Am I crazy or what?

[dirtymindny]

I am beginning to think I must be crazy or something. I have been trying to find a couple for a friendship where the wife and I would go out on dates and have sex all with the husbands knowledge. Could be cuck or not doesn't matter. I am open minded, aggressive, fairly well hung and considered attractive. I am not asking that they change thier relationship or anything like that at all. He has his guys nights out and she has the occasional date with me. I honestly did not think it would be REAL hard to find but I have been posting on all sorts of personal sites with no luck.

Am I crazy to think this could happen? I am interested in hearing what all you think; especially the married women.

 

[tandoor]

Do you know the secret handshake?

 

[dirtymindny]

Do you know the secret handshake?

Apparently not!

 

[done_got_old]

Apparently not!

There's the problem.

 

[Sonny Limatina]

I am beginning to think I must be crazy or something. I have been trying to find a couple for a friendship where the wife and I would go out on dates and have sex all with the husbands knowledge. Could be cuck or not doesn't matter. I am open minded, aggressive, fairly well hung and considered attractive. I honestly did not think it would be REAL hard to find but I have been posting on all sorts of personal sites with no luck.

Am I crazy to think this could happen? I am interested in hearing what all you think; especially the married women.

In other words, you want a relationship where the husband is the husband, and, when the wife is in the mood for sex, she has it with you? Should be easy to find a guy who'd go for that.

I think you'd have more luck offering the opposite. You take the garbage out and talk about your day, and the husband gets the sex.

 

[dirtymindny]

In other words, you want a relationship where the husband is the husband, and, when the wife is in the mood for sex, she has it with you? Should be easy to find a guy who'd go for that.

I think you'd have more luck offering the opposite. You take the garbage out and talk about your day, and the husband gets the sex.

You are probably right LOL...Honestly though I would not expect them to stop having sex..she would fuck us both.

 

[dirtymindny]

No other opinions?

 

[koalabear]

No other opinions?

yes.....but you don't know the handshake.

 

[frostyred]

Sorry......

I have enough energy for two men. I would do it, but my husband would never be cool with it. Then, there's the thing about you living pretty far away.

 

[SecretLove69]

What you seek is not unheard of - you just need to get in with a group of swingers. Check out swingers clubs or groups in your area and have fun.

http://swapfinder.com/go/p157077.subny_swingers_bs
http://adultfriendfinder.com/p/memsearch.cgi?bucket_id=0&pid=p278109.subswingers_ps_pm&ip=auto
http://www.hornymatches.com/geolist.php
http://www.lonelycheatingwives.com/na/?gclid=CKPNjfDb-I4CFRUHWAodGCh8FQ
http://www.adultdatingportal.com/?kwd=cam_sw_swingers_groups_b

etc. etc. etc.

 

[dirtymindny]

What you seek is not unheard of - you just need to get in with a group of swingers. Check out swingers clubs or groups in your area and have fun.

http://swapfinder.com/go/p157077.subny_swingers_bs
http://adultfriendfinder.com/p/memsearch.cgi?bucket_id=0&pid=p278109.subswingers_ps_pm&ip=auto
http://www.hornymatches.com/geolist.php
http://www.lonelycheatingwives.com/na/?gclid=CKPNjfDb-I4CFRUHWAodGCh8FQ
http://www.adultdatingportal.com/?kwd=cam_sw_swingers_groups_b

etc. etc. etc.

Yeah the swingers sites are my next step. I was thinking the couple there would be leaning more toward threesomes. I have no problem with doing threesomes but prefer one-on-one more often.

 

[SecretLove69]

Yeah the swingers sites are my next step. I was thinking the couple there would be leaning more toward threesomes. I have no problem with doing threesomes but prefer one-on-one more often.

Depends on the people - lots of swinger couples just go to parties to trade and do one-on-ones. Just cuz' they swing doesn't mean they are into gang bangs.
I don't speak from first hand knowledge but do have some friends in the "lifestyle". They go as a couple and play separately - cuz' ya know, variety is the spice of life. Usually, groups like this tend to leave it up to participants whether they want to play or just visit or go to separate rooms or just watch. It seems a very civilized form of taking your choice from the buffet.

 

[dirtymindny]

Depends on the people - lots of swinger couples just go to parties to trade and do one-on-ones. Just cuz' they swing doesn't mean they are into gang bangs.
I don't speak from first hand knowledge but do have some friends in the "lifestyle". They go as a couple and play separately - cuz' ya know, variety is the spice of life. Usually, groups like this tend to leave it up to participants whether they want to play or just visit or go to separate rooms or just watch. It seems a very civilized form of taking your choice from the buffet.

Well like I said I am going to give the swingers sites a try; and thanks for your advice. But I am wondering something; did I misunderstand you or do people think that a threesome would be considered a gang-bang?

 

[SimpleGifts]

You might try a Google search on the term "hotwife"--once you get past all the porn spam sites, you could find what you're looking for. A friend of mine found such a couple--he meets the wife in a hotel room now and then for a romp, and while they're doing it, the husband listens on an open phone line. Then when they're done, my friend leaves and the husband comes in and takes over.

Whatever floats your boat. Just keep in mind, you're talking about a fantasy that's probably shared by millions of guys (being the 3rd wheel, I mean, not being the husband) with very few opportunities...so you'll probably need to show that you're quite exceptional, and you'll need a lot of luck.

SG

 

[SecretLove69]

Well like I said I am going to give the swingers sites a try; and thanks for your advice. But I am wondering something; did I misunderstand you or do people think that a threesome would be considered a gang-bang?

I think I probably said it wrong......No, I don't think a threesome is a gang-bang. It's just a threesome. Once you start adding numbers to that though - it could get that way.

My idea of a gang-bang is one against many. You know - like one woman being dog-piled by a bunch of guys or any variation on that theme. Sorta like being the only sheep at a wolf convention.

Good luck finding what you want/need. It's out there - just proceed with caution.

 

[dirtymindny]

I think I probably said it wrong......No, I don't think a threesome is a gang-bang. It's just a threesome. Once you start adding numbers to that though - it could get that way.

My idea of a gang-bang is one against many. You know - like one woman being dog-piled by a bunch of guys or any variation on that theme. Sorta like being the only sheep at a wolf convention.

Good luck finding what you want/need. It's out there - just proceed with caution.

Thanks I will keep on keepin on!

 

[dirtymindny]

thanks for all the votes...I would love to hear more opinions!

 

[dirtymindny]

Is their anyone here that is in something like this or ever has been?

 

[dirtymindny]

I see someone voted "send us your info ..we want to hook up" but never let me know who they are. send me a PM if you really are interested!

 

[Playdu]

My boyfriend and I are ready to try this soon.