❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[hotwords229_A]

04.15.25

Visual Aids

If you post sexy pics or gifs (ones you do not create of yourself) – why do you select the pics/gifs you post? Is it an attraction to the people in the visual? Is it what the visual represents? Do you search them out specifically for certain themed threads or do you just stumble upon great images? Do you have a style that you always stick to? Have you ever thought of about diversity (body types, race, sex acts, etc) when searching a post? Tell me what speaks to you and why?

I use pics all the time in my question thread.

The ones I pick are usually, in some way, connected to the question. They have to be attractive to me, but I also want other people to see them and comment on them. Some of them are strictly for laughs and others are deviously sexy.

I don’t know if there is a style I stick to, I’ll also use cartoons if appropriate, but I won’t use ai as it always sucks.

Diversity in images?
Kind of.
I post sexy guy pics too, does that count?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I use pics all the time in my question thread.

The ones I pick are usually, in some way, connected to the question. They have to be attractive to me, but I also want other people to see them and comment on them. Some of them are strictly for laughs and others are deviously sexy.

I don’t know if there is a style I stick to, I’ll also use cartoons if appropriate, but I won’t use ai as it always sucks.

Diversity in images?
Kind of.
I post sexy guy pics too, does that count?

It totally counts. And I always appreciate your tastes.

 

[StacyLeigh]

04.15.25

Visual Aids

If you post sexy pics or gifs (ones you do not create of yourself) – why do you select the pics/gifs you post? Is it an attraction to the people in the visual? Is it what the visual represents? Do you search them out specifically for certain themed threads or do you just stumble upon great images? Do you have a style that you always stick to? Have you ever thought of about diversity (body types, race, sex acts, etc) when searching a post? Tell me what speaks to you and why?

I do post sourced pics in my threads - but don't exactly search for them. I follow a wide variety of folks on Tumblr which provides me with a feed full of inspiration. I often just post what ever I have stumbled across that made me smile or squirm.

I don't believe I have a style, but others might disagree - though I tend to gravitate towards images that thematically fit one my threads.

I'm not always attracted to the people in the pics I post - it's more about the feeling or, as you said, the representation. I have actually received a lot of flack over the years for my choices of pics - mostly because people don't ask the questions you just did, PLP, and assume that my taste is quite shallow. I don't consciously seek out diversity in my pics, nor do I seek out barbie/ken. More often than not, I've posted a pic because it allowed me to picture myself in a similar situation.

 

[Neanderthal247]

04.15.25

Visual Aids

If you post sexy pics or gifs (ones you do not create of yourself) – why do you select the pics/gifs you post?

I post sexy pics, just to share and have fun mostly, but sometimes post it to get a specific lady's attention.

Gifs just for fun mostly, unless we're talking sexy and I have some good Tumblr gifs. I mostly use voice, videos and pics in my storytelling

Is it an attraction to the people in the visual?

It's more of the message I want to convey. It has to match the actions I want to take

Is it what the visual represents?

Yes, it has everything to do with what it represents

Do you search them out specifically for certain themed threads or do you just stumble upon great images?

I seek them out for specific mood at this moment

Do you have a style that you always stick to?

Not always, but there's some use more than others, it has everything to do with the nature of my relationship to her.

Have you ever thought of about diversity (body types, race, sex acts, etc) when searching a post?

I find women attractive, so many shapes sizes colors and cultures.

Tell me what speaks to you and why?

The thought of the person I'm into, the burning urge to ravish her or the lovey dovey stuff and my mood at the time.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

04.15.25

Visual Aids

If you post sexy pics or gifs (ones you do not create of yourself) – why do you select the pics/gifs you post? Is it an attraction to the people in the visual? Is it what the visual represents? Do you search them out specifically for certain themed threads or do you just stumble upon great images? Do you have a style that you always stick to? Have you ever thought of about diversity (body types, race, sex acts, etc) when searching a post? Tell me what speaks to you and why?

