Yesok1
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No you are right, explained better than me!
Women of Lit: A Safe Place To Share
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lil_jenni
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lil_jenni
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I was so pissed. I scared my son a little when I stormed out of the store. I did my best to reassure him when we go to my car.
Normally, I would have shrugged off the comment about my husband not letting me shop in my condition. But not yesterday. Yesterday was a bad day for shit like that.
The second comment was a dick move too, but I've heard different permutations of that sentiment over the years. My mouth is not at all fitting with the traditional notion of ladylike.
It only pissed me off so much because it was another dig at my husband, who that asshole doesn't know. For a more fun story, once in college, a girl in one of my classes chastised me for cursing so much and told me good men didn't like foul mouthed girls like me. I learned who her boyfriend was, and less than two weeks later, he was very much enjoying my foul mouth.
Not necessarily something to be proud of, I guess, but it often makes me smile when I think about it. 
genzsub
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I've heard that a foul mouth is a sign of intelligence.For a more fun story, once in college, a girl in one of my classes chastised me for cursing so much and told me good men didn't like foul mouthed girls like me. I learned who her boyfriend was, and less than two weeks later, he was very much enjoying my foul mouth.
Strixaluco
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Decent people don't like hypocritics.
InCNCestBangPie
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oh for Fuck's sake! Your "condition" that I'm sure he told the phone sex worker last week that he wanted to do to her?? Goddamn, these men are idiots. I'm so glad you managed to take your scurvy-riddled body home, what with the consumption going around and all. Lest you make the men fearful for your well-being.
lil_jenni
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I'm short, so it's not uncommon for guys (and women sometimes too) to offer to help when I'm trying to get something off a high shelf at the store. Being pregnant has increased those offers, especially from guys. And it's been more frequent this time than when I was last pregnant, maybe because I'm older?
Anyway, most people are trying to be nice, so I try not to let my "I can do it my-fucking-self, I'm short not incapable" mindset set in, but every once in a while I get the "protect the fragile pregnant woman" vibe. That does tend to piss me off.
SofiaLaFrench
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genzsub
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Awww,
Strixaluco
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Oh if stupid men following you here, they will be shut out.
And happy Mothers day to you, too!
Strixaluco
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This day used to be difficult for me. Until last year I had my chosen daughter wishing me a happy mothers day. It made all the difference... For her as well, though she's not an orphan.
Strixaluco
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If they don't take seriously when we tell them to leave, we call ToPleaseHim (moderator in this part of the forum) and she'll ban the man in question from posting in this thread again.
Strixaluco
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We are in her special protection, so to say.
stickygirl
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genzsub
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I don't expect to ever be a mother, but I love every one of you ladies who have made that choice. The past, present, and future of our world rests on your shoulders and I, for one, wouldn't have it any other way.
I'm here if any of you need a little pick-me-up.
Happy Mother's Day!!
I'm here if any of you need a little pick-me-up.
Happy Mother's Day!!
bunny4med
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That's how we celebrated.I don't expect to ever be a mother, but I love every one of you ladies who have made that choice. The past, present, and future of our world rests on your shoulders and I, for one, wouldn't have it any other way.
I'm here if any of you need a little pick-me-up.
Happy Mother's Day!!
SofiaLaFrench
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Yay! My story published today! It took a while to write, what with life, and the subject matter. I wanted to do it justice. Many thanks to my sweet beta reader. She declined to be identified but that doesn’t change how much I appreciate her.
Encounter at the Hotel Chanteclair follows the same MFC through another encounter that is unlike any she’s had before. And we learn her real name!
Je t’aime
stickygirl
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Here's an interesting article that popped up on my news dash today. It's about a book that asks
"Everyone’s so intolerant online. Am I right to stay silent?"
I was intrigued by the title as it is a question I've often asked myself. Africa Brooke is the author of a new book, Third Perspective ( not a title that gives much away! ) but from what I've read in the article, I do want to know more.
“I don’t fear ‘cancellation’, per se, but being aggressively misunderstood,” says one commentator in her book.
