher the chances are for more dates, i'd think...

 

[HybridCrow]

Well, I'm glad I didn't get my hopes up. I almost got my hopes up for nothing. I told her about how our friend couldn't do the double date, she tells me "I should probably tell you something." I said, "Sure."

She tells me that she's just recently been seeing another guy and she'd like to see where it goes.

Okay, I'm not down that it doesn't look like the date is happening, but I AM pissed off that she said yes, then turns around to tell me this.

And people tell me to stop denying myself happiness. Why the hell even say yes to a date if you're already seeing somebody? This is yet another example of the bullshit I tire of when it comes to women. Stuff like this is reason enough for me NOT to take the first step.

Bleh... and this cough isn't making me feel any better either.

 

[BXGemini20]

Crow, you seem like me. I always get sick whenever I want to hit on a girl.

 

[HybridCrow]

Crow, you seem like me. I always get sick whenever I want to hit on a girl.

No, I don't get sick when I want to hit on a girl. Honestly, don't know why or how I got this really bad cough, but it happened before I even met the girl through messenger.

Right now, I don't even know what to say to her if she even says anything to me again. It seems like a dishonesty issue. I can't say she lied to me because she didn't say she was single, but at the same time she didn't say she wasn't single either. I just think it's bullshit she'd say yes to a date, then turn around and tell she's seeing somebody and wants to see where it goes.

Really, I'm fine with the fact she wants to see where she'll go with the guy, but I'm NOT fine over the fact she would tell me almost 2 days later she's dating some guy.

Bleh.... stupid cough.

 

[Lady Reiha]

No, I don't get sick when I want to hit on a girl. Honestly, don't know why or how I got this really bad cough, but it happened before I even met the girl through messenger.

Right now, I don't even know what to say to her if she even says anything to me again. It seems like a dishonesty issue. I can't say she lied to me because she didn't say she was single, but at the same time she didn't say she wasn't single either. I just think it's bullshit she'd say yes to a date, then turn around and tell she's seeing somebody and wants to see where it goes.

Really, I'm fine with the fact she wants to see where she'll go with the guy, but I'm NOT fine over the fact she would tell me almost 2 days later she's dating some guy.

Bleh.... stupid cough.

Girls are poo- poo heads. We should be shot.
anyway- she prolly did it because she liked you or maybe she felt pity for you? Or she could of been being simply a ( excuse this) Bitch. Anyway, she should of been honest with you from the start. That was very immature for her to do. Hope someone better comes your way : )

 

[Ahh_lex_A]

Being twenty-5

Im 25 and its just the same. im still me even during my teens. Nothing's changed in a MAJOR way in my life. I laugh, cry, and have fun the same way.
i don't plan on changing it as it is. I can go on to thirty even until i get 90, and it'll still be fun for me!

 

[Munachi]

Im 25 and its just the same. im still me even during my teens. Nothing's changed in a MAJOR way in my life. I laugh, cry, and have fun the same way.
i don't plan on changing it as it is. I can go on to thirty even until i get 90, and it'll still be fun for me!

just you wait until you turn 26. that's when it all changes. i know, i have been there.

 

[BXGemini20]

I'll be 22 in two months and I still feel like I'm 18 or 19. Thought I'd be futher along in my life education-wise. I also thought I had an apartment somewhere. Oh well. Maybe by this time next year, I'll be looking for an apartment.

 

[HybridCrow]

I'll be 22 in two months and I still feel like I'm 18 or 19. Thought I'd be futher along in my life education-wise. I also thought I had an apartment somewhere. Oh well. Maybe by this time next year, I'll be looking for an apartment.

Bleh, yeah, I gotta get me a good paying job soon. Step-dad wants me out of the house by the time I turn 25. I just put in an application for a manager position at Blockbuster. Hopefully that goes through well. I should be able to find out hopefully tomorrow whether or not I get an interview or not. Chances are, despite the 3 years customer service experience, but lacking manager experience, I may not get a chance. I dunno. If this doesn't fall through, I'm still going to get my forklift operator card and will be looking for a job in that area.

 

[Munachi]

so what will he do if you aren#t able to move out, if you can't afford it? anyway yes of course a better job would be better... but that's the weird thing i notice about the us - you have less unemployment and all, people seem to find jobs easily enough, but then what does it help? they have to work several jobs at a time to live of it... with most jobs student jobs here, i'd be able to continue the life style i have now (i.e. my own apartment, some travel though not too much, no luxury but ok life) by working 20 to 25 hours per week.