Worst Sex Partner

[FloridaSmoothie]

Was with a friend, his female cousin, and her friend. Even though this was the first time I met the two women (mid 20s), the cousin's friend was not shy telling us about a one night stand she had. During the fucking the guy fell asleep. From some of the other posts, seems to happen often enough. (From my perspective, I would not be telling friends if it happened to me.)

 

[dirtycarol]

Several could tie for first place.

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

I don't have a sex story, but a bad blowjob story. I was getting one while I was sitting in the driver's seat of my van. I came, thought the woman swallowed. But all of a sudden she made a gagging noise and spit the cum into a cup on the dashboard.

Very romantic.

 

[djyak]

Had a boyfriend that I had to work to get him hard, but then he'd never do anything for me. Once we started fucking he was done in like 10 seconds. We didn't stay together long at all and it wasn't just the sex. Too selfish.

Tifani

 

[smallgirl]

I don't have a sex story, but a bad blowjob story. I was getting one while I was sitting in the driver's seat of my van. I came, thought the woman swallowed. But all of a sudden she made a gagging noise and spit the cum into a cup on the dashboard.

Very romantic.

Lmao....

Nice. What can you say, you know?

 

[FGB]

Ex wife. I don't know if she was trying to be something she wasn't, or pretending to be something she wasn't, the net result was the same. After the I thee weds, she was one dimensional and unimaginative in the bedroom. The Thomas Kincaid of partners.

"Snort"

When it would happen at all...

I think I'm divorcing her sister now.

 

[RedNails]

I met a guy online, we were both into kink, so I was up for anything. Post fuck session, he asked could he pee on me. I agreed, got ready to get up to go into the shower, when suddenly he did it there and then in the bed I ran screaming. It was a hotel, so I pity the maid.

 

[panty_aussie]

Hey

i think prob the worse was like girl in her 20s

She laid there like a starfish, i think some women need to do more than just lay there. I went to eat her out her mind seemed elsewere

were alot of other women been with eat them out love it. I think might of had to do with age she was used guys fucking her in car park and leaving

 

[YoungToy]

Oh, god, and it's even more annoying when they think that passivity and submissiveness are the same thing. "I'd love to submit to you" can be very exciting until on further questioning you discover that means "I really can't be bothered to take an active role in any stage of this, including communication."

http://media.oglaf.com/comic/submission.jpg
(Source: Oglaf.com/submission)

Completely agree. Im a submissive person, but at least Im active.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

Passive partner?

I was going to start a new thread, but I think the theme falls under a subtopic here.

Anyone have quite "passive" partner? My wife, though loves sex and orgasms most of the time. Can be quite passive, not that I mind really. It's just the way she is. I think a lot of us guys look here and wish our wives would be more..."wild". But I suggest that the wise among us know that expectations and certainly demands can be damaging to a great relationship. I also suspect that like most things in life, no matter what we get, we'll always want something more/different.

I guess I'm just wondering if a bunch of us men, and perhaps women too, "kinda" wish sex would be a little different, especially after reading some post around here. Not that we are dissatisfied or would rock any boats, but a part of us just kinda wishes ........ something.

I'll also add this. Thankfully, at least a few threads, while based in fantasy and dreamy wishes, have the occasional post that grounds the thread in reality. It's usually a woman that will let us men know that what we think we want.....is actually probably a bad idea, or at least needs a considerable amount of consideration. I'm pretty confident that many of us married's on here visit secretly, and have a healthy respect for Lit's place in our lives, and it's at a safe distance from anything real, while for others their lives are such that Lit is an open book for them.


To the women that post, from me and many other men I'm sure. Thank you for your candid words of kindness and wisdom, and letting us have a peek at "forbidden fruit" either in your pictures or words that give us mild reprieves from the ordinary.

 

[ElijaRDC]

Oh gosh... the guy I was dating a year ago... his nickname is "20-Second Jason."

No, not because he only lasted 20 seconds, but because the entirety of the so-called foreplay involved him grabbing my boob while kissing me for approximately 20 seconds. After that, he grabbed my hand, put it on his dick, and suggested we fuck.

I was so stunned by his total lack of desire to please me that I wasn't sure if he was serious or not. He was...

