Strixaluco
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I hope you stay, too! We don't always have garbage here...I just want to say how much I you ladies!!
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I hope you stay, too! We don't always have garbage here...I just want to say how much I you ladies!!
Hang with us love, we’re happy to have you.I just want to say how much I you ladies!!
Thank you!His posts were removed and he can no longer reply in this thread.
I'm down for a good mocktail.Now let's have some sangria....
*mixes a big batch for the ladies*
Hey, no maam. We don't make apologies for other people's behavior. We all have free will. That said, thank you for being so kind, but absolutely no apologies needed or accepted, in this case.I feel like I need to apologize for drawing him to this thread in the first place. Lesson learned, I’ll do better in the future
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Oh, sweetie, that's so horrible! Let's not sugarcoat it, you were attacked. Attacked by someone who was so insecure about themselves that they had to lash out at you because you were kind enough and open enough to share a fantasy all while hiding behind anonymity because they knew what they were spewing was utter shit.In the middle of April, I received the following anonymous comment on my story published here:
Better ending... Hubby walked in as Keith was finishing off the cheating skank slut's married pussy. Hubby clocked Keith and bitch slapped his whore wife. Six months later she was divorced living in a dingy one bedroom apartment working as a waitress in the local diner. Keith moved away after he was fired and the school was sued by Jenni's ex-husband. Sometimes cheating pieces of shit, get exactly what they deserve.
I've tried to brush it off. I've posted a few times since. Hell, I've had much worse things said to me and about me here and elsewhere... But this one's sticking. It's just so full of anger and resentment and misogyny, all over a fucking fictional story, that it makes me not want to be here on Lit anymore. I don't even check my story stats or anything, yet I know it's there...
Sure, I could delete it, but part of me thinks I need it there. I need the reminder. I need to remember Lit is not a safe space (even in this thread, as much as I wish otherwise). I need to remember there are no safe spaces, really. Not for us.
Does an anonymous comment mean that the "person" doesn't even have a Lit account?In the middle of April, I received the following anonymous comment on my story published here:
Better ending... Hubby walked in as Keith was finishing off the cheating skank slut's married pussy. Hubby clocked Keith and bitch slapped his whore wife. Six months later she was divorced living in a dingy one bedroom apartment working as a waitress in the local diner. Keith moved away after he was fired and the school was sued by Jenni's ex-husband. Sometimes cheating pieces of shit, get exactly what they deserve.
I've tried to brush it off. I've posted a few times since. Hell, I've had much worse things said to me and about me here and elsewhere... But this one's sticking. It's just so full of anger and resentment and misogyny, all over a fucking fictional story, that it makes me not want to be here on Lit anymore. I don't even check my story stats or anything, yet I know it's there...
Sure, I could delete it, but part of me thinks I need it there. I need the reminder. I need to remember Lit is not a safe space (even in this thread, as much as I wish otherwise). I need to remember there are no safe spaces, really. Not for us.
Either they dont have an account, or have chosen to comment as anonymous despite having an account.Does an anonymous comment mean that the "person" doesn't even have a Lit account?
Ah, okay. So, at any rate, this was a guy who so desperately wanted to sound tough, menacing, & cool, but Only with the cloak of anonymity. The embodiment of an insignificant nobody.Either they dont have an account, or have chosen to comment as anonymous despite having an account.
This is exactly what I was doing... and still am a little if I can't redirect my thoughts. And I really can't give a good reason why. Like I wrote, I've had a lot worse written/said to me over the years. But this one just hit hard. Maybe it's because I was so anxious about posting a story in the first place, but I've had other shitty comments about it and shrugged them off. Fuck... I'm just falling down that hole again. He's not worth it. He's a loser who wants to tear me down to feel better about himself. Well, fuck him.I'm sorry that your brain has been replaying this comment in your mind, ad nauseam. I know you wouldn't do it willingly if you could help it.
I will fight him!This is exactly what I was doing... and still am a little if I can't redirect my thoughts. And I really can't give a good reason why. Like I wrote, I've had a lot worse written/said to me over the years. But this one just hit hard. Maybe it's because I was so anxious about posting a story in the first place, but I've had other shitty comments about it and shrugged them off. Fuck... I'm just falling down that hole again. He's not worth it. He's a loser who wants to tear me down to feel better about himself. Well, fuck him.
Exactly. Fuck him!This is exactly what I was doing... and still am a little if I can't redirect my thoughts. And I really can't give a good reason why. Like I wrote, I've had a lot worse written/said to me over the years. But this one just hit hard. Maybe it's because I was so anxious about posting a story in the first place, but I've had other shitty comments about it and shrugged them off. Fuck... I'm just falling down that hole again. He's not worth it. He's a loser who wants to tear me down to feel better about himself. Well, fuck him.
Hi I used to get horrible comments on my stories. I think you should delete it, because it's unpleasant. You can't control what other people do, but you can control the parameters, if only slightly.Thank you everyone. I appreciate the support and the encouragement to delete the comment. I did so today.
I knew I could delete comments but I didn't know I could turn off anonymous ones. How do you do that?Hi I used to get horrible comments on my stories. I think you should delete it, because it's unpleasant. You can't control what other people do, but you can control the parameters, if only slightly.
Do you know you can turn off anonymous comments. That's what I have done, I receive more constructive feedback now and not ones that go straight on the attack.
I am sorry you feel the way you do.
J x