Are you bi and your wife, husband or partner does not know?

[fishmiester]

Closet Bi.

Hi to all closet bi guys. I am a closet bi for many years. since 1967 i've had desire to see ,feel , touch , and /or suck a cock. Only a couple people know. i am 52 now and nothing has changed in regards to my hidden side . i have been with guys, sucked and been sucked. my buddy has had my ass to place his cock. My wife does not know. To see a full on hard cock is yummy. Even to see a limp cock hanging down is so hot. Has anyone taken a limp cock in his mouth and felt it get fully erect? It is just so mmmmm, agree? I am new to this part of literotica and will visit here often....

 

[fishbud]

Hi to all closet bi guys. I am a closet bi for many years. since 1967 i've had desire to see ,feel , touch , and /or suck a cock. Only a couple people know. i am 52 now and nothing has changed in regards to my hidden side . i have been with guys, sucked and been sucked. my buddy has had my ass to place his cock. My wife does not know. To see a full on hard cock is yummy. Even to see a limp cock hanging down is so hot. Has anyone taken a limp cock in his mouth and felt it get fully erect? It is just so mmmmm, agree? I am new to this part of literotica and will visit here often....

it is hot to feel it expanding in your mouth a semi erect cock hanging down along with the balls is very hot

 

[SilkyDave]

and I am another one..fantasize about a naked romp and a cock in my mouth and my ass getting pumped, i get hard just thinking about it. she doesn't know but like someone else said she must suspect, i love having my ass played with and beg her to slide a finger inside me. i have told her there's nothing i won't try so she must suspect it but just doesn't want to get into it......i love living out the fantasy on lit. and have corresponded with a few great bi friends that I fantasize about getting together with for an afternoon of naked fun

 

[lovebothsexes]

I am wondering how many are here that are as I. I am married and I am bi. My wife has no idea that I am bi. How many are in the same situation? How do you handle it?

I love the taste of cum(my own) I have upper and lower plates (false teeth) when I cum I do it in my upper plate and just put 'em back in...yum.can't seem to find a fuck buddy.

 

[fishmiester]

semi-hard but not for long

it is hot to feel it expanding in your mouth a semi erect cock hanging down along with the balls is very hot

That is so true. A warm semi-hard cock laying against an inner thigh, waiting for a tender lift with a caressing hand, to be guided into a hot and wet mouth. The first couple sucks gets the cock wet and then the erection starts to form.mmm getting hard here now just thinking about it...

 

[WV_me]

Not alone

It is actually very reasuring to hear from other like me. I know I am not alone but sometimes it does feel that way. I wish I could be open with this but it can not happen. My wife is very prudish when it comes to sex. This would be the end of us.

 

[Samuelx]

Dude, lots of bisexual men are dating or married to bisexual women. It's not that uncommon. I'm in that situation.

 

[Oak_Tree]

★★****************

 

[mac_crazy]

I'm in a committed relationship (marriage probably on the way), and she knows I'm bi. LOVES it, actually. We met randomly (I was looking for a date for a concert, I posted an ad on Craigslist, and she answered), and at the time I had no reason to tell her that I was bi. But as we got to know each other over the next few weeks, it was apparent that bi-guys were a major turn on for her, so I eventually told her, and it almost made her faint from happiness. She never thought she'd meet a guy that she actually liked, who also loved cock!

Luckily, we also both feel the same way about it, which is (as mentioned by a couple other posters) that I love women, love having sex with women, and have no desire for "intimacy" with guys. I just love sucking cock, playing with cocks, etc. . In our minds, it's "just sex", with other people. It's two (or more) people having physical fun, something that feels great, that we all get enjoyment out of. No need for anything else like kissing, I get all the intimacy, affection, etc, from her, and we both love it that way. Sometimes she watches me play with a guy, sometimes we all play together, and a lot of times she'll just send me out to play with guys that I've met over the years. Hard to find friendly, reliable like-minded guys out there, but they DO exist!

I had dated many women prior to her, and most of them I never even gave an inkling of my bi-side. A couple of them, more recently, I did tell, although one was taken aback, and the relationship wasn't gonna work anyway; the other actually accepted it and was surprisingly (to her) turned on by it when we talked about things I had done, but she didn't really want me doing anything "new", and I have never cheated on a woman for a guy. Aside from those two tho, I've been in the same boat, where I was in a relationship and she didn't know I was bi.

For me, it was very difficult, thinking that I knew I wanted cock, but wouldn't cheat on a girl for it, so it was basically asking myself "If I stay with her forever, am I ok with going my whole life without giving in to my bi-desires?" The answer eventually turned out to be "no", every time.

