❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[Whiskeyjack]

04.12.23

When it comes to play ::eyebrow waggle:: do you prefer simple or complex? Do you like a "cum and run" or do you like to go deep and explore things? Or are you somewhere in the middle? Is the play better when you know someone deeply or when they can just be an avatar for your fantasy? Are you attracted to complicated, introspective people or do you prefer straightforward, what you see is what you get type of partners?

If, by "cum and run," you mean a one night stand, then no, I can't do that. I tried it once, and it turned into an 8-month long relationship. But if you mean a quickie with an established partner, then yes, those are needed once in a while. There's just too much going on and too many responsibilities to have long, drawn-out, exploratory gourmet sex every single time. Sometimes you just need fast food type sex to tide you over. But in general, the more complicated, the better. I tend to fall for women who are like ogres who are like onions. Layers. Lots of layers. And "cum and run" can be one of those layers.

 

[Oicu81b4]

04.12.23

When it comes to play ::eyebrow waggle:: do you prefer simple or complex? Do you like a "cum and run" or do you like to go deep and explore things? Or are you somewhere in the middle? Is the play better when you know someone deeply or when they can just be an avatar for your fantasy? Are you attracted to complicated, introspective people or do you prefer straightforward, what you see is what you get type of partners?

I'm more of the explorer, I know most women don't believe me but I'm more of a pleasure giver than seeker. I like to take my time, try different things, figure out what really puts that arch in her back then give her multiple orgasms. Honestly don't think about myself until she is so sensitive or it's more painful for me and I have to cum.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

I'm more of the explorer, I know most women don't believe me but I'm more of a pleasure giver than seeker. I like to take my time, try different things, figure out what really puts that arch in her back then give her multiple orgasms. Honestly don't think about myself until she is so sensitive or it's more painful for me and I have to cum.

Hi, I'm Indie

 

[Oicu81b4]

Hi, I'm Indie

Nice to meet you Indie

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

04.12.23

When it comes to play ::eyebrow waggle:: do you prefer simple or complex? Do you like a "cum and run" or do you like to go deep and explore things? Or are you somewhere in the middle? Is the play better when you know someone deeply or when they can just be an avatar for your fantasy? Are you attracted to complicated, introspective people or do you prefer straightforward, what you see is what you get type of partners?

I find this one of the most difficult questions to answer here. The answer is all of the above, depending on the day. Some days I want simple, some days I want complex, some days I want to cum and run, some days I want to have a 5 hour conversation, some days it is in the middle. Some days I want to talk with someone I know well, other times someone I don't know. All of these have their own unique positives, and sometimes I want it all. I am attracted to both complex people as well as the straightforward, take me as I am, types. Again, both have wonderful attributes. I guess the longer I live and the more time that goes on, the more I begin to think that I am a fucking cat. I wish my partners the best of luck in figuring me out. If someone ever fully understands me, I hope they clue me in.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

04.12.23

When it comes to play ::eyebrow waggle:: do you prefer simple or complex? Do you like a "cum and run" or do you like to go deep and explore things? Or are you somewhere in the middle? Is the play better when you know someone deeply or when they can just be an avatar for your fantasy? Are you attracted to complicated, introspective people or do you prefer straightforward, what you see is what you get type of partners?

Been meaning to answer this, just had a busy few days.

I'm one of those that needs a deep connection that goes beyond physical but generally only seems to get the "cum and run" They're great in the moment but always leave me feeling empty afterwards.
I am the complicated introspective person so maybe a straightforward partner would balance me out.
With "play" itself I'm quite changeable. Don't know if it's my hormonal cycle or what but I can go from wanting deep, meaningful and hours long, to just bend me over for fucks sake in the space of a day.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

04.12.23

When it comes to play ::eyebrow waggle:: do you prefer simple or complex? Do you like a "cum and run" or do you like to go deep and explore things? Or are you somewhere in the middle? Is the play better when you know someone deeply or when they can just be an avatar for your fantasy? Are you attracted to complicated, introspective people or do you prefer straightforward, what you see is what you get type of partners?

Increasingly I think I may be the Goldilocks of Lit…

For play outside of my person, I don’t want it too simple; I don’t want it too complex; I want it just right. (Is that the right use of a semicolon? Probably not. Oh well.)


I like the idea of a cum n run with an established partner. Sometimes, time and privacy are fleeting and I’d like to take advantage of a few minutes when I can. But I don’t get nearly the same enjoyment from Rando Joe or Jane. I like the lead up and the talk, the flirt, the negotiations. But I don't need love or adoration.


I like complicated. I like straightforward.I simply want a real person. Not just someone pretending to be a fantasy… or what they think my fantasy is. I want to be able to talk about things other than cumshots and buttplugs too. And while I don’t expect to be anyone’s one and only, I don’t enjoy being a member of sex mosh pit. We all want to be a little special.

All that to say - I pretty much agree with @Justadesperatewifeandmom and I’m so glad to see her around.

