Are you dominant or submissive

[Beachaged]

Sensual dominant

 

[CFNMhubby]

I tend to be more on the submissive side.

Submissive

 

[Cindy69love]

Sub female here.

 

[SeeMeRolling]

Submissive male here. More closely related at a butler, pet, and samurai style submissive.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Submissive male here. More closely related at a butler, pet, and samurai style submissive.

I'm curious to know where you found those archetypes?

 

[SeeMeRolling]

I'm curious to know where you found those archetypes?

I do believe there is a post in here listing those archetypes.

Yes. http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1461823&highlight=archetypes

I do believe you are the author.

 

[writerzblok92]

submissive. very, very submissive.

 

[black_foxx]

I'm definitely both, although I lean towards dominant these days. Anyone else switch?

 

[SeeMeRolling]

I'm definitely both, although I lean towards dominant these days. Anyone else switch?

The potential is in there (I guess in me). However, I prefer or find more comfortable being the submissive to a woman sexually. Though my experience is limited to virtual only.

 

[oxfordsea]

Sub

Was certain I was dominant until after college wheile, a friend and roommate was getting her clit pierced, and the conversation came up, that I realized her commitment and strength in determination. Watching her go through the piercing, I realized that is I struggled watching. She powered through. As the conversation continued from that point I realized a certain comfort in a more submissive role. A younger woman I dated not long after that took control of what we did, and how we did it, and that pretty much clarified my submissiveness.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I do believe there is a post in here listing those archetypes.

Yes. http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1461823&highlight=archetypes

I do believe you are the author.

That would explain why they sounded familiar!

 

[SeeMeRolling]

That would explain why they sounded familiar!

Yes. It is a well written post. Very informative.

 

[masterinorlando]

I'm Dominant!

 

[GabrellesSecretLife]

Definitely submissive. There's just something so joyful about being controlled by a man and pleasing him.

 

[JonBHappy]

Definitely submissive. There's just something so joyful about being controlled by a man and pleasing him.

Welcome words indeed!

 

[ears1980]

I'm definitely both, although I lean towards dominant these days. Anyone else switch?

Very much a switch; there are times I want to be used and controlled, and others when I definitely need to be in charge.

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

I appreciate dominant tendencies, but I'm not totally submissive. I enjoy playfulness, creativity, enjoyment. I get bored with regularity.

 

[dddfffllgg]

Dom, but that doesn't mean I want my women to be passive and just lie there. I very much want an active and engaged submissive who isn't afraid to take what she wants regardless of the consequences.

 

[Booboobear84]

very sexual without sex

I dance (contra, check my signature). I am a strong lead. One of the most sexual experiences of my life involved no sex. A young woman who I danced with regularly was off at college. She came back for a visit during Christmas. She's a figure skater and in incredible shape. The style we do is sometimes very akin to swing/jitterbug. At the end of the line we went all out and I could see the jaws dropping and hear the comments of the people sitting out. It was intense and I was throwing her around the floor, yet perfectly in control. After the dance we literally panted to each other (yes it's that vigorous) how much we missed dancing with each other. The sense of primal dominance was so intense. This explanation is a pale shadow of the reality, but it's a year later almost and I still think about it.

 

[CaptainKaos]

Dominant

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Excellent dance partners are highly underrated.

 

[Booboobear84]

Excellent dance partners are highly underrated.

They are magic

 

[htester]

In the pandemic ... A semi-desperate sub (depending on the day of the week)

 

[TheBeezNeez]

I'm Dom with women, and sub to men

 

[Master_Doctor]

experienced Dominant/ Master for more than two decades. I also specialize in counseling people with relationship issues within the lifestyle. I use my life experience along with my PhD and psych minor to help them deal from a fairly unique mindset. I am seeking a submissive/ slave currently. Feel free to contact me for honest advice.

Most of my posts here are to educate people in the differences between Reality BDSM and fantasy. Its always better knowing the facts