❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[PrettyLilPussy19]

04.05.23

Exes' exes

Do you track the type of people who your partner or past partners have been with? Do they have a type and do you fall somewhere within that type? Are you an anomaly in their types? How does that make you feel? Do you have any "types" yourself? Do you stick somewhere within that? Have you ever gone against type? How did that go?

 

[Dribble]

Holy fuck plp...it is only Wednesday. A question like this could sure make waves. Think I will watch it closely hoping people jump on it and answer it.

Me? Of course I got "types". But it has nothing to do with looks. Well that's a lie. It has everything to do with looks...just not a look. I see what I want to see. Other people don't see what I see. When I am involved with someone...they are all I want to see.

Do I track ex partners or their ex partners? No. Do I know what they are doing? Yes. This may be insulting to some...but I do not mean it to be. You can learn a lot about a person by observing their exes. See...people are in...or were in...people's lives for a reason. Even those for one night. They filled a need. Understanding someone's needs...or their search to fill their need...is healthy.

But I am fucking tired. I slept like shit last night. My answer could be total bullshit. Ask me tomorrow and it could be very different.

 

[Lmizzler]

04.05.23

Exes' exes

Do you track the type of people who your partner or past partners have been with? Do they have a type and do you fall somewhere within that type? Are you an anomaly in their types? How does that make you feel? Do you have any "types" yourself? Do you stick somewhere within that? Have you ever gone against type? How did that go?

I don't. I started to track them ages ago but just got bored with it. I am guessing I'm not the norm on this and that plenty track them still. It just did nothing for me.

I do have types though, some are looks based and some are personality/character based. I'm generally drawn to intelligent and confident women who can hold good conversations and make me laugh.

 

[PandemicReader8]

Where to begin...

Do you track the type of people who your partner or past partners have been with?
- Short answer: No. If they are a long term partner its never made sense to worry about where they've been, just where they are and where we're going. If they were simply a Fuck Buddy, well, who has time?

Do you have any "types" yourself?
- Yes and no. Usually its been a shared interest more than anything else that has made someone my type. That said, I've had long term relationships - and periodic "neither of us is with anyone, wanna fuck" - situations across the spectrum. Older, younger, blonde, brunette, redhead; B Cup, D Cup and one that was looking at E in the rear view mirror; Caucasian, Asian, Eurasian, African; tall, short, athletic, voluptuous, and rail thin. All brought together in the United Nations of Women I've Been With. Each was appealing and alluring in their own way in the time we spent with each other.

Have you ever gone against type? How did that go?
- Yes. And I found that stripper sexy could not balance out a dim mind and general inability to carry half a conversation.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

04.05.23

Exes' exes

Do you track the type of people who your partner or past partners have been with?

Definitely not a habit, because overall that's not healthy. But, that said, I've caught where some exes ended up. Lol

They all downgraded, though. That much I know. I mean these poor saps have to top me in terms of fuck skills. Sorry, babydicks, ain't happening.

Do they have a type and do you fall somewhere within that type? Are you an anomaly in their types? How does that make you feel?

I'm kind of a regular dude and they seem to end up with other regular dudes, I guess? (I dunno, I got nothing here lol. Also my fuck skills are great. Not sure I mentioned that.)

Do you have any "types" yourself? Do you stick somewhere within that? Have you ever gone against type? How did that go?

I don't think I necessarily have a set type. But there are usually commonalities. Curves and glasses seem to be a theme. Also they enjoy my high level of experience and excellent fuck skills.

 

[Orchidea73]

04.05.23

Exes' exes

Do you track the type of people who your partner or past partners have been with?

Nope. I could care less about their exes (how they look or what type they are etc.,) unless I happen to know them by accident and/or circumstances. When a man starts talking about their exes in the first period of you knowing each other, and especially speaks ill of her, that's a red flag for me. I say: RUN! The same is valid for women. Don't speak about them - certainly not whining about it - as soon as you get to know the new person. It's not a good look.

Do they have a type and do you fall somewhere within that type? Are you an anomaly in their types? How does that make you feel?

I don't know really. I've known two, in total, and they were both different but that's about it.

Do you have any "types" yourself?

Physically no. Except maybe for the height. I do prefer my man to be taller than me, or at least the same height. In terms of character and qualities, yes I do. Intelligent, cultured, witty, generous, can handle a conversation, assertive, confident, sensitive, can keep his head cool in difficult situation (there is enough temperament with me lol), no jealousy and other shit like that but that goes with confidence. Trustworthy and reliable. I need to respect and admire him. Ultimately, my partner has to be my rock.

Do you stick somewhere within that? Have you ever gone against type? How did that go?

I have been wrong in my judgment but I haven't gone against that fully knowing it. Although, in hindsight, there were red flags and I should've known. I don't see the point of entering into a meaningful relationship with someone who I know it is not my match. Casual relationships, yeah a couple. They were fun, or "nice" but I knew it was going nowhere, and I was fine with that.

 

[Trekka]

04.05.23

Exes' exes

Do you track the type of people who your partner or past partners have been with? Do they have a type and do you fall somewhere within that type? Are you an anomaly in their types? How does that make you feel? Do you have any "types" yourself? Do you stick somewhere within that? Have you ever gone against type? How did that go?

I only ever tracked mileage and credit card statements. Silly me.

