What's your favorite BDSM toy?

[sexychik69]

So, now that I have a few people following this thread, new question...

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Tell us about a time where you introduced/were introduced to a new toy during a session and what it was like. Is it now your favorite toy? Is it just used for punishment? Is it something you wish He/She never bought (for subs)? Did it introduce an entire new sensation to you (like going from crop to paddle) from what you're used to?

Just tell us about it. I think this will become quite interesting.

 

[Dragonteeth]

Tell us about a time where you introduced/were introduced to a new toy during a session and what it was like. Is it now your favorite toy? Is it just used for punishment? Is it something you wish He/She never bought (for subs)? Did it introduce an entire new sensation to you (like going from crop to paddle) from what you're used to?

An interesting question. For me every scene I do seems to be a "New" scene, but as a Dom I like to try toys on myself before I use them on anyone else. It does nothing for me, I'm not a switch, but it is usefull to have a good idea of what it feels like.

I particularly remember one occasion when I was testing out some flogers. The young lady I was working with was a cheeky girl, and I'd given her a stroke or two before we swithched. I got on all fours and she gave my buttocks a going over, but then she got mischevious and flicked the tips right between my things. she caught my balls fairly full on and it was EXTREMELY uncomfortable. It earned her a thourough punnishment.

On the plus side I did learn a lot about how floggers FEEL in that session. It's one thing to learn how to wield one, but it's quite different when one is on the recieving end. A whole different apreciation of how versatile they can be.

 

[sharezade]

Excellent thread

I read the entire thread, and now I have an answer.

A "gentleman" friend and I had been discussing BDSM for some time. As we were only firends (though he wanted more), we had never explored it together. I honestly believed that he was only interested because I was. Kinda like when you tell somebody something stupid to make them go away...but they don't. I figured my kink would scare him off and we'd just remain friends. He didn't even blink.

Having reached a VERY mature age without ever experiencing an orgasm, I suggested that we might experiment. I mean, how bad could it be. I had my own equipment, so I could show him what I thought I needed. WRONG.

I get to the hotel, my little toybag in tow, only to find that there was much more to him that I ever imagined. He had a virtual "Dungeon-in-a-Box"; the pièce de ré‧sis‧tance being a pair of custom made 5' spreader bars with multiple eyehooks for absolutely anything you might imagine.

So...favorite toy...spreader bars, rope bondage...good, new experience...my VERY FIRST ORGASM!

I married him.

 

[Dragonteeth]

So...favorite toy...spreader bars, rope bondage...good, new experience...my VERY FIRST ORGASM!

I married him.

Congratulations sharezade.

 

[neonflux]

Answering both questions...

FAVORITE TOY:
When Topping, I love ropes for their aesthetic value. Just took a workshop session with one of the Knotty Boys and want to learn more about predicament bondage - They have a great book coming out which you can pre-order on Amazon: "Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage." (And no, I am not their press agent, LOL) When subbing, I adore heavy pain with floggers and single tails (used judiciously) being my favorites.

NEW EXPERIENCE:
I had a play piercing done to me during the graduation ceremony for a recent weekend intensive I took for Dominant and switch women. The power/energy exchange was amazing - one of the Trainers pierced me on both sides above my breasts and then wrapped rubber bands around the piercings. These were then attached to a rope - almost like a mini-Sundance ritual. At one point had my sub, who wasn't willing to do it also, grip the rope in his teeth and pull on it while he was on his knees - amazing. I also think that if done correctly, the patterns one makes can be beautiful. The pain isn't as great as it might seem and the skin is so elastic that the piercings don't usually leave bruises. While it's often considered edge play, it seems very safe if you stick to certain guidelines. Want very much to learn how to do this.

~Neon

 

[Dragonteeth]

FAVORITE TOY:
When Topping, I love ropes for their aesthetic value.

That sound's famillar. I love artistic ropework, could you explain the term "predicament bondage", not a term I'm familliar with, and I thought I'd come across most of them, figuratively if not litterally.

NEW EXPERIENCE:
I had a play piercing done to me during the graduation ceremony for a recent weekend intensive I took for Dominant and switch women. The power/energy exchange was amazing - one of the Trainers pierced me on both sides above my breasts and then wrapped rubber bands around the piercings. These were then attached to a rope - almost like a mini-Sundance ritual.

That sounds really erotic, have done a little needle play/temporary piercing. Would you like to take this conversation to PM?

 

[neonflux]

Regarding predicament bondage...

