wife is curious about girls

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She confessed it on a drunken night while playing truth or dare. She gave an example of the type of girl. She said that she would let me watch and have intercourse with her only not the other girl. The thought of it seems very exciting. Has anyone succeded at this and how did you go about it?
 
First, you need to talk about it when she's sober and ask if she still feels that way about this.

If she does, then you need to agree on ground rules (safe sex issues etc.) and figure out whether the two of you are thinking about this being with a friend, or a stranger. Perhaps your wife has somebody in mind.

Then... find somebody who might be interested and ask her. In person, put up an ad on the personals site of your choice, whatever. If you advertise, be aware that you might be approached by somebody who's looking for payment; if that works for you two then fine, but probably best to discuss in advance.

The hard part of this is that there are WAY more M/F couples looking for a MFF threesome fantasy than there are single women looking to be part of a couple's fantasy. So you two will have to make sure you're making an attractive offer. The woman you're talking to will have her own ideas about how she wants this to be, and you need to listen to her. Be prepared to hear "no thank you".

A few things:
- don't go to a lesbian bar. Some lesbians might be up for sleeping with your wife, but in general a lesbian bar isn't where women go to hook up with mostly-straight couples.
- don't bait-and-switch (where the approach is "sleep with me" without mentioning that there's going to be a dude in the room)
- sex is complex and causes complex feelings that can't always be predicted in advance, be prepared to talk things over with your wife afterwards and don't assume it's going to be a regular thing
- speaking of which, if you choose a friend, don't be surprised if it changes the friendship. (Not necessarily for the worse! But that certainly can happen, especially if handled badly.)
- be aware that this sort of offer can be creepy and/or intimidating to a woman. I recommend finding a way of asking that doesn't leave her feeling cornered.

One that's worked for me is "hey, I/we find you attractive, if you're interested please drop us an email/come visit us in our room/etc." - and then leave the space. That way, if she's not interested, she doesn't have to worry about whether you're going to take "no" for an answer.
 
I find that women will bring up whatever theyre up for.

Hire a hooker. Hookers eliminate all the problems.
 
Bramblethorn said it well.

Just to hammer in a point he made: Talk about it, before, possibly during, definitely after. Rules of the encounter that are discussed are law, figuratively and literally. Keep the lines of communication open with your wife about it. Tell each other what you did and did not like about it. BE HONEST. If watching her with another woman really didn't get your motor running, tell her. If you watching didn't get her motor running she should tell you. Don't harbor anger over something you did during this encounter if it turns out that it was not your thing. That anger will build and things will blow up.
 
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