Any other men here with a deep desire to be dominated by a woman?

I'm normally the Dominant one, as such, but it'd be nice to switch things up for a change and have her be the aggressive one.
 
This has become my obsession. About ten years ago my wife unintentionally (was tipsy) let it slip that I was her smallest cock she ever fucked (and not her best fuck) while we were having sex. That humiliation triggered something in me that led to her taking the dominant role sexually from that point forward. It is now something we have been happily exploring ever since.
 
There's a woman at my work in her late 30's. She's an attractive woman but she's a supervisor and has a commanding presence. However, she's very kind. I do love her body type, thick, but feminine. She's pretty. Oddly, I don't think of her sexually and even if I did, I'm married and she is a lesbian in a long term relationship. I suppose I have an innocent crush on her.

I wouldn't want to be humiliated, insulted, or feminized.

I think that I would want to be in a situation where I submit to her....maybe start out by serving her, getting coffee for her, acting subservient to her. I'd want to go on a business trip with her where I'm told to disrobe completely (I think not for sexual purposes but for the purposes of displaying my vulnerability to her) and apply my collar and hand her the leash. I'd want to get on my knees at her feet and hug one of her legs, maybe she'd reward me with a pat on the head or a chin lift. Later, I'd serve as a human ottoman while she rested her feet on my back while she read or watched television. Maybe I'd give her shoulder or foot massages.
 
Nothing sexier than a dominant woman. I don’t just mean the memes you see her, but a true strong dominant aggressive woman.
 
Originally Posted by MissMJStone
Damn where have you been all my life?!





I find it hard to believe that the two of you are not constantly bugged.

Yup, "Golden" and I are only the tip of a mostly unseen iceberg. Many men are extremely receptive to submitting to a woman's leadership and guidance, but they either don't know it or refuse to admit it. Most can't get beyond the toxic macho bullshit our culture forces upon them at an early age. Men are born of women, and our bodies are hardwired to take pleasure from servicing them in ways far beyond the sperm donor role. Most men are putty in the hands of the wise women who knows how to use the power of her sex to acquire so much more than mere baubles and trinkets.
 
I always wonder how I might have been with it had some things in my life gone differently. When I first started getting into BDSM I was interested in trying to be a switch, but mostly in a abstract way. When I actually tried to irl it never worked out. Past trauma from earlier in life has left me too uncomfortable with being that vulnerable.
 
The beauty of a Dominant woman!

My ex-wife could be dominant at times. We both enjoyed it. Just something so damn sexy about a dominant woman!
 
when the metal hits the meat

Nothing sexier than a dominant woman. I don’t just mean the memes you see her, but a true strong dominant aggressive woman.

too late to realise it was just a fantasy
 
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Dominated by wife

My late wife was dominant. She was not mean or cruel, but she was in charge, especially when it came to sex. She had to be seduced into dominance, but found she loved it. So did I. Her orgasm was the primary objective when we had sex.

She helped me discover I had a gay side and helped me explore it. I usually was not sub to men. I considered that submitting to her was a sign of my love for her.
 
My late wife was dominant. She was not mean or cruel, but she was in charge, especially when it came to sex. She had to be seduced into dominance, but found she loved it. So did I. Her orgasm was the primary objective when we had sex.

She helped me discover I had a gay side and helped me explore it. I usually was not sub to men. I considered that submitting to her was a sign of my love for her.

First, i'm sorry for your loss. Sad when we lose someone that means so much.

The first part of your post is exactly what i'm looking for F/T, and have been fortunate to find a few times (though more sexual encounters than a real relationship.) Dominant in a nurturing, nourishing way....not humiliating or demeaning.

i am straight, and when i submit it's totally for Her and Her pleasure. i am VERY "Alpha" in my day-to-day encounters, but when i put on a pair of sexy panties for a Woman i become totally sub. It's a complete transformation for me, both emotionally, physically, and sexually.

Unfortunately (or fortunately...i haven't decided yet) that "sub-time" ends when the sexual encounter is over. There have been times where i've extended the "play-period" over the course of a couple of days, so we're fully engaged with me as a sub in non-sexual situations. All i need are my panties and an eager participant and it's an exciting adventure.... :)
 
As a domme female, I can assure you, you're not alone in that feeling. I've had several D/s relationships, even with a submissive male who required a full lifestyle of submission. I think the rarer thing is finding a woman who truly enjoys being in a dominant role to her male partner. I know many women willing to be paid for it but don't truly find pleasure in it. Don't give up looking. We are out here! Beautiful, educated, classy women who need to control our men by enforcing loving dominance. Letting them leave their kingdom at our feet for us to reign over.

Well said :rose:
 
Yes. I do wonder how it would be. I fantasise about a female led relationship with my wife, with me being caged and plugged at both ends while she entertains alpha male lovers. Kind of like the extreme end of lifestyle cuckolding. Love the idea she would dominate me but be completely sub for an alpha, to emphasise my place in the hierarchy.
 
As a domme female, I can assure you, you're not alone in that feeling. I've had several D/s relationships, even with a submissive male who required a full lifestyle of submission. I think the rarer thing is finding a woman who truly enjoys being in a dominant role to her male partner. I know many women willing to be paid for it but don't truly find pleasure in it. Don't give up looking. We are out here! Beautiful, educated, classy women who need to control our men by enforcing loving dominance. Letting them leave their kingdom at our feet for us to reign over.

I just watched a Mistress Kikko pink room video on Xvideos.com - Very hot!
 
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I'd LOVE! my wife to get into it, make me get on my knees and beg for her pussy. She lets me only take a sniff and kiss it. Then takes me into the bathroom tub, to piss in my mouth and face as she laughs. Then OH YES! I want to be over her knees and spanked like a bad little boy.
 
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BBWs please sit on my face!

I really want a woman to dominate me sexually. My favorite fantasy is for a BBW to sit on my face and force me to eat her pussy and ass. I often stroke to BBW porn. After she's satisfied, she would piss on me while I jerk off and cum all over myself, then she would feed my cum to me.
 
I love that my wife is dominant. A lot of it is a mental thing. Every once in a while it purely physical. I mean I’m a good size guy especially compared to my wife. But not too long ago we were on the bed, I was on my hands and knees she was behind me with her strap on. When she pushed into me she did so aggressively, she pushed mr forward knocking me off balance. I was pressed against the headboard in such a way that I was helpless, I couldn’t push myself back up and I was too close to the headboard to slide down and lay flat. I was just pinned there getting pounded. It was a very erotic feeling.
 
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