That sound's famillar. I love artistic ropework, could you explain the term "predicament bondage", not a term I'm familliar with, and I thought I'd come across most of them, figuratively if not litterally.

Predicament bondage - you tie the ropes in such a way that when Your sub moves one part of her body, it causes pain in another. It can be used to add to the overall enjoyment of the experience (especially if One is a little impish as a Dom/me )or to ensure that a sub stays in the position you want him to - for instance with legs spread as wide as possible. What's most fun! Seeing how long it takes for him/her to figure out what you've done.

That sounds really erotic, have done a little needle play/temporary piercing. Would you like to take this conversation to PM?

Absolutely...

Neon

 

[Dragonteeth]

Predicament bondage - you tie the ropes in such a way that when Your sub moves one part of her body, it causes pain in another. It can be used to add to the overall enjoyment of the experience (especially if One is a little impish as a Dom/me )or to ensure that a sub stays in the position you want him to - for instance with legs spread as wide as possible. What's most fun! Seeing how long it takes for him/her to figure out what you've done.



Absolutely...

Neon

Ah right...

Didn't know the term but very familliar with the concept... LOL



Thanks

 

[leeroy jenkins]

I thought I would give this a bit of a bump.

My mostest favorite toy is riding crop, if used correctly they can be discomforting and it makes really nice bruises.

As for a new experience I am hoping this month meaning January as December is all but over that one of my semi regular playmates will bring out "Red". A toy called that because she won't let it be used on her and quickly calls red if it were to leave the drawer. From what I have heard of it sounds like a flogger but has plastic bead.

 

[Toa_lin]

does rope count as a toy? if not, then It definately has to be a rope flogger, ((any1 notice a slight trend there? ))

 

[the captians wench]

I thought I would give this a bit of a bump.

My mostest favorite toy is riding crop, if used correctly they can be discomforting and it makes really nice bruises.

As for a new experience I am hoping this month meaning January as December is all but over that one of my semi regular playmates will bring out "Red". A toy called that because she won't let it be used on her and quickly calls red if it were to leave the drawer. From what I have heard of it sounds like a flogger but has plastic bead.

Holly crap I may know what you mean! My friends used one one me that was made of marti gras beads. Thing stings like a bitch, but the feeling is more than a streight sting. It's hard to explain. I don't last very long when it's used, and I curse it every time I see it, but just like the tacks sometimes I just crave that sinsation. Infact. I found some cheap christmas bead garland that looks a lot like the marti gras beads, and made my own set for Master. Tho he won't get them till I visit.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Holly crap I may know what you mean! My friends used one one me that was made of marti gras beads. Thing stings like a bitch, but the feeling is more than a streight sting. It's hard to explain. I don't last very long when it's used, and I curse it every time I see it, but just like the tacks sometimes I just crave that sinsation. Infact. I found some cheap christmas bead garland that looks a lot like the marti gras beads, and made my own set for Master. Tho he won't get them till I visit.

So would you play with this toy again??

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Current Fave Toy:

My brand new 4' long, black and red signal whip

Newest Experience:
I took that rascal for a "test drive" Christmas night and I'm told it was wonderful!

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Current Fave Toy:

My brand new 4' long, black and red signal whip

Newest Experience:
I took that rascal for a "test drive" Christmas night and I'm told it was wonderful!

I think I saw you say this on the bdsm personals thread, but my question is what does it look like, having hard time visualizing it. I know the roommate has a buggy whip that is nice. So is it something like that or maybe closer to a bull whip??

 

[the captians wench]

So would you play with this toy again??

Foockin right I would!

Not that I usually get a choice of what's used on me and what isn't.

It does rank up there with canes and tacks, but I do enjoy it from time to time, as I do the others. I know Master will love the sounds and squirms it gets from me, and that makes pushing myself a little so totally worth it.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

I think I found a brand new favorite toy over this holiday weekend. I had rubber bands used on me. Not the tiny ones but one that are body sized, so on my back and chest and arms I have strips where it hit. It has a similar stripes that you might find with caning but now I have on them on both sides of my arms.

 

[leZilla]

The custom-made elk hide flogger I got for Christmas.

 

[trojan_man_co]

yummy

i have to say my absolute favorite thing to use during sex is NOT a hand, it is NOT a crop, IN FACT IT DOES NOT even inflict pain. My favorite thing to use is simply a blind fold and ear plugs. With it you add surprise shock mystery and of course suspense. When in use any other thing you add pleasure pain ect is heightened. that’s why i enjoy it more its the most versatile thing i have.