 

[pfflyerhot]

I'm wondering if anybody who's experienced the "dead fish" sex partner ever tried talking to that sex partner about it. I mean, did you say to yourself, "Sooo fucking boring, this is bad sex, no more fucking with you, for me"?... And, basically just dump 'em without saying why? Do you talk to your spouse, or long term partners, about sexually satisfying each other, what it is for you, how it works for them...?
I'd imagine some of these worst sex partners wouldn't cherish that label (especially if they were unaware they had been labeled as such), and, if you don't say anything about their sexual performance, or lack thereof (just do it nicely, with kindness, that's all), how will they know? How would they know they suck in bed if we don't tell 'em? How will they get better at it? People are not mind readers, even when it comes to sex. What is good sex for one person can be the worst sex ever for another... You know... the cliche, "one man's trash is another man's treasure." Sex is kinda like that too, dontchathink?
For those people who do say something, and are met with dismissal, denial, disrespect or incredulousness from your shitty sex partner... well, fuck that. As in, don't fuck that anymore. Sex is, or ought to be, a give and take thing between partners... with, at least, mutual respect given for what each person has to offer the other... even—and perhaps, especially—on those one night stands, fwbs situations or for your straight-up fucking, sex hookups.
I can't believe I'm typing this, but the worse sex partner I ever experience was the one who faked me out by claiming love, then later... like, over a year later... revealed he never meant it. He never loved me, he said. He just wanted to fuck me.
That was long ago, and these days... if you wanna fuck me, say that. I may wanna fuck you, too. But, I will never tell you I love you just so I can fuck you. ... I do have to like you, a little bit, though.

 

[tg51]

I'm wondering if anybody who's experienced the "dead fish" sex partner ever tried talking to that sex partner about it. I mean, did you say to yourself, "Sooo fucking boring, this is bad sex, no more fucking with you, for me"?... And, basically just dump 'em without saying why? Do you talk to your spouse, or long term partners, about sexually satisfying each other, what it is for you, how it works for them...?
I'd imagine some of these worst sex partners wouldn't cherish that label (especially if they were unaware they had been labeled as such), and, if you don't say anything about their sexual performance, or lack thereof (just do it nicely, with kindness, that's all), how will they know? How would they know they suck in bed if we don't tell 'em? How will they get better at it? People are not mind readers, even when it comes to sex. What is good sex for one person can be the worst sex ever for another... You know... the cliche, "one man's trash is another man's treasure." Sex is kinda like that too, dontchathink?
For those people who do say something, and are met with dismissal, denial, disrespect or incredulousness from your shitty sex partner... well, fuck that. As in, don't fuck that anymore. Sex is, or ought to be, a give and take thing between partners... with, at least, mutual respect given for what each person has to offer the other... even—and perhaps, especially—on those one night stands, fwbs situations or for your straight-up fucking, sex hookups.
I can't believe I'm typing this, but the worse sex partner I ever experience was the one who faked me out by claiming love, then later... like, over a year later... revealed he never meant it. He never loved me, he said. He just wanted to fuck me.
That was long ago, and these days... if you wanna fuck me, say that. I may wanna fuck you, too. But, I will never tell you I love you just so I can fuck you. ... I do have to like[/I ]you, a little bit, though.

Thoughtful discussion is the best guide to better sex - mindful of you, and mindful of me, and merry the two can be.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I am not directing this at any one in particular, but as I read the posts, I feel like some of them area bit harsh.

I was so excited to finally get to have sex with the woman I would eventually marry, that I couldn't last more than a few pumps. Over the days and weeks, I got better and soon I was going for as long as we wanted. I am thankful she didn't laugh me out of the room. Maybe it was the emotional connection we had that many "one night stands" don't.

Put me in the "I hate passive women" category. And not just passive, near comatose. No sound. No talking. No movement. No guidance. No feedback. That is awful.

It's funny, one of the earlier posters complained that the ladies he was with did too much "dirty talk". Hey man, can I get a crack at one of those? They sound hot!

The most disappointing sex I had was with the gf of a friend. He encouraged me to take her out. She had a great body. And she was up for some sex. But once I got her in bed, she just laid there. I ate her pussy and she didn't move. No sound. Nothing. I sucked on her big tits and it was as if she was dead. I can only assume she didn't want to show any life because it might get back to her former bf?

And I agree uncreative repetition of even good sex gets boring after a while.

But what I take away from this thread is that casual sex is often boring because there is no communication, emotional connection or love.

 

[AlwaysDancing]

Plus One.

I am not directing this at any one in particular, but as I read the posts, I feel like some of them area bit harsh.

I was so excited to finally get to have sex with the woman I would eventually marry, that I couldn't last more than a few pumps. Over the days and weeks, I got better and soon I was going for as long as we wanted. I am thankful she didn't laugh me out of the room. Maybe it was the emotional connection we had that many "one night stands" don't.

Put me in the "I hate passive women" category. And not just passive, near comatose. No sound. No talking. No movement. No guidance. No feedback. That is awful.

It's funny, one of the earlier posters complained that the ladies he was with did too much "dirty talk". Hey man, can I get a crack at one of those? They sound hot!

