twister947
Childless Cat Dude
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Like, a roommate who has their own room or ???
B. At 73, I have difficulty with the term, "girlfriend ", so I resort to euphemisms.
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Like, a roommate who has their own room or ???
Sparkly seems perfectly suited to you. Guessing you and WW are the two most efficient Christmasers I know.Like, a roommate who has their own room or ???
I have a 3 foot high silver "disco" tree. It has the same ornaments on it each year because when the season is over, it goes back in to a bag, ornaments and all. No lights. Just sparkly.
LOL Apologies, it was there but silent this year.
You know I love your Christmas AV.
For years I had a 3 ft inflatable tree. Obviously no lights. I loved it, it was so.easy.
J made me give it up after the multiple patches were becoming obvious.
I now put up a pre-lit tree that has multiple choices for the non-LED lighting. I always opt for multicolor as I feel plain white is boring. I change it around from twinkling to slow fade to solid lighting randomly each day except I avoid the migraine/seizure inducing rapid flashing. Lots of vintage decorations are hung on the branches and it's topped with a huge gold, glittery bow.
Inflatable? I wish I could see a picture of that
Unfortunately I don't think I ever got a pic but think cartoon Christmas tree and you get the idea.
Is it bad that I'm too lazy to put up a Christmas tree?
Nope. If you don't feel like it, don't do it.
I find my Xmas spirit changes from year to year and was sorely in the dumps for a number of years after my Mom died. I remember one year wishing Xmas would just go away, but I was hosting Xmas dinner, so on Xmas Eve, at 5 p.m., I finished putting up the silliest 2' Xmas tree on a table...because I needed one for the kids coming the next day and had to leave the house at 5 p.m. for dinner at my Dad's.
It's just a bad time of the year now for a couple of reasons. I am not much of a holiday or seasonal decorator either.
It's just a bad time of the year now for a couple of reasons. I am not much of a holiday or seasonal decorator either.
I'm the same, not super decoratey. And I'll always say, do what you feel. Nothing should feel forced when it comes to the holidays.
From my past experience, when I was feeling particularly down and didn't decorate, looking back at that time, I wish I had. Just a little something.
This year, I bought this pretty distressed metallic tree, only a foot high. It has lights inside. I just have to flip a switch and it's on. I put up a sparkly snowman, too. No tree this year. Just too... meh. But I like the tree. Makes it feel nice.
By the way, hope things get better.
Sorry to hear that. Hope things improve.
If there's even a small thing that will feed your soul...maybe a drive to take in the lights or stopping to smell the crisp air...do that and forget the rest. Just do what adds to you, not what subtracts.
just treat yourself nicely
Thank y'all very much. Several things just came together last night for a perfect storm of bad memories and feeling losses of people and pets lost.
Are any of you guys getting together with friends / family for the holidays?
Are any of you guys getting together with friends / family for the holidays?
Are any of you guys getting together with friends / family for the holidays?
Are any of you guys getting together with friends / family for the holidays?
I'm sorry this happened. I hate perfect storms. Not especially fond of the imperfect ones, either, come to think about it.
I hope today has been better.
Are any of you guys getting together with friends / family for the holidays?
No, just the usual people we’ve been seeing the whole time. Very small circle of us, taking care of our parent.
No parties, no get togetherness, etc.
You?
the oddest part of the Christmas season are the people who aren't even Christians and still decorate.
Are any of you guys getting together with friends / family for the holidays?