Are you dominant or submissive

Submissive Slut

I am submissive and really need to be used as a cum slut, oral servant, and humiliation pig. I fantasize about being used on poker night or at a neighood party with men and women
 
Submissive male here. More closely related at a butler, pet, and samurai style submissive.
 
I'm definitely both, although I lean towards dominant these days. Anyone else switch?

The potential is in there (I guess in me). However, I prefer or find more comfortable being the submissive to a woman sexually. Though my experience is limited to virtual only.
 
Sub

Was certain I was dominant until after college wheile, a friend and roommate was getting her clit pierced, and the conversation came up, that I realized her commitment and strength in determination. Watching her go through the piercing, I realized that is I struggled watching. She powered through. As the conversation continued from that point I realized a certain comfort in a more submissive role. A younger woman I dated not long after that took control of what we did, and how we did it, and that pretty much clarified my submissiveness.
 
I appreciate dominant tendencies, but I'm not totally submissive. I enjoy playfulness, creativity, enjoyment. I get bored with regularity.
 
Dom, but that doesn't mean I want my women to be passive and just lie there. I very much want an active and engaged submissive who isn't afraid to take what she wants regardless of the consequences.
 
very sexual without sex

I dance (contra, check my signature). I am a strong lead. One of the most sexual experiences of my life involved no sex. A young woman who I danced with regularly was off at college. She came back for a visit during Christmas. She's a figure skater and in incredible shape. The style we do is sometimes very akin to swing/jitterbug. At the end of the line we went all out and I could see the jaws dropping and hear the comments of the people sitting out. It was intense and I was throwing her around the floor, yet perfectly in control. After the dance we literally panted to each other (yes it's that vigorous) how much we missed dancing with each other. The sense of primal dominance was so intense. This explanation is a pale shadow of the reality, but it's a year later almost and I still think about it.
 
In the pandemic ... A semi-desperate sub ;) (depending on the day of the week)
 
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