if you like a girl who talks dirty

[kimbernee]

If you like it when a woman talks dirty to you, do you want her to keep up a running commentary or just throw out one or two things per session? Is there such a thing as "too porny" or does it all sound good in the heat of the moment? My guy likes the dirty talk but I worry about overdoing it and not sounding believable.

 

[Davetmat]

The gal throwing in a few choice dirty words or phrases every now and then rocks, keeps it shockingly surprising and very exciting, thats where i think it has the most impact

 

[dirtycarol]

Mind if I join in? I know, the poll is mostly aimed at men. I voted, "Variety is the key" because it depends on the activity and situation, (its also a two way street guys). Talking dirty is very erotic during many sexual activities but, there are times when it just doesn't fit. I enjoy HIM to talk dirty to ME too! It gives us a sense of appreciation for the other persons skill of pleasuring us, or each other.

For instance, I love hearing how good I am when I give him a blow-job!.....And the dirtier the better! I return the complements of course when he eats me or fucks me just the way I like.

We've even carried on entire dirty conversations while engaging in oral sex, (me giving mostly) it takes a certain openness and technique, and can last for hours.......Very erotic and rewarding.

 

[ApprenticeApril]

I love talking dirty and hearing the dirty talk. It's mostly a give and take, question and answer kind of thing for us. I also really love talking dirty on the phone or with texts, but I don't get that too often.

 

[DRoc]

Dirty talk for me is such a turn on. I voted that there is no such thing as too much. However it needs to be mixed up some so it is not the same thing again and again. I too like to talk dirty. Sometimes i will intitiate it or other times I will react off of what Rozie is saying.

She can get very verbale which is EXTREMELY HOT!! She is a moaner, a screamer (when she is getting a good pounding from me) and now a dirty talker. A triple play!!!!!!

I love it how she tells me that she loves the feel ov my thick dick inside of her. I also love it when she begs for something. Anything for the matter. Whether it is for me to munch on her sweet, smooth, tasty pussy or to insert my dick inside of her (I love teasing her with it and driving her so crazy she starts demanding it).

And it should never be limited to when you are in the act of making love or just plain out ficking. Talking dirty like I stated above when you are out together is so freaking HOT it is awesome foreplay with out touching (well tlaking like that would drive me insane if I could not touch her).

 

[wehstar]

The poll is flawed - we were all attracted to this website because of our love of dirty words!

 

[e-trance action]

It all depends-saying 'vagina' when you want to say 'pussy' is likely to come off sounding just a unreal as the opposite.

The actual words don't turn me on unless I know that the woman I'm with is using them to communicate how she's enjoying our time together, and these words best describe how she's feeling.

So make sure he knows how much you are enjoying things, and if you need to be aroused a bit more to express yourself more openly, then make that your focus and the right words will flow.

 

[barefoot_bohemian]

See, I'm a phone sex operator by trade....

and I STILL blush when I try to talk dirty to my SO.

:/

 

[rthnck]

Dirty talk pushes all my buttons so I can't hear it all the time. If my partner wants me to cum she just starts the dirty talk and it's all over. I hate it and love it at the same time.....

 

[Monazwx]

See, I'm a phone sex operator by trade....

and I STILL blush when I try to talk dirty to my SO.

:/

Seriously, I find that so interesting. How long have you been on the job?
Are you self-conscience (sp?) because he's your SO? Does he know that you're a ph sex op?
Maybe it's the pressure ya know.

 

[NocturnalFables]

If you like it when a woman talks dirty to you, do you want her to keep up a running commentary or just throw out one or two things per session? Is there such a thing as "too porny" or does it all sound good in the heat of the moment? My guy likes the dirty talk but I worry about overdoing it and not sounding believable.

The girl I lost my virginity to was talking dirty and she was horrible at it. It sounded like a parody of a bad porn movie. Not a BAD porn movie a PARODY of one. There I was going at it and thinking "Wow this is such a let down. I thought sex would be more than this."

Based on that, the only advice I can give is be honest with your dirty talk. Got some fantasies you want to share... don't. Got some fantasies you are afraid to share? Use those. Its that real hesitation and fear in your voice that will pop his cork.

 

[SpecialKay62]

Some people are just better at this then others, more creative I guess.

 

[whalee]

Mind if I join in? I know, the poll is mostly aimed at men. I voted, "Variety is the key" because it depends on the activity and situation, (its also a two way street guys). Talking dirty is very erotic during many sexual activities but, there are times when it just doesn't fit. I enjoy HIM to talk dirty to ME too! It gives us a sense of appreciation for the other persons skill of pleasuring us, or each other.

For instance, I love hearing how good I am when I give him a blow-job!.....And the dirtier the better! I return the complements of course when he eats me or fucks me just the way I like.

We've even carried on entire dirty conversations while engaging in oral sex, (me giving mostly) it takes a certain openness and technique, and can last for hours.......Very erotic and rewarding.

About says it all.

 

[wheelz2021]

Reminds me of on of my ex

She had the most imaginative mind sex wise. We would have phone sex every night we were apart during that time. At that time i was a novice and that was what made it even better.

 

[shiny5437]

dirty talk is all in the accent for me. Posh women saying dirty words are the best!

 

[TheleHun]

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[Wevlen]

A vocal woman in the bedroom is a turn on for me. However, it can't be overdone; I chose "Keeping it in context" and "Variety." When it just sounds too fake and forced, it kills the mood. Keeping it honest, somewhat spontaneous, always make it good for me.

I, on the other hand, always seem to feel awkward when I talk dirty to my partner.

 

[coolfun]

Well, what you feel actually and conveying it is the best of "talking dirty". Although I feel there's nothing such as overdoing it but the Fact is, its appreciated in every form (i.e. phone sex,text version or while having sex)....

 

[deyv]

as long as it's genuine

When the sentiment is genuine it's such a turn-on.

I love listening to a girl talk about how much she enjoys my cock in her pussy. At the same time, I also love it when a girl is unhibited enough to accept the idea the 'dirty talk' is an enjoyable part of sex and 'doesn't demean our relationship" (I've heard that before... we broke up a few weeks later).

 

[twysted73]

Sex talk is like gravy on biscuits.

Mmm...god I love it.

 

[Markie100]

The only time my parthner talks dirty is when she is close to a orgasm, she tells me to fuck her hard

 

[BritPup]

The girl I lost my virginity to was talking dirty and she was horrible at it. It sounded like a parody of a bad porn movie. Not a BAD porn movie a PARODY of one. There I was going at it and thinking "Wow this is such a let down. I thought sex would be more than this."

+1

When it sounds like an overacted porn movie, I get fed up and distracted (bad news for Captain Stiffy!) I think younger women have seen porn movies and think that's what men must want.

Older and (as someone else said) posher women throwing in dirty talk in the heat of the moment is a genuine turn on.

 

[cadman7777]

well I love talking dirty and I love when women talk dirty as well.
I'm sure there is a point where it might be too much....I just haven't found it yet.

I started talking to a woman off a site like this and she wanted me to call her everday on her lucnh hour so she could get herself off....of course I'm in my office so I could only talk...and not do anything..although I took care of business later.

Too me hot nasty talk elevates the excitement in the action

 

[bisexualsmoker]

I like all dirty all night.

 

[redpaint]

The gal throwing in a few choice dirty words or phrases every now and then rocks, keeps it shockingly surprising and very exciting, thats where i think it has the most impact

yip have to agree.