Why do women like anal sex?

I don't really like it in and of itself, but as others have said, it's hot turning men on with it. I'm definitely a masochist/bottom and I like when men [consensually] "abuse" me. Anal hurts a lot, so.
 
The first time someone put anything in my ass was in college. It was a finger, and I recalled saying, “That feels so weird,” but I certainly didn’t ask him to take it out.

The fact is, a finger in my Netherlands became a required step in finishing me off (still is). The real issue was asking a guy who didn’t know what I needed, if he would be open to ass play. Turns out, they always are.

But when it came to the next step, something bigger than a finger, that’s when I got a big surprise.

I was ready to move up, and when I was with a guy I felt was the right size, I suggested we try some alternatives. He did not get my drift at all. Finally, I just told him, “Anal, I want to do anal." That, he understood.

Definitely his first time as well because he attacked like it was a porn movie, and I screamed in pain. He kept pushing, and my opening was fighting him off, aware that nothing was supposed to be coming from that direction.

I scream and shut that down, determined to use only fingers from now on.

But it was an older (significantly older than my 22-year-old self), a more mature lover, who showed me the way. It’s not like in porn; it’s gentle prodding, generous lubrication, and willingness on both parties. Also, for you first-time ladies, it helps if he’s driven down that highway before and knows how to do a gentle merge.

The pain never goes away, it becomes tolerable because once you learn the end game, an anal orgasm, the small amount of pain of the initial penetration is nothing. The payday is huge.

Why is it so incredible? Well, I’ve heard about millions of nerve endings and I would concur with that. But it’s because it’s still considered extreme. Albeit not as extreme as it was before the internet. Extreme makes it taboo, but a taboo we can all live with.

Sure, plenty of people don’t do it. Plenty of people fear it, and plenty of people consider it filthy. All three of those reasons made me want to do it initially and kept me coming back for more.

It's not an every-night experience for me, but it makes the rotation, and I make sure someone is getting it in the ass in just about every story I write.
 
I remember the first time a partner asked me to do anal with her.
She’s been on a works drink and came home a little tipsy and horny. We were messing aroudn and she turned round and asked me.
It was so hot, she was so turned on, we took it slow, she okayed with herself as we eased into it. She came so had and vocally, my housemate commented the next day. We only did it a few more times before we broke up. But I won’t ever forget that fist time and the look on her face as I entered her.
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
No.
Ya sometimes it's fun to mix it up..
50/50 really tbh..
Prone position or spoons position
I have yes..
Love it but no comparison to front 😘
 
The first time anal it was horrible.

We learned how to foreplay with my asshole and I found I like it.

I like that it's naughty and that most women won't do it.

Playing with a married friend one morning and he accidentally pulled out of my pussy. When he lined back up, how was on my asshole. I told him yes. He pushed in, as I pushed back onto him.
It was only the second time.

My favorite was a college graduate last year.
I was 57, he was 24 - just finished his Masters degree.
I invited him to fuck my ass. I was his first. I wanted to be sure he never forgets me.
Fucking love this! So hot, Ma'am 🔥🥵
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
So do LOTS of men, gay, bi or straight.
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
I enjoy anal sex from time to time yes. I would not say I prefer it over vaginal. I started having anal sex as I was curious about it. To my surprise it felt good and I liked it when a lot of my friends that did try it did not end up liking it. I would say I like the feels as well as somewhat of the taboo nature of anal sex. I am fine with men asking if we can do it and sometimes I'll ask them to do it. Most of the time I am prone or on my hands and knees. I have came from anal before yes but it is not an every time thing. I do like some play back there before the main show but it can be eating or fingering.
 
I like it when I’m face down ass up, I can finger and rub my pussy while his cock is deep in my ass 🥵💦 it makes my pussy so wet and also it feels good in my ass like so good 😈 it feels wild to be doing it.
Beautiful sentiments!!!! May your inbox always be full.
 
I enjoy anal sex from time to time yes. I would not say I prefer it over vaginal. I started having anal sex as I was curious about it. To my surprise it felt good and I liked it when a lot of my friends that did try it did not end up liking it. I would say I like the feels as well as somewhat of the taboo nature of anal sex. I am fine with men asking if we can do it and sometimes I'll ask them to do it. Most of the time I am prone or on my hands and knees. I have came from anal before yes but it is not an every time thing. I do like some play back there before the main show but it can be eating or fingering.
I absolutely am obsessed with my wife's ass. I think more than anything, I love to eat it! Can't get enough of having my tongue as far in there as possible. It gets her pussy so wet.
 
