What do you consider happy and complete...

[James G 5]

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Along the journey I've also learned that no one else in this world is going to like and love me as much as I do. I have to spend the most amount of time with me - even if I were with some one.

I just don't think anyone could stand me full time
After a few hours, I start to annoy myself

 

[Ebonyfire]

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Ok
No attacking me without bowing first

You crack me up, James!

 

[James G 5]

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You crack me up, James!

You missed the whole thread where Bunny said her martial arts skills would let her beat my ass in a fight, huh?

And I'm a Discordian
Humor is my life

 

[Ebonyfire]

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You missed the whole thread where Bunny said her martial arts skills would let her beat my ass in a fight, huh?

And I'm a Discordian
Humor is my life

I read it, but I stay out of fights. Where I come from fights are to the death.

 

[James G 5]

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I read it, but I stay out of fights. Where I come from fights are to the death.

"No, NOT to the death.............To the PAIN!"

 

[WynEternal]

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"No, NOT to the death.............To the PAIN!"

Groan... And here I held off yesterday for fear of a cyber cane coming at my butt.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Happy? Yeah. Complete? Maybe not, not while I'm mostly alone in the world.

 

[Richard49]

Define Happy

Define complete

 

[Ebonyfire]

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I just don't think anyone could stand me full time
After a few hours, I start to annoy myself

Please quit bragging!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Define Happy

Define complete

If you have to ask, you wouldn't understand the answer...do you need a week at the Johnny Mayberry "Life is GOOD!!" Seminar?

 

[James G 5]

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Groan... And here I held off yesterday for fear of a cyber cane coming at my butt.

Come now, I thought you understood
*I* am ALLOWED

 

[James G 5]

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Please quit bragging!

Ok, speaking as someone who's occasionaly been accused of arrogance rolleyes: ), how was THAT bragging?
LOL

 

[Netzach]

Do I need someone else to make me complete and happy?

No. I need someone in the plural though. Without a love interest I'm fine, without friends, I'm not.

 

[Ebonyfire]

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Ok, speaking as someone who's occasionaly been accused of arrogance rolleyes: ), how was THAT bragging?
LOL

If you have to ask......LOL

 

[James G 5]

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If you have to ask......LOL

That's it
Floggers at 5 paces Lady

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

<snip> We all strive to be happy and feel complete. But is it realistic to hope that someone can give you those feelings?basque

I need to have those feelings on my own, before I enter into any kind of relationship--friendship, sexual relationship, what-have-you. Those feelings, happiness, completeness; are MY responsibility, and without them, I don't feel right inside. Sure, I'm going to have days when I'm sad, or days when I feel incomplete, or less-than, but I want to feel as much of a "whole" person as I can possibly be without "outside help" so to speak.

I can't see myself depending on someone to be the sole source of my happiness, much less my completeness. I want them to accentuate my happiness, add bright sparks to an already beautiful day; be a partner, not half of a whole. For me, that makes my life that much richer. I don't want to be subsumed in someone else. I want to stand alone, but be a part of.
Thanks basque, for the interesting thread.

Anelize

 

[lassarina]

It took me many years to learn to be content with myself. i think that it was a valuable lesson to learn and that made my first Master lagnaippe to me as He was an unlooked for surprise. He has been gone almost 5 years now and i am just now slipping back into D/s. It would be nice to have Someone but it will have to be the right Dominant Ok-i'll stop whining now!!

Brightest blessings,

lass