Ask Doctor Liz ... Again

[JerseyJade]

So I'm worried this whole gangbang idea may not be the culturally important and community service based endeavor I was hoping it would be. What do you two think?

It hasn't been the publicity and PR boom I was hoping for either.

Between us we hand picked almost 20 guys and so far not one has become a new customer. I may have to fire my new ad agency for pushing me into doing this. I mean, I have my professional reputation to keep up, right? Plus, my un-professional reputation too!

I don't know about you two but picking 20 guys to have sex with and only one of them thanking us (thanks Jason! ) is making me feel really shitty about myself. I mean, I know I'm not 20 anymore. But 42 isn't that old and some people say I'm still pretty rockin'. I like to think I still am. In fact, I NEED to think I still am. Don't you?

Back in my old daze ( ) whenever I did a gangbang I may not have been fully present because I was so fucked up back then, but even so seeing guys line up to have a turn with me was almost always a huge ego boast. This time not so much. It's like they don't even care.

I guess I'm kind of freaking out. Maybe I'm just nervous? idk.

Curious about how you two feel and what others think.


- Doctor "Changing Our Mind Is Always An Option" Liz

Huh? What? Did you say something LIz. Oh sorry, I must have fell asleep in my bed while waiting for the gangbang to start. I'm thinking this gangbang thing is over rated. It definitely did not turn out what I expected it to be. Oh well.. I needed a good nap anyway.

 

[cheekygirl75]

So I'm worried this whole gangbang idea may not be the culturally important and community service based endeavor I was hoping it would be. What do you two think?

It hasn't been the publicity and PR boom I was hoping for either.

Between us we hand picked almost 20 guys and so far not one has become a new customer. I may have to fire my new ad agency for pushing me into doing this. I mean, I have my professional reputation to keep up, right? Plus, my un-professional reputation too!

I don't know about you two but picking 20 guys to have sex with and only one of them thanking us (thanks Jason! ) is making me feel really shitty about myself. I mean, I know I'm not 20 anymore. But 42 isn't that old and some people say I'm still pretty rockin'. I like to think I still am. In fact, I NEED to think I still am. Don't you?

Back in my old daze ( ) whenever I did a gangbang I may not have been fully present because I was so fucked up back then, but even so seeing guys line up to have a turn with me was almost always a huge ego boast. This time not so much. It's like they don't even care.

I guess I'm kind of freaking out. Maybe I'm just nervous? idk.

Curious about how you two feel and what others think.


- Doctor "Changing Our Mind Is Always An Option" Liz

I think the guys are intimidated - they're afraid they won't make the cut for the final gangbang list

 

[Sundayschild]

I think the guys are intimidated - they're afraid they won't make the cut for the final gangbang list

I didn't even get an invite .

Musta gotten lost in the mail, right?

 

[LizVegas79]

I think the guys are intimidated - they're afraid they won't make the cut for the final gangbang list

Well, that very well might be true Cheeky but they STILL need to step up and grow a pair and at least talk to us and make us feel wanted and appreciated (and beautiful too would be nice dammit!!!)

But maybe JJ's right. We should maybe take a nap so we're all caught up on our beauty sleep because Saturday might be a really looooooong, exhausting day.
(hopefully! )

 

[investor2020]

I don't know about you two but picking 20 guys to have sex with and only one of them thanking us (thanks Jason! )

Dr. Liz - I refer you to post #1968.

 

[LizVegas79]

Dr. Liz - I refer you to post #1968.

Ooops! My bad. Sorry Investor!

I'm not even going to scratch you off my list for pointing out that I was wrong

 

[MrPractical]

You dyed your hair? I have been away too long

 

[Sinstories]

Yes, I am also underwhelmed with the excitement… to the point that I may stop posting pics and audios. A girl can only feed so unappreciated before she gives up and stops trying!
- disappointed and disillusioned

woah woah woah woah woah.... allow me to speak for all those who were blessed to be selected to this prestigious event... WHEN AND WHERE? I'll be there with bells on, and you tell me where those bells should be..... I believe that what you see as an underwhelming response is that we have all gone into training, ensuring appropriate hydration and vitamin intake.. no time for posting.

Oh, and where should I put the butter churn?

 

[Sinstories]

Finally one of my pics speaks up. In retrospect I should have chosen more daily posters. Sin, you may be my entire line up. You ok with that?

Yep....all good here

 

[LizVegas79]

Well three guys for three women isn't exactly what I would call a gangbang but I guess it's a start!

 

[SirConradPeckereye]

Well three guys for three women isn't exactly what I would call a gangbang but I guess it's a start!

