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Bigspurt said:
Dr. Liz,

I have read some of what you have posted about getting involved in swinging. I wish that I had a wife who was interested. Oh Well!

That said some of the posts, not just yours, were a discussion about the pineapple and it's use as a "sign" for swinging. I noticed yesterday a ball cap that my wife was wearing with a cute little pineapple on it. No idea where she came up with it.

I'll ask her later today.

Thanks in advance!

B
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Dear Wishes Sometimes Do Come True,

As I have said many, many times, the best way to maintain a healthy sexual relationship is by keeping your lines of communication open.

Never presume that you know someone 100%. Even if you've been married a long, long time to them. People change. Just as your likes and fetishes have probably changed over the years, I assure you that your wife's have too.

But if you never talk about sex, what "sort of" turns you on, what you "might" like to try someday, you'll never know.

Ask her about the pineapple. Call her on it. Start a conversation by saying something like "So, are you a swinger now?" the next time she wears that hat. You might be surprised by her answer and/or she might be surprised that you know what you know about pineapples! :D

- Doctor "If You See Someone Wearing Clothing With A Pineapple On It, Assume The Best" Liz
 
Texastuffbbc said:
Dr. Liz,

As a conversationalist that has much intellectual banter to offer, it seems that taking the time to develop a connection before having nasty but stimulating fun is not appreciated. Tell me what is the best way to broaden the conversations without just going to the tired and unappreciated by most women, “come suck my bbc” or can you deepthroat type statements.

Playing the game is half the fun, the other half becomes real behind the hidden doors of LITEROTICA.

DO TELL....LOL
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Dear Disappointed Cunning Linguist,

I'm not sure who you've been chatting with that makes you feel that way because I know for a fact that most women on here DO appreciate forming a connection, intellectual or not, before the PM's start to get dirty.

Going from hello to nasty in the first PM is sooo the norm on here, so I'm very surprised you're at a loss for the right words.

Getting to know someone is half the fun. I don't know if that's the same as "playing the game" for you but if it is then I would encourage you to continue doing just that.

That said, I do have to say that I do not think that your avatar matches your personality. Or your username for that matter. You say you seek conversation and connection first but you are advertising the typical dick swinging personality that a lot of Black guys on here lead with.

If you want to be different from the pack, BE different from the pack.

- Doctor "Your Mixed Messages Are Your Problem" Liz
 
Just4AFriend said:
Dr Liz
Can one member of a threesome just watch?
Is that still a threesome ??
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Dear Idle Participant,

The short answer is No.

The long answer is also No.

However, if you have already expressed your, umm, enthusiasm shall we say? for the threesome and the two other participants have continued to get to know each other better, or focus on cleaning up your mess, and you wish to sit back and watch until you are ready to participate again, then YES, that is still considered a threesome.

- Doctor "Don't Get Lost In The Semantics of Threesomes" Liz
 
Dr. Liz,

I went through my wife’s closest and found no pineapples..😳

I did find several items of clothing and a hat with the Life Is Good logo and characters on them. Is that code for anything?

Signed,

Wishing I found a pineapple
 
Dear Dr. Liz

I wanted to know what it is like in Las Vegas as far as living goes? The wife and I have been there together many times as it is a short car ride from Southern California but it has been primarily to party on the strip. We’ve have both been seriously considering a move out of California recently some other places we’ve been considering are Phoenix and San Antonio. What are some areas which are nice and some others that should be avoided and so on?
 
LizVegas79 said:
Dear Disappointed Cunning Linguist,

I'm not sure who you've been chatting with that makes you feel that way because I know for a fact that most women on here DO appreciate forming a connection, intellectual or not, before the PM's start to get dirty.

Going from hello to nasty in the first PM is sooo the norm on here, so I'm very surprised you're at a loss for the right words.

Getting to know someone is half the fun. I don't know if that's the same as "playing the game" for you but if it is then I would encourage you to continue doing just that.

That said, I do have to say that I do not think that your avatar matches your personality. Or your username for that matter. You say you seek conversation and connection first but you are advertising the typical dick swinging personality that a lot of Black guys on here lead with.

If you want to be different from the pack, BE different from the pack.

- Doctor "Your Mixed Messages Are Your Problem" Liz
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I do agree Dr. Liz. Mixed messages are sometimes hard for ladies to figure and therefore I changed my avatar and provided a more subtle profile picture. I am conversational at heart with much to offer and some know that I can be very cerebral instead of 0-60 dirty. I took the Dr. advice and we shall see how good it is or if the wrong prescription was given. Lol
 
Texastuffbbc said:
I do agree Dr. Liz. Mixed messages are sometimes hard for ladies to figure and therefore I changed my avatar and provided a more subtle profile picture. I am conversational at heart with much to offer and some know that I can be very cerebral instead of 0-60 dirty. I took the Dr. advice and we shall see how good it is or if the wrong prescription was given. Lol
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Dear Over Steering,

Well, you went pretty far in the other direction imho. From a dick pic to a landscape architectural shot isn't exactly what I would have suggested, but your choices inform us who you are so I guess go for it.

- Doctor "There's Always A Sexy Middle-Ground" Liz
 
CuMex1 said:
Dear Dr. Liz

I wanted to know what it is like in Las Vegas as far as living goes? The wife and I have been there together many times as it is a short car ride from Southern California but it has been primarily to party on the strip. We’ve have both been seriously considering a move out of California recently some other places we’ve been considering are Phoenix and San Antonio. What are some areas which are nice and some others that should be avoided and so on?
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Dear House Hunting,

This is a more appropriate question for my Ask Me One Thing About Las Vegas thread.

- Doctor "I'm A Sex Therapist, Not A Real Estate Agent" Liz :rolleyes:
 
LizVegas79 said:
Dear House Hunting,

This is a more appropriate question for my Ask Me One Thing About Las Vegas thread.

- Doctor "I'm A Sex Therapist, Not A Real Estate Agent" Liz :rolleyes:
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My apologies! I hadn’t realized you had a thread like that. :D
 
Corbal said:
Liz, it burns.

Help.
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Dear On Fire,

Well I'm not surprised. You are so hot Corbie you can't even touch yourself! :heart:

But I do have a solution for you.

1) Get two oven mitts from your kitchen and put them on your hands.
2) Swab one of the oven mitts with an extra generous amount of cucumber/avocado body cream.
3) Apply swab oven mitt over area that burns the most until relief cums. :D

- Doctor "Just Rub Three to Five Out Sweetie" Liz
 
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LizVegas79 said:
Dear On Fire,

Well I'm not surprised. You are so hot Corbie you can't even touch yourself!

But I do have a solution for you.

1) Get two oven mitts from your kitchen and put them on your hands.
2) Swab one of the oven mitts with an extra generous amount of cucumber/avocado body cream.
3) Apply swab oven mitt over area that burns the most until relief cums. :D

- Doctor "Just Rub Three to Five Out Sweetie" Liz
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If it does not work, call me in the morning.:cattail:
 
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"Mmmm, I love a nice strong cup of coffee after my morning sessions."
 
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