Word of the day to ponder over

[eudaemonia]

Maybe

Maybe ... all is not lost.

Maybe ... even something better will come along.

Maybe ... that "something better" is just around the corner.

Hmm ...

 

[Nightbird]

Horrible

As in my writing and my latest post to that story thread was Horrible.

 

[Cathleen]

I call this WOTD for yesterday - liar. As in 'I'm a lousy liar because I always get caught' kind of liar - you are absolutely right. Be gone you pesky person.

Today's WOTD is clean. Cleaning chores around here and cleaning out cobwebs that have held some unwanted things in my mind - sweep them away.

 

[MercyMia]

Upbeat is my WOTD because it's what I try to be even in the face of unpleasant situations. I detach as much as I can and just exist...try to think of good times and things I am looking forward to, rather than focus on things I have not control over.

 

[eudaemonia]

Seduction

A friend of mine who posts over in the BDSM forum and I were have a convo the other day -- actually she was explaining "it all" to me as I simply couldn't understand the whole D/s relationship -- and it dawned on me that I could never "become" that way, much like a gay or lesbian could never "become" straight.

That said, Irealized the one constant in my life is that I've always been in the role (self-cast, of course) of The Seducer. It just suits me and my temperment. I get off on being a seductress. The more I make 'em squirm the more I get into it. <smirk>

Plus, I like how it rolls off the tounge ... "Sssseh-DUCE-ur."

 

[bobsgirl]

Seduction

A friend of mine who posts over in the BDSM forum and I were have a convo the other day -- actually she was explaining "it all" to me as I simply couldn't understand the whole D/s relationship -- and it dawned on me that I could never "become" that way, much like a gay or lesbian could never "become" straight.

That said, Irealized the one constant in my life is that I've always been in the role (self-cast, of course) of The Seducer. It just suits me and my temperment. I get off on being a seductress. The more I make 'em squirm the more I get into it. <smirk>

Plus, I like how it rolls off the tounge ... "Sssseh-DUCE-ur."

Maybe you could give my inner seductress some pointers. I'd love to try this out.

Anyway, my word of the day is work. Cleaning out mental cobwebs takes a lot of work, and it isn't accomplished overnight.

 

[SweetErika]

Glee
I felt sheer glee when I woke up to several inches of snow this morning. I feel it every time I look out the window as well. I know most people's word regarding snow is headache, but I still get as excited as a child who sees the flakes and conjures up images of flopping in the powder and making snow angels, building grand snowmen, sledding, and days off of school.

 

[Cathleen]

Beauty

It's everywhere ~ like looking above (friendly stalk).

 

[pleasteasme]

Seduction

A friend of mine who posts over in the BDSM forum and I were have a convo the other day -- actually she was explaining "it all" to me as I simply couldn't understand the whole D/s relationship -- and it dawned on me that I could never "become" that way, much like a gay or lesbian could never "become" straight.

That said, Irealized the one constant in my life is that I've always been in the role (self-cast, of course) of The Seducer. It just suits me and my temperment. I get off on being a seductress. The more I make 'em squirm the more I get into it. <smirk>

Plus, I like how it rolls off the tounge ... "Sssseh-DUCE-ur."

I like this post eudaemonia!

I think I have potential to be a seductress/seducer. I just need to find prey....errrrr, a willing seductee!

 

[eudaemonia]

I like this post eudaemonia!

I think I have potential to be a seductress/seducer. I just need to find prey....errrrr, a willing seductee!

Briefly, esp. to pleasteasme and bobsgirl, seduction for me begins with me, my inner attitude and how I express my sexuality. It's more of a mindset than anything. And it has somewhat less to do with the particular seductee. He often doesn't know I'm slowly seducing him until it's basically too late. And frankly, sometimes it's not reciprocated.

But mainly seduction, and again just speaking for myself, is the mindset I carry around with me all of the time: thinking lusty thoughts about a particular someone; listening very carefully to what interests him and identify those areas that we share -- talk about them, ask him questions, his opinions, state my own, etc.; sending him emails every now and again about relevant news or new things that occur to me about our interests; ask him out for coffee so we have a chance to sit close (and maybe accidently brush arms <g>); always dress for my own physical comfort when I'm around him but flash a little skin or cleavage.

I think this topic will make a good thread on it's own, which I will start later today. I *have* to study for my final exams next week.

