Wax Play...have you tried it?

You can't use candles to pull on a nipple like you can do with some hot tongs.

You can have a similar effect when pulling off the cooled wax from a nipple. Is the nipple is aroused you can get a very ood covering along the erect height and then slowly peel off, more sensations.

Just be careful with hot wax on sensitive areas, nipples and clit and vagina initially until you know the person is okay. I stay away from the face, the reasons should be obvious.

Good use of bbq tools Primalex.
 
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Not in a sexual fashion. It's fun but I think I got it out of my system long, long ago.

I used to make all kinds of candles. That was fun. In those days. the wicking often had a bit of metal wire inside to keep it stiffer. I believe that was lead. Have not seen that sort of wick in years.

As the candle burned, little balls of metal would pop out into the melted wax. I loved dipping my fingers in there, getting them coated with wax, then picking the little balls out. I also liked squishing the soft top of the candle to divert the wax to various places.

When I got older, I did try dripping wax on various parts of my body, like my nipple, arm, belly, etc. The cooled wax had some interesting imprints on it but in no way did I get turned on and I doubt that I would if my lover did it.
 
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It is very pretty in pictures but it’s hot. If you like hot things it is the coolest of hot fire play so you should find someone experienced that’s not too big a sadist and try it.

I’ll never forget watching someone pour a cup full of hot wax on a girls personal parts and my first thought ( while I watched her jump up in a sitting position) was wow she can sure take it..
 
I've experimented with wax play for many years, both giving and receiving. What I really like about it is the the variability of sensation, from soothing warm sensual liquid to searing hot droplets. It's easy to control the temperature by varying the height of the candle over the skin -- the higher the candle is positioned, the cooler the dripped wax is.

It's also an easy activity to do to yourself. (avoid non-drip wax, though -- it can get dangerously hot!)
 
As top I didn't find it particularly interesting, although I wouldn't dismiss a bottom who would want some wax experience.

But if someone wants to experience some temperature play and I have free rein, I prefer to use my stainless steel bbq tools, which I bring to the desired controlled temperature via water bath. You can't use candles to pull on a nipple like you can do with some hot tongs. Then again, it does lack the artistic vibe of wax - unless you happen to pose for The Torturer Calendar 2021.

Sounds like your experienced. I’d love to see your tongs and learn much more about how you keep them heated via a water bath as liquid does seem to loose its heat or gain it quickly and requires someone watching it carefully.
Hopefully you have a second that helps you with it.
 
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that I think it would be best not to wax anything that has hair. Unless you're into that and you like the look!

I am only mentioning this because I did find a photo on the internet that was pretty great. She had wax covering her thighs and every spot in between...even her mons.

I really need to experiment and Covid needs to gtfo so I can get back to my BDSM group! If I want to expand things where more people are likely to be, I can go to a bigger city instead of BFE.

My order will be going out soon, I think I know what I want to get to start...just to see if I can take it. I know it'll be hotter because my arms can only go so high, and dripping from a higher vantage point is best to reduce the heat.

Who's with me? Say rawrrrrr!
 
Yes yes yes

Ooh absolutely beautiful.
When done the right way can be very very erotic.
Absolutely gorgeous...
I'd definitely be keen to try this.
 
It's the element of the surprise and not knowing how hot it will be or if it will hurt.
 
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Knives aren't my "thing" - but hands certainly are!

Knives are very much my thing, love to tease a sub with a blade. Even if it's one from a comic book store that looks impressive but is actually useless. They don't know that if I've really got into their head.
 
On accident after moving a candle. Burt the crap out of my hand, still have the scar. Way different than paraffin for waxing.

Athough Ive never used them I thought you could get candles made with paraffin or a partially paraffin mix . I have had paraffin "painted" on me with a brush and a burner-heater similar to a crock pot when I first learned of wax as a demo

Some candles are just not as good for wax work and some burn too hot.

Ive always dripped a little on my arm or hand to make sure the temp was not too hot before transferring to a submissive
 
I have never tried it ever. Think I would only do it with someone I fully trusted and they knew what they were doing. I'm very new to BDSM, so I know trust is really important between both people. I'm looking forward to learning more about it though. I'm sure there's safe candles to use for Wax Play.
 
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