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I love your comments. I wish to respond to one thing:
The pain never goes away, it becomes tolerable because once you learn the end game, an anal orgasm, the small amount of pain of the initial penetration is nothing.
I don't know how old you are, or how old at the time of that initial ravaging, or how much experience you've had since. But I can tell you that I — who was initiated at a very early age— have very rarely experienced pain, and then only from someone who was porn-driven. I'm tempted to tell you that with time, you can leave pain that behind entirely. Lots of practice is the key— solo, gradually over time increasing the size of the dildos— as well as with live cocks.

However, I know that in real life this can be untrue. When it is, I suspect it's the body's learned response to a traumatic experience. I do hope you get beyond it.
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
Think thats all spur of the moment bud. Fuck I like it I've discovered but only if it straps on. I can cum in one jab, lol
 
In my experience, less than half the women that I have slept with really like anal. Most of those that did were interested once in a while. But, really liked it when they did. I have been pegged now numerous times and absolutely love every aspect of it.
Yeah Im all in for it.
 
I like it when I’m face down ass up, I can finger and rub my pussy while his cock is deep in my ass 🥵💦 it makes my pussy so wet and also it feels good in my ass like so good 😈 it feels wild to be doing it.
I prefer the lady to be lying on her back so I can watch her finger and rub her pussy, so hot...
 
The first time someone put anything in my ass was in college. It was a finger, and I recalled saying, “That feels so weird,” but I certainly didn’t ask him to take it out.

The fact is, a finger in my Netherlands became a required step in finishing me off (still is). The real issue was asking a guy who didn’t know what I needed, if he would be open to ass play. Turns out, they always are.

But when it came to the next step, something bigger than a finger, that’s when I got a big surprise.

I was ready to move up, and when I was with a guy I felt was the right size, I suggested we try some alternatives. He did not get my drift at all. Finally, I just told him, “Anal, I want to do anal." That, he understood.

Definitely his first time as well because he attacked like it was a porn movie, and I screamed in pain. He kept pushing, and my opening was fighting him off, aware that nothing was supposed to be coming from that direction.

I scream and shut that down, determined to use only fingers from now on.

But it was an older (significantly older than my 22-year-old self), a more mature lover, who showed me the way. It’s not like in porn; it’s gentle prodding, generous lubrication, and willingness on both parties. Also, for you first-time ladies, it helps if he’s driven down that highway before and knows how to do a gentle merge.

The pain never goes away, it becomes tolerable because once you learn the end game, an anal orgasm, the small amount of pain of the initial penetration is nothing. The payday is huge.

Why is it so incredible? Well, I’ve heard about millions of nerve endings and I would concur with that. But it’s because it’s still considered extreme. Albeit not as extreme as it was before the internet. Extreme makes it taboo, but a taboo we can all live with.

Sure, plenty of people don’t do it. Plenty of people fear it, and plenty of people consider it filthy. All three of those reasons made me want to do it initially and kept me coming back for more.

It's not an every-night experience for me, but it makes the rotation, and I make sure someone is getting it in the ass in just about every story I write.
Great post! I wish more ladies would understand the payoff for the anal orgasm once they become adapt at taking cock in their ass. It's elusive, but once you're trained and have the ability to take it past the rectum, the orgasm is totally different and nothing like women experience with the G-spot or clit.
 
Many years ago, my Mum had a (brief) affair with a builder who was working on our house. I was much too young to understand what was going on and kept wondering why I was being sent outside to play while the two of them sneaked upstairs to the bedroom! I found out about it much later and also discovered that this guy boasted to his mates that he'd fucked my Mum up the arse! Whether she liked it or not, I don't know, but he certainly enjoyed it and claimed that when he took her like that she peed all over the bed! I have heard of other women wetting themselves during or immediately after anal sex and wondered whether this was more common than realised?
 
I was having an affair with a girl (21 yrs younger than me) from my running club in 2011 and one night she outright asked me to fuck her up the arse, (we British don't say ass)!!
The request took me by surprise and even though I'd never explored that particular avenue before I gave it a try. It was hurried and not entirely successful but the following weekend we got together in a hotel room and it was an altogether better experience which I enjoyed as much as she clearly did.
 
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