Finally, I generally don't give un-asked for advice because I hate getting it, but ladies, do yourselves a gigantic favor: go through your underwear drawer(s) and throw out everything that doesn't make you feel fairly sexy when you put it on. No granny panties, period-only panties, bras that don't support/enhance your assests, etc. Toss things that simply don't fit anymore, and no matter what your size (esp. if you're unhappy with it) buy things that do fit and you wouldn't die of embarrassment getting caught in public in. If you feel uncomfortable in your skivves you're not in a good position to just feel good in your skin.

More later ...

 

[averageblonde]

Sick

Had strep this week and got really sick so now I am at my mom's house hoping that she makes it all better.

 

[bobsgirl]

Beauty

It's everywhere ~ like looking above (friendly stalk).

Ooh, Cate, I see what you mean. Erika, you look bee-yoo-tee-ful!

Now...

The word of the day chez bobsgirl is...anticipation. I got some great Christmas shopping done today.

 

[averageblonde]

Waiting

Waiting for my boyfriend to come visit me, and waiting for us to make the committment that we both want.

 

[Guest]

Drupaceous

 

[bobsgirl]

In case midwestyankee needs a new title.

Does this mean he's peachy?

 

[Guest]

 

[rosebud5446]

Quickies

today, i had 2 quickies... one before i took my test at work, and the second before he went to his lab... they were HOT! the second one, we weren't even going to, but he started teasing me ALOT, but he got up to go to lab, and when he showed me how hard he was from it, i just had to tease him, and that didn't take much for him to say 'fuck it' and then he did

 

[midwestyankee]

It could. It was meant as more of a commentary on his recent title spelling change though.

Let's just say that this is the season for pies made from drupaceous things, and I am quite fond of such pies.

 

[pleasteasme]

Briefly, esp. to pleasteasme and bobsgirl, seduction for me begins with me, my inner attitude and how I express my sexuality. It's more of a mindset than anything. And it has somewhat less to do with the particular seductee. He often doesn't know I'm slowly seducing him until it's basically too late. And frankly, sometimes it's not reciprocated.

But mainly seduction, and again just speaking for myself, is the mindset I carry around with me all of the time: thinking lusty thoughts about a particular someone; listening very carefully to what interests him and identify those areas that we share -- talk about them, ask him questions, his opinions, state my own, etc.; sending him emails every now and again about relevant news or new things that occur to me about our interests; ask him out for coffee so we have a chance to sit close (and maybe accidently brush arms <g>); always dress for my own physical comfort when I'm around him but flash a little skin or cleavage.

I think this topic will make a good thread on it's own, which I will start later today. I *have* to study for my final exams next week.

Finally, I generally don't give un-asked for advice because I hate getting it, but ladies, do yourselves a gigantic favor: go through your underwear drawer(s) and throw out everything that doesn't make you feel fairly sexy when you put it on. No granny panties, period-only panties, bras that don't support/enhance your assests, etc. Toss things that simply don't fit anymore, and no matter what your size (esp. if you're unhappy with it) buy things that do fit and you wouldn't die of embarrassment getting caught in public in. If you feel uncomfortable in your skivves you're not in a good position to just feel good in your skin.

More later ...

I can relate to your post. There are just some days that I feel unstoppable and others well, that I should just stay in bed, lol! It all boils down to how you feel.....in your underthings and in general.

I LOVE the advice about the panty drawer!

I'm in the process of replacing the old with new. It is rather fun

 

[pleasteasme]

Word for the day: desperation

Yeah, I have been watching Desperate Housewives entirely too much.

Although with the narrative done at the begining and ending of each episode, it makes me think how many of us live our lives in desperation? Quiet desperation or loud desperation?

Most likely, We all have at least a little of this in our lives to contend with......just part of life, I suppose. However, this show makes me think......to what ends will people travel to do what they deem as "right?" The human mind/psyche is an amazing place...

 

[midwestyankee]

My word of the day: tmesis.


Just because it's an unfuckingbelievably cool word.

 

[bobsgirl]

My word of the day: tmesis.


Just because it's an unfuckingbelievably cool word.

Ah, Yank, your inner English teacher is showing again.

Just so you know--you sent me running to dictionary.com. Again. For the bazillionth time.

 

[midwestyankee]

Ah, Yank, your inner English teacher is showing again.

Just so you know--you sent me running to dictionary.com. Again. For the bazillionth time.

It's a dirty, thankless job but someone has to do it.

 

[Guest]

 

[midwestyankee]

I've been keeping a paperback dictionary on my desk for moments like this. But the fucking thing goes from tizzy to to (OK, TNT is between them). Guess I need to start looking for a bigger one. I guess size might just be important

Just went to my favorite dictionary and found four words between tizzy and to: tjalk, tmema, tmesis, and tmetic.