❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[Shenanigans90]

06.04.24

Are you a grow-er or a show-er? Ok I don't mean your dick, calm down, but when you first get to know someone. Do you immediately show up open and ready to talk or does it take time for you to grow into a conversation?

I would consider myself a grow-er with someone I’m just getting to know. I love to meet new people but my default is always either humor or sarcasm which can lead to bad first impressions. I get so worried about coming across rude or thirsty that I probably seem boring as hell.

 

[FormerAllStar2]

06.04.24

Are you a grow-er or a show-er? Ok I don't mean your dick, calm down, but when you first get to know someone. Do you immediately show up open and ready to talk or does it take time for you to grow into a conversation?

Online I’m good to go. Pretty much a show-er. It’s a lot easier when I’m not looking at someone’s face. In person, I’m much more of a grow-er. I’m much better in social situations than I used to be, but it still takes a while for me to warm up and get comfortable.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

06.04.24

Are you a grow-er or a show-er? Ok I don't mean your dick, calm down, but when you first get to know someone. Do you immediately show up open and ready to talk or does it take time for you to grow into a conversation?

I'm pretty sure I'm a show-er. I love getting to know new people (online, not so much in person haha). I'm pretty much an open book if the other person is interesting and engaging as well. I think I'm a slow-release boring girl though. After a couple weeks, I've told you everything and if we keep talking it's because we actually like each other, even the boring bits.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I'm pretty sure I'm a show-er. I love getting to know new people (online, not so much in person haha). I'm pretty much an open book if the other person is interesting and engaging as well. I think I'm a slow-release boring girl though. After a couple weeks, I've told you everything and if we keep talking it's because we actually like each other, even the boring bits.

I need a class on how to jump in there and get to know people.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

I need a class on how to jump in there and get to know people.

Whispers exchange friendly vag

 

[hairball18]

I am a bit of both. Both online and in real life.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Whispers exchange friendly vag

How does the exchange work? Do we both count to three?

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

How does the exchange work? Do we both count to three?

You first

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

You first

Sent

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

Sent

Brat.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

1. Sending PMs. Hell I started an annual event around my overthinking PMs. I want more community and interaction (site wide) but I am not always the change I want to see.

2. Assuming. I hate people assuming things about me without just asking because I'm a pretty open book when asked. But yall, my imagination is wild and I will assume the craziest things and then find out the reality and be so internally embarrassed. I've started a thing this year where when my mind starts to do that I always choose the most generous assumption. It helps be frame people more positively and generally just keeps my brain buzzing on a happier frequency.

 

[Photog1rl]

06.04.24

Are you a grow-er or a show-er? Ok I don't mean your dick, calm down, but when you first get to know someone. Do you immediately show up open and ready to talk or does it take time for you to grow into a conversation?

I am a grower mostly because it takes awhile for me to decide I will trust someone. Once that happens I share, share and share some more.
Recently a new friend referred to an audio I sent as a Vocaroo Marathon. I’m choosing to believe they liked it.

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

1-Not catching feelings online.
At first I thought it could not happen and then I thought people that did it were kind of dumb(yes I make rash judgments/decisions but I may change them just as rapidly). Then I caught feelings
Now I understand the level of connection and intimacy relationships (be it friendships or more than friends) online can have. I will still say catching feelings is dumb but I know I will do it again just not to the same level.

2-shopping
I preach to my kids about saving money and being money smart and yet I totally overshop. I know it’s different because they are staring out and I am more established but…no one needs the number of purses, pairs of shoes, or amount of clothing and lingerie I have.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

Advice

I think I give great advice. You have something on your mind or a big decision? I will totally talk it through with you and try to be as objective as possible.
Can I do the same for myself?
I can not.

 

[hotwords229_A]

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

Nudity.

I love people getting naked, sharing naked pics, and all things nudity. But, I am a little shy about taking part myself. Although I have an exhibitionist streak, I also have a shy streak that overrides it.

That said, I think everyone else should get naked!

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Nudity.

I love people getting naked, sharing naked pics, and all things nudity. But, I am a little shy about taking part myself. Although I have an exhibitionist streak, I also have a shy streak that overrides it.

That said, I think everyone else should get naked!

I just assumed it was a carefully crafted persona to keep us all begging for more glimpses

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

Taking things personally or being overly sensitive sometimes.

I will be surprised when I learn that someone was affected by something I’ve done or said, but then I will go and get my feelings hurt over something trivial, too. I’m working on that.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

When someone is having a bad day or has something else going on in their life and they snap at someone else, I'm usually pretty good at suggesting that the other person shouldn't take it personally.
When someone is having a bad day and they're rude to me, I will take that SO personally, and spend the next 30 years wondering what I did wrong to cause such behavior.

Edit: I now realize that my answer is 99% exactly what @Love_Is_Blonde just said above me.

I'm also a hypocrite in that I appreciate originality in others, but am rarely original myself.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

Taking things personally or being overly sensitive sometimes.

I will be surprised when I learn that someone was affected by something I’ve done or said, but then I will go and get my feelings hurt over something trivial, too. I’m working on that.

When someone is having a bad day or has something else going on in their life and they snap at someone else, I'm usually pretty good at suggesting that the other person shouldn't take it personally.
When someone is having a bad day and they're rude to me, I will take that SO personally, and spend the next 30 years wondering what I did wrong to cause such behavior.

Edit: I now realize that my answer is 99% exactly what @Love_Is_Blonde just said above me.

I'm also a hypocrite in that I appreciate originality in others, but am rarely original myself.

This is totally me too. I'm just gonna steal your answers.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I just assumed it was a carefully crafted persona to keep us all begging for more glimpses

That’s exactly what my shyness wanted you to think!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Taking things personally or being overly sensitive sometimes.

I will be surprised when I learn that someone was affected by something I’ve done or said, but then I will go and get my feelings hurt over something trivial, too. I’m working on that.

Well hello gorgeous girl!

 

[Hollybushes]

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

I do some sports coaching so always going on about diet. Then go home and eat ice-cream

 

[FormerAllStar2]

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

Spending money. I’ll totally judge someone for “wasting” money on small things that I deem frivolous, but then I’ll rationalize spending a shit ton more on ballgame tickets or a big ticket item.

 

[Apisto42]

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

Getting stuff done. If there’s something I really don’t care about doing, I’ll let that job languish till the sun dies. But if my son doesn’t do something? I’m all over his ass.

 

[Booboobear84]

06.07.24

What's something that you're just a little bit of a hypocrite about?

Being organized, I never give it enough time as it needs, but I go crazy with disorganized stuff from clients