Personally, I love imagery not for the image itself exactly but for the feeling or idea it brings to mind. I know sometimes images are very raw or erotic or shocking (plus the idea that a “picture is worth a 1000 words") - but - I find words to be infinitely more intimate and arousing. I like looking at a picture of (for example) an erect nipple in a mouth but someone describing their tongue running wet circles around my hardening, ripe nipple until i gasped would make my panties wet where the image alone wouldn’t. I like the evocation of images but, for me, they are only a snack or appetizer. Words and ideas are so much more interesting and seductive.. Words also just feel so much more vulnerable and personal. If I add captions or words to pictures, I feel so much more exposed. Which is why, while I appreciate the art of the AmPic, it just never tickled my pickle

I have a wide variety of images - sexy, silly, sweet - saved as I see them and when I feel so inclined or the perfect moment comes, I whip them out. I don’t actively search for anything. I feel like I just stand in the rainstorm of internet filth with a bucket and catch what I can and what suits me. Sometimes I love the organization of a themed thread and the feeling of putting something where it belongs like Curvesday or Oral Fixations and sometimes, I just like the Funfetti wildness of posting the shockingly obscene next to a dad joke in my thread. It’s a real reflection of my weird personality. Though, I do try to include a variety of races and body types - mainly because that’s what I like to look at. I think you can only see a black and white, young, overly edited perfectly toned body so many times before it just doesn’t phase you. I do notice when people only post “perfect” people and… I’m not saying I judge but I notice. I just prefer real and raw and specific images that evoke strong feelings or desires.

Now I’m off to do just that!

 

[hotwords229_A]

when I feel so inclined or the perfect moment comes, I whip them out.

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[PrettyLilPussy19]

04.17.25
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Let’s talk sex noise -

Broadly - Do you have a preference for sounds (dirty talk, moans, growls, etc) during sex? Do you like to be vocal? Do you like your partners to be vocal? For those of you who have to be very quiet sometimes, does that element of secrecy add to the passion or do you wish you could let go and be loud? Have you ever had a person make noises you weren’t prepared for or didn’t like? How comfortable are you with dirty talk - giving or receiving? Does your partner's sounds add to the pleasure you’re experiencing?

Specifically - Ladies, would you like your male partners to make more noises? Men, do you feel like you aren’t allowed to be as noisy as your female partners? What feels natural and enjoyable?

 

[cheekygirl75]

04.17.25
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Let’s talk sex noise -

Broadly - Do you have a preference for sounds (dirty talk, moans, growls, etc) during sex?

I love all those sounds, mostly… moans & growls are great. Dirty talk can be tricky - it has to be natural to be good or it can just kill the mood. If a guy isn’t comfortable with it, it’s just better to stick with non-word sounds.

Do you like to be vocal? Do you like your partners to be vocal?

I’m not particularly vocal - I think when I first started masturbating, I always had to be quiet and that just stuck. I like my partners to be vocal, though if it’s a lot, it would put me off a bit if it could be easily overheard. I don’t particularly want to announce what I’m doing.

For those of you who have to be very quiet sometimes, does that element of secrecy add to the passion or do you wish you could let go and be loud?

No, it’s never made a difference to me.

Have you ever had a person make noises you weren’t prepared for or didn’t like?

No, can’t think of a time that happened.

How comfortable are you with dirty talk - giving or receiving?

I’m not so comfortable giving so I usually don’t - as I said above, I think it has to be natural to be good and it’s obvious when someone isn’t comfortable. That’s just awkward.

Does your partner's sounds add to the pleasure you’re experiencing?

Yes, my partner’s sounds definitely add to it. Specifically, if I’m giving a blow job, the whole point of it to me is to illicit some good sounds that will turn me on more.

Specifically - Ladies, would you like your male partners to make more noises?

I think my male partners have been vocal enough. They didn’t seem to be holding back.

