Vaginal Fisting

[snowbyte]

Margret Thatcher naked on a cold day! Margret Thatcher naked on a cold day....

Maggie Thatcher: A man's man, a Dom's Domme.

 

[twysted73]

Oooh! I feel naughty for even reading this. Can a thought be construed as adultery?

Organized religion is non-conducive to individual happiness.
A healthy thought process, a healthy appetite and a feeding of both is (i think) an absolute MUSt for the happy heart.

That's just me tho

 

[twysted73]

Why did I even look at this thread this morning...I knew better than to look at this thread this morning...

*ahem* Well that fine description should certainly make the swing votes raise an eyebrow and bite the lip at the thought. Oh, was that just me?

*grumbles off to bed in an even worse condition*

You eromassochist! (did I just create my own word there? Well if the current president can do it I can too)

You came in knowing it would get worse. You knew it!
*mmmmwwwaahahahahahahaha cough cough*

I can't laugh maniacaly as I used to anymore.

*le sigh*

 

[snowbyte]

Organized religion is non-conducive to individual happiness.

The flip side of this is that a lot of the inner conflicts that it creates WRT sexuality is what makes it such a rich source for some of the most intensely felt kinks.

 

[twysted73]

The flip side of this is that a lot of the inner conflicts that it creates WRT sexuality is what makes it such a rich source for some of the most intensely felt kinks.

Undoubtedly! Being a recovering catholic myself I cannot help but see and appreciate the benefits of so many years of guilt infliction.

However....I was actually referring to the portion of it where it stops you from enjoying yourself as a result.

THAT, I feel, is where the truest damage is done.
Feel guilty! I say.
Cry your eyes out and be demoralized all you wish! I say.
Just make sure to come into my palm while I masturbate you as you do it.

*off to change my sig. line *

 

[pellso27]

keep trying!!!!

 

[IsabellaKing]

Organized religion is non-conducive to individual happiness.
A healthy thought process, a healthy appetite and a feeding of both is (i think) an absolute MUSt for the happy heart.

That's just me tho

God forbid that you should think I get any of my kicks from religion - organised or otherwise. An open mind and healthy thought process will always negate the need for such pervasive bondage.

 

[madetotakeit]

You eromassochist! (did I just create my own word there? Well if the current president can do it I can too)

You came in knowing it would get worse. You knew it!
*mmmmwwwaahahahahahahaha cough cough*

I can't laugh maniacaly as I used to anymore.

*le sigh*

A girl has to feed her masochistic tendencies somehow.

Like the new sig line...very appropriate...can't say you didn't warn anybody now.

 

[HottieMama]

So, here's a question ... what feelings does the fister get form this - it it psychological?, the view?, explain please .........

When I am the Top (fister) for me the feeling is a mixture of things...power...knowing that my bottom is completely under my control at that moment...ready..trusting ...open...vulnerable...just waiting for me inside them. It also just makes me really, really happy to see someone I care about deeply in so much pleasure.

As far as the view... I don't typically watch their pussy/ass, after I have my hand fully inside. I tend to look at their face, both to make reassuring eye contact, and to see the non-verbal expressions of pleasure. That way too...they can see how pleased I am doing it.

 

[twysted73]

When I am the Top (fister) for me the feeling is a mixture of things...power...knowing that my bottom is completely under my control at that moment...ready..trusting ...open...vulnerable...just waiting for me inside them. It also just makes me really, really happy to see someone I care about deeply in so much pleasure.

As far as the view... I don't typically watch their pussy/ass, after I have my hand fully inside. I tend to look at their face, both to make reassuring eye contact, and to see the non-verbal expressions of pleasure. That way too...they can see how pleased I am doing it.

Precisely!
I check the entrance to ensure the tonicity is there. That the skin isn't paling out.
Otherwise....it's my hand telling me what I want to know while allowing my eyes to lock onto theirs as they enjoy

 

[twysted73]

God forbid that you should think I get any of my kicks from religion - organised or otherwise. An open mind and healthy thought process will always negate the need for such pervasive bondage.

Oh. Well I'm glad to hear of it! "God forbid" eh?

A girl has to feed her masochistic tendencies somehow.

Like the new sig line...very appropriate...can't say you didn't warn anybody now.

Thank you. It was suggested I was causing disturbances without proper forwarning.
(which was half the fun anyway but now I can do so guilt-free. (which I did to an extent regardless but there you have it)

 

[IsabellaKing]

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[twysted73]

I'd sort of like to disagree with this slightly, Twysted. Trouble is, I don't think I can without going into a lengthy explanation as to how I know - only to find myself accused of not knowing at all.

I do know that I can take much larger dildo's than I used to be able to and that the smaller ones no longer satisfy me in the same way anymore - and because of this I'm assuming that there must have been some irrevocable stretching.

However, if you keep your pelvic floor muscles in tip top condition, I believe it's still possible for your man to experience the same tightness as before. I do wonder if some of the pleasure might be lost for the woman though.

All that said, I haven't had the experience of my husband's cock in my vagina for many years now. I married a sadist who, when he realised I got turned on by being denied things, decided to see just how far he could push me.