 

[MedicalMuse]

04.12.23

When it comes to play ::eyebrow waggle:: do you prefer simple or complex? Do you like a "cum and run" or do you like to go deep and explore things? Or are you somewhere in the middle? Is the play better when you know someone deeply or when they can just be an avatar for your fantasy? Are you attracted to complicated, introspective people or do you prefer straightforward, what you see is what you get type of partners?

Complex chemistry. Exploration is wonderful. I play better when I know someone. I like straightforward people who are good communicators. Complicated is also good, when there’s communication. I’ve been guilty of being quiet with people for long stretches. Life gets in the way sometimes. I think as long as everyone is open about their expectations and wants, and you’re synced up, it’s a beautiful thing.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

As an English Teacher…..oh Nevermind.

Can you please proofread all my bullshit?

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Increasingly I think I may be the Goldilocks of Lit…

For play outside of my person, I don’t want it too simple; I don’t want it too complex; I want it just right. (Is that the right use of a semicolon? Probably not. Oh well.)


I like the idea of a cum n run with an established partner. Sometimes, time and privacy are fleeting and I’d like to take advantage of a few minutes when I can. But I don’t get nearly the same enjoyment from Rando Joe or Jane. I like the lead up and the talk, the flirt, the negotiations. But I don't need love or adoration.


I like complicated. I like straightforward.I simply want a real person. Not just someone pretending to be a fantasy… or what they think my fantasy is. I want to be able to talk about things other than cumshots and buttplugs too. And while I don’t expect to be anyone’s one and only, I don’t enjoy being a member of sex mosh pit. We all want to be a little special.

All that to say - I pretty much agree with @Justadesperatewifeandmom and I’m so glad to see her around.

FYI - "Sex Mosh Pit" is the name of my new garage band. It's mostly grunge covers of George Michael songs.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

FYI - "Sex Mosh Pit" is the name of my new garage band. It's mostly grunge covers of George Michael songs.

A grungey Careless Whisper could actually work

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

04.15.23

Inspired by an epic thread derailment -

Kink Spectrum

Say there is a spectrum from 1 - 10, vanilla to the most kinky, where do you fall on your own spectrum? Are you happily vanilla? Working on climbing the kink ladder of your fantasies? Or are you now on the precipice of kink with nowhere else to go? We should acknowledge that everyone's idea of vanilla and kink is different? What, to you, is the basic level of vanilla #1 on the spectrum? What does a #10 do that makes them so kinky? Do you portray yourself accurately on Lit or do you like to seem more or less kinky than you actually are?

 

[Dribble]

Define kink. I think I know what a 1 or a 10 is. But...what is considered a 5?

Seems to me it is only kinky the first time...after which it is either normal or garbage. So if I know what others consider a 5...it helps define where I might be.

 

[jason28053]

04.15.23

Inspired by an epic thread derailment -

Kink Spectrum

Say there is a spectrum from 1 - 10, vanilla ice cream to the most kinky, where do you fall on your own spectrum? Are you happily vanilla ice cream? Working on climbing the kink ladder of your fantasies? Or are you now on the precipice of kink with nowhere else to go? We should acknowledge that everyone's idea of vanilla ice cream and kink is different? What, to you, is the basic level of vanilla ice cream #1 on the spectrum? What does a #10 do that makes them so kinky? Do you portray yourself accurately on Lit or do you like to seem more or less kinky than you actually are?

FIFY

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Define kink. I think I know what a 1 or a 10 is. But...what is considered a 5?

Seems to me it is only kinky the first time...after which it is either normal or garbage. So if I know what others consider a 5...it helps define where I might be.

Well the whole question is how we define our own spectrum. So your 5 is probably not my 5.
No describe your kink in detail and we'll know more about your spectrum.

 

[Dribble]

Well the whole question is how we define our own spectrum. So your 5 is probably not my 5.
No describe your kink in detail and we'll know more about your spectrum.

That's the problem...I don't define my spectrum. There are hard "no's". So I suppose that's where I place 10's. Just not interested no matter who they are.

I will start the process...but I reserve the right to redefine. What is normal enough to be considered a 5? How about fingering you in church or any public locality under your coat? That seems normal.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

That's the problem...I don't define my spectrum. There are hard "no's". So I suppose that's where I place 10's. Just not interested no matter who they are.

I will start the process...but I reserve the right to redefine. What is normal enough to be considered a 5? How about fingering you in church or any public locality under your coat? That seems normal.

So if fingering me under the table at a restaurant is like... a 2 for you... it would be like a 4 or 5 for me bc of the public aspect.
That is what's interesting about the thought experiment

 

[Orchidea73]

04.15.23

Inspired by an epic thread derailment -

Kink Spectrum

Say there is a spectrum from 1 - 10, vanilla to the most kinky, where do you fall on your own spectrum? Are you happily vanilla? Working on climbing the kink ladder of your fantasies? Or are you now on the precipice of kink with nowhere else to go? We should acknowledge that everyone's idea of vanilla and kink is different? What, to you, is the basic level of vanilla #1 on the spectrum? What does a #10 do that makes them so kinky?