 

[BongoGal]

One thing I know for sure is that hearing sex noises of others in another room turns me on quite quickly. I had a neighbor in the dorm room next to mine who had her room to herself on Wednesday nights. That was when her boyfriend would come over. As soon as Letterman was done, they'd turn off the TV and get down to fucking. They kept it as quiet as possible, but our beds were separated by just a few inches of wall, and I could hear everything. When I'd see her out and about, she always seemed mousy and uptight, but she morphed into a little orgasm machine once a week. The boyfriend didn't make much noise, really, but he did grunt a bit when he came. She was more...evocative. She would whisper and gasp filthy descriptions and instructions, and she would subtly hint that an orgasm was due by (quietly) exhaling, "I'm gonna come, I'm gonna come" a few times. [Yes, of course I masturbated while invading their privacy. How could I not?]

 

[BongoGal]

Dirty talk can be tricky - it has to be natural to be good or it can just kill the mood.

That's very true for me. I've only known a few people who were good at it at all. I'd say it's better not to risk it.

 

[UsuallyPresent]

04.17.25
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Let’s talk sex noise -

Broadly - Do you have a preference for sounds (dirty talk, moans, growls, etc) during sex?

If you mean it, great! If you’re performing, maybe. If you aren’t into it but just think that’s how it should be, no thanks, let’s talk about it instead.

Do you like to be vocal?

Varies, sometimes I’ll spew a stream of consciousness, others pant grunt growl,and others be quiet. Usually that is tied into who I’m with & who’s around, but sometimes it’s internally derived.

Do you like your partners to be vocal?

See above - happy either which way if it’s their heartfelt preference

-snip-
Have you ever had a person make noises you weren’t prepared for or didn’t like?

Yeah, broke down laughing once at surprise orgasm monkey hooting & shrieks, got turned off by heavy gagging, etc. Calmed down, talked it out, first case went back at it and had fun. Never got back with the second person.

How comfortable are you with dirty talk - giving or receiving?

Fairly comfy, especially if I know them & they know me or if I’m in that kinda mood. Words can be hard tho’, sometimes, and keeping a mental eye open for partners’ discomfort is a real thing .

Does your partner's sounds add to the pleasure you’re experiencing?

If they’re into it, can be a great addition IMO

Men, do you feel like you aren’t allowed to be as noisy as your female partners? What feels natural and enjoyable?

If someone tries to hush me during sex, I’ll try to oblige at least the first time - don’t wanna upset people in general, but will be asking why after.

 

[morelikeasong]

04.15.25

Visual Aids

If you post sexy pics or gifs (ones you do not create of yourself) – why do you select the pics/gifs you post? Is it an attraction to the people in the visual? Is it what the visual represents?

It is almost always about what it represents. Occasionally, if it is an image of a woman, it is because I’m specifically attracted to her. But often that’s the more amateur stuff that I sometimes repost on my tumblr but not here on lit.

Do you search them out specifically for certain themed threads or do you just stumble upon great images?

My tumblr feed has a decent variety of things I like. That’s what I share in my palace thread. But if I’m posting in the “what kind of sex” thread, I’m searching very specifically for gifs that convey an idea in my head or a story.

Do you have a style that you always stick to?

Not really, though I do tend to prefer pulled back shots vs close ups. A few exceptions apply, but that’s my general preference.
Other than that I like a variety of color, b&w, drawn, painted, etc.

Have you ever thought of about diversity (body types, race, sex acts, etc) when searching a post? Tell me what speaks to you and why?

I do think about it. I try to get more body and race diversity on my tumblr feed. It hasn’t been the easiest. But I do like when I can find images with curvier women because I connect with them more.
As far as diversity of sex acts… I don’t really consider that. I just post what I like. And I do have certain things that I’m particularly drawn to. I don’t feel the need to shy away from that.

 

[morelikeasong]

04.17.25
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Let’s talk sex noise -

Broadly - Do you have a preference for sounds (dirty talk, moans, growls, etc) during sex?

