Why do female subs go through Masters like toilet paper?

[P. B. Walker]

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And, extrapolating what goes on in this forum onto the real world does work???? LOL

Generally yes.

PBW

 

[WriterDom]

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Of course you are the exception, at least in your mind.

Maybe you should find a smaller strap-on. I think the one you use now is reaching your brain.

Sure, there are times do to family or social interference or illness that sex wasn't proper, but during play, my subs gave me whatever I asked for in terms of sex without question. And they loved doing it. And I certainly don't think I'm an exception.

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

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Maybe you should find a smaller strap-on. I think the one you use now is reaching your brain.

Sure, there are times do to family or social interference or illness that sex wasn't proper, but during play, my subs gave me whatever I asked for in terms of sex without question. And they loved doing it. And I certainly don't think I'm an exception.

I'll reserve comment on what I think, little man.

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

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Generally yes.

PBW

Ohhhhhh kay ... can't argue with that kind of fallacious logic.

 

[lark sparrow]

a little attempt at levity

I prefer Charmin cause it's squeezably soft.

lark "Hates to see the good guys fight" sparrow

 

[lovetoread]

Sounds more like a pissing contest.

 

[P. B. Walker]

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Ohhhhhh kay ... can't argue with that kind of fallacious logic.

Exactly...

PBW

 

[P. B. Walker]

Sounds more like a pissing contest.

I bet I can piss higher on the wall than you LTR... <winks>

PBW

 

[lovetoread]

I bet I can piss higher on the wall than you LTR... <winks>

PBW

You obviously have not seen me pee.

 

[P. B. Walker]

You obviously have not seen me pee.

No I haven't. But I'm willing to take you on. Just give me plenty of water LOL. And no watching dammit... I get pee fright.

PBW

 

[RisiaSkye]

Just making conversation. It really wasn't the one that PMed me that promised to leave here forever that made me ask the question. But I always wondered about the other forum guru.

Some people hook up quickly because they're no good at celibacy. Or they're emotionally needy and don't know how to take time for themselves, to get centered before moving on to the next thing.

Or, and I hate to be reductive here--but it's true--they do it because they *can.* It seems to me it's easier for female subs to find a partner (especially a disposable partner) than for anyone else in the scene. Just a fact of life, if you ask me.

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

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Or, and I hate to be reductive here--but it's true--they do it because they *can.* It seems to me it's easier for female subs to find a partner (especially a disposable partner) than for anyone else in the scene. Just a fact of life, if you ask me.

I maintain that not only is that statement the gospel truth, but that the same thing holds true for female Dommes. Virtually any woman on this board could have a harem of real-time male slaves, at the snap of her fingers, if she so desired.

 

[MissTaken]

It isn't as if this "issue" is exclusive to women or subs.

Men play the game as well.

Working subs on the internet, having contact lists that far surpass the payroll list at the UN. Leading, teasing, meeting some, living with one, meeting others.

It happens all over.

My theory is that the internet has made dating and commitment of any kind easier. That is fine, until you are drawn back to the candy store before your m and m's are gone....or never leave the candy store.

 

[lark sparrow]

I agree that it is not limited to women or subs or heterosexuality, for that matter - it's often a human relationship condition.

I didn't answer because although I am a female sub, I do not submit to Masters, and I have been with the same Domme since Aug. 2001, some of that time spent face to face physically but the majority of it spent online and other more readily available forms of communication other than skin-to-skin in a LDR. So, I'm the exception to all of the above.

I believe certain men do it as much as certain women - it does take two to tango, and it can be a relationship pattern. As to the original question why female subs go through Doms like toilet paper - I dunno. But it is an interesting and thoughtful read.

 

[RisiaSkye]

I maintain that not only is that statement the gospel truth, but that the same thing holds true for female Dommes. Virtually any woman on this board could have a harem of real-time male slaves, at the snap of her fingers, if she so desired.

Good point, CBM. In fact, Dommes may have it easiest of all, out here in RL. There are a zillion sub-boys looking for a Domme, even in a tiny little circle like my local munch group (for Leather folk under 35).

 

[MissTaken]

I maintain that not only is that statement the gospel truth, but that the same thing holds true for female Dommes. Virtually any woman on this board could have a harem of real-time male slaves, at the snap of her fingers, if she so desired.

I agree that women could snap their fingers and have their choice, but would those subs or, in my case, Doms be the "right" men for us women?

No.

Or I wouldnt' be single.

Those who are searching for something more meaningful than a willing playmate do struggle and learn by trial and error.

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

I agree that women could snap their fingers and have their choice, but would those subs or, in my case, Doms be the "right" men for us women?

No.

Or I wouldnt' be single.

Those who are searching for something more meaningful than a willing playmate do struggle and learn by trial and error.

I don't believe in the concept of the right or wrong person for whomever. But, I can respect your belief in it.

 

[MissTaken]

I don't believe in the concept of the right or wrong person for whomever. But, I can respect your belief in it.

Thank you.

By right or wrong, I am simply referring to certain basic standards that most intelligent and serious people require in a relationship.

