PrettyLilPussy19
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Thanks WJ! I will take it under advisement and stop finger humping at my grandma's dinner table. oopsIn general I don't think there's a healthy or unhealthy amount. As long as you're not doing it at the dinner table at grandma's, or calling out of work 4 days a week for jack-a-thon sessions, do it as much as feels good. As for me, I'm usually once a day or so. Sometimes more, sometimes less. I'm not always horny when I start - sometimes it's just more of an "I've got the house to myself, better make the most of it" thing. Or if I'm trying to keep my mind off other things. And it's always easier to finish when I have someone specific in mind. Porn can be helpful, but if the actresses aren't reminding me of someone, or the activities aren't specific things I've done or want to do... then it's just kind of blah. I'm much interested in getting into my partner's mind, finding out what she likes, and piquing her interests. Even during solo play, if I know what to fantasize about to make her cum, then the easier and more satisfying my own cum.
But as for what you said, I agree about not always being in the mood when you start and then getting there or using it as a distraction or, for me, a quick little feel good.
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