Gimme gimme gimme

Do you like to be vocal? Do you like your partners to be vocal?

Yes. Yes.

For those of you who have to be very quiet sometimes, does that element of secrecy add to the passion or do you wish you could let go and be loud?

I think being quiet can be hot, too. I don’t want to always be quiet but it definitely is sexy at times. I’m not opposed to a hand over my mouth when I’m supposed to be quiet and failing

Have you ever had a person make noises you weren’t prepared for or didn’t like?

Hmm. I don’t think so? In porn I have, but I don’t think I’ve run into it IRL

How comfortable are you with dirty talk - giving or receiving?

Totally comfortable receiving. I mean, I might blush… but I like it.
A little shy with the giving especially out loud (vs typed)

Does your partner's sounds add to the pleasure you’re experiencing?

Very, very much. Always, but especially with something like a blowjob. If I’m not hearing anything, I’m not really experiencing pleasure from it. Not to say I won’t do it, but it just won’t be turning me on. But if I’m getting that feedback…

 

[StillRain]

04.17.25
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Let’s talk sex noise -

Broadly - Do you have a preference for sounds (dirty talk, moans, growls, etc) during sex?

Yes, I have a strong preference for aural sex during actual sex whatever that sounds like. I feel like this is a really important part of it for me, silence is not my jam. However, if you want things to go quickly, dirty talk is where you should go. And I mean dirty.

Do you like to be vocal? Do you like your partners to be vocal? For those of you who have to be very quiet sometimes, does that element of secrecy add to the passion or do you wish you could let go and be loud?

I’ve only ever had to be quiet when the littles were nearby, and that was challenging. Apparently not as quiet as we thought either.

Have you ever had a person make noises you weren’t prepared for or didn’t like?

Yes, I have had a growler once and it threw me and made me laugh and kind of destroyed the moment for me. It sounded really silly to me and ruined the persona he had portrayed for me somehow.

How comfortable are you with dirty talk - giving or receiving?

Comfort is all about safety for me, and when I feel safe with a person it’s on. The dirtier the better.

Does your partner's sounds add to the pleasure you’re experiencing?

Yes, if there’s excessive quiet I’ll check-in somehow and seek feedback. Sex is a conversation of its own and doesn’t always need words but complete silence for me is not ideal.

Specifically - Ladies, would you like your male partners to make more noises?

My partner is *chefs kiss* We’re really good at talking about sex and imho doing sex.

Men, do you feel like you aren’t allowed to be as noisy as your female partners? What feels natural and enjoyable?

 

[sweetlydeviant]

04.17.25
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Let’s talk sex noise -

Broadly - Do you have a preference for sounds (dirty talk, moans, growls, etc) during sex?

Moaning is incredibly sexy it really does something for me.
Growls can be sexy, but mostly from deep voiced men.

Do you like to be vocal? Do you like your partners to be vocal?

I tend to be very vocal, moaning especially.
I prefer my partners to be very vocal. I love eliciting sounds from them.

For those of you who have to be very quiet sometimes, does that element of secrecy add to the passion or do you wish you could let go and be loud? Have you ever had a person make noises you weren’t prepared for or didn’t like? How comfortable are you with dirty talk - giving or receiving? Does your partner's sounds add to the pleasure you’re experiencing?

I love love dirty talk, but I hate demeaning or degrading words which has happened to me and it was deeply disturbing
Sounds always add to the experience and they make me go wild.

Specifically - Ladies, would you like your male partners to make more noises? Men, do you feel like you aren’t allowed to be as noisy as your female partners? What feels natural and enjoyable?

I’ve been with a lot of men who have been vocal, thankfully!! My female partners have been more vocal overall and I do believe it may be something that is a learned behaviour.

 

[morelikeasong]

but I hate demeaning or degrading words

Oh that’s a good point! I didn’t think about that. That has happened to me.
I also am not into anything degrading—being called slut or something like that will definitely take me out of the moment.