Trust and honesty, consideration and respect would be the three that are most often feigned in my experience.

Also that I live in an area where there is no BDSM scene and rumors of anal sex would lead to me having to wear a scarlet letter, online is the only real interaction I have available to me in order to engage in the discussion or get to know other BDSMers. However, that I dont' do on line submission, the pc is a tool by which to meet people, get to know them and see where it goes from there.

It hasn't been all bad, but as for the "right one"? When you are someone who is never into casual dating, it gets trickier.

My profile at bondage.com has been shut down for a couple of months. My other profiles are dormant.

Time for a break, methinks.

While I have never engaged in a D/s relationship from anyone at lit, in a way, it seems a better way to get to know someone, see how they interact in a community, (even though it is on line) and gives one a better idea of whom they are engaging with.

Sorry to babble on....haven't had enough coffee yet, and my thoughts are a bit fuzzy.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I maintain that not only is that statement the gospel truth, but that the same thing holds true for female Dommes. Virtually any woman on this board could have a harem of real-time male slaves, at the snap of her fingers, if she so desired.

True. What stops me form having a harem is that simply put, I do not want to work that hard.

Eb

 

[DutchmansDomme]

CBM You are 100% Correct

ALL heterosexual men are SLAVES to feminine beauty. Whether a man wants to spank a beautiful woman's ass or lick it, the basic motivation is the same. He can't get close enough to that place of supreme beauty and desireability that is RULED by the female. Soft, silky FEMININE flesh invades his mind.

Whether a woman chooses to be a Domme or a sub she will always have a line of willing dick-driven males who will play by HER rules. How many women who want to spank an ass have trouble finding a willing play partner? And how many women who want their asses spanked have trouble finding a willing play partner? Exactly.

A woman who understands her beauty and power can always find someone to get kinky with. And if she uses her brain power too, no man she wants can resist her. And she can have any kind of relationship with him SHE chooses if she is willing to use what she knows to make him behave.

Expose his weaknesses. Use his fetishes to entrap him. It's all in a day's work.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I agree that women could snap their fingers and have their choice, but would those subs or, in my case, Doms be the "right" men for us women?

No.

Or I wouldnt' be single.

Those who are searching for something more meaningful than a willing playmate do struggle and learn by trial and error.

Ah, but MsT some of us are not married by choice. I am one of those. It does not mean that my or others' choices are not meaningful, they are just different.

Eb

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

I found that comment a little presumptuous as well. However, I didn't think that it was my place speak on what motivates a woman's choices.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I found that comment a little presumptuous as well. However, I didn't think that it was my place speak on what motivates a woman's choices.

My post was in clarification. I am one of those women who do not find matrimony nirvana.

Eb

 

[UCE]

There will always be guys out for a piece of ass. That really has nothing to do with bdsm. But it seems like reasonably intelligent subs feel like they have no self worth unless they are owned.

Hmmm...I know an awful lot of guys who have no selfworth if they're not getting laid. Maybe I just know the wrong guys?

Actually what I think is that the majority of sub women are like the majority of dom guys, desperate for something, anything, and while that "thing" might differ (piece of ass vs. piece of emotion) they both show an equal eagerness to rid themselves of their "single" state in order to get it. The difference is all in the hormones, I think.

There's a few in every crowd who are willing to wait, if not for the perfect situation, then for a hell of a good one to come around, but patience is a virture not much practiced by anybody these days. And I think this is an equal opportunity thing: in other words, if you're going to expect submissives to exhibit remarkable self-control and not jump into the realtionships they find so addictive then you also have to expect equal stregth of character from dominants--and for the guys, that translates into physical celibacy. If a dominant cannot maange to exert such a level of restraint, then what right has he or she to expect something equally difficult from a submissive--something he or she is incapable of?

There's another point of view too, which I don't espouse because I am of the "wait and you'll be much less burned" way of thought, but it has merit and deserves mention. Some people believe that hopping from ass to ass or relationship to relationship teaches them more and more about what they are really looking for in the ideal partner. The time isn't wasted, in other words--it's put to good use. Unfortunately for this argument, most people do not, in fact, learn from their mistakes, but for the few who do, partner-hopping (whether it is done via a realtionship or via a piece of ass: two means, same end) might not be a bad idea.

Unda. Crucia. Eximius.

 

[Ebonyfire]

There's another point of view too, which I don't espouse because I am of the "wait and you'll be much less burned" way of thought, but it has merit and deserves mention. Some people believe that hopping from ass to ass or relationship to relationship teaches them more and more about what they are really looking for in the ideal partner. The time isn't wasted, in other words--it's put to good use. Unfortunately for this argument, most people do not, in fact, learn from their mistakes, but for the few who do, partner-hopping (whether it is done via a realtionship or via a piece of ass: two means, same end) might not be a bad idea.

I have heard of that approach too. but I when I talk to men and women who have this approach, many of them feel they have left a bit of themselves behind with every encounter. Some even begin to feel used up after a while. It is sad if eventually a person finds they have nothing left to give.

Eb