Validity of the Daddy/girl dynamic

[planetqueen]

You've obviously got some catching up to do.

And you have to work on your greeting her at the door routine.

You know you are right - and we need to work out which of us is going to wear the leather waistcoat. I think it should be her.

 

[planetqueen]

why aren't you naked?

Apart from a towel and some hair dye, I am

 

[RawHumor]

You know you are right - and we need to work out which of us is going to wear the leather waistcoat. I think it should be her.

New rule - lesbian relationships don't qualify as valid D/s relationships. In fact, the only valid D/s relationships need to be dominant male/submissive female. That way, there's no confusing female power trips. We all know how those tend to turn out.

 

[Andraste]

Apart from a towel and some hair dye, I am

someone get this girl a camera!

 

[planetqueen]

New rule - lesbian relationships don't qualify as valid D/s relationships. In fact, the only valid D/s relationships need to be dominant male/submissive female. That way, there's no confusing female power trips. We all know how those tend to turn out.

You have a point. I will dump her forthwith and find myself a dominant man to live with. I will know where I am then.

 

[RawHumor]

You have a point. I will dump her forthwith and find myself a dominant man to live with. I will know where I am then.

Good girl. You know your life will suddenly become so much more clear, then.

 

[planetqueen]

someone get this girl a camera!

With my hair up full of hairdye, and an old towel around my shoulders - trust me, its not a good look.

 

[Andraste]

You have a point. I will dump her forthwith and find myself a dominant man to live with. I will know where I am then.

nooo, you need a gf who likes men, so that we...*cough*...i mean you can make him a harem.

 

[Andraste]

With my hair up full of hairdye, and an old towel around my shoulders - trust me, its not a good look.

below the waist pics are good too

 

[myinnerslut]

new rules!

you can only be taken seriously in d/s if you...

#wear leather. leather trousers for him, leather collar for her. the more leather the better.

#have read the story of O three times and the marquis d'sade twice.

#own three different types of nipple clamps.

#ALWAYS, without fail, have her meet you at the door, naked & kneeling.

#refer to each other as sir and whore at all times, even in church. in fact, especially in church.

#parade around the local munch at least 6 times /year.

#have at least one room decorated in black leather & chains. whipping post a must! it makes a good conversation topic for dinner guests when they want to know why she's eating off the floor & wearing a pony butt plug.

#she must enjoy ALL sex acts. all the time.

#he must have a 12" wang.

there! i hope i've helped ease your confusion.
do feel free to add your own.

time to tell A that we arent REALLY into BDSM..... i wonder how that conversation is going to go....

 

[Andraste]

time to tell A that we arent REALLY into BDSM..... i wonder how that conversation is going to go....

buy him some leather shirts to soften the blow.

 

[HottieMama]

Ok..this thread just cracked me up...Thanks Andraste!!!!

The Daddy/littleone dynamic just "feels" right to me...moreso but not exclusive of any other, and i think i have finally gotten to a point in my life where i don't give a rat's ass what other people think about it.

 

[elizabeth22673]

Ok..this thread just cracked me up...Thanks Andraste!!!!

The Daddy/littleone dynamic just "feels" right to me...moreso but not exclusive of any other, and i think i have finally gotten to a point in my life where i don't give a rat's ass what other people think about it.

thumbs up hottiemama

 

[VaGentleOne]

My two cents worth

Hi all, i was introduced to the D/g arena just two monthes ago, and to be honest was very surprised to be asked at first, and very misguided as to what was expected and what a Daddy really did. But you know, I just went for it and decided that it would be fun to try, after all I had know my Princess for almost a year through the different threads.

Now fast foward two months, and lots of on the job training and a very understanding little girl, I can only ask, why have I never heard of this before, and why would something so beautiful and innocent get a bad rap? It's just a matter of trust, love, and understanding. Being there when they need you and showering them with the praise they need and deserve. But on the other hand letting them know when they are wrong, and punishing her accordingly.

As for everyone, like the others said, different strokes for different folks. My experience has been wonderful and has taught me more about myself then I could have known.

 

[elizabeth22673]

Hi all, i was introduced to the D/g arena just two monthes ago, and to be honest was very surprised to be asked at first, and very misguided as to what was expected and what a Daddy really did. But you know, I just went for it and decided that it would be fun to try, after all I had know my Princess for almost a year through the different threads.

Now fast foward two months, and lots of on the job training and a very understanding little girl, I can only ask, why have I never heard of this before, and why would something so beautiful and innocent get a bad rap? It's just a matter of trust, love, and understanding. Being there when they need you and showering them with the praise they need and deserve. But on the other hand letting them know when they are wrong, and punishing her accordingly.

As for everyone, like the others said, different strokes for different folks. My experience has been wonderful and has taught me more about myself then I could have known.

i'm glad your experience is a positive one Daddy
i love you

 

[MechaBlade]

new rules!

you can only be taken seriously in d/s if you...

#wear leather. leather trousers for him, leather collar for her. the more leather the better.

#have read the story of O three times and the marquis d'sade twice.

#own three different types of nipple clamps.

#ALWAYS, without fail, have her meet you at the door, naked & kneeling.