<-- 100% sincere when I say this as I hate to give out false info. If you find an article, pass it on!
I'd love to read it. (truly)
I like to provide valid info.

 

[IsabellaKing]

I have no other evidence, Twysted. I really only posted it as a personal observation.

 

[twysted73]

I have no other evidence, Twysted. I really only posted it as a personal observation.

ooooooooooooohhh..Gotcha

 

[EmpressFi]

Most women fear being stretched thinking that they'll forever be "loose" or that their partners henceforth won't feel much or that they won't sense their partner since they now need a greater girth.

Bollocks.
Total B/S. You're elastic there for a reason. It WILL regain it's shape. Infact....you, yourself can tighten it even more then it is BEFORE fisting by exercising your Kaegel's. <sp?>

Childbirth & Sexual Dysfunction - Understanding and Preventing ~ American Urogynocologic Society

Facts of Life - Vaginal Tightening ~ for this one, I thought that this paragraph was especially pertinent:

"It's a price that some women must pay for the reproductive burden of bearing children. If the vagina loses its tone and strength, if the pelvic muscles get too loose, even Olympic-caliber regimens of Kegel exercises won't help much. And sexual pleasure during intercourse may be diminished. In short, a woman won't feel as much sexually. Neither will her male partner."

 

[IsabellaKing]

I wasn't flogging a dead horse, then

But you can have your cake and eat it...if you're prepared to undergo a medical procedure

 

[ReadyOne]

Why childbirth (labor) helps

There are permanent physical changes that can make things somewhat easier in many cases. A doctor can always tell by observation if a woman went through (or well into) labor from the changed anatomy.

The body, in the process of labor, does some thing to help increase the size of the birth canal. For example, bones soften slightly and are bent to increase pelvic width. Connective tissue stretched by pressure of the fetal head being pushed don't allow things to return to quite the original (tighter) positions.

 

[TeachMeSir]

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[faeriefire]

VBAC!!! Oh, my! Vaginal Birth after Cesarian Section can and IMHO should be considered unless there are clear contraindications. It partially depends on the incision and the reason for the initial C/S. If you had a vertical (classic) incision then yes, VBAC is not encouraged as the incision site could reopen. But if you had a low transverse uterine incision (horizontal cut above pubis) VBAC is definately an option. Data show that 60-80% of women who attempt VBAC are successful in delivering vaginally.

Many women today choose to have a primary elective c/s which is definately within their rights, tho I still do not fully understand why someone would want to be cut open if another option were available. The recuperation period for a C/S is lengthy, milk production is often delayed, the mother is generally unconscious or on epidural anesthesia for the birth of their child not to mention the risks associated with the surgical proceedure for both mom and baby. I've witnessed both vaginal and c/s births and of the two I'm definately in favor of vaginal unless there is a clear need for surgery.

So yeah! VBAC may be an option, but it's not for every woman. Once a c/s always a c/s is a myth that holds true in some cases and not at all in others.

 

[HottieMama]

VBAC was not an option for me due to cervical issues that I have. (Cervical stenosis.) I would have LOVED to have one though.

The body, in the process of labor, does some thing to help increase the size of the birth canal. For example, bones soften slightly and are bent to increase pelvic width. Connective tissue stretched by pressure of the fetal head being pushed don't allow things to return to quite the original (tighter) positions.

Depends on the difficulty of the vaginal birth, as well as if the woman "tears" or has any other type of trauma to her pelvic floor, vagina, or perineum. I have a very good friend for whom fisting is now just about impossible due to the complications of her last vaginal birth. (She tore and almost hemmoraged. There is so much scar tissue that everything is extremely tight.)

 

[twysted73]

Strolls on in....

.................takes a deeeeeeeeeeeep breath, exhales and smiles. ****



God I love this subject.

 

[madetotakeit]

.................takes a deeeeeeeeeeeep breath, exhales and smiles. ****



God I love this subject.

You play nice. You've proven you can extol the virtues on this topic. Start that up again and before you know it there's going to be all number of frustrated subs roaming these boards.

 

[twysted73]

* grumbles at the medical facts *

Childbirth & Sexual Dysfunction - Understanding and Preventing ~ American Urogynocologic Society

Facts of Life - Vaginal Tightening ~ for this one, I thought that this paragraph was especially pertinent:

"It's a price that some women must pay for the reproductive burden of bearing children. If the vagina loses its tone and strength, if the pelvic muscles get too loose, even Olympic-caliber regimens of Kegel exercises won't help much. And sexual pleasure during intercourse may be diminished. In short, a woman won't feel as much sexually. Neither will her male partner."

All very good points. Here's another.

Unless it's to be placed into a tupperware container and preserved for some momentus occasion, why not use it before it naturally loses tonicity anyway?
Gravity and age will make it loose nomatter what.
I know for a fact my penis has a shelf life. That's why they invented Viagra.

Tomorrow isn't promised to anyone. Best to life for today.

 

[EmpressFi]

<-- 100% sincere when I say this as I hate to give out false info. If you find an article, pass it on!
I'd love to read it. (truly)
I like to provide valid info.

Hey.. you asked if someone found an article to pass it along.. dont grumble at me when you're proven wrong.