A question for hotwife couples

[John_Q_Dough]

Very good arrangement. I take it he’s easy to keep satiated?

 

[MamaBitte]

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She likes to do it whilst im at work
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[fearless1969]

As far as the ankle bracelet is concerned, I agree it would presumptuous to assume it means anything special. I've seen porn movies where the woman has a Queen of spades ankle bracelet but that's very specific.
My wife has had many partners, some times multiple at the same time but she prefers men. We have discussed swapping with another couple, her preference but I wouldn't be opposed to her being with another man. Of course, I would like to watch. The issue is that she has done that, been there and I have not so it's just talk for now.

 

[TonyF862]

I'm a hotwife. Do i have sex with other men than my husband, yes. He can have sex with other women too, but he rarely does. The more sex I have, it seems the more I want. My husband always knows where I'm at and what I'm up to. For safeties sake, as well as I always let him know what I'm up to. While I dislike condoms I always use them unless i know someone very well. I carry 3 sizes in my purse always. I love to dance and go to clubs a lot to do so. My husband can't, he has a bad leg. Sometimes i meet men that really turn me on, if that happens, I let him know and tell him where I'm at. We've had an open marriage for a while. I really appreciate the freedom of being able to respond when a man turns me on.

Hotwife couples/ladies are my favorite (over single women or cheating women) because they are almost always so sexually confident, don’t play mind games, and are so free to explore the things they enjoy.

I’ve been on bothe the husband and lover side of hotwifing, and simply enjoy it all!

There is no bigger turn on than watching my wife getting pleasure by her lover - man or woman.

 

[RO33RT]

So I read on lit couples or guys that talk about having a hotwife lifestyle or fantasizing about wanting a hotwife lifestyle and the thing I read over and over again is " You want this so you can be with other women "
Next comment to almost 100% is the guys denying they want that.
Really????
Just this past weekend we were out together and she had on an ankle bracelet and I made the comment that I see you have your hotwife ankle bracelet on. It was a joke as she doesn't look at ankle bracelets that way.
Anyway back to the subject and question I need answered.
Why is that the first question out of so many wives mouths? " You looking to be eith other women?" And the husband immediately falling over and saying no.
I don't see myself not seeing others if she is and honestly I am ok if she does. We have talked about it with both sexes.
To me a hotwife doesn't just mean being with other men it could be women too.
Please share why so many guys feel they would just sit back and not look for a playmate also.

So I read on lit couples or guys that talk about having a hotwife lifestyle or fantasizing about wanting a hotwife lifestyle and the thing I read over and over again is " You want this so you can be with other women "
Next comment to almost 100% is the guys denying they want that.
Really????
Just this past weekend we were out together and she had on an ankle bracelet and I made the comment that I see you have your hotwife ankle bracelet on. It was a joke as she doesn't look at ankle bracelets that way.
Anyway back to the subject and question I need answered.
Why is that the first question out of so many wives mouths? " You looking to be eith other women?" And the husband immediately falling over and saying no.
I don't see myself not seeing others if she is and honestly I am ok if she does. We have talked about it with both sexes.
To me a hotwife doesn't just mean being with other men it could be women too.
Please share why so many guys feel they would just sit back and not look for a playmate also.

My wife and I are in a Stag-Vixen arrangement. I like watching her with others. She keeps me so drained of cum that I just don't have anything left for anyone else. She says she's only interested in guys, but we pillow talk and she talks about an fMf with her kid sister. I don't know. I just try to keep up.

 

[UtilityCurve]

we pillow talk and she talks about an fMf with her kid sister.

 

[RDNTDGR]

the ankle bracelet: Despite what some folks keep asserting ("the ankle bracelet means nothing"), it does. For some, the ankle bracelet is a sign of hotwife for the subculture that uses the ankle bracelet to play the game, flirt or feel sexy. It is a sign for folks tuned-in, paying attention to it. For others that just like wearing ankle bracelets, the normies will think nothing of it. But make no doubt, coyote men in the hotwife subculture, see the bracelet and check the woman. If she's clueless, hit on her anyway or move on. I even enjoy flirting about the anklet. "You have an anklet. lucky you. Do you know what that communicates in some circles?" I have started some fun conversation that way. Some chicks are alarmed. Some smile and flirt back.

 

[LMWM321]

the ankle bracelet: Despite what some folks keep asserting ("the ankle bracelet means nothing"), it does. For some, the ankle bracelet is a sign of hotwife for the subculture that uses the ankle bracelet to play the game, flirt or feel sexy. It is a sign for folks tuned-in, paying attention to it. For others that just like wearing ankle bracelets, the normies will think nothing of it. But make no doubt, coyote men in the hotwife subculture, see the bracelet and check the woman. If she's clueless, hit on her anyway or move on. I even enjoy flirting about the anklet. "You have an anklet. lucky you. Do you know what that communicates in some circles?" I have started some fun conversation that way. Some chicks are alarmed. Some smile and flirt back.

