Ask Me A Question v.1.29.24

Chocolate eclairs, real ones.

Do you think it’s ok to ghost and if yes, why is it ok?
Yes, but only after the person being ghosted has proven they aren't getting the message otherwise.

Have you ever helped a friend cheat on their significant other?
 
Yes, but only after the person being ghosted has proven they aren't getting the message otherwise.

Have you ever helped a friend cheat on their significant other?
Never and I never will
Are you straight forward in your communications or do you use hints?
 
Are you straight forward in your communications or do you use hints?

I try to be as straightforward in my communications as possible but this sometimes lands wrong. But at the end of the day, I think it's the better approach. I'm not about to waste my time or yours by playing guessing games.

How close to reality is your Lit presence? In other words: who you are here to who you really are in everyday life. For example, if you're really flirty here - are you flirty in real life, or super awkward and would never even make eye contact?
 
I try to be as straightforward in my communications as possible but this sometimes lands wrong. But at the end of the day, I think it's the better approach. I'm not about to waste my time or yours by playing guessing games.

How close to reality is your Lit presence? In other words: who you are here to who you really are in everyday life. For example, if you're really flirty here - are you flirty in real life, or super awkward and would never even make eye contact?
I am the same here as I am in real life. I have a tendency to be flirtatious and sarcastic.

How much of identity is performance, even in everyday life?
 
I am the same here as I am in real life. I have a tendency to be flirtatious and sarcastic.

How much of identity is performance, even in everyday life?
I feel a fair amount, especially at work, in my Role at work I feel projecting certain things help even if I don't feel it



Do you ever fake interest in someone to make them feel better?
 
I feel a fair amount, especially at work, in my Role at work I feel projecting certain things help even if I don't feel it



Do you ever fake interest in someone to make them feel better?
No. I’m not ever going to string someone along. That’s a waste of their time and mine.

What’s something you’ve become less tolerant of as you’ve gotten older?
 
No. I’m not ever going to string someone along. That’s a waste of their time and mine.

What’s something you’ve become less tolerant of as you’ve gotten older?
Wilful ignorance ,, there isn't really an excuse for it

Whats your go to karaoke song
 
Wilful ignorance ,, there isn't really an excuse for it

Whats your go to karaoke song
That is mood dependent! Either Cher, If I could turn back time or Her by MTS

What song instantly changes your mood no matter how many times you’ve heard it?
 
That is mood dependent! Either Cher, If I could turn back time or Her by MTS

What song instantly changes your mood no matter how many times you’ve heard it?
1979 smashing pumpkins, for happy, Song for Josh by Frank Turner for less haapy
I'm not sure!

What is your favorite dessert food?
Cheesecake, any variety

Do you dance when you are alone?
 
Snakes and heights!

Which fictional world would you happily disappear into for a while?
If I am, immune to consequences and can choose my position in the world then probably something interesting like Neuromancer

What was the last thought that made you smile?
 
If I am, immune to consequences and can choose my position in the world then probably something interesting like Neuromancer

What was the last thought that made you smile?
I had to look that ⬆️

A friend just texted me a really sweet message about how she appreciated my support.

What was the last thing that made you laugh uncontrollably?
 
I had to look that ⬆️

A friend just texted me a really sweet message about how she appreciated my support.

What was the last thing that made you laugh uncontrollably?
I’m not sure! I giggled when my parrot said “hooker” today. I’m not supposed to give her attention when she curses.

When did you last shower?
 
No, I often do, but not always.
Does it matter who makes the first move as long as both agree?
It depends. I tend to be more observant than initiating, so I usually let people show me their level of interest first.


Did you become the person you imagined you’d be as a child?
 
It depends. I tend to be more observant than initiating, so I usually let people show me their level of interest first.


Did you become the person you imagined you’d be as a child?
No. I wanted to become a chiropractor when in junior high and high school...but it didn't happen...

What movie scared you to death when you were a kid?
 
No. I wanted to become a chiropractor when in junior high and high school...but it didn't happen...

What movie scared you to death when you were a kid?
Wizard of Oz, the flying monkey part.
What was the first adult movie you saw either your parents that they wanted to see.
 
Wizard of Oz, the flying monkey part.
What was the first adult movie you saw either your parents that they wanted to see.
It was a drive in movie...a comedy...called The Gang that Couldn't Shoot Straight. I remember all of us laughing hard during the movie...I didn't really know what was so funny because I was pretty young, but I laughed because THEY were laughing hard.

What was the first Halloween costume you made for yourself?
 
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