So, my advice would be A) make sure you find a woman that will, at the very least, accept you for who you are (and even better, ENCOURAGE you to be who you are, like my girl does!), and B) don't get in relationship in which you can't feel comfortable talking about who you really are. The best relationship is one that has no secrets, no judgements, total acceptance.


Good luck to all you bi-guys out there... There are LOTS of women out there who love guy/guy action... and probably a lot more that enjoy it, but are maybe too embarrassed to admit it to you! Maybe you'll both find that it's something that you both love, and wished you had talked about it a long time ago!

 

[debycha1968]

same here

married but love playing with cocks. I haven't done it often and wish I could do it more. Terrified she will find out. I usually end up here to satisfy my hunger.

 

[thickrod]

Great post, Mac Crazy.

 

[Samuelx]

Hi to all closet bi guys. I am a closet bi for many years. since 1967 i've had desire to see ,feel , touch , and /or suck a cock. Only a couple people know. i am 52 now and nothing has changed in regards to my hidden side . i have been with guys, sucked and been sucked. my buddy has had my ass to place his cock. My wife does not know. To see a full on hard cock is yummy. Even to see a limp cock hanging down is so hot. Has anyone taken a limp cock in his mouth and felt it get fully erect? It is just so mmmmm, agree? I am new to this part of literotica and will visit here often....

We need to start a club, seriously.

 

[tonethebone]

My wife has no idea. Very vanilla in the sack. But I'm lucky to have a close friend who approached me years ago with his own curiosity. So he and I have been "suck buddies" for years. No kissing or romance LOL. Just playing with the dicks.

Only problem is we only get together a few times a year. Too many responsibilities with work and families. But I have met a cool guy who lives close and we a currently getting to know each other. So maybe I'll have two outlets for my raging desire to suck cock

 

[WV_me]

My wife has no idea. Very vanilla in the sack. But I'm lucky to have a close friend who approached me years ago with his own curiosity. So he and I have been "suck buddies" for years. No kissing or romance LOL. Just playing with the dicks.

Only problem is we only get together a few times a year. Too many responsibilities with work and families. But I have met a cool guy who lives close and we a currently getting to know each other. So maybe I'll have two outlets for my raging desire to suck cock

It sure would be nice to have someone to help with this part of being bi. I have not found anyone in the area that I can feel confortable as a bi buddy.

 

[PutterBoy]

Here's a cautionary tale guys...

I came home about a year ago to find my wife sitting in front of my computer where she'd found several "carefully hidden" pics of me with one big cock in my mouth and one in my ass. My world came crashing down around me. Worst moment of my life.

We tried to work through it, but she was just too hurt by the experience. And I couldn't blame her one bit. We are now in the final stages of getting divorced. It's a friendly enough dissolution, but it's lousy for everyone involved -- kids, family, old friends and both of us.

My bi side didn't really emerge until about three or four years ago. Typical story: she'd hit her 40s, wasn't comfortable with her body anymore and just wasn't interested in sex. Once a month under the covers with the lights off -- maybe -- and no oral or anything creative. After a while, something in my mind rationalized the idea that it wasn't "cheating" to be with other guys. I travel a lot on business and used Craigslist and Squirt to find other married guys in similar positions.

There were a few bad experiences, but the sex was largely terrific. Got and gave some unbelievable blow jobs. Sucked and fucked (safely) across the country for several years. Became good friends with two guys who lived about 20 minutes from here. Both have amazing 8-inch cocks. Even though I'm mostly a top, I became very submissive with them. Those guys used me as their married fuck toy for about a year...and I loved it.

Then it all exploded in that one moment.

So, for me, it is what it is. But, my advice to you is to be VERY careful about your computer. Consider the consequences of everything you save, every site you visit and every e-mail you send on your "secret" account. Three words: Delete, Delete, Delete.

Or, sooner or later, it could happen to you too...

 

[sgettoit]

Here's a cautionary tale guys...

I came home about a year ago to find my wife sitting in front of my computer where she'd found several "carefully hidden" pics of me with one big cock in my mouth and one in my ass. My world came crashing down around me. Worst moment of my life.

We tried to work through it, but she was just too hurt by the experience. And I couldn't blame her one bit. We are now in the final stages of getting divorced. It's a friendly enough dissolution, but it's lousy for everyone involved -- kids, family, old friends and both of us.