#refer to each other as sir and whore at all times, even in church. in fact, especially in church.

#parade around the local munch at least 6 times /year.

#have at least one room decorated in black leather & chains. whipping post a must! it makes a good conversation topic for dinner guests when they want to know why she's eating off the floor & wearing a pony butt plug.

#she must enjoy ALL sex acts. all the time.

#he must have a 12" wang.

there! i hope i've helped ease your confusion.
do feel free to add your own.

This is what it feels like sometimes when I come here.

No way! I'm not folding mine in half for any slut.

Nice.

So what if it's not valid? What does that even mean....they won't talk to you at the "munch"??

munch?

 

[Andraste]

This is what it feels like sometimes when I come here.

online, i tend to find that it's the people with the least rl experience that make a big deal over crap like that.

the correct way to deal with them is this...*points & laughs*

 

[His_pita]

I find it funny that so many people want to stick you in a box even if you're living an "alternative lifestyle"

My Daddy is my Dom. He is soft and hard. He is loving and sadistic. He is compassionate and unyielding. He is whatever he wants to be, and whatever he feels is right for the occasion. I'm his little gurl, his slut, his submissive, his slave. I would hate to have to pick just title to label us with.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Hillarious...

new rules!

you can only be taken seriously in d/s if you...

#wear leather. leather trousers for him, leather collar for her. the more leather the better.

#have read the story of O three times and the marquis d'sade twice.

#own three different types of nipple clamps.

#ALWAYS, without fail, have her meet you at the door, naked & kneeling.

#refer to each other as sir and whore at all times, even in church. in fact, especially in church.

#parade around the local munch at least 6 times /year.

#have at least one room decorated in black leather & chains. whipping post a must! it makes a good conversation topic for dinner guests when they want to know why she's eating off the floor & wearing a pony butt plug.

#she must enjoy ALL sex acts. all the time.

#he must have a 12" wang.

there! i hope i've helped ease your confusion.

do feel free to add your own.

Sad part is that some HNG will take this as gospel..

 

[Chris_Xavier]

It's just a matter of trust, love, and understanding. Being there when they need you and showering them with the praise they need and deserve. But on the other hand letting them know when they are wrong, and punishing her accordingly.

As for everyone, like the others said, different strokes for different folks. My experience has been wonderful and has taught me more about myself then I could have known.

Gosh.. sounds like a D/s relationship to me.. or what one is supposed to be like.

 

[Etoile]

Catching up just a bit.

having my sex partner view me as her daddy makes me soft.

You seem to have gotten Daddy/girl confused with incest play. They are two very different things - there have been many threads here about the difference. Allow me to recommend this post in particular for an explanation.

The argument I heard was that Daddy/girl relationships aren't really D/s because they are not as committed to the structure. That it isn't as intense as a "real" M/s dynamic. That it is more "fluffy" than what a real D/s dynamic is.

I've also been told that Daddy/girl relationships, they won't call them dynamics, are inherently temporary. That little girls always out grow their Daddys.

All I can say is: pfffffffffffft. Anytime somebody applies the word "real" to M/s I just can't believe it. Anybody who uses the word "real" is also going to be a "subbier/domlier than thou" type..."oh MY M/s is real, MY slavery is total, I am a true Master." What-EVER!

But anyway, are D/g dynamics more fluffy than M/s? I think at times they can be. But then again, M/s can be pretty fluffy at times too. I'd hate to be in any kind of relationship that was all serious all the time. Life needs laughter. We need fluff in our lives or we turn into stone statues.

As for temporary, well, all things are temporary, right? Somebody's going to die someday, right? But seriously, I have heard this one, from my own Daddy. Early in our relationship we talked about moving in, but the answer was "no" because "it wouldn't last." Supposedly because I was too young! (19 at the time.) But hey, we're still together 7 years later, as of next week.

you can only be taken seriously in d/s if you...

New rule - lesbian relationships don't qualify as valid D/s relationships. In fact, the only valid D/s relationships need to be dominant male/submissive female. That way, there's no confusing female power trips. We all know how those tend to turn out.

Shit. I'm a lesbian in a poly relationship with a vanilla woman and an ambiguously-gendered Daddy. Am I valid or not???

Wait, I know the answer to that. I am fine the way I am, and anybody who says otherwise is getting ripped a new one.

 

[CutieMouse]

*warm squishy nice to see you again hellos to Etoile*

 

[Etoile]

*warm squishy nice to see you again hellos to Etoile*

Hey, beautiful! I trust you've been keeping the freaks under control?

 

[CutieMouse]

Hey, beautiful! I trust you've been keeping the freaks under control?

Ohhh yeah... it's been craziness around here... rumore of hot sister on sister action between Chicklet and I, Shanky and IntoTheWoods have both been acting like my vintage lingerie slaves, I've had to politely explain what a ginormous freaking prude I am... being the Supreme Mugwump of Kink is simply exhausting.

 

[njlexi]

Hi all, i was introduced to the D/g arena just two monthes ago, and to be honest was very surprised to be asked at first, and very misguided as to what was expected and what a Daddy really did.

What did you think D/g was? What did you think a Daddy really did?