I'm a hotwife. Do i have sex with other men than my husband, yes. He can have sex with other women too, but he rarely does. The more sex I have, it seems the more I want. My husband always knows where I'm at and what I'm up to. For safeties sake, as well as I always let him know what I'm up to. While I dislike condoms I always use them unless i know someone very well. I carry 3 sizes in my purse always. I love to dance and go to clubs a lot to do so. My husband can't, he has a bad leg. Sometimes i meet men that really turn me on, if that happens, I let him know and tell him where I'm at. We've had an open marriage for a while. I really appreciate the freedom of being able to respond when a man turns me on.