 

[MindYaBitness]

04.17.25
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Let’s talk sex noise -

Broadly - Do you have a preference for sounds (dirty talk, moans, growls, etc) during sex?

I have chromesthesia, so I experience sound a little differently than most people. Sound is incredibly important to the experience. As long as it's authentically you, I want to hear it. Don't try to force enjoyment, hide it, or fake it; If I know you well enough it'll show in the shape & colors of your voice/sounds, and ruin the moment. Conversly, if your into it, it doesn't matter if you're a grunt/growler, dirty talker, or yip like a coyote, IDGAF, it'll be incredibly sexy to me.

Do you like to be vocal? Do you like your partners to be vocal?

I'm very vocal, its difficult for me to be quiet. And, yes, I MUCH prefer my partner to be vocal as well.

For those of you who have to be very quiet sometimes, does that element of secrecy add to the passion or do you wish you could let go and be loud?

Depends. If we go into this knowing that we need to be sneaky & quiet, it can be a hot part of the experience. But, if you shoosh me pre/mid orgasm, my orgasm evaporates and you'll have a very grumpy lady on your hands

Have you ever had a person make noises you weren’t prepared for or didn’t like?

No

How comfortable are you with dirty talk - giving or receiving?

Yes & yes. The dirtier he talks, the harder I cum.

Does your partner's sounds add to the pleasure you’re experiencing?

Absolutely

Specifically - Ladies, would you like your male partners to make more noises?

Yes, please! I don't want my partner to feel like he needs to hold back for any reason, plus, I want him to tell me what feels good, give direction, etc. i.e. How am I supposed to know that I'm giving a good BJ if he's silent?

Men, do you feel like you aren’t allowed to be as noisy as your female partners? What feels natural and enjoyable?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

04.17.25
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Excellent question! Thank you

Let’s talk sex noise -

Broadly - Do you have a preference for sounds (dirty talk, moans, growls, etc) during sex? Do you like to be vocal? Do you like your partners to be vocal? For those of you who have to be very quiet sometimes, does that element of secrecy add to the passion or do you wish you could let go and be loud? Have you ever had a person make noises you weren’t prepared for or didn’t like? How comfortable are you with dirty talk - giving or receiving? Does your partner's sounds add to the pleasure you’re experiencing?

I am extremely aural. I don't just like but need the sounds, especially dirty talk. I am vocal, even solo, and nothing helps me cross the finish line faster than filthy words or the natural grunts, whimpers, whispers, moans, groans, and growls. It's a frequent search in my porn (and I'm often annoyed and irked when men make comments about other men making too much noise. We like it. It's for us. ).

I've had experience in watching a partner have to be quiet and the open mouth silent orgasm was extremely hot too. I knew the noises they'd make if they could. Life happens but the noisy times are always the hottest.

I have had one experience that I wasn't prepared for and it was fine but it just didn't match up with the personality. If you're a quietish person and then you scream like a howler monkey upon ejaculation - perhaps a little heads up would be nice. A little anticipation instead of a jump scare. I also hate when someone cums so silently, I never knew it happened - don't keep my prize from me!

I like dirty talk. I'm pretty good at it with the right partner. I think words and names would be discussed before hand. I like the dirty names (when discussed beforehand) and find the sweetness a harder pill to swallow. But that's a topic for another day. I do need names wrapped in a little tenderness sometimes not just "you slut" but "my slut" or "you sweet little slut" adjectives are our friends and when done right... well I hope it's laundry day.

AmSpecifically - Ladies, would you like your male partners to make more noises? Men, do you feel like you aren’t allowed to be as noisy as your female partners? What feels natural and enjoyable?

The more the better from my male and female partners. Don't put it on or be fake but don't hold back.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

04.17.25
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Let’s talk sex noise -

Broadly - Do you have a preference for sounds (dirty talk, moans, growls, etc) during sex? Do you like to be vocal? Do you like your partners to be vocal?