My partners usually prefer blondes.
My partners' exes are usually blonde.
I am blonde.
I have always felt very blonde, and acted accordingly.

Yet, everyone I ever dated, male or female, was of the tall dark and emotionally unavailable type.
Until one day, this blue-eyed, blonde-haired viking clubbed me over my princess head, dragged me off to his cave, let me decorate it, and the rest is history.

 

[Orchidea73]

I only ever tracked mileage and credit card statements. Silly me.

LMAO!

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

04.05.23

Exes' exes

Do you track the type of people who your partner or past partners have been with?

No, but i get creeped out if i find out a white guy only dates a certain other race.

Do they have a type and do you fall somewhere within that type?
Are you an anomaly in their types? How does that make you feel?

Have not known that many exeses to know

Do you have any "types" yourself? Do you stick somewhere within that?

Not in looks other than maybe same age or older. Ok maybe i like a beard.
Personality wise... easy going, nerdy, talkative, no drama, and similar sense of humor.

Have you ever gone against type? How did that go?

Hm. Ive has crushes against my type. Someone smart but mysterious, or some authority figure, but those were just people i found attractive and no one i actually dated.

 

[Apisto42]

04.05.23

Exes' exes

Do you track the type of people who your partner or past partners have been with?

Depended on the situation- was it a series of shitty relationships that she repeated? Cause that’s a big fucking flag.

Do they have a type and do you fall somewhere within that type?

Yeah. I’m a broad shouldered big dick cocky southern bastard.

Are you an anomaly in their types?

Nope. Pretty fucking true to type.

How does that make you feel?

Lucky.

Do you have any "types" yourself?

Yep. For a partner. Not for sexual liaisons. In that regard I viewed the world as a fucking Baskins Robbins, new flavor every chance I could get.

Do you stick somewhere within that? Have you ever gone against type? How did that go?

I was never a big believer in being partnered.

 

[Orchidea73]

Depended on the situation- was it a series of shitty relationships that she repeated? Cause that’s a big fucking flag.

In those cases you don't need to "investigate" tho. They will spill the beans in the first date. At your first hello. lol

I was never a big believer in being partnered.

What do you mean "partnered"? Could you elaborate?

 

[Apisto42]

My first real long term relationship was getting married. Never found anyone before that relationship that held my interest long enough to get serious. I was busy getting laid, educated and making money.

 

[Orchidea73]

My first real long term relationship was getting married.

Ah, ok. You were a big believer on being officially "partnered". Gotcha.

 

[Apisto42]

Ah, ok. You were a big believer on being officially "partnered". Gotcha.

Kind of. I never saw the point in spending all my time with someone that I knew I didn’t want to be with long term. No reason to lead someone on thinking I was serious. And if it’s not serious, why limit your time? Then when you do meet someone you’re really interested in, you’ve got this stupid relationship going on that you’ve got to end first?

It seemed … inefficient. Lol

 

[Orchidea73]

Kind of. I never saw the point in spending all my time with someone that I knew I didn’t want to be with long term. No reason to lead someone on thinking I was serious. And if it’s not serious, why limit your time? Then when you do meet someone you’re really interested in, you’ve got this stupid relationship going on that you’ve got to end first?

It seemed … inefficient. Lol

I do love your pragmatism and logical thinking.

 

[Dribble]

Kind of. I never saw the point in spending all my time with someone that I knew I didn’t want to be with long term. No reason to lead someone on thinking I was serious. And if it’s not serious, why limit your time? Then when you do meet someone you’re really interested in, you’ve got this stupid relationship going on that you’ve got to end first?

It seemed … inefficient. Lol

Plus it is very selfish...you rob them of years that would allow them to check out some other path

 

[RosewoodTulip]

04.05.23

Exes' exes

Do you track the type of people who your partner or past partners have been with? Do they have a type and do you fall somewhere within that type? Are you an anomaly in their types? How does that make you feel? Do you have any "types" yourself? Do you stick somewhere within that? Have you ever gone against type? How did that go?

Well I know the woman my ex is with now because we've had to keep in contact cos of our son. Whereas I've always been fairly broke, she seems to be fairly comfortable.
Whereas he bled me dry of my savings, she keeps him on a tighter leash.
I don't really speak to her that much but she doesn't look like me and neither does his ex before me.
My own type? Don't really have one. I've been attracted to different heights, body types, ages - younger and older than me. Race isn't a factor either. I like a good connection. Understand me, make me laugh, show that you see who I am and I become putty

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

04.07.23

What's your least favorite part of sex?

 

[Bry1313]

04.07.23

What's your least favorite part of sex?

When I’m not having it

 

[Whiskeyjack]

04.07.23

What's your least favorite part of sex?

Knowing that all my schlubbiness is on display.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Knowing that all my schlubbiness is on display.

Whats schlubbiness?

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

04.07.23

What's your least favorite part of sex?

Getting up to go pee after

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

04.07.23

What's your least favorite part of sex?

- that my knees dont like me kneeling as much as my mind
- having to go pee after when I just want to lay there
- muscle cramps

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

- that my knees dont like me kneeling as much as my mind
- having to go pee after when I just want to lay there
- muscle cramps

Pillow for your knee? I always throw a pillow down

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I’ve done this before but it still hurts when you’re down there for more than a few minutes and getting back up is all snap crackle pops

Lol we old!