Validity of the Daddy/girl dynamic

[intothewoods]

Ohhh yeah... it's been craziness around here... rumore of hot sister on sister action between Chicklet and I, Shanky and IntoTheWoods have both been acting like my vintage lingerie slaves, I've had to politely explain what a ginormous freaking prude I am... being the Supreme Mugwump of Kink is simply exhausting.

I can't speak for Shank, but I am you devoted lingerie slave.

 

[Shankara20]

I can't speak for Shank, but I am you devoted lingerie slave.

I'd post a longer response but I gota go finish hand washing her lingerie

 

[elizabeth22673]

What did you think D/g was? What did you think a Daddy really did?

I think my Daddy was just saying that he didn't know what a Daddy or Dom did until just recently. He didn't understand the Dom/sub relationships prior to 'us'. He had a perception that perhaps it was unhealthy and he didn't understand it until now. And I think he's still learning a lot about 'our' relationship and interested in learning about other relationships too....

He can correct me if I'm wrong...If I am, I'm sorry Daddy

Anyway, he's been a wonderful Daddy and takes very good care of me. I'm so glad he gave the relationship a try a couple months ago when he was a bit skeptical. He was there for me just when I needed him the most...and he's been there for me ever since.

Thank you Daddy
Liz

 

[RawHumor]

Shit. I'm a lesbian in a poly relationship with a vanilla woman and an ambiguously-gendered Daddy. Am I valid or not???

Of course you're not. Haven't you read the thread? There are rules and guidelines.

Plus, women don't really enjoy being together sexually, it's all just foreplay to arouse the men in their lives.




















*hides*

 

[Etoile]

Plus, women don't really enjoy being together sexually, it's all just foreplay to arouse the men in their lives.

Next you're going to tell me all I need is a good deep dicking!

oh wait, I'm already one of those penetration-happy dykes...

 

[FluteMaster]

I can't speak for Shank, but I am you devoted lingerie slave.

So you will only be a slave if you get to wear lingerie?? But the rule says you're supposed to be naked and kneeling at the door.

 

[Shankara20]

So you will only be a slave if you get to wear lingerie?? But the rule says you're supposed to be naked and kneeling at the door.

ITW - send all that lingerie you no longer need to me......

 

[RawHumor]

Next you're going to tell me all I need is a good deep dicking!

oh wait, I'm already one of those penetration-happy dykes...

Haven't I already told you about the power of my magic penis? It "cures" all so-called lesbians.




Okay... I'll stop now before anyone starts to think I'm serious and everyone else starts hating me regardless of whether I am or not.

 

[intothewoods]

So you will only be a slave if you get to wear lingerie?? But the rule says you're supposed to be naked and kneeling at the door.

Isn't there enough time for both?

 

[intothewoods]

ITW - send all that lingerie you no longer need to me......

You wish!

signed,
the lingerie whore

 

[elizabeth22673]

Haven't I already told you about the power of my magic penis? It "cures" all so-called lesbians.




Okay... I'll stop now before anyone starts to think I'm serious and everyone else starts hating me regardless of whether I am or not.

lol, was having fun with it too!

 

[intothewoods]

Haven't I already told you about the power of my magic penis? It "cures" all so-called lesbians.




Okay... I'll stop now before anyone starts to think I'm serious and everyone else starts hating me regardless of whether I am or not.

Daddy, I want a magic penis too! (visions of a porno version of Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory are dancing in my head)

 

[RawHumor]

Daddy, I want a magic penis too! (visions of a porno version of Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory are dancing in my head)

LOL

The girl who ate the magic blueberry turned into a giant bluish blueberry girl.

Imagine...

 

[FluteMaster]

Daddy, I want a magic penis too! (visions of a porno version of Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory are dancing in my head)

Well my little one...come and sit on my lap, and I will tell all about the story of the princess and the magic penis.

"Once upon a time a land called pornia........"

And everone else can go away...this is a private story telling.