Sounds more like a good swap party

 

[investor2020]

Just as an impartial observer . . . rather than start over at another place since some of the men on the lists have failed to step up (or rise up), maybe the three respondees can be available for consecutive weekends for one lady each time. Still not the best option for the women wanting the full group effort, but I would hate to see those willing candidates discarded because of reluctant others.

 

[LizVegas79]

Just as an impartial observer . . . rather than start over at another place since some of the men on the lists have failed to step up (or rise up), maybe the three respondees can be available for consecutive weekends for one lady each time. Still not the best option for the women wanting the full group effort, but I would hate to see those willing candidates discarded because of reluctant others.

Hmmm, this is an interesting proposition. JJ? Bambi? What do you think?

Drawing out the publicity campaign might actually turn this whole train wreck around!

 

[JerseyJade]

Hmmm, this is an interesting proposition. JJ? Bambi? What do you think?

Drawing out the publicity campaign might actually turn this whole train wreck around!

I don't even know what FetLife is.

 

[LizVegas79]

I don't even know what FetLife is.

I'm not exactly sure either but I think it's a dating app for people who are looking to hook up with each other. (not necessarily date) It's popular with couples and swingers I've heard.

Is that right? Has anyone used it?

 

[cheekygirl75]

I don't even know what FetLife is.

I'm not exactly sure either but I think it's a dating app for people who are looking to hook up with each other. (not necessarily date) It's popular with couples and swingers I've heard.

Is that right? Has anyone used it?

They say it’s more like Facebook for the kink community. It’s definitely not solely a dating site

 

[LizVegas79]

I'm all for making it women only.

THAT's guaranteed great PR for my clinic!!!

 

[JerseyJade]

I'm not sure how much more my fragile ego can take really! Men had better start stepping up or we'll have to open it up to ladies too!


There's a ton of younger people on there, lots of different kinks with little segregation. I think it's a much larger community and a little overwhelming. Don't get many 18 year olds on here hitting on me, but the younger men on Fet are all over a woman! lol

So it's much like RL then. I go to a bar or a club and guys my age are hitting on the older women and girls my age are getting hit on by older men. Go figure.

 

[JerseyJade]

I stopped replying to 90% of my DMs on there because I got tired of saying "stop calling me Mommy!"

Seriously? On here?

EDIT:

Oh never mind. You mean on FetLife.

 

[LizVegas79]

So it's much like RL then. I go to a bar or a club and guys my age are hitting on the older women and girls my age are getting hit on by older men. Go figure.

Well I guess that's proof that I'm officially "middle-aged" then because I never get hit on by guys anywhere near my age, but guys who are 20 years younger than me and guys who are 20+ years older than me circle like wolves. Ugh.

 

[hairball18]

Well I guess that's proof that I'm officially "middle-aged" then because I never get hit on by guys anywhere near my age, but guys who are 20 years younger than me and guys who are 20+ years older than me circle like wolves. Ugh.

I can't imagine any man not chasing you.

 

[thefishfryer]

Well I guess that's proof that I'm officially "middle-aged" then because I never get hit on by guys anywhere near my age, but guys who are 20 years younger than me and guys who are 20+ years older than me circle like wolves. Ugh.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5IaYm3NjJnM

 

[LizVegas79]

I can't imagine any man not chasing you.

It's true. I swear I'm practically invisible to guys my age. Unless I take my wedding ring off, which I rarely do. Even then they seem to just want to talk about their ex-wife or how hard it is being single.

I guess maybe because they figure I'm too old to marry and give them children idk. Which is exactly why, I've been told by younger guys, that they like me - they figure I'm not hoping to get married and have children so I'm a safe roll in the sack. I guess older guys who aren't rich enough to date 20 year olds just see me as a cheaper way to recapture their youth. idk

 

[hairball18]

It's true. I swear I'm practically invisible to guys my age. Unless I take my wedding ring off, which I rarely do. Even then they seem to just want to talk about their ex-wife or how hard it is being single.

I guess maybe because they figure I'm too old to marry and give them children idk. Which is exactly why, I've been told by younger guys, that they like me - they figure I'm not hoping to get married and have children so I'm a safe roll in the sack. I guess older guys who aren't rich enough to date 20 year olds just see me as a cheaper way to recapture their youth. idk

They must be thinking that they don't stand a chance with all that you have to choose from.

 

[LizVegas79]

When I first opened my clinic I didn't have the money to buy enough office furniture for every exam room.

None of my patients ever complained about having to share a chair so even though I've since been able to afford two chairs (and a couch) in every exam room, whenever one breaks I don't bother to replace it because again, no complaints about having to share a chair so far!