Oh... So, in other words, it may or may not mean anything.

I've seen pics of Victoria Beckham wearing one, and Michelle Obama, too.... l'd love to see someone "hit on them" or ask them "Do you know what that communicates in some circles?"

So silly... but I get it. Guys want a sure fire way of knowing whether or not a married woman is open to NSA sex without risking making a total ass of themselves.

 

[RDNTDGR]

Oh... So, in other words, it may or may not mean anything.

I've seen pics of Victoria Beckham wearing one, and Michelle Obama, too.... l'd love to see someone "hit on them" or ask them "Do you know what that communicates in some circles?"

So silly... but I get it. Guys want a sure fire way of knowing whether or not a married woman is open to NSA sex without risking making a total ass of themselves.

yep. You can assert the bracelet means nothing all you want. Yet the anklet possibly <implies> the woman is a swinger or hotwife. because a certain group has taken over the anklet like a metaphor. Kinda like the rainbow. The rainbow used to be just a rainbow. But now it means a whole lot more, even when you try to suppress the thought.

btw: my Kelly plays this game. When she wants, Kelly places that ankle bracelet on. She watches mens' & womens' eyes and reactions. Many are clueless. Yet, there have been men & women that respond with attention towards her and the anklet is mentioned.

 

[DryRottingHusk]

I wish there was a platform or common people who would be equally supportive of making my love a beautiful hotwife.

 

[Isinlarsa]

I wish there was a platform or common people who would be equally supportive of making my love a beautiful hotwife.

That's what much of this site is about.

 

[realmint]

So I read on lit couples or guys that talk about having a hotwife lifestyle or fantasizing about wanting a hotwife lifestyle and the thing I read over and over again is " You want this so you can be with other women "
Next comment to almost 100% is the guys denying they want that.
Really????
Just this past weekend we were out together and she had on an ankle bracelet and I made the comment that I see you have your hotwife ankle bracelet on. It was a joke as she doesn't look at ankle bracelets that way.
Anyway back to the subject and question I need answered.
Why is that the first question out of so many wives mouths? " You looking to be eith other women?" And the husband immediately falling over and saying no.
I don't see myself not seeing others if she is and honestly I am ok if she does. We have talked about it with both sexes.
To me a hotwife doesn't just mean being with other men it could be women too.
Please share why so many guys feel they would just sit back and not look for a playmate also.

The guy that wants to be cucked is probably sexually limited and just wants his wife fucking around to vicariously have a sex life. But in a healthy "open marriage" both husband and wife do have sex with others. As far as being a hotwife and not being limited to other men goes I think most hotwife wives have at least messed around with another girl. Most hotwives are going to want DP and MFM events. So, we also know guys love FMF and I enjoy making him happy. I am not bi but guys like to watch girls doing it so why not? To me doing a girl is just more like masturbating. After all, when I masturbate I am giving sexual pleasure to a girl so why should my pussy be the pussy limit for me?

 

[TonyF862]

The guy that wants to be cucked is probably sexually limited and just wants his wife fucking around to vicariously have a sex life. But in a healthy "open marriage" both husband and wife do have sex with others. As far as being a hotwife and not being limited to other men goes I think most hotwife wives have at least messed around with another girl. Most hotwives are going to want DP and MFM events. So, we also know guys love FMF and I enjoy making him happy. I am not bi but guys like to watch girls doing it so why not? To me doing a girl is just more like masturbating. After all, when I masturbate I am giving sexual pleasure to a girl so why should my pussy be the pussy limit for me?

You seem to have it all figured out…

 

[RO33RT]

I caught my wife-to-be in bed with my best friend. After a lot of stupid shit we worked it all out and I married her anyway. She was alREADY "fucking other guys" so I didn't have to "get her" to do anything except keep on keeping on. I just had to try to keep up. My best friend is still our plus one.

 

[cubbies4vrs]

I caught my wife-to-be in bed with my best friend. After a lot of stupid shit we worked it all out and I married her anyway. She was alREADY "fucking other guys" so I didn't have to "get her" to do anything except keep on keeping on. I just had to try to keep up. My best friend is still our plus one.

That sucked but since you worked it out. Solid move keeping her. At least she cant tell you No. Lol

 

[Suzie56]

I love seeing my wife sexually satisfied, and why should a sexual lady be limited to one man?

It is all about the satisfaction of the individual. Hubby is easily pleased, I need a little more excitement in my life. A bigger cock always helps.

 

[usse]

I’ve got to stop opening these threads. Like many of the folks here, all but one relationship started down the lifestyle because of cheating but after reading threads like these I’m beginning to wonder if the one I thought was up front was already getting it on with her boss before she came and confessed she had the hits for him and asked if she could entertain her feelings.