 

[FluteMaster]

Isn't there enough time for both?

Well, I checked the rules again..and it's only supposed to be compulsory for you to be naked by the door when I come home...so you can wear lingerie at other times.

(Obviously not a Dom here....he negotiates )

 

[FluteMaster]

LOL

The girl who ate the magic blueberry turned into a giant bluish blueberry girl.

Imagine...

She would taste of blueberry muff in?

 

[intothewoods]

Well my little one...come and sit on my lap, and I will tell all about the story of the princess and the magic penis.

"Once upon a time a land called pornia........"

And everone else can go away...this is a private story telling.

Oh goody!

 

[VaGentleOne]

What did you think D/g was? What did you think a Daddy really did?

I think Liz summed it up really well. i really had no idea what one was or did or what would be expected, but being a very open minded individual, i am game for anything and have loved doing this.

Having no idea what the relationship was, i would say I never considered it unhealthy, it was just different, and when I briefly asked my Princess late last year about Daddy expereince, I had the perception that it may have been a real Daddy replacement and even incest related, now I know much better and love the time we have had.

 

[MechaBlade]

online, i tend to find that it's the people with the least rl experience that make a big deal over crap like that.

the correct way to deal with them is this...*points & laughs*

Will do.

Haven't I already told you about the power of my magic penis? It "cures" all so-called lesbians.




Okay... I'll stop now before anyone starts to think I'm serious and everyone else starts hating me regardless of whether I am or not.

I'll take over here: "Lesbians" don't really exist anyway. Haven't you read the BDSM charter?

 

[Etoile]

I'll take over here: "Lesbians" don't really exist anyway. Haven't you read the BDSM charter?

I'll let you tell her that...

 

[Little_Kitten]

Im actually very confused about the D/g relationship... I've always seen it as the Daddy being caring and quite fatherly, while the girl would be in need for care and support and security, which was provided by her "Daddy" :-/
But as much as I try reading about it, I don't really understand it perfectly.
I've thought about it, and I really want to know spexifixally what it's all about, as I have a little suspicion that I might have a bit of those needs in me....

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Im actually very confused about the D/g relationship... I've always seen it as the Daddy being caring and quite fatherly, while the girl would be in need for care and support and security, which was provided by her "Daddy" :-/
But as much as I try reading about it, I don't really understand it perfectly.
I've thought about it, and I really want to know spexifixally what it's all about, as I have a little suspicion that I might have a bit of those needs in me....

It's not a dynamic that is applicable to me or my relationships. I am simply not wired to appreciate it at a personal level.

You may however find this thread as another resource for potential exploration.

 

[Ice2000]

Catching up just a bit.


You seem to have gotten Daddy/girl confused with incest play. They are two very different things - there have been many threads here about the difference. Allow me to recommend this post in particular for an explanation.

Etoile .. your 100% correct, I never viewed it like that before, thanks for the education. Still not my thing but I can see how it would be a turn-on for many..

 

[elizabeth22673]

Im actually very confused about the D/g relationship... I've always seen it as the Daddy being caring and quite fatherly, while the girl would be in need for care and support and security, which was provided by her "Daddy" :-/
But as much as I try reading about it, I don't really understand it perfectly.
I've thought about it, and I really want to know spexifixally what it's all about, as I have a little suspicion that I might have a bit of those needs in me....

Honey, you and your Daddy can make the relationship exactly what you two want it to be. After I came across this article...http://www.vanilla-not.com/basics/daddydom.html I knew THAT was what I wanted.

I hope you find what you are looking for sweetie

 

[SensualMan_in_PA]

Honey, you and your Daddy can make the relationship exactly what you two want it to be. After I came across this article...http://www.vanilla-not.com/basics/daddydom.html I knew THAT was what I wanted.

I hope you find what you are looking for sweetie

This essentially says it all. Without mutual love and respect the D/g relationship would not function. For my Little Girl and I, it is not power trip but a true power exchange as Daddy nurtures her.