Yes. Maybe it was watching Porky’s too young. Maybe it was having to sneak out late late at night watch cable porn on mute in the living room. Maybe having kids and a shy wife. Maybe it’s being hard of hearing. Whatever. Noises rule. All of them. I can masturbate in silence fine by myself.

Likewise, I like my partner to know I’m enjoying myself and not just masturbating inside them. You know what I mean.

For those of you who have to be very quiet sometimes, does that element of secrecy add to the passion or do you wish you could let go and be loud?

It’s lost its luster over the years of kids living with us

Have you ever had a person make noises you weren’t prepared for or didn’t like?

Sometimes it’s hard to tell if a sound is a pleasantly surprised sound or a painfully surprised sound. I guess that’s as close as it gets. No “Surrender Dorothy” moments here

How comfortable are you with dirty talk - giving or receiving?

Like most things in sex, I’m super comfortable if I know my partner and know their boundaries. Dirty talk is very conscious for me and there’s a lot of “is this word okay” that needs to be processed before it’s fun and easy. But once that’s done…I’m all good.

Does your partner's sounds add to the pleasure you’re experiencing?

Yes. Sex is fun not a duty. Please reassure me that you understand that.

Specifically - Ladies, would you like your male partners to make more noises? Men, do you feel like you aren’t allowed to be as noisy as your female partners? What feels natural and enjoyable?

My wife has to be in a very specific place before being noisy work for her. She doesn’t reach that place easily, which isn’t a problem. Juts a reality that took me some time to figure out.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

, or yip like a coyote,

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[SalaciousMonkey22]

scream like a howler monkey upon ejaculated-.

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[StacyLeigh]

04.17.25
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Let’s talk sex noise -

Broadly - Do you have a preference for sounds (dirty talk, moans, growls, etc) during sex? Do you like to be vocal? Do you like your partners to be vocal? For those of you who have to be very quiet sometimes, does that element of secrecy add to the passion or do you wish you could let go and be loud? Have you ever had a person make noises you weren’t prepared for or didn’t like? How comfortable are you with dirty talk - giving or receiving? Does your partner's sounds add to the pleasure you’re experiencing?

Specifically - Ladies, would you like your male partners to make more noises? Men, do you feel like you aren’t allowed to be as noisy as your female partners? What feels natural and enjoyable?

No preferences but, as has been stated by others, the sounds need to be genuine. I’m more of a foreplay dirty talker (less during the act)…but I do have some signature sounds

It’s not as easy for me to be purposefully quiet (without something in or covering my mouth ) so I often try for sexy times when I have a bit more freedom. That’s not to say that being sneaky isn’t fun, too…I just overthink it too often.

I’ve never been disappointed in a partner’s noises, but I have been surprised in very good ways… especially that first time you hear them cum and thrill that it causes within you. More noises are always welcome, but my partner feeling comfortable to say and do and be who they are is paramount.

When I’m not in the moment, I’d likely say that I’m terrible at dirty talk…but in the midst of it I think the switch gets turned on and I’m…quite enjoyable…to listen to

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

04.22.25

You've discovered lamp, you've rubbed it just right and out cums a genie! You get three wishes!!

No wishing for more wishes. No wishing for endless amounts of anything.

What do you wish for? You get one bonus wish strictly Lit related - what is your Lit wish?

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

04.22.25

You've discovered lamp, you've rubbed it just right and out cums a genie! You get three wishes!!

No wishing for more wishes. No wishing for endless amounts of anything.

What do you wish for? You get one bonus wish strictly Lit related - what is your Lit wish?

1) a solution to climate change
2) selfless world leaders
3) health for the family

Lit wish... My favorite people to be around to make this place fun

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

1) a solution to climate change
2) selfless world leaders
3) health for the family

Lit wish... My favorite people to be around to make this place fun

Saint OP
(Were electing a new pope. You'd look good in the hat... just sayin' )