❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[UsuallyPresent]

02.03.25

If you had to boil it down, what are your three least favorite ways to feel?

(Speakig of emotions and feelings here - I don't mean stepping on a Lego - even though that's the worst)

1) Flat, numb, unfeeling
2) morass of conflicting emotions all at once - fear/hatred/love/annoyance/etc, all at high levels
3) irrational emotional bursts. Giggling unexpectedly for no reason, or slamming a fist on the desk for a typo.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

02.03.25

If you had to boil it down, what are your three least favorite ways to feel?

(Speakig of emotions and feelings here - I don't mean stepping on a Lego - even though that's the worst)

1. Stupid (either like I am or someone treating me like I am)

2. Unacknowledged or ignored (particularly when it's a purposeful withholding)

3. Helpless (when you have just no idea what to do or if you can do anything)

** There's something here about grief but I also think grief serves a purpose so... not great but not top 3.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

02.03.25

If you had to boil it down, what are your three least favorite ways to feel?

(Speakig of emotions and feelings here - I don't mean stepping on a Lego - even though that's the worst)

1) Lonely
2) Neglected/ignored
3) Overwhelmed

So much fun when they feed off each other too

 

[Awaywego]

02.03.25

If you had to boil it down, what are your three least favorite ways to feel?

.Overwhelmed
.angry (nothing good comes from it)
.out of touch

 

[Whiskeyjack]

02.03.25

If you had to boil it down, what are your three least favorite ways to feel?

(Speakig of emotions and feelings here - I don't mean stepping on a Lego - even though that's the worst)

1. Burnt out
2. Knowing I've done something wrong
3. Knowing I've let someone down

 

[Neanderthal247]

1. Stupid (either like I am or someone treating me like I am)

2. Unacknowledged or ignored (particularly when it's a purposeful withholding)

3. Helpless (when you have just no idea what to do or if you can do anything)

** There's something here about grief but I also think grief serves a purpose so... not great but not top 3.

You’re not stupid at all, someone treating you that way, is for their own ego and insecurities.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

You’re not stupid at all, someone treating you that way, is for their own ego and insecurities.

I'm absolutely not. But I don't enjoy feeling like I am - for whatever reason.

Thanks ya though.

 

[Photog1rl]

02.03.25

If you had to boil it down, what are your three least favorite ways to feel?

(Speakig of emotions and feelings here - I don't mean stepping on a Lego - even though that's the worst)

1-insecure
2-misunderstood
3-foolish
And all of these are made worse when they are connected and you are gaslit about them.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Ugh.

1. Jealous
2. Jealous Not enough
3. Jealous Too much

1. Stupid (either like I am or someone treating me like I am)

2. Unacknowledged or ignored (particularly when it's a purposeful withholding)

3. Helpless (when you have just no idea what to do or if you can do anything)

** There's something here about grief but I also think grief serves a purpose so... not great but not top 3.

1) Lonely
2) Neglected/ignored
3) Overwhelmed

So much fun when they feed off each other too

1-insecure
2-misunderstood
3-foolish
And all of these are made worse when they are connected and you are gaslit about them.

You ladies pretty much summed it up. Top three just depends on the situation, but too much, not enough, and stupid/foolish are some of the worst.

 

[Neanderthal247]

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

Confident
Accomplished
Content

 

[ImSinister]

Energetic
Generous
Loved

 

[Photog1rl]

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

Seen/understood/valued
Engaged/challenged
Optimistic

 

[cascadiabound]

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

Awestruck
Calm
Beloved

 

[MrMakersMark]

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

At peace,
Confident,
...
and Curious I guess.

Feels good to be interested in learning something new.

 

[crazychemgirl]

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

Engaged intellectually
Passionate
Joyous with laughter

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

1. Safe - unjudged, accepted, wanted, secure
2. Seen - that feeling when someone just gets it without a ton of discussion and explanation
3. Inspired - this can be creatively or motivated, determined, or encouraged

 

[Neanderthal247]

I've been doing the seen part all wrong.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

Hopeful
Calm
Valued

 

[NRJLIVES4ever]

Least favorite ways to feel:

Resentful
Depressed
Anxious

Emotions like anger and jealousy you can turn around into something else. But the above are just ones you have to bear through.

Favorite ways to feel:

Appreciated- your efforts are valued, people give you love, that girl you're into has let you know she really wants to fuck you (YOU specifically). Just knowing you are welcome and wanted.

Accomplished- just got a big project done and it's awesome, the gig went really well and the crowd was great, finally finished that writing project, and holy smokes did that recipe turn out great, so great that the girl I'm into really wants to fuck me (ME specifically)

Content- Sunday morning with a cup of coffee and a blues mix, just took a gummy and now I'm chilling with one of my favorite movies, just fucked that girl and made her gaz her brains out, now we chill

 

[Whiskeyjack]

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

1. Wanted. Like people are generally happy to have me around.
2. Heard. Even if you don't agree with me, that you've at least listened and considered what I have to say.
3. Content. I'm on my couch with my cat purring loudly in my lap. I wish I could feel like she does right now.

 

[hotwords229_A]

02.03.25

If you had to boil it down, what are your three least favorite ways to feel?

(Speakig of emotions and feelings here - I don't mean stepping on a Lego - even though that's the worst)

Frustrated
Apathetic
Helpless (to help someone else, I mean)

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

Silly (laughter)
Calm
Orgasmic

 

[Wand3rlust]

02.03.25

If you had to boil it down, what are your three least favorite ways to feel?

(Speakig of emotions and feelings here - I don't mean stepping on a Lego - even though that's the worst)

1. Uncertain. Some people find that exciting. I need to have at least some idea. Of direction. Of people.
2. Not enough. It's hard to keep on keeping on, when your lived experience tries to tell you that you're not enough.
3. Anxious. It can leave you crippled and unable to get out of bed. Those days are hard.

 

[Wand3rlust]

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

1. Valued/appreciated. Whether it's for work, or as a person, or just..  knowing how much you mean to a person or environment.
2. Free. I do love and appreciate when I am free. Of burdon and obligation. It doesn't happen often. But man, it's a good feeling.
3. Loved. It's the best feeling.

 

[StacyLeigh]

02.03.25

If you had to boil it down, what are your three least favorite ways to feel?

(Speakig of emotions and feelings here - I don't mean stepping on a Lego - even though that's the worst)

My 3 Least Favorite Ways to Feel:​

Overwhelmed / Scattered
Disconnected
Stagnant / Uninspired

02.04.25

And just so we don't dwell on the bad stuff too much....

If you had to boil it down, what are your three favorite ways to feel?

My 3 Favorite Ways to Feel:​

Connected
Productive + Purposeful
Curious

(Great questions @PrettyLilPussy19 )