My bi side didn't really emerge until about three or four years ago. Typical story: she'd hit her 40s, wasn't comfortable with her body anymore and just wasn't interested in sex. Once a month under the covers with the lights off -- maybe -- and no oral or anything creative. After a while, something in my mind rationalized the idea that it wasn't "cheating" to be with other guys. I travel a lot on business and used Craigslist and Squirt to find other married guys in similar positions.

There were a few bad experiences, but the sex was largely terrific. Got and gave some unbelievable blow jobs. Sucked and fucked (safely) across the country for several years. Became good friends with two guys who lived about 20 minutes from here. Both have amazing 8-inch cocks. Even though I'm mostly a top, I became very submissive with them. Those guys used me as their married fuck toy for about a year...and I loved it.

Then it all exploded in that one moment.

So, for me, it is what it is. But, my advice to you is to be VERY careful about your computer. Consider the consequences of everything you save, every site you visit and every e-mail you send on your "secret" account. Three words: Delete, Delete, Delete.

Or, sooner or later, it could happen to you too...

Thanks for the warning. You just described my biggest fear. I imagine it was a bad day for you both. Does everyone involved know the circumstances?

 

[FasrEddie]

My encounters with Men were all before I was married.
Although... My only Long Term Relationship with another Man took place most of the time my now Wife and I were dating.
And No... She does not know.

 

[bifocal]

Hm... Me too please and no thanks.

I don't know if I'm bi so much as I really really want a cock in my mouth. I've done the rationalizing that it's not cheating so much as masturbating with a partner. "She doesn't have a cock so it's not cheating if I play with someone's cock." I've even made a couple of "appointments" that I didn't keep and lingered too long near the movie booths at the gay porn place.

In the end, I know it would hurt her terribly to find out, no matter what state our sexual relationship is in. So, I come here and read about your stories and fantasize. Maybe one day I'll work up the courage to tell her and work out something with her.

 

[wannaeatu]

As followers of that Hitler clone Rush say: ditto!

This is exactly how I feel about it. It is something I do with the guys. I just wish I could find a guy to do it with on a regular basis.

I want a regular, local, "suck buddy". I want to swap seminal fluid(cum, sperm, jism, whatever you want to call it), on an at-least weekly basis. I'm not interested in any of that "top/bottom" crap, we have to be in it for the same reasons.

 

[Hitchiker69]

I still think of myself as Bi, 'tho it's been nearly 30 years since I last sucked a cock. My current wife suspects, but doesn't know for sure. I told my first wife, and also my first 'significant other,' a woman I lived with for 3 years. It was more acceptable then, at least in the areas I lived in, and social circles I was part of.
I used to be much more open about my sexuality. Friends knew. More then once I would have sex with a guy during a party. For a few years about 50% of my lovers were men.
Now my sex life is a lot quieter. But my fantasies are almost entirely gay. I like to think about what I might have done, what I missed, what could have happened if I'd been bolder.
There's nothing that can substitute for a hard cock and two hard bodies, shared between two horny men.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Now I live in a very conservative area, amongst judgemental prudes. If the situation were different, or the right opportunity came up, I would love to have sex with men again. A LOT of sex with a LOT of men. I'm OK with it all...aggressive, submissive, top or bottom, intimate...no limits, as long as it's good sex with a hard man.

 

[Stockingslover72]

Add me to the list ... I'm happily married and I don't find men attractive, but I do fantasize about what it would be like to suck on a cock. I know I won't ever do it because I wouldn't cheat on my wife. (I've been divorced before and my ex-wife left me for another man, so I don't want to ever put my current wife thru that hell)

I typically look at straight porn, but on occasion I'll go looking for some gay or bi porn.

 

[ficklefun]

Add me to the list ... I'm happily married and I don't find men attractive, but I do fantasize about what it would be like to suck on a cock. I know I won't ever do it because I wouldn't cheat on my wife. (I've been divorced before and my ex-wife left me for another man, so I don't want to ever put my current wife thru that hell)

I typically look at straight porn, but on occasion I'll go looking for some gay or bi porn.

I'm in the same boat. I don't think it makes you Bi, but does show that you're curious.

 

[mouthmike]

thought I would try to restart this thread. I was in the same place as all the other ppl I have read on here but I decided to follow my wants and needs and not those of my ex's and I have been glad I did. It has been awhile since I had a buddy to just get it on with but I would like to.

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Bi

Hi I am a 50yo married bi male. Been married now 20 years and wife knows I like men.

I tell her when I am going out and she says have fun be carefull.

I am looking foward to a mfm get together with her and a lucky guy.