I don't know how to respond to this one. As you mentioned, what is vanilla and what is kink varies, and I'm like Dribble on this one. However, on general terms, I do not consider myself neither vanilla nor kinky.

Do you portray yourself accurately on Lit

Yes. To the extent I can because I do not like to put my sexual life on a public piazza.

or do you like to seem more or less kinky than you actually are?

Generally, I'm skeptical when I hear too much talk, or grand statements in that regard. To quote Tywin Lannister: "Any men who must say 'I am the King' is no true King." And this is how I feel about it.

 

[stressedsubject]

04.15.23

Inspired by an epic thread derailment -

Kink Spectrum

Say there is a spectrum from 1 - 10, vanilla to the most kinky, where do you fall on your own spectrum? Are you happily vanilla? Working on climbing the kink ladder of your fantasies? Or are you now on the precipice of kink with nowhere else to go? We should acknowledge that everyone's idea of vanilla and kink is different? What, to you, is the basic level of vanilla #1 on the spectrum? What does a #10 do that makes them so kinky? Do you portray yourself accurately on Lit or do you like to seem more or less kinky than you actually are?

I guess everyone’s spectrum is different. Like if 5 was a true average than I’d say a 5 maybe a 6. But, if I view my spectrum as my experiences with myself and encounters with others I’d say a 3 or 4. I’m just exploring my boundaries with an open mine slowly transitioning (climbing/descending) the spectrum. With more and more experiences I find that I’m more kinky compared to a number of peers but less to some partners.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

I guess a 1 would be... what? Only missionary?
And a 10 would be getting double-fisted with a dozen dudes cumming/pissing into someone's open mouth?

If that's the scale then I'm very happy at around a 3. I have fantasies that might one day go as high as 5, but I really don't know what that would do to me. So let's just start with what we have.

 

[Dribble]

Maybe I am weird? I consider 1 through 6 as completely normal...but what varies is frequency. You know...spice. A 7 starts to push the uncomfortable limits...but still totally doable and normal with the right person. An 8 or 9...I would tie you up at an event for pictures...but maybe only once or twice. Really not my thing but if it was yours...cool...i can do that...but i am not into the attention it brings. I like to think I live in the 1 to 6 realm daily.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

04.15.23

Inspired by an epic thread derailment -

Kink Spectrum

Say there is a spectrum from 1 - 10, vanilla to the most kinky, where do you fall on your own spectrum? Are you happily vanilla? Working on climbing the kink ladder of your fantasies? Or are you now on the precipice of kink with nowhere else to go? We should acknowledge that everyone's idea of vanilla and kink is different? What, to you, is the basic level of vanilla #1 on the spectrum? What does a #10 do that makes them so kinky? Do you portray yourself accurately on Lit or do you like to seem more or less kinky than you actually are?

I tend to think I'm vanilla with some sprinkles. I'm also willing to try new flavors. If I had to give it a number, I would say I'm a solid 5. I think this is because a lot of the very kinky things I think I'd like, I've never actually tried in person. I would consider a 1 your typical missionary, once a week, kinda of sex. And a 10 something I'd see in a BDSM dungeon.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

I tend to think I'm vanilla with some sprinkles. I'm also willing to try new flavors. If I had to give it a number, I would say I'm a solid 5. I think this is because a lot of the very kinky things I think I'd like, I've never actually tried in person. I would consider a 1 your typical missionary, once a week, kinda of sex. And a 10 something I'd see in a BDSM dungeon.

Once a week? Oh, how I envy your vanilla!

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

Once a week? Oh, how I envy your vanilla!

Hey I didn't say I was having sex once a week! Lol. If I based my number on just my sex life, it would be negative.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Don’t mind me, I’m just going to crush on you a little for that pun.

Mmm, tacos and tits. God bless PLP for that.

I think of @PrettyLilPussy19 every time I pass Tatas Tacos.

Pillow for your knee? I always throw a pillow down

I have positions I prefer over knees, but when on my knees I use the appropriate tools to make it enjoyable for everyone

Increasingly I think I may be the Goldilocks of Lit…

For play outside of my person, I don’t want it too simple; I don’t want it too complex; I want it just right. (Is that the right use of a semicolon? Probably not. Oh well.)

I like the idea of a cum n run with an established partner. Sometimes, time and privacy are fleeting and I’d like to take advantage of a few minutes when I can. But I don’t get nearly the same enjoyment from Rando Joe or Jane. I like the lead up and the talk, the flirt, the negotiations. But I don't need love or adoration.

I like complicated. I like straightforward. I simply want a real person. Not just someone pretending to be a fantasy… or what they think my fantasy is. I want to be able to talk about things other than cumshots and buttplugs too. And while I don’t expect to be anyone’s one and only, I don’t enjoy being a member of sex mosh pit. We all want to be a little special.

All that to say - I pretty much agree with @Justadesperatewifeandmom and I’m so glad to see her around.

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