The most disappointing sex I had was with the gf of a friend. He encouraged me to take her out. She had a great body. And she was up for some sex. But once I got her in bed, she just laid there. I ate her pussy and she didn't move. No sound. Nothing. I sucked on her big tits and it was as if she was dead. I can only assume she didn't want to show any life because it might get back to her former bf?

And I agree uncreative repetition of even good sex gets boring after a while.

But what I take away from this thread is that casual sex is often boring because there is no communication, emotional connection or love.

 

[MILFSauce]

I can certainly understand the aversion to "passive women". It's hard for me to imagine being passive during sex, but there are passive men too, you know. I don't mean physically, but passive in the sense that they just want to climb on, stick it in, and get off. No conversation, no emotion, no sounds, no connection at all. Not even eye contact. I'm just there as some kind of masturbation tool. Blah.

These passive types deserve each other, I'd say.

 

[djyak]

I can certainly understand the aversion to "passive women". It's hard for me to imagine being passive during sex, but there are passive men too, you know. I don't mean physically, but passive in the sense that they just want to climb on, stick it in, and get off. No conversation, no emotion, no sounds, no connection at all. Not even eye contact. I'm just there as some kind of masturbation tool. Blah.

These passive types deserve each other, I'd say.

That sounds like my ex! I agree.

Tifani

 

[jhuson]

Doooh!

 

[jhuson]

Sorry for repeat.

 

[yandere]

the absolute worst

when i was younger i had a lot of encounters where the guy would "accidentally" break the condom while he was putting it on, or go instantly soft as soon a condom was brought anywhere near him....

obviously i didn't take things any further

really frustrating though. to this day i will never understand why these guys did this. i was totally ready, and would've done whatever they wanted IF they'd just worn condoms. no one likes the way condoms feel, but these guys pissed and moaned about it like i was about to cut their dicks off. jesus.

 

[jhuson]

Doooh!

 

[djyak]

when i was younger i had a lot of encounters where the guy would "accidentally" break the condom while he was putting it on, or go instantly soft as soon a condom was brought anywhere near him....

obviously i didn't take things any further

really frustrating though. to this day i will never understand why these guys did this. i was totally ready, and would've done whatever they wanted IF they'd just worn condoms. no one likes the way condoms feel, but these guys pissed and moaned about it like i was about to cut their dicks off. jesus.

Funny thing is,when we are with our swap couple, we still have the guys where condoms. We all joked how much using those makes us feel young and naughty again. Plus, they like it when we put it on them and allow them to take them off to cum on us.

Tifani

 

[amofiga]

Bad sex partners I've had include women who:

1) Wouldn't give you any oral
2) Wouldn't even let you give THEM oral
3) Acted like it was all up to me to do all the work while they just laid there

There was one who "let" me go down on her but acted like it was torture to expose herself that way. When I looked for some reciprocation, her interpretation of the act was to let me put her cock in her mouth and she just did nothing. Lest I get branded as a total asshole, I asked her if she had ever had any experience in this area and was interested gaining more, she told me that she never had any interest at all in anything other than conventional intercourse and felt that the other stuff was really just too dirty. I'm willing and eager to teach a willing student, but if there's no interest, there's no relationship.

I've been amazed at the range of women and their varying interest in sex as well as their repertoire associated with engaging in it. I've known some who were basically animals and went at it like they totally loved it and I've known other women who thought good sex was them being willing to spread their legs, let you do what you wanted to do till you were "done". Fortunately, the percentage of the former was better than the latter. I only ran into maybe 3-4 women who were total duds. Most at least knew that it took two to get the party going and keep it going. The ones I loved were the ones that were uninhibited and pretty much open to about anything. It took me a while to learn it's best to discuss some stuff before going too far down the road.

 

[COCK_STAR]

You know how people use the phrase I fucked the shit out of her... I actually did once, and it's not as cool as it sounds.

 

[snorkyman]

Yes.
I have, fortunately the bad sex partners have been few and far between. I remember I had a date with this woman and it was a good date, we gone to a movie after alight a light supper went back to my place opened bottle of wine, we drank and talked got accustomed to each other… than started making out she was a good kisser looked and all that but when we got our clothes off she didn't really want any foreplay.
She barely let me play with her breast; she would let me go down on her and was not about to go down on me. I was pretty sure they would not be a second or third date but as I've gone this far I was hoping that things would liven up. They did not. If she had not been wet I would've thought that she was frigid or simply didn't want to screw.
Oh she was tight enough but she just lay there like she was passed out or something if she had an orgasm I sure as hell didn't know about it I had the strongest urge to take her pulse to make sure her heart was still beating. She was still breathing I checked! No moaning, no groaning, no noise and no encouragement by movement… not by kind of fuck.

Maybe I just wasn’t doing it for her? I would rather she had said that she just did not want to!

Sounds like my ex wife////////sack of potatoes?