How often have I written replies on threads, then deleted them for fear of being attacked for an opinion? How often has my deadpan humour has caused offence online but hilarity amongst friends? We end up silent, sitting on our metaphorical hands just as we've always done as women. The difference now is instead of one angry man, it's a 40k pile on.
"Everyone’s so intolerant online. Am I right to stay silent?"
I was intrigued by the title as it is a question I've often asked myself. Africa Brooke is the author of a new book, Third Perspective ( not a title that gives much away! ) but from what I've read in the article, I do want to know more.
“I don’t fear ‘cancellation’, per se, but being aggressively misunderstood,” says one commentator in her book.
How often have I written replies on threads, then deleted them for fear of being attacked for an opinion? How often has my deadpan humour has caused offence online but hilarity amongst friends? We end up silent, sitting on our metaphorical hands just as we've always done as women. The difference now is instead of one angry man, it's a 40k pile on.
stickygirl
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Well colour me amazeballs
Young women are tired of dating apps There was a long piece about share value and PR foul-ups in the Match Group, who apparently own pretty much all the dating apps you can think of. The Financial Times in the UK ran a story linked here which hopefully you can read.
Included in the criticisms of the apps was the demographic earthquake that less women on the apps than men ( what really???) Woem using the apps can often be bombarded with messages, often aggressive ones. Here's a sample of one ad that was run...
and the words from another “a vow of celibacy is not the answer” Wow
a Bumbling mission statement
“Our number one job is to help our customers find connections and elevate women’s experiences,” said Lidiane Jones, who took over as Bumble’s chief executive in January.
Swipe Left and Sell
Young women are tired of dating apps
There was a long piece about share value and PR foul-ups in the Match Group, who apparently own pretty much all the dating apps you can think of. The Financial Times in the UK ran a story linked here which hopefully you can read.Included in the criticisms of the apps was the demographic earthquake that less women on the apps than men ( what really???) Woem using the apps can often be bombarded with messages, often aggressive ones. Here's a sample of one ad that was run...
and the words from another “a vow of celibacy is not the answer” Wow
a Bumbling mission statement
“Our number one job is to help our customers find connections and elevate women’s experiences,” said Lidiane Jones, who took over as Bumble’s chief executive in January.
Swipe Left and Sell
KatieDoes
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Honestly. A few years in this forum? Where I’ve been able to see how men speak to each other about women when they feel safe enough to be honest? It’s horrifying. Most of them don’t even like women as people. No wonder so many women are choosing to just not deal with it.Well colour me amazeballs
Young women are tired of dating apps
Included in the criticisms of the apps was the demographic earthquake that less women on the apps than men ( what really???) Woem using the apps can often be bombarded with messages, often aggressive ones. Here's a sample of one ad that was run...
and the words from another “a vow of celibacy is not the answer” Wow
a Bumbling mission statement
“Our number one job is to help our customers find connections and elevate women’s experiences,” said Lidiane Jones, who took over as Bumble’s chief executive in January.
Swipe Left and Sell
Sappho_CGN
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I remember a chat where a young boy (me then 46, he <25) did not accept my "NO". Things escalated and he finally wrote me that he will bleed me white and disembowel me if he gets me. Since we were about 600 miles apart and he knew nothing about me, i was not afraid of him.
(No, was not here, was on a German site)
(No, was not here, was on a German site)
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Strixaluco
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There are too many men behaving outrageously when you meet them, but somehow Internet seems to get that side out of even many which behave decently face-to-face
Sappho_CGN
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Yes, internet makes everything rougher
lil_jenni
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I waiver between (1) thinking the misogyny I've witnessed here may be because a small, self-selected sample of men who have frustrating sex lives are overrepresented in the Lit population and (2) believing that many men in the general population may just be hiding their misogyny better. I want it to be the former, but I think the latter is more likely.
That's because being on Lit all these years has taught me is that it's not the obvious, overt misogynist that are the majority of misogynists. It's the self-identified "good guys" who hate women and are bitter as fuck but either pretend to to support women or are so deep in denial they don't see they are misogynists. The forums here are full of guys like that.