 

[Annabelle1990]

So I read on lit couples or guys that talk about having a hotwife lifestyle or fantasizing about wanting a hotwife lifestyle and the thing I read over and over again is " You want this so you can be with other women "
Next comment to almost 100% is the guys denying they want that.
Really????
Just this past weekend we were out together and she had on an ankle bracelet and I made the comment that I see you have your hotwife ankle bracelet on. It was a joke as she doesn't look at ankle bracelets that way.
Anyway back to the subject and question I need answered.
Why is that the first question out of so many wives mouths? " You looking to be eith other women?" And the husband immediately falling over and saying no.
I don't see myself not seeing others if she is and honestly I am ok if she does. We have talked about it with both sexes.
To me a hotwife doesn't just mean being with other men it could be women too.
Please share why so many guys feel they would just sit back and not look for a playmate also.

My husband is bi. I think most hot wife husbands probably are on some level. They do not want to be with another girl. They want to be with the other guy.

 

[mwmforfun]

It wasn't to fuck other women. But it does help me meet my bisexual need for cock.

I should add that when she's having fun, feeling secure, feeling aroused, she does let me fuck other women occasionally, as well as suck cock.

 

[Islander55]

My husband is bi. I think most hot wife husbands probably are on some level. They do not want to be with another girl. They want to be with the other guy.

I think you are absolutely right. My husband encouraged me to have sex with other men and if they were agreeable he would join in. He did not want to date another man but did love to suck a cock either before or after the guy fucked me.

 

[desire30]

And she was up for it?

Yes big time

 

[mwmforfun]

I think you are absolutely right. My husband encouraged me to have sex with other men and if they were agreeable he would join in. He did not want to date another man but did love to suck a cock either before or after the guy fucked me.

I mean, I'd be thrilled — or rather, I have been thrilled — to be with another woman. But I also love the opportunity to suck cock in my wife's MMF situations.

I follow her lead. If she's feeling comfortable, I get to enjoy both men and women! She is free to enjoy the company of any person, at any time, without asking me. I don't own her!

 

[RipRespon]

So I read on lit couples or guys that talk about having a hotwife lifestyle or fantasizing about wanting a hotwife lifestyle and the thing I read over and over again is " You want this so you can be with other women "
Next comment to almost 100% is the guys denying they want that.
Really????
Just this past weekend we were out together and she had on an ankle bracelet and I made the comment that I see you have your hotwife ankle bracelet on. It was a joke as she doesn't look at ankle bracelets that way.
Anyway back to the subject and question I need answered.
Why is that the first question out of so many wives mouths? " You looking to be eith other women?" And the husband immediately falling over and saying no.
I don't see myself not seeing others if she is and honestly I am ok if she does. We have talked about it with both sexes.
To me a hotwife doesn't just mean being with other men it could be women too.
Please share why so many guys feel they would just sit back and not look for a playmate also.

I was a cuck 18 years of our 20 year marriage. I wanted to and would have slept with lots of women, but my wife was way too jealousy and wouldn’t allow it. I was also jealous, especially of the really good lovers and close friends with bigger dicks, but that jealousy was a big part of turned me on. I got off on how she took full advantage of the sexual freedom I permitted her, but what real made me hard was being her sub, either by her side or waiting patiently at home. Of course there were many times I was by her side and encouraged to participate. Mostly it was with other men making a 3 some or more, but a few occasions when another women was with us, I might get to third base before she’d fall into a drunken rage of jealousy. Humiliated and embarrassed, I’d be commanded to only watch or to leave the room altogether. Sick? Maybe, but that woman knew how to turn me on!

 

[Isinlarsa]

So I read on lit couples or guys that talk about having a hotwife lifestyle or fantasizing about wanting a hotwife lifestyle and the thing I read over and over again is " You want this so you can be with other women "
Next comment to almost 100% is the guys denying they want that.
Really????
Just this past weekend we were out together and she had on an ankle bracelet and I made the comment that I see you have your hotwife ankle bracelet on. It was a joke as she doesn't look at ankle bracelets that way.
Anyway back to the subject and question I need answered.
Why is that the first question out of so many wives mouths? " You looking to be eith other women?" And the husband immediately falling over and saying no.
I don't see myself not seeing others if she is and honestly I am ok if she does. We have talked about it with both sexes.
To me a hotwife doesn't just mean being with other men it could be women too.
Please share why so many guys feel they would just sit back and not look for a playmate also.

It's because when I know other men are fucking my wife, I get totally focused on her, and have no interest in other women, even if I'm not watching.

 

[Islander55]

I mean, I'd be thrilled — or rather, I have been thrilled — to be with another woman. But I also love the opportunity to suck cock in my wife's MMF situations.

I follow her lead. If she's feeling comfortable, I get to enjoy both men and women! She is free to enjoy the company of any person, at any time, without asking me. I don't own her!